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EmperorIsaac:
It is not bad of him. He just saved himself from untold hardship. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Lies should not be one of a spouse's weakness.

Especially where your significant other is involved.

I always tell people to practice transparency towards anyone dear to them and demand the same.

Myrepublic:
The audacity for me?

Well it's the man's fault .

These are issues you settle before wifying a lady. No be to go dey kneel down propose. Acting childish and telling her to say yes,as if she will say no before,when money dey .

Ask questions,and if you are not satisfied with answers,leave her and find another match

IMHO That kneeling down to propose na another kind of mumuness many men don adopt.

Gods. I only did that kneeling when begging my mum for forgiveness after serious fvckup when I was in Secondary school. Since then, no kneeling for anyone for whatever reasons until now and I detest people kneeling to me for whatever reasons..

Like after kneeling, they won't go back on their words...

Awón hypocrites...

Carazon:
I wanted to say something before I remembered that everyone na billionaire online. Dollar man, I greet you oo

Gods, I follow?

Why I no remember?

Lwkmd 🤣🤣

PepeXKermit:
the mumu man say na for unity. lol

I wonder o 🤣

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Knife and bird are on your hands.

It's your choice to strike or not. And think about the consequences of either striking the bird or not striking that bird. Whichever you can live with, go ahead and make that choice.

No one is in the right position than your humble self to decide what to do brother.

Be kind to yourself and save yourself from unnecessary wahala.

And don't forget to factor in the reason you stubbornly refused to "shine her kongo"...

Zonefree:
Nawao.

God is your strength.

In simple words.... You give up on his matter, eh?

Gods..
Hahahahahahaha 🤣🤣

Oh yes...

It happened yet there's no unity...

What was the civil war for again?

Creamypie:
you looks her backyard as she dey go. On a second note, if this story is not made up one, the 2 guys na real niggaz, not those SIMPs for Enugu wey fight to death with bottles cos of their wives

It truly could be made up but something similar has been experienced by this daddy. Not with a wedded wife though as I never had one.

That was between my royal self, a dear friend and our women.

Gods, women can quarrel over little things.

Tenrack:
The guy use style slow....with him kiss the yeye truth antics

Ah ... You don dey drag person this early morning? You sure say you go fit enter heaven?

Mariangeles:
So, those evil cats are finally dead. 😀
I'm glad.

I can't stand cats, and those who like them. 😣

Just look at the evil face. Winch!

My last born brought a cat home. It's still in the house but anytime the cat sights daddy coming, it'll run and hide somewhere. It can never come out when this daddy is around.

It's like the piece of meat knows I'm itching to roast it... SMH

TimeManager:
I wonder why people love senseless killings. Justice shall prevail.


-Kiss the truth!

Mark my words...

None of the killings happening is "senseless".... They have targets and goals. It's just that we don't know yet.

advanceDNA:
After you don scatter street....u wan commot....who u wan leave street for...

.no rest for the wicked

Abi?

No rest for the poor and wicked

adenine02:
Seriously I don't get it, why are those people just sitting down like they are under a spell

E shock you? Hahahahahahaha 🤣🤣

They're indeed under a spell. 🤣🤣

ednut1:
some of them are never caught. This one had online footprints and also had the audacity to go to USA. Many hidden scammers that have repented are laying low

True.

See our Double D...

Gods. This is one footballer I love so much.

Even me....

ednut1:
. The FBI said it was luxury lifestyle duhhh

“ She frequently shared images of designer fashion, tech gadgets, and international travel to destinations including Greece, Portugal, and France. Her carefully curated persona earned her admiration among aspiring African tech professionals, many of whom saw her as a role model for digital success.

However, the FBI’s investigation has revealed a stark contrast between Egemasi’s online image and her alleged criminal activities. Authorities say her luxurious lifestyle was funded almost entirely by proceeds of crime, obtained through the exploitation of vulnerabilities in government financial systems.”

This was what I was talking about with one oga on here.

The government is the best in investigating anyone's source of income. No matter how well concealed, they'll definitely get you if they ever take you serious.

Anyone can cloak and conceal the real golden goose given them golden eggs from just anyone, but it's difficult to deceive the government.

A sad and disastrous day in the animal kingdom...

News would say many goats, rams and cows were kidnapped and slaughtered by the vile terrorist religious humans. Their flesh splayed and roasted and even eaten by the terrible group..

Ah, gods...

See news...

helinues:
I just watched Lekki street boy on Facebook. I first saw the first video when he was going to the central mosque in Lagos then this particular video

Hardship hardship but that doesn't stop people from celebrating sallah

You dey pretend say you no know say no matter the suffering, religious people will still celebrate religious festivities?

Even we wey no get affiliations with any religion ate and drank too... Dey there dey shake table for no reason....

See this one...

Girls don really show am shege.


SMH

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AyCFZoTzH3o?si=88TR7Vx7kofTTNyV

Former President Donald Trump reflects on his relationship with Elon Musk, recounting a moment in the Oval Office where Musk appeared with a black eye.

Trump joked about offering him makeup, but Musk declined. Trump added, “Elon and I had a great relationship. I don’t know if we will anymore,” sparking curiosity about a possible rift between the two influential figures.

The bolded...

Wetin dey happen here?

Indispensable85:
Things don scatter sha. Those days for secondary school, u nor even know how to ask girl out sef.

Dey play.

Why older people like pretense like this

NothingDoMe:
Your laws do not supercede the constitution of Nigeria. Na jungle justice naim una dey do so. Somebody go soon enter prison.

As it should be. No need to ask oracle

Rexymania:
Which kind street be that?

I wonder o...

LibertyRep:
No African Busienssman? Is Nigeria now equal to the entire Africa?

You no know?

Abi, who you think say be Africa? For your mind the rest follow...

Dalohad:
That's true.

Chagoury (HiTech Constructions) cannot try it with Tinubu.

If Tinubu lock am here, e no go come out for the rest of his remaining days...

LordBiden:
She is a natural female,go check her pictures of childhood days especially at Princeton university.

With what our current technology can accomplish, that's just simple to arrange.

But...

What's with all the nonsense talk? If she's transgender and her supposed husband is cool with it, what's anybody else's concern with that?

Or are the Americans not the very same eediots propagating this and many more nonsense in the first place?

Humans and double standard sef... SMH

Like verbal slamming can accomplish anything.

If there's nothing other than verbal slamming, oga e do...

VDM at least beat expectations by doing both the verbal slamming, and organizing a "we no go gree" crowd.
How else can the opinion of the people be heard without such?

And as a lawyer, you suppose even know more than the common people what to do if a judgement is perceived to be unfair. Just like old Falana, na mouth una just get. Activists for mouth wey una be.

Abegi

SoftBread01:
The one who has everything at his beck and call is telling the one with nothing to endure.
Inside life o!

Na to change our name to Endurance remain.. African leaders ehn...

Awón òní yéyé

Somebody should please beg oga not to promise anything anymore.

The last time he made promises, we don already dey see shege. Now he's making another...

Someone plead on our behalf...

Na beg I dey o...

Lutherblaq:
U are referring to the pastor right

You dey fear say na you? No na...

It was the pastor I was referring to but your comment got me cracking that was I quoted you... Sorry

Laugh still dey my lips like this .... lols

Dreal1247:
Nigerians are already loosing confidence in the judiciary. Since when has self defense become a crime in our society? All the people who were involved in the court proceedings especially the presiding officers should loose their licenses.

Like there's ever any Nigerian that has trust or confidence in the country. Not even the wereys in charge. Once ay small noise, they'll all always disappear.

I've said it before, a loose country like this will collapse immediately if it's ever unfortunate to face any serious enemy. That's why I suspect the "Biafra clamoring people" are not serious and maybe the idea has been hijacked by the elites to keep the people from uniting against them. As you can see the characters of the elites from the so-called "Biafran states".

Abegi

Guyincna:
Davido for president
WizKid for vice President
Burna boy for senate President

I can even agree and accept David and Ayo to take any political positions but Oluwa Burner?

The werey will turn us all to burnt offering. Make una pity us small na. Nigeria never suffer reach? Lwkmd 🤣