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Divoc19:
News.
Better stop enduring that marriage.
Because las las it will end.
You’ll be disappointed.

Tell the men. Why enduring a bad wife. With plenty girls in this world. Just have money and women will lick Ur anus. Women without value. They just make themselves commodity

uniquetechng:
When Annie was spending her mother's money to fund 2face's music videos when Tubaba was nobody in Festac where were you ?
Annie doesn't have to be a good actress to make a good wife, you have to a extremely dumb to even say that. Davido married Chioma who is neither a good Chef or a good actress, what matters is love and the bond between. There is no written book that says a celebrity must marry a celebrity, how many footballers, NBA stars and music stars got married to known women ?
Annie was spending her mother's money to fund 2face's lifestyle back in Festac, I know this because I grow up in the same area in Festac and I am a year older than 2face.
If they have issues let them part ways or resolve it, they're not the first celebrity couple to divorce neither will they be the last but saying trash about Annie is foolishness.

Gibberish. Who stole your brain?

cococandy:
And the question again is emotionally damaged by who? Because she certainly wasn’t emotionally damaged when she was the bright eyed teenager who feel in love with him. I remember when she had a thriving career and then he sucked the soul right out of her. Every blog, gossip column, forum, newspaper etc kept talking his roving eyes and disrespect to Annie.

Yet she felt she had to marry him because they’ve been together for so long. Even though he had multiple babies on her while they were supposedly together. The marriage didn’t make him sit up and respect her either. If anything it got worse.

Ask yourself if your mental health would’ve remained the same if you had to spend all your time and energy convincing the world that the disrespect they can obviously see you partner meting out to you is not real. That she loves you despite publicly being with other men and that you’re actually happy underneath it all. If you don’t become emotionally damaged make I no know wetin cause am.

May Tuface kind of love never find anyone you care about. And I’ll say amen for you.

Go marry the woman na. Stop crying here

pretydiva:
I wondered why Annie ended up with such a narcissist. The guy practically destroyed her, made her less of herself. I pray she will be able to pull through

D way ur gender reason with ur anus self 🤣🤣🤣 Go marry d problematic manipulative woman if e easy

dominique:
Someone that divorced him in 2016 when he was already a multibillionaire. He impregnated another woman while they were still married, that could have played a part in their divorce.

You alfa males keep getting hopelessly pathetic by the day. You know your target audience are too stupid to carry out simple research, that's why you compose a pile of trash for and they stupidly gobble it down as long as it denigrates women.

You keep calling women fish brains but if you look inwards within yourselves, the realm fish brains is you menfolk!

When he was broke. Dem no say when he was poor. Fish brain! Note the difference. The man dey go bankrupt that year. Just disgracing Ur gender anyhow

Zaheertyler:
Chaiiii
Op sorry

All this things never ends well
Expect your wife to be angry for 3-4 months but she will come back
Send the message as a text on WhatsApp..lay emphasis on the we never had sex, self control and forgiveness prayer
Tell her how sorry you are but don’t beg her much or start to mumu yourself with the begging
Take responsibility
And when you both settle buy her a wonderful gift..


Don’t blame the sister too
It’s what every lady in her shoes will do

The truth will set you free
But tell the truth with wisdom
I will pray for you tonight that if truly you are sincere In your heart the almighty will restore everything in your marriage
Cheers 🥂

SAMKHAY in all you do. No send it as a text or WhatsApp. She will use it against you for future. Call her into room and do the needful. And don't start trying to over please her after telling her. She go hate you even more.

SAMKHAY:
As I mentioned earlier, this is not who I am. I am not wayward, and I do not engage in inappropriate behaviors. Before my situation, I strongly condemned such actions whenever I heard or read about them, just as you have rebuked me in your comments. The incidents only involved kissing, and there was never any sexual intimacy. Thankfully, I was able to regain my senses, and it has not happened again since then, until she brought it up last night.

I have prayed about this and genuinely believe I have worked on myself. I consider myself mature and disciplined, but this still happened, and I am deeply ashamed and unhappy about it.

Thank you for your comments though!

Tell your wife oga. Before she tells her

Divaan:
I would have asked if you could do this with your sister but I remembered my next house neighbour who just got jailed for sleeping with his daughter. He's been sleeping with his underage teenager for years despite having a wife and numerous side chicks. So, immorality is not a function of how many bedmates you have but a function of WHO YOU ARE.

With the feud going on between you and your wife's sister, I wish all your shenanigans get exposed, so your innocent wife knows who she's married to. Imagine the manner of conversations that goes on between you and your wife's sister. You've reduced yourself to a pinch of salt.

My advice for you is that you work on changing WHO YOU ARE because I'm sure you're expecting me to blame your wife's sister for tempting or seducing you or even dressing provocatively or maybe you're expecting me to blame your wife for working night shift, when really the problem is YOU.

I wonder if you would ever get any iota of respect from your wife's sister again. Some guys your age are still very unstable in their emotions and sexual feelings and expressions and they take it right into marriage causing wives a lot of problems but I believe you can change yourself and get some discipline and maturity.

My sister things are getting out of hand. Am just hearing about how one woman has been sexually abusing boy of 13 years now. When the boy decide enough is enough and want to expose the woman, she killed the boy. I just pity parents leaving their male children with women. A lot is happening in secret and this boys will not talk in time

annisy:
Imo state and anambra people are the ones giving the igbos bad names!!!

I dey tell u. U can never see Enugu man spoiling Igbo name

MadamVanessa:



You see why men here see us as clowns because of our double standard judgement and goal shifting.

I have observed you , you're fun of supporting women regardless if they're wrong or right. If they're wrong, you must always find a way of justifying their action instead of saying the truth the way it is.

F
One of few wise women

We4all:
What if

If the bolded is what is causing you to hyperventilate over my post, then you need to have a brain scan.

Your papa just waste his sperm. Product of mad person

odimbannamdi:
My post is not exactly related to Clearance sales, but I really need as much help as I can get.

My church's mixer (in picture 1) got damaged by high voltage and we are now making plans to have it fixed.

However, we are worried about the incident re-occurring and possibly taking out other appliances as well, so we are considering getting a stabilizer.

Please, which stabilizer and specs can work with the mixer, those 2 Ahuja amplifier in picture 2 (couldnt get their specs) and the 2 Yamaha amplifiers (in picture 3, with name plate of specs in picture 4)

Thermocool TEC. 3kva to 5kva.

pocohantas:
In her defense she seems to be a young girl. I would have expected her to retrace her steps to her parents house or any close relative. She didn't fall from the sky na.

OP on his part seems to have a problem attracting, meeting or keeping women who can meet him halfway. His ex-wife wasn't earning. The second she got a job, she started pushing to move away from home and issues amplified until divorce.

You would think OP has learned a lesson, but here he is, trying to trap a girl who has her back against the wall. Give that girl a good job and based on his past posts on her, he won't see her brakelight again. This relationship is fully sponsored by lack of options and parental guidance.

Male or female, you can't afford to be old and broke. It would affect your options.

1 of few women wey get sense for this con3. I agree with u

Afodot0022:
Good day my lovely people, it always good to share life with you people here. Pls I need to ask, what is the advantage and disadvantage of living together with your girlfriend under the same roof. My girlfriend had an accommodations problem, her friend they stay together kick her out for no just reason, she wanted to get an apartment and the money she was ask to bring was quite much 250k, I convinced her to come stay with me and save that money for other things, initially she opposed but later agreed to come stay.
My reasons for her staying are there..
1... I want to get to know her better cos I believe when you live with someone in the same space, that's when you get to know them better, I was once married and have learnt a lot on how ladies pretend in dating but show their true color in marriage, atleast I want to know her well before making another serious commitment of marriage.
2... She works and earn a decent salary which I think will be an added advantage for me by her supporting by we both sharing bills together, it will lessen by burden. Though I haven't discussed this with her yet but hope to soon cos I can't let her depend solely one me while she works.
3.... Ever since I separated from my wife, it's not been easy living alone as a man, the cooking ,washing ,cleaning and loneliness has not been easy, so we living together will atleast help me in these area.
To be candid, the girl is a good girl and I was the one that disvirgin her, she is submissive and respect me, but you know you can really say of a person character until you live with them.

Now my question is to those that have been in this situation of living together with a girlfriend you are yet to marry, how did this affect the relationship afterwards. Pls share your experience be it negative or positive, I really want to learn from others to see if I can proceed on this or just abort mission by not allowing her to stay any longer. Do you think it make sense I share bills with her or I should should all financial responsibility even though am not capable of that now.. pls help me to navigate this scenario

Na you be the girl papa?

Klass99:
I will comment on the parts of your narrative I find interesting.

1. I sincerely hope you plan to share house chores with her, to support her and lessen her burden. As you expect her to share bills with you, to support and lessen your burden. I doubt this though considering what you said in point 3.

2. I thought you logical gender people said marriage doesn't benefit men and women bring nothing to the table. Why are you looking to get married again, through the route of immoral cohabitation, when your first marriage didn't work out?

Your logical gender brothers will hype you to carry on with this warped logic, according to majority of them, immoral cohabitation is how a woman grows with a man. May they not have daughters who live out those words in their lifetime.

One woman said a while back that she cohabited with her man for 7 years and they were going to get married soon. Your brothers in logic hailed her with comments and over 300 likes on this forum. Try to make yours less than 7 years sha!

You see that thing you're looking for bah? That is, validation and a green light stamp to proceed, you have come to the right place for it. Just wait for your brothers. I have one question for you though, na so your mama and papa take marry?

You just waste space. No sense at all. The idiot no get sense. Why give the girl free accomodation? Na father Christmas?

bukatyne:
This is beyond 'giving' her body.

Except she doesn't have a good plan for herself, the OP is not a spec.

A man who thinks that N250k annual rent is 'on the high side' is broke. N250k rent in itself is cheap meaning an accommodation that isn't 'decent' or in the outskirts of town (except they are not in a capital city).

Why would a virgin be with a broke divorcee with kids? If he were young like her, we would say they are starting life together.

He is already second hand and he doesn't have the finance to make up for it? He doesn't have systems in place and is looking for someone to do chores and pay bills?

A red billboard for a single virgin (well, I am speaking for myself).

Which kind of broke girl can't afford 250k rent? The guy better throw away the girl make she go date agbero for street

pocohantas:
1) How decent is a salary that it can't pay an annual rent of 250k?

2) You have been married before and you have kids. Kids who are still in touch with you and probably visit. They are also girls from your previous post. So it is important they see you in a good light. Not with numerous women. The next woman they should know you with should be a fiancee/wife. Not a live-in gf, not a babymama. You of all people should know the pains of a single parent home and should do well to avoid a situation that might lead to it again.


3) She is a virgin, she is a good girl, she is hardworking, she is submissive, she respects you, she is this and that. Yet you want to cohabit with the virgin you popped and subject her to intense cooking, cleaning and vetting before doing the needed.


4) She agreed to live with you because her hands are tied. Not because she would have voluntarily cohabited with you if she had the means to get herself a decent place. Not a good way to make a woman be with you. It is in fact worse than whatever it is you are trying to avoid in future.

Goodluck!

E go soon realize why her friends kicked am out. He want to adopt person wey go dey chop free food and free house? You be father Christmas?

Flesh22:
Good afternoon all, there is the girl I meet newly, where me and brother just rented somewhere in Lagos, she is very beautiful and intelligent for her age, though matured somehow, she look like someone that is 17, I guess from her mother. And me on the other hand, am scared of girls, really don't know how to talk to them, but yesterday when I told my friend, he said we should go to her mom shop, act as if we want to get something, then from there I talk to her, so I did as instructed, so when we go to the shop, she was more beautiful than I thought, a goodness, my friend started the conversation, then I continue, all through my stay at her mom shop, she was happy, laughing as if we already known each other for month, I really had a good time, did some introduction and the rest, then I left.
Later in the evening, as I was about going to buy fuel for the gen, she blocked me on my way, she was was smiling and also introduce herself to me again , but then I had no time to talk to her, just smiled back and told her later, because I needed to get to the filling station on time, so they won't close. Though I have not seen her till now, maybe she went to church, base on my conclusion she do like me, am not saying base on our conversation yesterday, but because of constant eye to eye contact and she normally ask about me when am not around from my brother and when I come to her shop to get something, she always want to attend to me, am I right with all this conclusion, I think yes.
My problem is the age difference, am 28 and she is 13, I want to tell her today that I like her, like they say age just a number, I like this girl, should I continue with this and make her my gf, what do guys think, thanks as I await ur response.

Dem supposed cut your scrotum with blade. You this pedophile. Am sure u be Anambra man

Zxcvbnmghtr:
I am sure that this old man's biological children too are being fathered by another man who doesn't know that they are not his own.

MEN!!!

What goes around comes around.

He better start searching into his past sexual adventures.

Men and their lust to sleep with their fellow man's wife.

Who's this gutter toto hawker?

Foodqueen:
The man definitely have children else where, that's why he's instinct is so strong.

I just hope those out there are truly his.

See this runs girls making excuses for her fellow olosho. I pity the mugu that will collect ur b@stards

zyphr:
Oga chatGPT. This your oversabi is quite unnecessary as you didn't use your ability to rewrite this.

E clear na. Na ChatGPT 😂😂😂

rickyclarkson44:
I recently had a distressing experience at LASUTH Dental Clinic that left me feeling dehumanized. From the moment I arrived, I felt like just another number rather than a valued patient. The staff's impersonal and dismissive attitude added to my discomfort, and I was met with indifference rather than compassion. The lack of clear communication and the hurried manner in which I was treated only compounded my anxiety. It's disheartening to expect care and instead feel disregarded and marginalized all in one dental implants. This experience has made me question the quality of patient care at the clinic and underscored the need for more empathy and professionalism in healthcare settings.

Wetin ChatGPTand AI go cause for this life

RoyalBlu:
I wasn't willing to believe this is actually an exchange of words between a husband and wife until I read the last part.

I'm speechless rn.

Some kind men go just dey bleep up. Why be say na this kind men women dey follow sef

Kyng1:
Good morning Nairalanders, last night I and my wife was having some arguments and she threatened to take my life and send me to the afterlife and later start apologizing endlessly saying it's a joke, she has called hundreds of missed calls but I haven't been able to pick up as I'm hell bent to do what's on my mind, which is sending her back to her parents house. The threat still rings a bell on my head until this very moment, and I don't think I'd be able to comfortably live with her under same roof again. See screenshot below of the threat and her apologies claiming it's a joke.

Oga, u sef sabi frustrate person. Ode, better get sense because the no be every woman fit take this kind problematic man wey u be

churro:
You are living in a rented house and spending N700k a month just on food and fuel? That's too much! You'll need to lower your standard of living. What if you experience a temporary setback in your job or business over several months or a few years? I don't wish you bad o, but things happen!
Your wife is the one setting the standard and not the kids. It is her desires and fears that she's projecting onto the kids, and making them get used to getting branded quality meals all the time. It is what you give your kids that they'll become used to overtime.
Give her less, invest more (money market fund, FGN bonds, sukuk, treasury bills, stocks etc), save more, plan for your future. Your kids are still small, they'll need much more funding as they grow.

Leave that idiot. Until he loses his job or business and no savings to sustain am. Some people just dense anyhow

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

She no dey work? Na this kind woman dey ruin man life. You go work and you won't have any achievements. Better wake up. Mugu

NoToPile:
For context I am female and I understand how it can be trying to give the children the best especially with food to make them healthy. Health is wealth. Children are always prioritized but some of your children are old enough to begin to understand some things.


If it's drinking bottled water that will make them not fall sick then you guys have no choice but to continue. Now I am assuming water supply in your axis is not clean enough to be boiled for drinking because even the costs of bottled water alone for 4 kids in a month is a whole lot of money. Some snacks can be cut off once once, the fresh juices are still okay it's healthy though expensive.


You guys just have to find a way around the costs, you sound strained already.

Talk to her.

As you don speak like mumu, I don know you be that parasite gender. Is the woman not working? 700k? Make the parasite drop 300 to meet other needs na. Problematic gender from the pit of hell

pocohantas:
Either Punch twisted the story for traffic or to make her look like olosho like they always do when a young woman dies. Her family clearly said she is dating the young man and he is well known to them. The picture and video of her corpse shows battery and forceful impact to the head.

You guys should allow women rest in peace. Stop twisting the narrative to make every young woman who died in the hands of man look wayward. Thank you!

Where u see the video? Mumu girl with android phone. No stop that your olosho work

Obakoolex:
My son is not a bastard like you ok

Continue helping your oga gateman to raise his child. Mumu

Obakoolex:
Well my son is fair in complexion while we parents are Brown and am 100% sure he's mine.

mumu go do DNA. na ur friend gateman pikin

@Tomi4life

tomi4life:
I just looked at her phone this night, both whatapp, sms and instagram there is nothing suspicious.
What i noticed she does is to drown herself with activities.

Did u see my comment for d other thread? Rent studio apartment for your job area and they carry your babe go there.