Family / Re: I Feel Like Running Away From My Marriage by Cowbell521: 1:40pm |
funkmrflexx: I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be.
Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress.
I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing.
And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.
And that's why a lot of men die young these days.
Make she leave the marriage. Problem solved |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Cowbell521: 1:30pm |
Fastest finger Quality UK made shoe for sale. No Fault. Just like new.
New one is N175k. But take it N170k.
Selling because I got the 2025 model 10 Likes
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Politics / Re: We’re Impressed With Enugu, Things’re Moving Fast - Danish Consul General by Cowbell521: 12:11pm On Feb 07 |
Enugu doing us proud but Anambra is drawing themselves back with their stewpidity and pride that cannot take them anywhere |
Family / Re: Caption This Picture Of A Family Man by Cowbell521: 5:31pm On Feb 01 |
Chilota2: May be the woman gave birth to a female child. Most men are confused. Na biggest punishment God fit punish any man be that. Male children is very important even if na one |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Enugu Muslims Snap Picture At The Inaugural Khutbah Of Imam Eze by Cowbell521: 10:30am On Feb 01 |
maiunguwar: Does being a Muslim mean one must dress like the northern people,does it mean one must give up his tribal name for aboki sounding name? It better because we can't have almajiri igbo Aboki name is better  |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Enugu Muslims Snap Picture At The Inaugural Khutbah Of Imam Eze by Cowbell521: 10:28am On Feb 01 |
Ebubu6: Northerners residing in Enugu State or indigenous Enugu people who are Islamic ??
Never knew Enugu people are these dunces.
True true, Enugu people are the real Fulanis of the South East and not Ndi Abakaliki or Ndi Ebonyi State. They can never be from Enugu. Dem be Anambra Waka Waka people that settle in Enugu |
Family / Re: Baby Started To Talk Then Stopped by Cowbell521: 1:40pm On Jan 31 |
appiahpittuy: What could make baby start to talk for a while then stopped suddenly cus silence is best answer for a fo*l. Start making sense the pikin go put mouth talk |
Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Allegedly In Rehab Amid Separation From 2baba by Cowbell521: 5:08pm On Jan 27 |
ukaface: Naso Tuface take whyne Annie with African queen song
Quickest recovery to her
Men will leave you in the desert with no water Men need wise up and not take rubbish 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Relationship Ends After Store Owner Adjusts Girlfriend’s Dress by Cowbell521: 5:06pm On Jan 27 |
seborrhic: Let me get this straight. So the girl went to a store,brought clothes to try on and the store owner adjusted the dress and there was a cameraman just there at that place and moment to video it all. Not only that,the same video was posted on SM and the boyfriend just so happens to be on the SM group where the video was posted for him to see it. He then announced it to the listenership or readership of all that he was there and then going to break up with her! All these mumu bloggers or content creators think everyone bears Sule. If this is how Linda Ikeji or Sabinus made it,then every mumu blogger or content creator would have been a billionaire by now. Na skit na 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Relationship Ends After Store Owner Adjusts Girlfriend’s Dress by Cowbell521: 5:04pm On Jan 27 |
Houseofglam7: Insecure folks everywhere 🫤 Men should keep dumping them. Useless things 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Allegedly In Rehab Amid Separation From 2baba by Cowbell521: 5:01pm On Jan 27 |
Divoc19: News. Better stop enduring that marriage. Because las las it will end. You’ll be disappointed. Tell the men. Why enduring a bad wife. With plenty girls in this world. Just have money and women will lick Ur anus. Women without value. They just make themselves commodity 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Confirms Separation From Annie by Cowbell521: 4:50pm On Jan 27 |
uniquetechng: When Annie was spending her mother's money to fund 2face's music videos when Tubaba was nobody in Festac where were you ? Annie doesn't have to be a good actress to make a good wife, you have to a extremely dumb to even say that. Davido married Chioma who is neither a good Chef or a good actress, what matters is love and the bond between. There is no written book that says a celebrity must marry a celebrity, how many footballers, NBA stars and music stars got married to known women ? Annie was spending her mother's money to fund 2face's lifestyle back in Festac, I know this because I grow up in the same area in Festac and I am a year older than 2face. If they have issues let them part ways or resolve it, they're not the first celebrity couple to divorce neither will they be the last but saying trash about Annie is foolishness. Gibberish. Who stole your brain? |
Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Confirms Separation From Annie by Cowbell521: 4:43pm On Jan 27 |
cococandy:
And the question again is emotionally damaged by who? Because she certainly wasn’t emotionally damaged when she was the bright eyed teenager who feel in love with him. I remember when she had a thriving career and then he sucked the soul right out of her. Every blog, gossip column, forum, newspaper etc kept talking his roving eyes and disrespect to Annie.
Yet she felt she had to marry him because they’ve been together for so long. Even though he had multiple babies on her while they were supposedly together. The marriage didn’t make him sit up and respect her either. If anything it got worse.
Ask yourself if your mental health would’ve remained the same if you had to spend all your time and energy convincing the world that the disrespect they can obviously see you partner meting out to you is not real. That she loves you despite publicly being with other men and that you’re actually happy underneath it all. If you don’t become emotionally damaged make I no know wetin cause am.
May Tuface kind of love never find anyone you care about. And I’ll say amen for you. Go marry the woman na. Stop crying here 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Confirms Separation From Annie by Cowbell521: 4:40pm On Jan 27 |
pretydiva: I wondered why Annie ended up with such a narcissist. The guy practically destroyed her, made her less of herself. I pray she will be able to pull through D way ur gender reason with ur anus self 🤣🤣🤣 Go marry d problematic manipulative woman if e easy |
Romance / Re: Elon Musk's Ex-wife Regrets Divorcing Him, Wants Him Back by Cowbell521: 11:43am On Jan 25 |
dominique: Someone that divorced him in 2016 when he was already a multibillionaire. He impregnated another woman while they were still married, that could have played a part in their divorce.
You alfa males keep getting hopelessly pathetic by the day. You know your target audience are too stupid to carry out simple research, that's why you compose a pile of trash for and they stupidly gobble it down as long as it denigrates women.
You keep calling women fish brains but if you look inwards within yourselves, the realm fish brains is you menfolk! When he was broke. Dem no say when he was poor. Fish brain! Note the difference. The man dey go bankrupt that year. Just disgracing Ur gender anyhow 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Had A Romance With My Wife's Sister by Cowbell521: 12:45pm On Jan 11 |
Zaheertyler: Chaiiii Op sorry
All this things never ends well Expect your wife to be angry for 3-4 months but she will come back Send the message as a text on WhatsApp..lay emphasis on the we never had sex, self control and forgiveness prayer Tell her how sorry you are but don’t beg her much or start to mumu yourself with the begging Take responsibility And when you both settle buy her a wonderful gift..
Don’t blame the sister too It’s what every lady in her shoes will do
The truth will set you free But tell the truth with wisdom I will pray for you tonight that if truly you are sincere In your heart the almighty will restore everything in your marriage Cheers 🥂
SAMKHAY in all you do. No send it as a text or WhatsApp. She will use it against you for future. Call her into room and do the needful. And don't start trying to over please her after telling her. She go hate you even more. |
Family / Re: I Had A Romance With My Wife's Sister by Cowbell521: 12:42pm On Jan 11 |
SAMKHAY:
As I mentioned earlier, this is not who I am. I am not wayward, and I do not engage in inappropriate behaviors. Before my situation, I strongly condemned such actions whenever I heard or read about them, just as you have rebuked me in your comments. The incidents only involved kissing, and there was never any sexual intimacy. Thankfully, I was able to regain my senses, and it has not happened again since then, until she brought it up last night.
I have prayed about this and genuinely believe I have worked on myself. I consider myself mature and disciplined, but this still happened, and I am deeply ashamed and unhappy about it.
Thank you for your comments though! Tell your wife oga. Before she tells her |
Family / Re: I Had A Romance With My Wife's Sister by Cowbell521: 12:37pm On Jan 11 |
Divaan: I would have asked if you could do this with your sister but I remembered my next house neighbour who just got jailed for sleeping with his daughter. He's been sleeping with his underage teenager for years despite having a wife and numerous side chicks. So, immorality is not a function of how many bedmates you have but a function of WHO YOU ARE.
With the feud going on between you and your wife's sister, I wish all your shenanigans get exposed, so your innocent wife knows who she's married to. Imagine the manner of conversations that goes on between you and your wife's sister. You've reduced yourself to a pinch of salt.
My advice for you is that you work on changing WHO YOU ARE because I'm sure you're expecting me to blame your wife's sister for tempting or seducing you or even dressing provocatively or maybe you're expecting me to blame your wife for working night shift, when really the problem is YOU.
I wonder if you would ever get any iota of respect from your wife's sister again. Some guys your age are still very unstable in their emotions and sexual feelings and expressions and they take it right into marriage causing wives a lot of problems but I believe you can change yourself and get some discipline and maturity. My sister things are getting out of hand. Am just hearing about how one woman has been sexually abusing boy of 13 years now. When the boy decide enough is enough and want to expose the woman, she killed the boy. I just pity parents leaving their male children with women. A lot is happening in secret and this boys will not talk in time |
Politics / Re: NDLEA Arrests Nollywood Filmmaker, Recovers Cannabis, Drugged Cakes, Codeine by Cowbell521: 8:06pm On Jan 05 |
annisy: Imo state and anambra people are the ones giving the igbos bad names!!! I dey tell u. U can never see Enugu man spoiling Igbo name |
Crime / Re: Woman Who Killed Her Husband Is Requesting For Male Friends From Prison by Cowbell521: 2:57pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
MadamVanessa:

You see why men here see us as clowns because of our double standard judgement and goal shifting.
I have observed you , you're fun of supporting women regardless if they're wrong or right. If they're wrong, you must always find a way of justifying their action instead of saying the truth the way it is.
F One of few wise women 1 Like |
Health / Re: Woman Slumps & Dies While Preparing Breakfast For Her Family In Port Harcourt by Cowbell521: 11:03pm On Aug 04, 2024 |
We4all:
What if
If the bolded is what is causing you to hyperventilate over my post, then you need to have a brain scan. Your papa just waste his sperm. Product of mad person 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Cowbell521: 9:31pm On Aug 04, 2024 |
odimbannamdi: My post is not exactly related to Clearance sales, but I really need as much help as I can get.
My church's mixer (in picture 1) got damaged by high voltage and we are now making plans to have it fixed.
However, we are worried about the incident re-occurring and possibly taking out other appliances as well, so we are considering getting a stabilizer.
Please, which stabilizer and specs can work with the mixer, those 2 Ahuja amplifier in picture 2 (couldnt get their specs) and the 2 Yamaha amplifiers (in picture 3, with name plate of specs in picture 4) Thermocool TEC. 3kva to 5kva. 2 Likes
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Family / Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by Cowbell521: 9:08pm On Aug 02, 2024 |
pocohantas:
In her defense she seems to be a young girl. I would have expected her to retrace her steps to her parents house or any close relative. She didn't fall from the sky na.
OP on his part seems to have a problem attracting, meeting or keeping women who can meet him halfway. His ex-wife wasn't earning. The second she got a job, she started pushing to move away from home and issues amplified until divorce.
You would think OP has learned a lesson, but here he is, trying to trap a girl who has her back against the wall. Give that girl a good job and based on his past posts on her, he won't see her brakelight again. This relationship is fully sponsored by lack of options and parental guidance.
Male or female, you can't afford to be old and broke. It would affect your options. 1 of few women wey get sense for this con3. I agree with u |
Family / Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by Cowbell521: 1:36pm On Aug 02, 2024 |
Afodot0022: Good day my lovely people, it always good to share life with you people here. Pls I need to ask, what is the advantage and disadvantage of living together with your girlfriend under the same roof. My girlfriend had an accommodations problem, her friend they stay together kick her out for no just reason, she wanted to get an apartment and the money she was ask to bring was quite much 250k, I convinced her to come stay with me and save that money for other things, initially she opposed but later agreed to come stay. My reasons for her staying are there.. 1... I want to get to know her better cos I believe when you live with someone in the same space, that's when you get to know them better, I was once married and have learnt a lot on how ladies pretend in dating but show their true color in marriage, atleast I want to know her well before making another serious commitment of marriage. 2... She works and earn a decent salary which I think will be an added advantage for me by her supporting by we both sharing bills together, it will lessen by burden. Though I haven't discussed this with her yet but hope to soon cos I can't let her depend solely one me while she works. 3.... Ever since I separated from my wife, it's not been easy living alone as a man, the cooking ,washing ,cleaning and loneliness has not been easy, so we living together will atleast help me in these area. To be candid, the girl is a good girl and I was the one that disvirgin her, she is submissive and respect me, but you know you can really say of a person character until you live with them.
Now my question is to those that have been in this situation of living together with a girlfriend you are yet to marry, how did this affect the relationship afterwards. Pls share your experience be it negative or positive, I really want to learn from others to see if I can proceed on this or just abort mission by not allowing her to stay any longer. Do you think it make sense I share bills with her or I should should all financial responsibility even though am not capable of that now.. pls help me to navigate this scenario
Na you be the girl papa? |
Family / Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by Cowbell521: 1:33pm On Aug 02, 2024 |
Klass99:
I will comment on the parts of your narrative I find interesting.
1. I sincerely hope you plan to share house chores with her, to support her and lessen her burden. As you expect her to share bills with you, to support and lessen your burden. I doubt this though considering what you said in point 3.
2. I thought you logical gender people said marriage doesn't benefit men and women bring nothing to the table. Why are you looking to get married again, through the route of immoral cohabitation, when your first marriage didn't work out?
Your logical gender brothers will hype you to carry on with this warped logic, according to majority of them, immoral cohabitation is how a woman grows with a man. May they not have daughters who live out those words in their lifetime.
One woman said a while back that she cohabited with her man for 7 years and they were going to get married soon. Your brothers in logic hailed her with comments and over 300 likes on this forum. Try to make yours less than 7 years sha!
You see that thing you're looking for bah? That is, validation and a green light stamp to proceed, you have come to the right place for it. Just wait for your brothers. I have one question for you though, na so your mama and papa take marry? You just waste space. No sense at all. The idiot no get sense. Why give the girl free accomodation? Na father Christmas? |
Family / Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by Cowbell521: 1:30pm On Aug 02, 2024 |
bukatyne:
This is beyond 'giving' her body.
Except she doesn't have a good plan for herself, the OP is not a spec.
A man who thinks that N250k annual rent is 'on the high side' is broke. N250k rent in itself is cheap meaning an accommodation that isn't 'decent' or in the outskirts of town (except they are not in a capital city).
Why would a virgin be with a broke divorcee with kids? If he were young like her, we would say they are starting life together.
He is already second hand and he doesn't have the finance to make up for it? He doesn't have systems in place and is looking for someone to do chores and pay bills?
A red billboard for a single virgin (well, I am speaking for myself).
Which kind of broke girl can't afford 250k rent? The guy better throw away the girl make she go date agbero for street |
Family / Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by Cowbell521: 1:27pm On Aug 02, 2024 |
pocohantas: 1) How decent is a salary that it can't pay an annual rent of 250k?
2) You have been married before and you have kids. Kids who are still in touch with you and probably visit. They are also girls from your previous post. So it is important they see you in a good light. Not with numerous women. The next woman they should know you with should be a fiancee/wife. Not a live-in gf, not a babymama. You of all people should know the pains of a single parent home and should do well to avoid a situation that might lead to it again.
3) She is a virgin, she is a good girl, she is hardworking, she is submissive, she respects you, she is this and that. Yet you want to cohabit with the virgin you popped and subject her to intense cooking, cleaning and vetting before doing the needed.
4) She agreed to live with you because her hands are tied. Not because she would have voluntarily cohabited with you if she had the means to get herself a decent place. Not a good way to make a woman be with you. It is in fact worse than whatever it is you are trying to avoid in future.
Goodluck! E go soon realize why her friends kicked am out. He want to adopt person wey go dey chop free food and free house? You be father Christmas? |
Romance / Re: I Am In Love With A 13 Years Old Girl by Cowbell521: 11:46am On Jul 15, 2024 |
Flesh22: Good afternoon all, there is the girl I meet newly, where me and brother just rented somewhere in Lagos, she is very beautiful and intelligent for her age, though matured somehow, she look like someone that is 17, I guess from her mother. And me on the other hand, am scared of girls, really don't know how to talk to them, but yesterday when I told my friend, he said we should go to her mom shop, act as if we want to get something, then from there I talk to her, so I did as instructed, so when we go to the shop, she was more beautiful than I thought, a goodness, my friend started the conversation, then I continue, all through my stay at her mom shop, she was happy, laughing as if we already known each other for month, I really had a good time, did some introduction and the rest, then I left. Later in the evening, as I was about going to buy fuel for the gen, she blocked me on my way, she was was smiling and also introduce herself to me again , but then I had no time to talk to her, just smiled back and told her later, because I needed to get to the filling station on time, so they won't close. Though I have not seen her till now, maybe she went to church, base on my conclusion she do like me, am not saying base on our conversation yesterday, but because of constant eye to eye contact and she normally ask about me when am not around from my brother and when I come to her shop to get something, she always want to attend to me, am I right with all this conclusion, I think yes. My problem is the age difference, am 28 and she is 13, I want to tell her today that I like her, like they say age just a number, I like this girl, should I continue with this and make her my gf, what do guys think, thanks as I await ur response.
Dem supposed cut your scrotum with blade. You this pedophile. Am sure u be Anambra man |
Family / Re: Sad Moment An Old Man Realised He Is Not The Father Of His 3 Kids (video) by Cowbell521: 7:30pm On Jul 07, 2024 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: I am sure that this old man's biological children too are being fathered by another man who doesn't know that they are not his own.
MEN!!!
What goes around comes around.
He better start searching into his past sexual adventures.
Men and their lust to sleep with their fellow man's wife. Who's this gutter toto hawker? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Sad Moment An Old Man Realised He Is Not The Father Of His 3 Kids (video) by Cowbell521: 7:28pm On Jul 07, 2024 |
Foodqueen: The man definitely have children else where, that's why he's instinct is so strong.
I just hope those out there are truly his. See this runs girls making excuses for her fellow olosho. I pity the mugu that will collect ur b@stards 4 Likes |
Family / Re: I Felt Dehumanised At Lasuth Dental Clinic by Cowbell521: 1:16pm On Jul 07, 2024 |
zyphr:
Oga chatGPT. This your oversabi is quite unnecessary as you didn't use your ability to rewrite this. E clear na. Na ChatGPT 😂😂😂 |
Family / Re: I Felt Dehumanised At Lasuth Dental Clinic by Cowbell521: 1:11pm On Jul 07, 2024 |
rickyclarkson44: I recently had a distressing experience at LASUTH Dental Clinic that left me feeling dehumanized. From the moment I arrived, I felt like just another number rather than a valued patient. The staff's impersonal and dismissive attitude added to my discomfort, and I was met with indifference rather than compassion. The lack of clear communication and the hurried manner in which I was treated only compounded my anxiety. It's disheartening to expect care and instead feel disregarded and marginalized all in one dental implants. This experience has made me question the quality of patient care at the clinic and underscored the need for more empathy and professionalism in healthcare settings. Wetin ChatGPTand AI go cause for this life 2 Likes |