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Goodadvice01:
Good morning people. I noticed that majority of users on this site live in Lagos.

Most of my childhood friends have traveled to Lagos.

That aside, I want to relocate to Lagos. I have an uncle that used to stay in orile (2018).

I can camp in his house for the main time.

If I come to Lagos, can I get a job that can pay me like 100k and above every month. I have my waec and neco. I just turned 25.

I feel if I change environment, things will begin to go well for me.. and I heard there are lots of jobs in Lagos.

Here in the east, no work or company. Only Keke bus business that's thriving

Please can I make it in Lagos? I need suggestions. This is a life changing decision please

Learn barbing and fashion design before u go. And be careful of Anambra people. Dem go lead u astray

SocialJustice:
Very whack property. Over used, dirty furniture. The girl should have destroyed the ac too.

She supposed to burn the place

Yxxx:
Why cover her eyes, remove it and let her be hunted

You don't do that to a woman

mytime24:
Why are they not asking for caution fee

I don already know say na woman before I even read am. She'll get away with it because she be woman

fxexperts:
They have the opportunity to make money when they open their legs if you were the one wouldn't you take the opportunity, same reason i applaud ladies like Sophia (sex for Lambo) and Saidaboj. but we men always try to shame and deceive them into following our wrong narrative. The environmental support men enjoy in society has never been the same thing accorded to women. Society favors men to succeed from babies but has never favored women right from time. women in Africa were raised to always depend on men, but I am glad things are changing in recent times and I am happy you said they should make their own money, which means you want the narrative to change too. but know this when a woman makes money she no longer needs a man, it is only a man who tries to impress a woman when he has money. You keep the woman busy cooking and raising the kids alone, if you can do what a woman is doing, in this case, you will never have the time to make the money you are bragging about. For your information, I am married and I stopped my wife from accepting an Airhostess job in one of these big international airlines sometime ago because I work offshore, so if I am not around and my wife is not around who will look after the kids, now do you think I have right to tell that woman to go make her own money or what she brings to the table. men of this generation do not think and you all are destroying the society our forefathers built with their wisdom.

Plenty words. Zero Sense. Dem force u to have kids? No be una 2 get the pikin? Mumu. No give birth. Live by example. Don't have anything with men. Depend on ur fellow woman and see how ur life go spoil cus 95% of u all are bunch of liability. If they check now u be Yoruba woman. Average of u don't have any sense

dominique:
Unlike you, I'm not from a lineage of riffraffs and lowlives that see N1 million as an incredulously huge amount of money. I repeat, if my sons wants to invest in themselves and their wives, God forbid it's going to be with N1 million.

And I repeat that Ur son can sell you to skull miners to impress his girlfriend. Not like you're useful for anything. At least I fit afford 1m for myself. No be like
U and Ur gender that gats sell Ur bodies to men for it

dominique:
I don't have any brothers however if my sons want to invest in their wives, it better not be with 1million

Ur sons can sell Ur empty skull with family house to impress woman for all I care. That one na una family problem

dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.

Make your brother marry am 🤣🤣😂😂😂

adaperry25:
I've not been lucky in relationships. Now I'm trying to get married and it seems all the ladies I meet have a red flag.

I created a thread on my last relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/8324668/wedding-plans-suspended-advice

My uncle referred one to me and she's subtly billing already. Saying her phone hangs and she doesn't take calls only Whatsapp. I'll call and she won't pick up and she'll say hello on Whatsapp.

I have prayed and fasted.

I just need a 25-28 yo igbo lady preferably imo state that's very reasonable

Am I the problem or is it a general thing for Nigerian women?

Take it from a man in his 40s. If u never ready to adopt total stranger wey go make Ur life miserable and become entitled to your properties and cut Ur life short. No marry at all. Stop looking for problems for Ur life

We4all:
Agreed, I am dumb, but I know more than you and your entire oloriburuku generation.

I know u will be a Yoruba woman. Very rude people. Enugu woman can never be this stewpid. I blame men marrying u people. Most of u will go and do rubbish outside marriage and bring baaastard for the man to care for. rubbish

KIharaaaaara:
I signed up for this site because of this question.
I am as short asf. I have been dating severally different nice ladies, and since I have money they all get into it.. After a month or so they bring up the fact on my shortness.
Do you know what I normally do? I normally show them the door without a second though, give transport and tell them it was nice being with them. Happened severally(not less than 7 times), I am a happy man since I accepted that. And every time after leaving one I ends up with someone better... It is a repeated chain and am just happy. I don't care where my life is heading though
I would say that money is everything. If you are short and no money, you are fuc*ked up. Currently am asking when the current will part way since I spotted some other.
In a nutshell, show her the nearest door out of the house, you will send the cloths as parcel, don't be lied that she loves you.

The girl no like the guy. But she wants his money. No too spend on them. Just have them and leave them. Never fall in love. Coming from real OG

Botragelad:
😳😳😳😳😳😳. There have been whispers about your lack of comprehension for some time, but I paid them no heed. Are you truly this way, how old are you by the way? You act and speak like a child,you know.

If Nigeria were overrun by invaders, its land seized by terrorists, and later the country celebrated retaking the territory initially seized, wouldn’t that be worthy of celebration?

The man you so casually label a “comedian” has accomplished more than you have or will ever achieve. It might behoove you to learn when to remain silent.

Direct your energies toward Africa’s affairs and amuse yourself there. This discourse is reserved for individuals who can think for themselves! 🤷🏼

Oga dem no retake any land. News is fake

Nigerians are just too mumu. The Mod that put this to FP follow. Source of the fake news? Telegram. Mumu people. Nobody else report this news. Na only Nairaland and one yeye blog report am. Dey deceive Una self

ElevationD:
Was that his first, second or third wife? He probably all along was told to checkmate the excesses of his wife and he did not care. The result showed up with the greed and wickedness of the woman and the children. Again, such heartlessness from the children requires a simple paternity check.

By the way, who knows if he ever was supporting his children financially. We only saw the wickedness of the children. We did not hear their side of the story.

Whatever the story was, having given the greedy woman two shops and 3m, they planned to make the man suffer by taking away all he had. The video is of the sitting room, showed that the man is by no means a poor man.

Anyway, that’s a case of attempted murder, grievous bodily harm and kidnapping. The four children, along with their mother and the evil abokis, have many years to serve in jail. When the sons are out of jail, what they have done to their father must happen to them.

Reasoning with Ur anus. Mumu

Savingrace678:
Hello nairalanders, pls I need matured mind on this.
I created this account to post this.

My marriage has been stressful and draining.
I have really suffered if not for the help of my elderest brother, we would have died by now.
My husband has been in addiction since we got married 5yrs ago. that has never allowed him to take care of us. In 5yr we married, he has changed More than 5 jobs all wasted effort. We have two twine children. A boy and a girl. 4urs.
His addiction has been the reason I never want to have another child ever since then.

Right now my husband's uncle, a father figured to him has invited him to come home to the village, so they can advise him and my elderest brother has asked me to pack my things and the children, as soon as my husband left for the village, he will relocate us and my husband will not have access to us again.
And he said, if I declined, he will take his hand off my matter. He has been the one taking care of our rent, school fees and upkeep as my husband's money goes to addiction.

My fear now is, my children are so used to their father and I'm afraid if they can cop without their father. Especially my son.
Secondly, I'm so scared that I don't know how I'm going to handle more brokness in my life
My life is so scattered right now.
And lastly, I don't want my brother to take off his hands off me. He's the only person helping me out with my mistake.

Run away and free the man. E deserve peace

senator2k9:
Join us in prayers are we tie the nuptial knot....

By now. She go don dey show u shege and made Ur life hell

agabaI23:
Sleekdoc,
Haba I tell you say the height of a man is measured dem de measure from jaw to the scalp no be head to toe. Why u de vex?

Vex for what?

kpolli:
This dayokanu, i wonder y ur resurrecting all these posts

Many people don die for this thread sha

jaybee3:
what module r u being taught today?
we need u fully charged for the private tutoring hun

I don't get

chelseabmw:
Its not a lie, I was there when it all happen but the end result for him was death, His brother just posted it for we all to see

wow

press9jatv:
See what the clueless davido posted here. He must be arrested by the Nigeria police force.

Fake

funkmrflexx:
I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be.

Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress.

I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing.

And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.

And that's why a lot of men die young these days.

Make she leave the marriage. Problem solved

Fastest finger
Quality UK made shoe for sale. No Fault. Just like new.

New one is N175k.
But take it N170k.

Selling because I got the 2025 model

Enugu doing us proud but Anambra is drawing themselves back with their stewpidity and pride that cannot take them anywhere

Chilota2:
May be the woman gave birth to a female child.
Most men are confused.

Na biggest punishment God fit punish any man be that. Male children is very important even if na one

maiunguwar:
Does being a Muslim mean one must dress like the northern people,does it mean one must give up his tribal name for aboki sounding name?

It better because we can't have almajiri igbo Aboki name is better

Ebubu6:
Northerners residing in Enugu State or indigenous Enugu people who are Islamic ??

Never knew Enugu people are these dunces.

True true, Enugu people are the real Fulanis of the South East and not Ndi Abakaliki or Ndi Ebonyi State.

They can never be from Enugu. Dem be Anambra Waka Waka people that settle in Enugu

ukaface:
Naso Tuface take whyne Annie with African queen song

Quickest recovery to her

Men will leave you in the desert with no water

Men need wise up and not take rubbish

seborrhic:
Let me get this straight.
So the girl went to a store,brought clothes to try on and the store owner adjusted the dress and there was a cameraman just there at that place and moment to video it all.
Not only that,the same video was posted on SM and the boyfriend just so happens to be on the SM group where the video was posted for him to see it.
He then announced it to the listenership or readership of all that he was there and then going to break up with her!
All these mumu bloggers or content creators think everyone bears Sule.
If this is how Linda Ikeji or Sabinus made it,then every mumu blogger or content creator would have been a billionaire by now.

Na skit na

Houseofglam7:
Insecure folks everywhere
🫤

Men should keep dumping them. Useless things