ma373733: Not really it happens when there's no reciprocity from the other person as expected.
Women in general invest so little men are very sacrificial I'll repeat that again again
The only time women are sacrificial is just having a child that's why they love Thier children .
Men love women women only love Thier children sacrificially
I'm still waiting for his stat Men have higher rate of heart breaks because they can't easily move on due to Thier sacrifices towards the relationship . Men have highest sucides half of them are relationship related .
Please learn how to punctuate your writeups. Reading your sentences is a big punishment to intelligent people.
ubunja: Okay, what I'm going to say will have many variables and question marks and holes,, but I'm just putting it out there to give a general idea of things. It must not be taken as a complete, ironclad theory or set of principles.
Bro you're on point on this.
Never invest in a woman because you're just improving her SMV (sexual market value). Which will activate her hypergamy. Keep her where you found her and use your money in such a way that if she disconnects from you and goes, she'll find herself where you found her.
There's a huge difference between marrying a beautiful woman whose hair, nails and makeup are top notch AND marrying a plain woman then making her beautiful with good hair, nails and makeup. The first is you getting what you deserve or can afford. While the second is you INVESTING in a woman - Which is what men must avoid. You can use your money to maintain a slay queen. But if you find an average girl and turn her into a slay queen then you're investing in her. Which will backfire spectacularly, Because after you're done with her, her SMV will be higher than when she started, which means she's now considering you BELOW HER - nevermind you yourself improved her said SMV.
Investing in a woman includes things improving a woman's education, helping her start her own business (which will inevitably lead to her independence from you) etc. You must keep her dependent. Supply her needs and wants without putting her in a position where she can replace you. She must not own anything but be happy. (Hard but not impossible) . You must be her provider, not investor. You can very well give a woman a good life, a nice home, fun trips and good experiences without investing in her. But just showing her how much you love her.
Pïmps mastered this game ages ago. They keep all the money but make sure their women get the best of anything - the best accommodation, the best food and the best outfits. The women get everything they ask for - except for cold hard cash. That's always a no. These pïmps even do the shopping on behalf of their women to stay ahead of the game. Cause give a woman cash, no matter how little - she'll find a way to grow it. It's their gift. Pïmps prevent this and keep cash away from women.
This may seem unfair, cruel or extreme in this day and age; but women do play the same game with men as regards to sex. A Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.
Now, because women are masters of the game, they monopolized the sex and also monopolized men's money: Did not our elders, fathers and uncles hand over their own hard-earned money to their women, the WOMEN who would then give the men money bit by bit on a daily basis as the needs arise, eg every morning he's given transport money and every weekend he's given beer money. This was the norm a few generations ago in many places. This is how cunning women have been. Pïmps merely give women a taste of their own medicine - with brilliant results. It needs be that men start looking closely at how those flesh peddlers mastered women.
But many men are intent on achieving women's growth. They'll take a woman from the bottom and keep pouring money into her growth until she outgrows him. Then she leaves. Men are out here educating their wives, getting their women plastic surgery, buying investments and the like. Which is foolish. All that money and effort and even plastic surgery must have been for themselves. For the men. To keep their own SMV ever so high. And yes I said it, men must not shy away from plastic surgery. If you've something about your face that you don't like, save money and go get it fixed. Leave the scratches and scars, they add to your masculine beauty. But that nose, that eye, those ears - get them fixed if you ain't happy. Same goes for teeth: if yours are discolored, go whiten them. If they're crooked, consider investing in braces to straighten them. If a front tooth is missing, move heaven and earth to replace it. All this may sound all too shallow and even feminine... But it will pay dividends. Cause combine this with the body game (gym) and you're an Adonis. women will come. And you won't be invested in any of them because you invested, instead, in yourself.
Sirsesan: That's not a pay back. she just lost the more. In fact, she has just invalidated my doubt for dumping her. You gave my father a piece of pussy, how is that my business. The old man has been fucking pussies b4 I was born. I can't figure out how my ex fucking my dad has any 'getting back at' in it. Payback?
Never underestimate how far a scorned woman is willing to go to hurt or get back at you. A young scorned woman went as far as sleeping with her ex-boyfriend's father just to pay him back.
God save us from endtime wives. Your husband's nephew who just began living with you is already fingering you?
I understand that he is kind, you gist alot, you vibe together and you do not want to dent his image but Hanty, except you Potiphar's wife, those shouldn't be your concern here. You should be after stopping further thefts from him by any means necessary.
Explain the double standards. You'd cheer on a mob as they lynch a suspected thief and wish the same for our corrupt politicians but you're allowing sentiments and lust not let you see the evil in the monster your husband has brought into his home.