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united442:
o.p am currently facing what you are facing now,we broke up 4months ago, school in the same campus and live close off camp..

o.p listen, its not going to be an easy task, so have that at the back of ur mind.,it requires a lot of work about you to be done to avoid and get over her..she wont or she isn't going to be affected cux she has moved on..

op i really dnt knw how to advise you or things to do cux am still trying to work my way out too bt i will tell u the little i can and how have been managing mine..

op if you are an introvert, then its going to be a double wahala cux it will affect you alot..your confidence,self-esteem, emotions, feelings, everything about you both mentally and physically will drastically reduce, you will be painedddd! angry, short of breath, stomach arch, at a time you wont feel like eating anything (especially if the breakup is fresh), infact o.p, you will loose ur self, imaging the pain and feelings you get wen you see her with another guy,imaging that same guy bleeping ur formal hole..abt that,o.p there is nothing you can do again to stop that..

this is where you will need to work on yourself, whatever advise you receive, apply them but know providing this is/must be costant;

*TIME!!...give yourself time...even in nysc camp, u may not see urself getting over her in first 2-3months..
*deleting every single inch about her,
*accept the pain,regret,grieve and whatever is happing to you,its all normal,they happened to me too..
*try and eat well and stay healthy.
*no matter how introverted you are,am sorry o.p cux you will have to break that chain and go out to mingle with females ONLY!..if you must mingle with guys, associate yourself with guys that sleep with girls alot or guys that are very funny lyk comedian..those 2 set of guys can make you forget ur pain.
*o.p you have to improve urself, like dress well, exercise, woo girls,even if they are ugly or even if they dnt accept u, just do it for fun sake, it build ur confidence..
*always smile and be happy when u see her,even if ur mind fly,form or forge the smile

and lastly,please do ur best to ignore her, dnt go seeking for her knowing fully well u will see her at a particular road,store or place jst to get her attention,it wont help u...

Long story, just face ur book and hustle..

nairalanduseles:
Na jail get u ...even if u both slept naked .....NO IS NO.....
...silly rapist trying to justify his actions .....why will she wash her clothes u re Bleep$ng liar u bastard rapist

They both slept u clad, does that indicate there was a No..

MChaze25:
See your big head.
Do you even know who you are talking to?
The first consultant to same Innoson.
Don't worry you go soon bow down to this igbo tribe.
It will hit afonja like boom!!!

Don't u get tired.... My tribe this, my tribe that... First consultant.. Wats ur achievement...

Menance:
Am glad you are typing this. When your afonja brothers run their mouth about being a rich tribe because 1 or 2 billionaires in Nigeria are yoruba do you tell them this?

The other day I saw a lost apes comment saying 'we are a rich tribe because we have 2 billionaires from yoruba'


It funny how this yoloba tribe try to run down successful people out of envy

One person does not speak for all, if one person decides to talk without sense, it's not an excuse for u to join na...

MChaze25:
Oga if it pains you, go get your Afonja brothers to assemble una own.
Innoson can never employ or patronize una Afonja services or products if at all una get any.
Auto parts market full Nnewi to use for his assemble.
Pls get a LIFE!!!

Na my blooda, na my bloda.., hope sey u know that won't put food on d table... Yes some westerners are being asses but u can't condemn a hole tribe while hiding behind someone else's achievements, do ya own....

EagleNest:
Childish topic with underlying hipocricy. Too many babies in Nairaland.

Actually it's for people to air their views and learn.. No one knows everything and knowledge is diverse.. There's always something to pick no matter how stupid things seem.

Optionalx:
Please tell Benz to sue them for piracy so he can close shop... and make you win the argument and happy man

Benz sef copy bmw x6 streamline design with their own, lets leave out crosstour.... The important thing should be that a high percentage of their models should ooze out originality.

Lol

Thegoodlife300:
Hello, good evening my dear nairalanders,
I wish to move back to Uyo from Asaba and invest in Fish farming. I am just trying to be sure its a good idea since i dont know people back home in Uyo, also i will appreciate if anyone can give me safe places in Uyo to live in and steady power supply is also very important.
Thank you and God bless you.

Be going and coming for 6 months, try to be sure it's a good idea before making ur move permanently, a home is anywhere that favours you financially, socially and security wise..

Lol.... He left music to go and school abroad.

Ok... My veiw of previous thread

Keep celebrating nonsense... Pls bring people with better innovation and ways to live good and help each other, not people who just flaunt what the mode of acquisition is questionable.

There's only one answer to this, it's a pity the thread is already too long. Manufacturing is about bringing out original ideas, how you make it come true is up to you... Do they produce cars that have original concepts... The answer is up to you, but i know they have a car model that looks like old model benz gwagon slept with hummer(ned and regina ) without rubber or postinor ..... .. They named it Innoson g40

R2bees:
Sometimes i wonder how much Nigerian Billionaires like NED are worth .. like is it possible he has up to 50billion naira? or is it way too much?.. is he richer than E-money?.. How rich is he compared to Davido dad?? Omo I'm just pondering oo

Go and make money and stop pondering

247naijamedia:
Nigerian Musicians, Afeez Fashola aka Naira Marley, Omoniyi Temidayo Raphael aka Zlatan Ibile, Tiamiu Abdulrahman Kayode aka Rahman Jago and two others will be charged to court for their alleged links to cyber crime, EFCC has revealed.

The trio, alongside two others, Adewunmi Adeyanju Moses and Abubakar Musa, were arrested in the early hours of Friday, at 9, Gbangbola Street, Ikate, Lekki, Lagos. .

However, giving an update on their situation, today, a top source within EFCC, told SaharaReporters that the agency has plans to use information volunteered by the suspects to charge them to court. And that, until then, they will remain in detention.

Dis guys put themselves in this mess, what are they doing with this afta baba don pick call

delugajackson:
This is nothing new. Even some so called "girlfriends" are prostitutes in disguise.

If you are fond of jumping from one preeq to another in the name of relationship, I put it to you that you are a prostitute. If you're an expert in exchanging sexual favour for material gains. You are nothing but a prostitute. If you spread you legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry for nothing in return, you are a useless, godforsaken prostitute and a walking flesh of Staphylococcus.

Case closed.

Extention boxes not prostitute

Esseite:
I just hope the south minds its business... but noooo.. they are already everywhere..

Same south whose resources feed others right? If they mind their business the north would be dead... U think sey na by onion, groundnut, sugar cane and to sew slippers

oyatz:
With their stupidity, they have elevated GEJ to the status of a deity.

Wat is dis one saying... Not everything should be viewed from tribal perspective

GoTV:
Every yahoo boy reading this will die young. You and your family members will have cancer of the lungs, cancer of the brain, every terrible disease shall never depart your house hold. You will never enjoy peace and fruit of your fraudulent ways. Every yahoo boy, their friends and family in support of their fraudulent activities will die a miserable death. May Fulani herdsmen visit all your relatives in the village so they can have a share of the pain you people caused others. It shall never be well with everyone on the side of fraud.


The federal government should henceforth execute every convicted yahoo boy by firing squad on live TV so as to serve as deterence for other.

Supporting yahoo boys is like supporting armed robbery.

Armed robbers rob their victims with weapons, Yahoo boys rob their victim with gadgets ( phones, laptop, email deception).


Say no to fraud

Amen... Also every one that has ever committed a crime reading this or writing this and believes death is the answer to all crime would die in 7 seconds...as per No big or small sin..... How do u feel now
..

When there's no important person to kill, they start killing themselves

Lol

Why do peo keep spoiling threads with adverts

I 8 jungle justice, but some people dnt deserve to live...

YoungBlackRico:
lol, leave my mention brah.

Lol

YoungBlackRico:
Why dem release this niqqa self? I dislike people who can't pronounce R, they irritate me when they speak.

Ok yungblakwico

Hintona:
Even mosquitoes have opinion

Interesting!!!

Fine geh

Google is our friend

Those gtx listed though...

Am I a yahoo boy ... Lemme be preparing to enjoy ftc on my post, I know I'm greedy, greed is part of humanity.. If this get to first page I will dedicate this to my former landlord that thought I wouldn't make it in life, all my ex girlfriend and some of the current ones... See the beautiful work of God in my life, I've reached where una think sey I no fit reach... Without doing yahoo.