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RomanceRe: Best Romantic Movies Of 2018 by crispus09(m): 8:19am On Oct 04, 2018
that fifthy is lubish
PoliticsRe: Appreciations ! Appreciations!! By Engr. Sosanwo Adeola Ayoola by crispus09(m): 8:16am On Oct 04, 2018
welcome
PoliticsRe: APC Youth Forum Laud President Buhari And Adams Oshiomole Over Sen Yele Candidat by crispus09(m): 8:09am On Oct 04, 2018
apc youth are thanking buhari for this baba 70. this is one of the reason our old polithiefians will never want youths to get power foolish apc youths. apc peg nomination form at that ridiculous amount so that youth will not be able to afford it instead of this nincompoop youths to agitate for reduction so they can participate as an aspirant in the coming election they busy selling their future for highest 10k for this old politicians that are just buying it the future of thier own children and family .
PoliticsRe: Violence Mars Zamfara APC Governorship Primaries by crispus09(m): 8:08am On Oct 04, 2018
apc ooooooopp
PoliticsRe: Babajide Sanwo-Olu: 5 Things You Don’t Know About Lagos APC Governorship Candida by crispus09(m): 8:08am On Oct 04, 2018
ok I done know now
PoliticsRe: Just For Being Tinubu's Stooge, I Will Never Support Sanwo-olu by crispus09(m): 8:06am On Oct 04, 2018
your life your problem
PoliticsRe: APC NWC Cancels Zamfara Governorship Primary by crispus09(m): 8:04am On Oct 04, 2018
that's is how APC is planning to cancel 2019 election,their ordinary primary they 're cancelling everywhere.
PoliticsRe: If You Are The President Of Your Country What Will You Do? by crispus09(m): 8:04am On Oct 04, 2018
assemble all the godfathers and bomb them,then jail all corrupt past and present leaders
PoliticsRe: James Manager Distrubutes N212 Million To Emerge As Senatorial Candidate by crispus09(m): 8:01am On Oct 04, 2018
election and corruption in nigeria he tire me
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Keeps Lagos, As Apc Presidency 2019 Not Guaranteed! by crispus09(m): 8:00am On Oct 04, 2018
where is the picture
PoliticsRe: Saraki’s Chief Of Staff, Others Docked, Remanded In Ikoyi Prison Over Fraud by crispus09(m): 7:59am On Oct 04, 2018
ok that's good
PoliticsRe: What National Assembly Must Learn From US Congress Leadership by crispus09(m): 7:57am On Oct 04, 2018
lols. why should they want to learn from amelica coz looting is not involved
PoliticsRe: Oyo APC: Confusion Over Sudden Disappearance Of Electoral Committee Members by crispus09(m): 7:56am On Oct 04, 2018
disappeared? I'm not understanding
PoliticsRe: Buhari Phones Leah Sharibu’s Mother, Says I’ll Do My Best by crispus09(m): 7:54am On Oct 04, 2018
wonderful
PoliticsRe: APC Expels Omo-agege, Asks Police, DSS To Arrest Him by crispus09(m): 7:54am On Oct 04, 2018
good
PoliticsRe: 2019: Fresh Crisis Brews In APC As Governors Set For Battle With Oshiomhole by crispus09(m):
Mark my words b4 Dec APC will scatter ,oshiomole is the undertaker
there should be a law to restrict anybody that was/has been hold any elective office,8years should be the limits of any polictical elective position in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Violence Mars PDP Reps/assembly Primaries In Rivers State by crispus09(m): 7:51am On Oct 04, 2018
politician and violence
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo, Oshiomhole Behind Ogun APC Crisis – Anisulowo by crispus09(m): 7:51am On Oct 04, 2018
this is really the time to point fingers
PoliticsRe: [BREAKING] APC Expels Senator Omo-agege With Immediate Effect by crispus09(m): 7:49am On Oct 04, 2018
after invading Senate for apc and snatching maze? wow interesting
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-olu Will Be Beaten Black And Blue, PDP Boasts by crispus09(m):
funny,
as much as I don't like tinubu monopoly in Lagos, PDP is not the party to make him lost it, tinubu is like this incredible robot that can only be destroy from inside and that's what am looking forward to.
RomanceRe: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by crispus09(m): 7:38am On Oct 04, 2018
geek4k:
I Need Help! I'm Emotionally Traumatized.

Hi guys!

It's quite a long read so I've tried make it as concise as possible..

I bet you'll enjoy every piece as you thumb through.

We've known each other for some time before i asked her out. She gave a "Yes" sometime on August 2014, which has practically made the relationship 4 years old.

At the earlier stage, we had great feelings towards each other, we where literally submerged in love, did stupid and childish things together. Y'al know what love turns one into nah.

We where practicing a distance relationship. Same city, although just a 45min road trip kept us apart ~ we never denied visiting each other as we often did. thanks to 2go and what'sapp.

Time past, amidst the minor quarrels we had a greater reason to remain put, we grew stronger in love ~ i bet we had the best teenaged age. Got to a point we believed we where both destined for each other i was even prepared to tie the knot if only nature treated my pocket right.

All the while, we never had any bed intimacy only kisses and bla bla... Not until sometime 2017 when i went in. Arrghh! Very awkward i must say, just try to imagine where 2 novices are trying to make something of it. All through the session i was just looking for my way in.

The subsequent attempts after taking several xx video tutorials was fairly good NOT GREAT because she had a very bad sex beginning; a rape victim to be precise and that experience corrupted alot in her sex life. You don't want me to go into details, I hate to too.

[b]Note: [/b]She is a very brilliant girl who got great personality, more reason i loved her wholeheartedly. The not-too-great sex paragraphs isn't made to sabotage her memory but because it's a cornerstone of my ordeal with her.

Heads up guys! She started having issues with the sex experience thing. Not because it wasn't SO GREAT but because it makes her backslide from her faith. Ohh didn't i mention? She's from a very strong Christian home.

I guess the devil took its chances on us, never wondered why it took so long before her realization. Now she's trying to be that born again kind of person again. Guys! I'm sure you know what that means.

The privileges i used to enjoy as a boyfriend where all ripped away not even a kiss or bla bla to manage almost drove me into maturating. Not just that, this is also garnished with some funny acts, not having my time et all. On my end it seems she utterly turned her back against me.

The whole quarrels erupted and all made me look myself like a devil trying to deviate God's child. I on the other end I'm just a lover boy trying to fight back for his feelings.

Things deteriorated, we hardly talk and even if we do wouldn't last more than a minute, all the while i was just drowning in sadness and heartbreak.

I still remember when we broke up our sexual relationship and remained good casual friends. My mind chose to cut any connections with her but my heart said otherwise. I couldn't cut it down, the imaginations of never seeing her again dreaded me even.

Bluntly speaking. I'm very emotionally sensitive with dealings with her. My happiness depends hugely on her, hence, any unfair act she gives set my heart ablaze. that's exaggerated though, but it's just as bad as that. Every now and then I'm always emotionally traumatized and this has bad effects on me.

My Regrets?
I wouldn't blame myself much because i was inexperienced and naive when our feelings was blossoming, I let loose my 100% heart commitment and now the consequences is just as fatal.

If i had known and took precautions earlier I'd have moved on with my life by now. But unfortunately, the reverse is just the case here.

Back to the present.
I've discovered that even the casual friendship hurts me. I mean Yes! No sex, no kisses i get it! I don't just get a dedication from her, no special moments everything is just as boring AF and this disgusts me.

This is where your I need advise.
Respective of the fact I'm still emotionally attached to her, I've accepted my faith of letting her go the issue now is doing this practically. It's just too difficult for me to handle.

Beside this, i feel we might later need each others help one way or another as we're both distant learners in same institution.

The feeling of not seeing her ever again dreads me alot whilst i doubt I'm capable of moving on if i don't cut her completely of my life.

Sometimes I feel the cause of this crazy feelings is because she deflower me. I don't just know why it's this much.

[b]Note.[/b]It might sound to you that she stopped loving me or never had feelings for me. But the fact is she's too very in love with me all along even till now. Her faith is just strong and nothing can supersede it.

Insults are welcome. But first understand its usefulness her before you waste that effort.

What do you think i should do guys?
OP you will be able to move on without her when she evetually tell you its over. I have exact same experience you re having now from 09-14 when i was in uni but do you know wha? I thank God she left coz I owu have commit suicide .
PoliticsRe: 2019 Polls: Don’t Return Thieves To Power, APC Warns(The Nation) by crispus09(m): 9:42am On Sep 17, 2018
all 're thieves
PoliticsRe: Army Ordering Cyclist To Push Their Bike Accross Checkpoint by crispus09(m): 9:33am On Sep 17, 2018
onyfrank:
plateau is a war zone. We are not at war here
lols, well I agree but this is just a grooming up buhari has made boys to carry arms again
with what am seen around recently is like every body is preparing for full blown war that will be soon decleard on hausa/fulani people, berom are not afraid to die o have gotten my own kala to just dey wait for order and started showering bullet on them 1st class and born to rule immigrants.
PoliticsRe: EFCC, Ignores Kemi Adeosun, Place Fayose On Political Watch List by crispus09(m): 9:28am On Sep 17, 2018
efcc done turn political party
PoliticsRe: FG Orders Mining Companies To Obtain Community Development Agreement by crispus09(m): 9:28am On Sep 17, 2018
good one, this is an ovation achievement for buhari again. zombies will soon start to dey leek bubu shit now
PoliticsRe: Checkout The Hilarious Inscription On This Car by crispus09(m): 9:26am On Sep 17, 2018
funny
PoliticsRe: See How Atiku Finished Professor Osibanjo by crispus09(m): 9:18am On Sep 17, 2018
peteregwu:
INTELLIGENCE: ALHAJI DEFEATS PROFESSOR:
. Highlighted by Achike Chudy

'If the Vice President cannot see that losing 7.9 million jobs in 21 months while creating 500,000 jobs is a deficit, then I do not know what to say to the professor.
Prof. Osinbajo also harps on “prudence in public finance”, but he fails to show the wisdom in sharing out $322 million of Abacha funds only to take a loan of $328 million from the Chinese the next month. Many Nigerians, myself included, see this as imprudence.
.... My response to Vice President Osinbajo is that while I was Vice President in 2006, Nigeria’s Economic Management Team, paid off Nigeria’s entire foreign debt of $30 billion, at a time when we were earning one third of what the Buhari administration is currently earning from oil." - Alhaji Atiku to Prof Osinbajo. grin
smarkdown, this is very intelligent response, this is skull breaker
in rekardoo bank voice , response wey dey burst brain
Christianity EtcRe: Stephen Oni: Buhari Should Not Contest 2019 Election - Says Anglican Bishop by crispus09(m): 9:15am On Sep 17, 2018
Beress:
2019 is truly going to be an interesting year.

For now,

South East = 85% PDP
South South = 80% PDP
North Central = 60%
North East = 45% PDP (and still counting)
North West = 40% PDP
South West = 50%

Argue with your ancestors
you might be correct no need for arguments
Christianity EtcRe: Stephen Oni: Buhari Should Not Contest 2019 Election - Says Anglican Bishop by crispus09(m): 9:14am On Sep 17, 2018
itbis his constitutional right, i want him to contest so that his disgraceful exit might be historical.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Students Demand Arrest Of Kemi Adeosun Over NYSC Certificate Forgery by crispus09(m): 9:12am On Sep 17, 2018
lols,politic
PoliticsRe: Is Nigeria A Lawless Country?: Getting, The Missing Links Straight by crispus09(m): 9:11am On Sep 17, 2018
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PoliticsRe: No Reasonable Northerner Will Oppose Restructuring – Bafarawa by crispus09(m): 9:10am On Sep 17, 2018
nairalaila:
Attahiru Bafarawa, a Peoples Democratic Party presidential aspirant who spoke during a meeting with Southern and Middle Belt Leaders Forum in Abuja on Sunday, stated that the only way to develop and move the nation forward is through the restructuring of the polity.

The former Sokoto State governor who noted that the nation would have passed the stage it was if the political leaders had listened to the counsels of the SMBLF members at the parley, who included Pan-Niger Delta Forum leader, Chief Edwin Clark; Afenifere chieftain, Chief Ayo Adebanjo; President-General of Ohanaeze, Chief John Nwodo;  Middle Belt Forum President, Dr Bitrus Pogu, and a host of others, stated that no rational northerner would oppose the restructuring of the country.

https://lailasnews.com/no-reasonable-northerner-will-oppose-restructuring-bafarawa/

Lalasticlala
it's obviously buhari is not reasonable

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