MaXiK:
Good day Nairalanders!!

Please I need your advice. My current girlfriend has all the good characters that perfectly defines a wife material plus she's a scholar and also a virgin (not particularly concerned about this anyway but to evince how disciplined she is) but sometimes she will look attractive to me and other times she will appear unattractive and I won't feel attracted to her at all. To clarify things, this changes has nothing to do with her dress sense neither my beholding senses but real changes in her facial appearance and allurement.

To be frank and sincere, she is just greatly above average in attractiveness but she's not stable in her look, she falls far below average occasionally. Also we're both dark in complexion and I will prefer my children to be lighter than I am, if not fair.

I have been trying to look beyond her look by focusing on other quality attributes she possess but the issue about her irregular look keep on fluctuating my feelings for her.

The crux of it is that I'm in my early thirties I need serious relationship; someone to build future with and finally get married to but here I am with someone that meet up with more than seventy percent of my requirements in my ideal wife but with unstable look that is threatening my feelings for her.

I am concerned about this because of some issues we consider trivial are still crashing marriages these days....

My questions:

How important is look in marriage?
Is it me that is making issue out of trivial matters because this lady is receiving a lot of relationship advances from people far better than I am and she's turning them down to maintain her commitment to our relationship?
Is there any possibility of stability in her look in the future considering that she's still in school?

Your genuine, mature and constructive advice is highly needed.

I will appreciate ones from those who have experienced what I'm currently going through.

Oga to be sincere with you, her looks will become worse when she starts giving birth. So if you are not ready to deal with the worse you better free her and who you think her look is stable

Babara1994:
So I was wooing this campus babe recently, I decided to see her one on one eventually. She told me she was going to meet me at one popular eatery instead of my place.

Having swallowed some redpills, I decided to teach her some lessons. I told her I'll be ready to buy her anything she orders for, and I'll be waiting inside the eatery.
She came this evening (8pm), all the way from her house, looking for me inside the eatery. Meanwhile I was at home eating my bread and butter.

When she got there, she told me she couldn't see me. I told her I was inside the next eatery, which was 150# from the first. Na so babe run go find me for that eatery.

When she could couldn't find me there, she became so angry and told me I had wasted her time before nko?

She went back home and sent series of VN to me, showing her anger. I then told her I had ordered for pizza and icecream already and I was waiting at the ATM area. Na so this babe carry okada dey find me

When she got there, I blocked her on WhatsApp immediately.

I'm currently on the next lady.

Her plan was to chop me, but I ended up chopping her money. Ladies, don't try to play smart with me. I'm a redpiller.

Sorry to disappoint you. This is not redpill I guess you are new to redpill maybe at the anger stage . This is pure foolishness

JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

It's simple, just pick up your phone and call the pastor, tell him you are not comfortable with the thing going on between him and your wife. That it's affecting your family and if he doesn't desist from it. You will take action that might not be favourable to him. You will see how he will free your woman.

2023NaijaVoter:


You seem to be plugged in. Did WM ever discuss any of his ex-girlfriends on the show? Does he even like p-word?

Is it a must that you must discuss about your ex, is that a criteria, is it all the housemates that discussed about their ex?

Wantedmiller:
I know....whitemoney picked Niyi because he left the house so early and won nothing. He wants to bridge the gap.

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

nenbeu:
good for them, but queen but queen see ya life

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

Joromi1:
Whitemoney is not gay. He just wanted a male company who will explore Dubai with him. Going with Queen wouldn't give him that freedom because she would want all the attentions for herself alone.

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

Starz825:

He probably might have chosen niyi because niyi was the first to leave the house...who didn't have the chance to compete in the house for any money making task

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

BKsoul:
as in ehh..... But the annoying thing is that the rumors will soon start spreading just like they have labelled every nigerian bachelor gay.....

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

chidonweb:
This is a betrayal.
Queen was the only lady that truly love and respect Whitney in the House

Queen and whitemoney with other few housemates will be going to Dubai for One African Festival or something like that, but NiYi didn't qualify to follow them so it's a wise choice since NiYi is his man. Taking Queen means she going to Dubai twice within a space if two months while NIYi gets nothing . So I think there is sense in his choice

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