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Beabeth:
My last relationship taught me that I am enough. I don't have to prove myself to a man or change myself for him. If he doesn't see my awesomeness, his loss, my gain, thank God, move on!!

My love life is not up for negotiations you are either going to love the hell out of me or leave me alone.

I am not responsible for fixing someone that has scars from their past. God is the super glue, and I am tape. It takes a deep healing from the inside. I am not responsible to act like God and be the glue.

I am worth more than the minimum and deserving of the very best! Whether that be affection, effort or otherwise. Demand that you be treated as such.

Trust the instincts God gave you. If something is fishy about that person.....it's fishy.

Value yourself. If he consistently makes you miserable, God could never have sent him to you. He was never the one. No matter how many signs you think you have or how many confirmations they claim to have or how many men of God see y'all together If he doesn't treat you like his own flesh, He's not God's promise to you...run and stop the cycle of deceit.

If he's not matching your efforts or putting in any effort it's one sided and you need to move on.

Never give so much of yourself to a person that you don't have anything left to give yourself when it's over. You can't pour from an empty cup.

When you love honestly there's nothing to regret. You can thank them for their time, the wonderful memories, and the lessons learned. Then gracefully move on with a clear conscience.

Expect the unexpected and never let someone walk over you. No matter how bad you want the relationship to work. Let them go if they want to leave!

Not everyone has the same heart as me. People will lie about their education, finances, upbringing, etc. just to be more appealing. You can't help insecure people who don't want to change. Insecure people will lie to be appealing. Inferiority complex is a deal breaker. A man, who's not concerned about his future, won't be concerned about yours and he's not going places.

When a person constantly points out all your faults and insecurities and blames you for his moods and everything that goes wrong in the relationship because they doing nothing wrong then it's not you, it's them.

Don't allow a person make you feel like all you do is make mistakes.

Don't forget that life is not a fairy tale. You must be with someone who has goals and know where he is going. Otherwise the two of you will fall down and will not have something to show forth.


http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/04/20-valuable-lessons-my-last.html

ToriBlue:
Why should he discontinue the marriage cos of ordinary salary issue? knowing fully well that most married women don't disclose their salary.



Its his work as the head of the family to cater for his family's need so he shouldn't be complaining.

youngest85:
Who is Anthony Joshua?

By the time klitschko finish with him, he won't remember his mother's name again

kinginvagina:
My babe is always there when I need but charge high for hair, make up etc. I don't know what to do, I don't want to lose her because I enjoy her vagina with any style but I can't save or plan for the future with her charges.

hizzylife:
Please my fellow Nairalanders, advice me accordingly.

I am a Batch A Corp member passing out soon. All these while I've been applying for jobs I saw here and on other platforms but my efforts have not yielded much fruits though I'm still hopeful.
However, I have two options I'm currently considering. One is that my PPA (a private secondary school) is willing to retain me for #22k per month with accommodation and secondly I have a job offer with an Indian company to work as a quality control officer for #25k/month.
Now my confusion is that though the Indian company is in my field but their working conditions are terrible. It entails that I work 7am-6pm, Monday -Saturday and live within the factory premises which means no visitors or free movement. But the school offers me time (I'll work 7:30am-3pm, Mon-Fri, free weekend midterm break and holiday) and freedom in case I want to improve myself in other areas.
Now should I choose the Indian company for the sake of experience or the school for the sake of time and freedom it offers?
Finally I studied food science and technology with additional qualifications in Project Management and HSE. I'm open for other job options.

tosyne2much:
Though, I may be ignorant of the features of other devices but I think it's Infinix sha

rem44:
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creed266:
thats why you always set a password in case of anything, think smart