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iammo:



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manontree:
This thing called relationship is deeper than folks know. I have long stopped assuming loyalty and fairplay is expected, even in committed relationships

A lady came in the other day to seek a D&C, because she doesnt want the danger of the husband ever finding out by accident the child isnt his

I have attended to a lady who needed an STI fix as she feared her husband would pick it up on his return from travel, and wonder where she got it.

These are people living an obviously affluent lives to suggest money isn't a factor

These are few instances where I am sure loyalty and fairness is far from the corpulent creed of nature. Humans are very manipulative, and the OP is hurt simply because he got to know of her deceit. He is even lucky she showed her disinterest in many other ways. In the real world, he would have no idea as she would be all loving, while doing worse behind his back and that is what most people here live with, happily, without a clue, even most of them writing on this topic

Like someone said, it is what it is. Don't expect loyalty and fairplay in a relationship, that when you get them, it's more like a bonus rather than the norm. There is a saying that what you don't know won't kill you

While this stat is equally both ways, I would expect that around 90% of women, when tested and when they feel it is safe to do so without being found out, would betray their partners, even in committed relationships. Its simply human nature. Sad but true

Sugar97:
This could be us but you neither have a beard nor a drone. Sigh...