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Many sick people have died without praying the prayer of repentance: even their loved ones never brought up the idea of praying for repentance. They probably helped with money, attention, care, concern, prayer for healing e.t.c, but never prayed the prayer of repentance.
While it is good to assist the sick with money, attention, care, concern, prayers for healing e.t.c where necessary, the first thing to do for a sick person is to pray with them, asking God for forgiveness of their sins. While you hope for their recovery, you also set them on the right part to eternal bliss in case of any eventualities.

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Kobojunkie:
Oh, now that women are finally fixing to embrace their polygamous side, your god wants all adultery to come to a stop? Abegi! 🥱🥱🥱

Feel free to do whatever you wish. Who is stopping you?

brain54:
I feel pity for anyone whose sole reason for marriage is virginity...

To marry only because of virginity is not a good. Someone can marry a very good wife that is not a virgin. The main thing is marrying the person in God's will, whether virgin or not. But it is still good to talk about maintaining virginity before marriage.

If many ladies of marriageable age were virgins, there may be rush by several men to marry them even if it may probably cost them.

If many ladies were virgins and still wanted to marry rich guys, several.guys may start working hard to be rich, with the aim of marrying a virgin lady.

Many ladies want to marry rich guys, but they are not virgins.

Guys should preserve ladies and not deflower them before marriage, and ladies should keep their virginity for marriage.

Guys should marry as virgins and ladies should marry as virgins.

If you are not a virgin, the past is gone, re-package yourself, stay pure and develop good values for marriage.

In 2026 and you want to marry a rich man? if yes, is it wrong for a man to want a virgin in 2026?

Did God remove hymen in 2026?

Someone said "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement".

Keep your virginity. It is better to give your virginity to a man that will pay your bride price and marry you, than to give it without value outside marriage.

If you marry as a virgin and your husband boast of you in public that he married you a virgin, won't you be happy?

Won't you love to tell youths and your children that you married a virgin?

Men and women should marry as virgins, not only women.

Good character is the best. We have non-virgins who have good character.

If you marry a good lady that was not a virgin, please treat her with love, care, attention and all the good you can.

Show deep love to your wife: whether you married her as virgin or not. Do not bring up her past in marriage.

Love your wife so much.

Several married men sleep with side chics and several ladies sleep with married men, but the society does not see it as so much evil as when a guy sleeps with a married woman or when a married woman is found sleeping with another man or guy. If a married man in a street is known for chasing ladies, the criticism may not be as much as when a married woman in same street is known for such......

Even married women may shame badly another married woman caught cheating. They may call her prostitute: but if it is a married man, it may not be so.

The truth is that all adultery are clear sins before God and God does not give any consideration to any.

Stop adultery today whether you are a married man or married woman.

Humility is not totally about being gentle, bowing down to greet, walking slowing, respecting people e.t.c, it is majorly giving glory to God for everything and not taking glory for your achievements. It is also about seeing yourself not superior to others, but as a person whom God has given grace to be whom you are?

Humility's end-point is in the heart. Your heart must be humble, why? Someone can act humbly and yet be proud in the heart that he or she is "humble". Being humble in the heart helps trigger actions and behaviours of humility.

I read of a lady that sex with her EX, probably few weeks to her wedding. The EX was AS and she was AS. The child she gave birth to in marriage was SS. She killed the baby. The EX disturbed her with their past sex, until she committed suicide. He probably had a video of it.

BEFORE SOME LADIES TALK OF MEN'S INFIDELITY AND MEN HAVING SIDE CHICKS IN MARRIAGE, THEY SHOULD CHECK THE EVIL SOME LADIES COMMIT BEFORE THE WEDDING DAY.

MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD NOT CHEAT.

There should be no ungodly tax plan. Where is the subsidy money? Didnt they remove subsidy?

If you are a genuine child of God; I don't mean noisy christians who think they are spiritual or anointed; I don't mean regular and committed church goers who are empty but can "vibrate"; I don't mean worldly christians who can pray "fireful" prayers; I don't mean backsliders. No genuine child of God plays worldly music in their wedding ceremony. They jubiliate and celebrate as it pleases God, not as the flesh wants it. They are under God's government.

It is not a good idea renaming universities, especially the ones that have built name & produced quality graduates over the years. Several or all top universities in the world still retain their names till today.

Below are the Disadvantages of Renaming Universities that have built name over time.

(1) Weakening of Certificate Power: A university whose certificate is respected may have its certificate lose power if such university is renamed. Graduates of such universities may have to tell employers the previous name of the university before they may have the past relevance.

(2) Mis-alignment of Certificate: The previous graduates of a university before its name was changed, may have challenges aligning with the new name, as their certificates have the previous name.

(3) Undue Explanation of Name: The issue of clarifying people about the university to make them understand it is the same university they know of may arise.

(4) Tampering of glory: Some universities have built name over time. Changing their names may reduce the way they shine. Again, they may have to pay prices to make the new university name stand out .

Please the changing of university names to new names should be done with caution, and universities that have built names should not have their university name changed.

None of the Exes of several single ladies may ever or has ever reconnected again with intention to marry these ladies. Even if these ladies desperately need husbands or joking bring up the idea of marriage to their Exes, such may idea may be diverted. Another thing is that some of these exes may not even be willing to reconnect for sex with these ladies while they have no suitor or fiance.

The issue here is that, when some of these ladies get fiance to marry & have a wedding date set, they may demand for good-bye sex from the Exes that never wanted to marry them. These Exes may sleep with them when they go to share wedding cards. These Exes may even bring up the idea of goodbye sex.

When a husband has side chics in marriage, it may be a consequence of the good bye sex the wife had before the wedding. Husbands have no excuse for cheating.

Let's say you went for an Occasion with all your heart, and during the time of serving food, it didnt reach you, but you kept hearing "relax, food will reach everyone": but till the meeting ended, you got nothing: can yoi bear it?

As a lady, do you have any thing special to give to your future husband that no man else has ever had? You may have multiple answers.

I got this question online.

Before the fall, God never said if Adam and Eve fought, quarreled, kept malice, insulted themselves e.t.c, He will punish them. He specifically said, they should not eat of the fruit of the forbidden tree.

The reason why sinners go to hell fire is because man himself chose hell fire by eating of the forbidden tree. Eating of the forbidden tree qualified man to start going to hell fire if he died in sin. Hell fire was not God's plan, but man initiated it. God told man that in the day he eats of the fruit of the forbidden tree, he shall die. That death also includes eternal death & possibly other meanings.

The offense of eating of the forbidden fruit was too heavy that Jesus Christ had to die to redeem man, making man to go to heaven by simply accept Jesus and repenting from sin.

God gains nothing when man goes to hell fire because the soul of man is lost. Man altered the system by himself and is now going to hell fire if he dies in sin.

Help yourself by accepting Jesus Christ and repenting from sin. Again, if you see anyone about to die, quickly tell them to accept Jesus and repent from sin.

How will you celebrate the Christmas?

One of the reasons why you should avoid pre-marital sex is because it can lead to perversion. Pre-marital sex may begin with "simple" kisses, then may graduate to romance, then may lead to loss of virginity. After loss of virginity, there may be withdrawal probably caused by guilt: then there may be continuity of sex.

The initial stage of pre-marital sex may sound like romantic love-making. It may look like a feeling of "bonding". One thing you should know about pre-marital sex is that if done continuously, it is likely to graduate into levels.

As people continue in pre-marital sex, perverse suggestions may spring up: simple sex may no longer satisfy & cravings for strange fulfilment may come up. These may include: anal sex, sexual fulfilment with bad person while on phone call with an innocent person, sex in strange places or public places, group sex, sexual perversions, sex in dirty places such as unclean toilet, sex with dirty people e.g. if a neat medical student with medicated glasses always enjoy sex with a muscular and very street thug, sex with dogs or other animals, lesbianism, homosexuality, always craving for sex with people who have boyfriend of girlfriend, lust to sleep with pregnant married women, craving for sex with those whose wedding date is close e.t.c.

Avoid pre-marital sex!

Please would we have more depressed people in this era if there was no social media or has social media contributed more in depressing people?

Jesus created the whole world, He owns the whole world and He owns the igbos. All igbos must serve Him and anyone following gods or worshipping ancestors should abandon it now and follow only Jesus Christ.

Happy Sunday

Good character is better than virginity without character, and we have several good wives that married as non-virgins.

One good thing with being a virgin, especially a virgin lady is that it might make suitors rush in wanting to marry you. It might also make you look very special and respected. If you are beautiful and a virgin, a suitor may be willing to pay an expensive bride price to marry you. A bachelor that is a billionaire may rush to marry you.

If you are still a virgin, preserve it. You are special.

Do you have a partner that beats you always and later buys you gifts or spoil you with good things? Do you have a partner that cheats and shows remorse when caught? Do you have a partner that is toxic sometimes and very friendly sometimes? I want to tell you that the nice time your partner shows you after red flags does not destroy the red flag.

If you notice some terrible attitude of your partner that occurs especially on different occasions, do not be carried away by the beautiful times that her or she may give. You may see hell if you marry such a person.

It is better to accept Jesus today and repent.

I tell you the sincerest truth: all those you know who have died are either in heaven or hell. There is no temporary place of repentance people go to when they die, and no prayers can take a dead person who died in sin to heaven.

The best you can offer a person that is about to die is to lead them into accepting Jesus Christ and repenting of their sins. if you have a sick or hospitalized relative, friend, family member or anyone that is about to die, the first thing to do for them is to tell them to accept Jesus Christ and repent of their sins. Praying for them when they are already dead is a very useless prayer.

Today is a beautiful day, it is a time to accept Jesus Christ and repent of all your sins. Again, looking at what is going around, the insecurities etc, it is important to be prepared for eternity.

Hebrew 9:27 "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgement"

If guys say "who will marry ladies that are not virgins"?Will you like it??

Samantha125:
So basically what you're saying is that ladies married as virgins in Nigeria can easily cheat and get away with it as their husbands wouldn't be suspecting them of being capable of such behaviour?

Let me tell you something, I wasn't married a virgin, and I know many people may not believe this, but my husband is the only man that I've been intimately involved with and guess what? Whenever I see a delicious looking man out there, I can't help but sometimes wonder what he tastes like, if the experience would be different from the one with my husband and etc.

I constantly have to keep fighting those thoughts in my head.

It is good your husband is the only man you intimately involve yourself with. Please enjoy and preserve your marriage. We have good and faithful ladies that didn't marry as virgins, but they are good wives.

Samantha125:
Those virgins would lose their virginity after marriage and seek to explore with other men, especially if their husbands were working far from home.

The only difference is that there was no social media to expose their shenanigans.

Even till today, virgins may likely be more faithful than ladies who have slept with different guys before marriage. Do you think it is easy to sleep around and then face only one man in marriage? It possible anyway. But a virgin is not used to varieties.

Samantha125:
What do you then have to say about my grandfather's second wife?💀💀💀

Let's talk about the general situation at that time. Women were not as loose as today, though they were bad ones, but they also had many virgins. Marriages lasted more those days than today.

Samantha125:
Did those virgins stay virgins even after they got married? Because getting married as a virgin doesn't mean you'll be incapable of having affairs, unless if their husbands monitored their every move when they went out....People have been having affairs even during the stone age.

My grandfather's second wife cheated on him not once, but twice while he was away working and she got pregnant in both occasions, this was somewhere in the 60s.

A virgin lady has chances of staying faithful than a lady who has had sex with various men before marriage.

Today, even before marriage, some ladies will have sex with Ex few days, weeks or months to wedding day. But if a virgin it may not be so.

Samantha125:
Keep doing those paternity DNAs and you'll keep finding what you're looking for, the reason why there was no such a thing in the olden days is because there was no such a thing as paternity DNA.

And many of you complaining about paternity fraud are also products of paternity fraud but don't know it.

We had many virgins those days. There was no social media, no much hookup as today, better morality e.t.c.

A large family may have planned the best in transferring good heritage to the next children, grand children e.t.c. This could be a plan within the family to sustain its glory or whatever good they may have. It could be kingship, lands, properties, skills, blessings e.t.c. But paternity fraud can divert this to another lineage.

You may just imagine a large family that has planned to give great blessings to first sons and first daughters for good continuity, not knowing that about 10 of the first sons and first daughters are from Exes of their wives, while some of the second sons and second daughters are the true first sons and first daughters.

If paternity fraud rises, we may have very distorted or scattered generation.