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CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji At Rita Dominic's 50th Birthday & The Bond They Share (video) by cutecommend: 12:54pm On Aug 02, 2025
MBAISE GIRLS.

THESE ARE FINE LADIES FROM MBAISE.

GENEVIVE IS WAS A GOOD ACTRESS. DON'T KNOW IF SHE IS STILL INTO MOVIES.
RomanceRe: Before You Lose Your Virginity, Remember This by cutecommend(op): 12:25am On Aug 01, 2025
columbus007:
Whether virgin or no virgin oga a you go still taya.
Virginity is good.
RomanceBefore You Lose Your Virginity, Remember This by cutecommend(op): 9:46pm On Jul 31, 2025
Someone Said: A Virgin Can Become a Non-Virgin, but a Non-Virgin Cannot Become a Virgin.

Another Said: "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement"..

RomanceCan You Stay In A Relationship For Five Years Without Cheating Sexually? by cutecommend(op): 7:58pm On Jul 29, 2025
Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

RomanceRe: David Married Multiple Women And Killed Many People Is He Going To Hell? by cutecommend: 2:08pm On Jul 27, 2025
bigpriik:
David killed thousands in the bible including his own soldiers because of women ,he even married many women against the Christian law is he going to hell too?
If an evil man repents and God forgives him, will he still go to hell?
Christianity EtcRe: What True Revival Means in Christianity. by cutecommend(op): 8:43am On Jul 27, 2025
cutecommend:
You may have heard about revival currently, but the revival may not be the real one. Revival is not about shouting on social media, singing to God while dressed as a worldly musician, speaking in tongues always yet cannot resist malpractice, corruption, immorality; criticizing other Christians for their mistakes or shortcomings, praising yourself of how prayerful and committed you are, guys wearing earrings or plaiting hair and probably claiming to be end-time revivalists, worldliness e.t.c.........

What is Revival? Revival is a deliberate action in the things of God, marked by true repentance, deep humility, love, fastings, prayers, study of God's word, focus on the cross of Jesus Christ with more emphasis on the fruits of the Spirit, righteousness, holiness, rapture, heaven and deep affection on the things of heaven.

Any current trend of revival marked with gimmicks, worldliness, much criticism of other Christians, focus on only financial breakthrough, diluted gospel e.t.c, is not the original revival.
It is good to do the right things in God. God wants revival.
Christianity EtcWhat True Revival Means in Christianity. by cutecommend(op):
You may have heard about revival currently, but the revival may not be the real one. Revival is not about shouting on social media, singing to God while dressed as a worldly musician, speaking in tongues always yet cannot resist malpractice, corruption, immorality, sin; always criticizing other Christians for their mistakes or shortcomings, praising yourself of how prayerful and committed you are, guys wearing earrings or plaiting hair and probably claiming to be end-time revivalists, worldliness e.t.c.........

What is Revival? Revival is a deliberate action in the things of God, marked by true repentance, deep humility, love, fastings, prayers, study of God's word, focus on the cross of Jesus Christ with more emphasis on the fruits of the Spirit, righteousness, holiness, Holyghost power, evangelism, rapture, heaven and deep affection on the things of heaven.

Any current trend of revival marked with gimmicks, worldliness, much criticism of other Christians, focus on only financial breakthrough, diluted gospel e.t.c, is not the original revival.
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Do I Stop Caring About What People Say About Me by cutecommend: 5:22pm On Jul 26, 2025
By doing what is right in a polite way where necessary, and not bothering about who is offended after that.
EducationRe: Top 5 Secondary Schools In Abuja by cutecommend: 4:45pm On Jul 26, 2025
Good schools are good.
RomanceRe: What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today. by cutecommend(op): 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2025
Unseen:
According to you OP



So you're saying that it takes 4 years for HIV to manifest in a healthy body but the same healthy body will not resist ordinary malaria in weeks.

The level of brainwashing they have done with this HIV is superb
Read the whole points again and be cautious of consequences.
RomanceRe: What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today. by cutecommend(op): 4:43pm On Jul 26, 2025
HEAVEN4444:
What's wrong with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow ? Hmm
It is not bad, but not good for someone that should be a billionaire.
RomanceRe: What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today. by cutecommend(op): 4:42pm On Jul 26, 2025
Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.
Hope you are not trying to console yourself. Avoid sexual consequences.
RomanceWhat Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today. by cutecommend(op): 11:50am On Jul 26, 2025
One dangerous consequences of wrong sex is its impact when you may have forgotten about the past escapade or event.
These are consequences that may occur because of old-time wrong sex.

(1) Chaos in Happy Moments: A loving family that have enjoyed lots of peace and love, may go into sorrow probably because a good wife slept with her EX few days to wedding and the first child who is now 10 years, failed paternity test that was demanded during Visa process.

(2) Bad Luck: Someone may sleep with a married woman and feel no consequences for 7 years, then from the 8th year, he may never pass a level again in his career and finance except God intervenes. He may just continue and end life with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow.

(3) Marital Rejection: A young beautiful lady may having plenty suitors in her marriage, but if she sleeps with a fetish yahoo boy, occultic man, ritualist, she may never marry again. She may just date throughout her life or end as baby mama.

(4) Fertility Issue: A guy in his early 20's who slept with an evil lady may have his sperm and semen damaged. It may be that his condom with sperm in it was used for rituals.
Now, when such a guy marries in his 30s, he may not be able to impregnate a lady.

(5) Sexually Transmitted Diseases: A healthy lady, fair and curvy lady may have a fling with a healthy-looking muscular gym instructor who is hiv positive. She may see the whole thing as a healthy sex, but in 4 years time when she goes for medical check as preparation process for her wedding, she may discover she has hiv.

(6) Replacement of Divine Position: A decent lady who has been marked by God to be the wife of a great church Founder, President, Governor e.t.c, may see herself marrying an "ordinary" man because she had sex and lost her virginity to an occultic man who took her destiny, glory and stars.
What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

EducationIs Education Still The Key To A Nations Growth And Development? by cutecommend(op): 7:27pm On Jul 25, 2025
It is only a failing or failed nation that does not have education as its key. If you go to USA, GERMANY, CANADA, UK, CHINA e.t.c, It is education that drives them mainly and with the help of God: that is why you see technology and other forms of advancement tied to education in those countries.

If you go to USA, it has plenty companies and organizations whose foundation came from education.

Any country where people downplay education and hail those who have money without national impact is a failed or failing nation.

One sign of a successful country is it having good education where people study well and impact the nation with tangible development.

Finally, education can be formal and informal.
RomanceMarriage Is An Achievement If The Right Person Marries The Right Person by cutecommend(op): 1:21pm On Jul 25, 2025
One problem related to marriage today is too many wrong people "willing" to marry. There are several marriages where two wrong people married or one right person is being married to a wrong person.

If God helps a good person who has worthy character to marry another right person, then marriage is an achievement.

The right person is:
(1) The one who fears God
(2) The one who loves you and wants to stay with you whether you are too nice and too good.
(3) The one that does not leave a peaceful home to get adventure with toxicity.
(4) The one with good and quality character.
(5) The one who is faithful, loyal and truthful.
e.t.c.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by cutecommend(op): 1:11pm On Jul 25, 2025
cutecommend:
Imo state has several fine ladies anyway.
Yah. Anambra has many fine ladies also.

On the Eastern part, many Igbo ladies are fine.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by cutecommend(op): 11:37am On Jul 25, 2025
9japride:
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Anambra is a nice place. Imo state higher institutional areas has a high concentration of beautiful ladies.
Imo state has several fine ladies anyway.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by cutecommend(op): 11:31am On Jul 25, 2025
9japride:
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Yes, I schooled briefly in Imo state and majority of the students then in various departments were mostly Mbaise people.
Really? I did my university in Anambra.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by cutecommend(op): 7:55am On Jul 25, 2025
9japride:
The thing I know about Mbaise people is that they too like book. Nice one.
Really?
RomanceRe: Bad Smell May End Relationship Or Kill Sex In Marriage by cutecommend(op): 7:52am On Jul 25, 2025
cutecommend:
Horrible smell from the private part may be the reason some men have not had sex with their wives for long, and if so, the women may think the man is cheating or maybe she needs to submit, honour and respect him more for attention.

If you submit, honour and respect your husband while with a horrible smell on your public region, it may affect sex. Even a one-time horrible smell may affect his psychological perspective of sex with you.

For singles and married, both male and female, be sensitive to know if you have any persistent bad odour around you, and whenever there is a strange smell around you, withdraw from your partner and clean up.

Note: Bad smell might make a mess of the good character you may have.
TravelRe: Is There Any Place In This World Where People Live That Is Not A Country? by cutecommend: 3:28pm On Jul 22, 2025
40 Characters may be okay for first page.
RomanceThat "Shy" Guy May Not Just Like You, Do Not Confuse It For Lack of Confidence. by cutecommend(op): 12:59pm On Jul 22, 2025
The guy you feel is shy to toast you may not just like you. You may think he is shy or lacks confidence, but he may truly not want you for a relationship.
RomanceIs This Statement True About Ladies. by cutecommend(op): 10:19am On Jul 22, 2025
This is not totally true, but there may be some truth here.

Please provide your contributions.

RomanceWhy Sexual Compatibility Test Is Not Needed Before Marriage. by cutecommend(op): 10:09am On Jul 18, 2025
The original design for sex is for two inexperienced people who are sexually active to marry and begin to explore themselves sexually according to their own taste, and not to over-stretch themselves with sexual activities outside the sexual contentment needed in their marriage.

Sexual fulfilment in marriage is for two couples to have sex, feel satisfied and happy, no matter how others feel such sex is boring or without much exploration.

The reason why some people go for sexual compatibility may be because of the body count they have, porn watched regularly, the various sizes of genitals tested, and the various wild skills acquired. If these never happened, they may be not go for sexual compatibility test.

Before marriage, there should be no sex, but there should be a form of evaluation, interview, check to know that a partner is okay sexually.
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid Celebrates His 35th Birthday Today by cutecommend: 8:54am On Jul 16, 2025
Happy birthday to you. May God keep you and show you the way of salvation in Jesus name. Amen
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by cutecommend(op): 11:39am On Jul 15, 2025
Joelobioha:
I don't mean any harm but these ladies u post aren't pretty at all..I mean 90% of their beauty can be removed with a tissue..u wan see real natural beauty enter north.. smiley
God created us in His Image.
RomanceBad Smell May End Relationship Or Kill Sex In Marriage by cutecommend(op):
Horrible smell from the private part may be the reason some men have not had sex with their wives for long, and if so, the women may think the man is cheating or maybe she needs to submit, honour and respect him more for attention.

If you submit, honour and respect your husband while with a horrible smell on your public region, it may affect sex. Even a one-time horrible smell may affect his psychological perspective of sex with you.

For singles and married, both male and female, be sensitive to know if you have any persistent bad odour around you, and whenever there is a strange smell around you, withdraw from your partner and clean up.

Note: Bad smell might make a mess of the good character you may have.
RomanceSometimes When God Breaks Your Addiction, You May Not Be Aware by cutecommend(op): 5:49pm On Jul 13, 2025
You may have noticed that at some points in life, you lost appetite to a certain addiction, but you probably felt you were not just in the mood for it at that period. This addiction could be fornication, betting, smoking, masturbation, drinking, lesbianism, visiting prostitutes, watching porn e.t.c.

Sometimes when you are not in the mood for an addiction, it may be God who has brought your freedom, but you need to be sensitive enough to continue and engage in things that will make you continuously not be in the mood for such addiction. You need to cut off wrong things too. If you do not take this serious, you may still go back to things that can stir appetite for the addiction, even when the appetite is not there: and from there, the appetite may come back. And when the appetite comes back, it becomes "war".

Lesson: When you loose appetite for an addiction for a period of time, do not see it as mere "not being in the mood". It may be God who has offered you grace to be free.

I got part of this as a message from someone.
Christianity EtcRe: 4 Nigerian Pastors Whose Marriages Crashed by cutecommend: 9:02am On Jul 13, 2025
Pray for your marriage always and all times. It is good
Christianity EtcWhat Sexual Immorality Has Caused In The Life Of Many. by cutecommend(op): 8:39am On Jul 13, 2025
The pleasure of sexual immorality may seem so "fantastic"; but sexual immorality can lead to destruction.

Consequences of Sexual Immorality.

(1) Addiction: A decent virgin can become a nymphomaniac or sex addict if she continuously sleeps with someone addicted to prostitutes.

(2) Loss of Glory: A lady destined to be a "Mummy G.O", President's wife, Billionaire's wife may become low in life if she sleeps with an occultic man, yahoo boy e.t.c.

(3) Inability to Rise Spiritually: A Christian brother who slept with a marine agent may find it difficult to rise spiritually.

(4) Sex Soul-tie: This might make someone who is already married, go back to their past sexual partners for sex.

(5) Diseases: Several good-looking people are infected with diseases from sex.

(6) Low-self Esteem: It can make someone feel low, ashamed e.t.c, when such person come to a gathering of decent people.

(7) Loss of Virginity: Someone said "when the gift is open before its time, no excitement".

(cool Loss of Kingship: It can make a leader to be replaced.

(9) Diversion of Opportunities: Sexual immorality might cause breakthroughs, opportunities, marital chance e.t.c to be diverted.

(10) Unwanted Pregnancy: It causes people to have children outside wedlock.

(11) Fertility Issues: It may cause issues on fertility.

(12) Transfer of Curses: Sleeping with a cursed person may cause transfer of curses. Sleeping with a married person may bring curses.
FamilyRe: How To Know That Your Parents Failed Or Never Loved You From Day 1 by cutecommend: 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2025
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RomanceRe: Understanding Wives Are Suffering, Wicked Wives Are Enjoying. by cutecommend: 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2025
If you have a good marriage, please keep it and value the spouse giving you peace.

It is not wise to look for wrong adventure after peace.

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