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Follow Jesus genuinely in these times.

We have genuine men of God, backslidden clergies, false pastors & prophets, occultic pastors e.t.c. In this end-time, you need to be very sure if the pastor or set man over your church is truly serving God and not occultic powers e.t.c.

As sincere, innocent and genuine as a Christian may be, if they are serving or worshipping in an occultic church that they are not even aware of, they are directly or indirectly serving or worshipping satan. So it is not about being excited in church, but being sensitive to know what spirit rules that church.

Be cautious how you say "the God of my Pastor" e.t.c. If your pastor serves a demon, connecting to the god of your pastor then means connecting to the demon he or she serves.

Do you currently allow your partner check your phone freely and do you check their phones freely?

If you are not married to a person, they may have tangible reasons not to let you check their phones. It may not be that they are unfaithful. It may be that their phone or phones have some business deals they want private, family information that needs to be kept private e.t.c. But there should be a level of access to your partner's phone if possible.

For those who are married. Firstly, it is good to marry someone you can trust; and if you trust someone and they trust, you both should be free to check your phones in marriage.

Check your partner's phone sometimes.

Is it okay to marry from the same family your sibling married from? It may be the brother or sister to your brother's wife or your sister's husband. It may also be the relative to brother's wife or your sister's husband.

Truly, we have good ladies that are non-virgins, and they are good wife materials. They probably lost their virginity due to immaturity, ignorance, lack of guidance, emotions, lack of wisdom e.t.c. But if you give them another chance, they may be the best virgins you will see.

If you meet a good lady that is faithful, loving, kind and generally good, though not a virgin: go for her if you are sure God is leading you. Marry her and build a very beautiful family.

Firstly, the guy that may be bugging you, shaming you or harassing you because you are a VIRGIN above 25, is not a good person. If he pressures you for sex and you allow him deflower you, he may find another lady who is a VIRGIN to marry.

A VIRGIN below or above 25 years is a "Lamborghini", a Diamond and Precious stone.

Again, do not let ladies who sleep around or who are not morally upright to shame you that you are still a VIRGIN above 25. Generally, VIRGIN ladies are one of the most marketable set of ladies in the marriage market.

There is no place where Almighty God applauded people for losing their virginity to pre-marital sex, before or after 25 years.

If you are still a VIRGIN lady or guy, keep your VIRGINITY till you marry. If you are a NON-VIRGIN who is morally upright and sexually pure, keep it up and continue with such sexual purity.

We have various fine pictures on social media. But from your experience, what was the difference with people you met on social media and when you met them physically?

Those days of lower technology, I.T e.t.c, and these days of great technological advancements, which is sweeter and more peaceful?

Many people are in hellfire. Even some people you know or heard of are in hellfire. They are burning and burning, crying and crying. We that are alive are just too lucky that we have chance to repent.

Truly, it is better to be a "gate man" in heaven that to go the hellfire.

Accept Jesus and repent today. Beg God! Beg God!! that He will give you grace to make heaven.

Follow God and dont idolize church.

God will give no one any special preference in eternity because he or she was offended by a Pastor, Church e.t.c, and abandoned God.

The model we are to follow is Jesus Christ and what is in the Bible. We are not to idolize any churh or clergy, and if any church, clergy, pastor e.t.c offend you so badly, you may leave such place, you may pray to God for direction on which other branch or church to go. You are not to leave God because a church or pastor offended you; and if any church or clergy is leading you to hell, instantly cut off.

Do not miss heaven because a church, clergy, church elder e.t.c offended you.

Will you respect the choice of your Fiance or Fiancee if they insist that none of your Exes should come for the wedding of you guys? Now for several ladies who like to have a "show" wedding, will you agree if your Fiance say none of your Exes should come the wedding of you guys. Maybe if he is feeling uneasy because of the past. Will you also agree if he tells you not to give any of your Exes wedding card in private places?

Do you want to waste your beauty, youthfulness, elegance, vibrance, life and years in a wrong relationship that will not lead you to marriage? You may have heard or read of ladies who dated their partners for several years, aborted for them, yet their partners quickly married someone else. Maybe the whole marriage process with the new partner did not take more than 3 months.

You cannot afford to waste your precious life because of emotions and feelings; on a person that will dump you later, when you are not looking young anymore.

Be not afraid! Whenever you are in a relationship with the hope of you getting married, try to have a trusted counsellor or elder to talk to, put a good timeline for yourself on that relationship, and leave if the relationship has no promising headway to marriage. Again, if you leave a relationship where you have been used, despised and dumped; and someone responsible finds and decides to marry you, do not go back for sex with your EX that used, despised and dumped you. It is unwise making mockery of a responsible person that wants to marry you.

As regards getting married, generally, ladies do not have luxury of time the way guys do.

This may be true, but several people do not trust the system.

It was a relationship of ups and downs between Felicia and Gilbert. They spent 5 years dating and struggled to be faithful to each other: but they did not cheat physically with anyone. There were times Gilbert was on chats and calls with other girls, same with Felicia. Felicia had times where she would enter the car lift of rich guys, hang out in beaches with toasters and lots more; but in all, she vehemently resisted all forms of sex. If it begins to escalate, she will cut off.

Felicia went for NYSC and was posted to Obudu in Calabar, while Gilbert worked in a private firm in Abuja. Gilbert earned cool cash of 250,000 Naira and had planned to have a simple future with Felicia first, pending when He probably becomes a multi-millionaire.

In Felicia's PPA, she had several temptations to cheat. She had times where she slept in the room of several male Corp members and was tempted to satisfy her lust. She even had the thought of cheating and later apologizing; but her spirit resisted it. She almost had affair with a guy called Collins, but she narrowly escaped. Collins was tall, dark and handsome.

Gilbert on the other side was pressured in Abuja. He had the thought of booking any hookup lady online to satisfy himself, but He held on. There were times He assumed Felicia was having sexual affair and wanted to end the relationship, but He considered the past, how Felicia resisted some guys. Though He was shaky about trust, He encourage himself, looking at the bright side of Felicia.

Luckily, Felicia passed out from NYSC without having sex with anyone. She united with Gilbert in Abuja. They were not actually living together. She stayed with her Parents while Gilbert stayed alone. They had not had sex together because Felicia wanted a non-sex relationship. Though they had done two body romance. They opened up to their mentor and told God to forgive them, that they would not do such again. They actually never did such again.

Felicia had her past relationships. She was not a virgin, but a responsible lady with good conscience. This had been proven by Gilbert at different times. This made him not to bother about her virginity. Again, Felicia does not lie. Gilbert had tested Felicia 17 times, even using other people; but Felicia overcame all. Felicia was more truthful and honest that Gilbert, but Gilbert did not have same integrity as Felicia.

Two months after Felicia passed out, Gilbert proposed marriage and immediately followed up for introduction. Their Parents knew about the relationship, so it was not difficult to handle. The introduction was done and traditional wedding was slated for the next month.

The devil came for Felicia again. Felicia decided to register in a gym so that she could look appealing on her traditional and white wedding day. Note, she had already made up her mind not to follow the way of some ladies who slept with their EXes, days or weeks or months to their wedding day. That temptation was already dead to her: but she did not know the devil wanted to set a trap through the gym.

A special gym instructor was assigned to Felicia in the gym. His name was Magnus. Magnus appeared polite, kind, caring, patient and all. These were not always real but was used sometimes as His tools for deception. He was there for Felicia and in three weeks, Felicia began to see great body change. Her shape became good, her tummy was trimmed, and she looked even younger. She always appreciated Magnus because of his impact. This led to frequent calls, check-ups via phone, open hang outs etc.

One evening: I will call it the devils day. Magnus was on a walk with Felicia after the gym. Felicia told him about her forthcoming wedding. The "devil" in magnus whispered to him to take his opportunity for sex. Magnus was scared but courageously told Felicia to come to his house at least for once. She hesitated first but took it as an innocent request and followed Magnus home. Magnus stayed in a room and parlor. When they got in, Felicia was so tired that she lay down on his cushion chair. Magnus asked if she needed water or juice, but she said no. He courageously came close to her and was encouraging her to continue in the gym. In about 3 minutes, Magnus was touching Felicia's hand and hair. She was lost and did not push his hand away. He requested to get a condom and Felicia could not resist. Suddenly, a call came from Gilbert. That call really saved a lot. Immediately the call came, Felicia walked out of Magnus house, picked the call and was heading straight to her house. She never visited the gym again.

The wedding between Gilbert and Felicia was all successful, they now have three children. And they have been married and faithful to each other for over 15 years. Felicia gives other men zero tolerance for any unhealthy or suspicious conversation or communication. She sticked to Gilbert and Gilbert sticked to her. They love themselves so much. They are wealthy and also sponsoring 12 orphanages.

You can have a beautiful marriage.

#Fiction.

PLEASE TELL HER TO DO THESE IN TWO WEEKS (MARATHON).

(1) SHE SHOULD DRINK ONLY HOT OR SEMI-HOT WATER FOR TWO WEEKS.

(2) SHE SHOULD TAKE 85 PERCENT OF VEGETABLES IN ALL HER MEALS FOR TWO WEEKS.

(3) SHE SHOULD NOT EAT ANY MEAL AFTER 6 PM IN THE EVENING AND HER BREAK FAST MUST BE AT LEAST 11AM IN THE MORNING (FOR TWO WEEKS).

(4) SHE SHOULD DO ANY WORK OR EXERCISE THAT WILL MAKE HER SWEAT SO SO MUCH (FOR TWO WEEKS).

(5) SHE SHOULD NOT TAKE ANY MILK OR BUTTER OR MAGARINE (FOR TWO WEEKS)

(6) SHE SHOULD TAKE FRUITS AT NIGHT (FOR TWO WEEKS). I recommend she does not take acidic fruits for the two weeks.

Show me how many of them have invented anything?

Do DNA if you are uncomfortable. It is not good to live restless on paternity issue.

We have good women and good men. If your wife or husband is one, please always show them love and respect. Do not take them for granted. Do not take advantage of them. Out there in the street are filled with different kind of people, including: Cheating men, toxic men, abusive men, paternity fraud women, cheating women, toxic women e.t.c.

Please thank and appreciate your good and faithful husband or wife.

G0odharddick:
I know a girl who I usually knack back to back then. She's currently married and I'm on the verge of tearing her to to again.

The question is why would a girl still chat and get too close to the guys that once Knacked her before she married? It's simple! Women love to explore even in marriage. I have fixed a date for the rematch again to fire to up her to to.

Rematch is wrong!

Freshandfitpod:
If you treat women like this, why get married? They are all 304s aka farming tools aka postinor 2 users. They are for recreational purposes only.

We have good ladies.

AntiChristian:
Why create a recipee for disaster in the first place? Male and females are like the +ve and -ve poles of a magnet! They attract themselves!

Why create the opportunity of free-mixing for those magnetic poles?

Divine intervention in Jesus Name. Amen.

May God help those who are weak and deliver them from all sins and bondages in Jesus name. Amen.

If you are working in your church as a church worker, and you are still living in fornication and adultery, it is time to withdraw from church workforce, seek help from trusted church elders, pastor e.t.c, and go for spiritual rehabilitation. Committing fornication and adultery while still a church worker is a useless service in God's house.

You can meet a trusted elder in church for help & restoration. But if you continue fornicating or committing adultery, you can pollute the church and can hinder God's presence in the church. It might make satan put a stumbling block on you.

Avoid all forms of sexual immorality; but if you are still addicted to any as a church worker, please seek help from trusted elders, Pastor e.t.c. You can also withdraw from the work force, repair yourself with the help of God and then come back again to the workforce.

Please look at the list below.

If God is truly leading you to marry a lady, marry her.

A lady can be single for years with her EX uninterested in seeing or calling her, and not even willing to sleep with: but if she gets a fiance and she is about to marry, same EX may come back for sex, sleep with her, get her pregnant and the serious fiance may father another child in marriage.

Again, a married lady may have her EX disturb her in her marriage. This EX may come with nothing, no cash, no help e.t.c, probably to come kindle old fire, have sex and walk away.

If several ladies who have slept with their EXes before wedding or in marriage come up to speak, you may notice that none of those EXes missed them for the sake of marriage or wished they married them.

Bringing in other children into a marriage may affect the true genealogy or bloodline of a family.

You will not die young in Jesus name. Amen.
You will make heaven in Jesus name. Amen.

Amarachieze:
This is what I have been saying. The term doesnt apply
The OP was just regretting marrying someone that is not compatible.
Those of us in religious circle especially Christians refer to such union as being unequally yoked
So if he divorces the incompatible and marries a compatible one it doesn't mean the second is the original wife

I did not say I am regretting marrying someone. That does not apply to me.

It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Do not let arrogance come into you.

It is not good for you. Apply wisdom and understanding.

Several people wasted their emotions when they were young; some were already drained much before they got married, and they may be finding it difficult expressing real love in marriage.

One of the best resources God gave you is your emotions. It is to be used wisely especially when you are young. It can be used in caring for the poor, in orphanage homes, for the widows, helpless e.t.c. But severally people wasted it in "fighting" for love with an uninterested person, keeping relationship with the wrong person, being a sex object just to make relationship work e.t.c. Out of emotions, some wasted money sponsoring or buying things for who they loved that doesn't really love them, instead of using the money to feed the poor e.t.c

After wasted time or years, many people who have wasted their emotions may look back in regrets; they may develop bitterness, and even if they see a good person fit for marriage, their bitterness may mess up the relationship. Some may waste their emotions until they pass the prime of marriage.

Your emotions should be used in marriage and other good things.