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Horrible smell from the private part may be the reason some men have not had sex with their wives for long, and if so, the women may think if the man is cheating or maybe she needs to submit, honour and respect him more.

If you submit, honour and respect your husband while with a horrible smell on your public region, it may affect sex. Even a one-time horrible smell may affect his psychological perspective of sex with you.

For singles and married, both male and female, be sensitive to know if you have any persistent bad odour around you, and whenever their is a strange smell around you, withdraw from your partner and clean up.

Note: Bad smell might make a mess of good character.

It is a good thing to have children that all yours.

Have you seen unserious guys or girls without tangible visions as yours having their partners stuck them so much? You may have seen a guy who smokes, probably often has a scattered room, have good-looking lady stuck him, while you that may have spoken your vision, purpose, good plans e.t.c to same lady, have you rejected....
Any love that makes you package yourself all the time should be avoided. If you always speak too clean, organize yourself, talk about your visions, carry yourself e.t.c, to please a person you love, you may be in the wrong love agenda.......
While it is good to be packaged, avoid love that always put you on your toes to impress.

cutecommend:
For instance, if a Christian wants to go overseas, he or she may be start praying, believing and speaking positively about it until it probably comes to pass. This is may not be accurate faith.

What is true Faith? True faith starts with an agenda being in the will of God. So having a desire and acting towards it without it being in God's will for you is not true Faith.

Many Christians have taken steps of faith on matters outside God's plan. They may have prayed, believed God: while such agenda they want is not God's will for them.

While some Christians have been privileged by God's mercy to take actions that is God's will even without them making enquiries from God, it is very important for Christians to enquire from God before taken major steps or other steps in life. This will prevent destiny damages.

I got these insight from a clergy and my inputs too.

You need faith in God to move forward in life. True!

For instance, if a Christian wants to go overseas, he or she may be start praying, believing and speaking positively about it until it probably comes to pass. This is may not be accurate faith.

What is true Faith? True faith starts with an agenda being in the will of God. So having a desire and acting towards it without it being in God's will for you is not true Faith.

Many Christians have taken steps of faith on matters outside God's plan. They may have prayed, believed God: while such agenda they want is not God's will for them.

While some Christians have been privileged by God's mercy to take actions that is God's will even without them making enquiries from God, it is very important for Christians to enquire from God before taken major steps or other steps in life. This will prevent destiny damages.

I got these insight from a clergy and my inputs too.

Garri

Abi na akpu?

It may be either rice or garri.

Anything else?

Sleeping with a married woman is one of the most "adventurous" and destiny-destroying sex you can have. Sleeping with a married woman may be of more fun than sleeping with a single lady, but the consequences may be more disastrous than you can think.

While it is wrong to fornicate; whether single or married, avoid sleeping with married women at all cost. The consequences may be immediate or may come in the future. The consequences may even come in another form that you may not think is from the past sex you had with someone's wife.

Marry your own wife and be satisfied with her.

Let me help you.

Pray midnight for 4 days, from 12am to 2am.

Prayer point: I break every covenant with the spirit of rejection and I destroy the mysteries and yoke of rejection in Jesus name. Amen.

When you are done it will be easy for you.

Marriage is a beautiful thing to be enjoyed and not endured. And if several marriages lasted in the past, why are many marriages failing today? Why are several people scared of getting married, when in the past, it was not so.

Reasons Why Marriages Fail Today.

(1) Waste of Emotions in Dating: Some have wasted their emotions with wrong people while dating to the point that their current emotions may not be good enough for marriage. Marrying with damaged emotions or with a person that has damaged emotions may lead to divorce.

(2) Sex Soul-Tie: Sex soul-tie is like a covenant established during pre-marital or extra-marital sex. This is what probably makes some married persons go back to their exes for sex e.t.c. Some married persons may have to imagine their Exes during sex with their spouse, just to probably feel fulfilled.

(3) Too Many Bad Persons: The number of good people seem fewer than before, so picking a good spouse today is by God's grace.

Again, many people have red flags in them.

(4) Wrong Gender Equality: If a woman can submit to her boss or pastor, she has no tangible reason not to submit to her husband. Again, a man is not to share his responsibilities with his wife. He is to provide for her and love her.
If this cannot work, couples may separate for a while, get fixed and come back again.

(5) Undue High Standard: Looking for extreme expectations.

(6) Lack of Humility and Unwillingness to Change: A man with a bad character should not be preaching submission. He should change his ways.

If couples are humble and do well to work on themselves, marriage can go well.

The true purpose of the Church and Christianity is not to build factories, help in advancing and providing technology, gather money to solve issues, build large auditoriumse.t.c. These are good, but not the primary purpose of the Church and Christianity.

The true and primary purpose of Christianity is for every true Christian to worship God in truth and in Spirit, to help those in need according to the leading of the HolySpirit, to advance God's kingdom in all good ways, to win souls to Jesus Christ, to live holy lives and to make heaven.

Let no outsider tell you what Christians should do. Let Christians and the Church do what Jesus said.

Several ladies have standards, so if a guy put strict standards, he shouldnt be blamed.

Pray well before you marry. It is good to do so. Do well!

May God heal you and show you mercy in Jesus name. Amen.

Have you eaten bread and Akpu before Confirm if you have.

9japride:
The thing I know about Mbaise people is that they too like book. Nice one.

That may be true.

Forgive her past if you truly love her and believe God is leading you to marry her.

Exkandayee:
I'm from mbaise too,we are The Best in Africa

God is great.

Imagine if Nigeria had independence in 1995. It may have improved more than South Africa.

Do you think independence we had was too early or was it the right time?

It is wrong to shame ladies in general for being single at 30yrs and plus because there are some other reasons that could make them single. And to talk of guys that may be shaming, most of them may have their own bad sides.

While it is clear that several ladies contributed to their being single at 30yrs and plus, I can tell you that many did not contribute to that.

Reasons why ladies are still single even at 30yrs and plus.

(1) Diabolic Limitations: Some good ladies marriage are tied down by diabolic powers. These includes witchracft, juju e.t.c. With this, no matter how they try, improve their character, do good e.t.c, they may find it difficult to marry until the diabolic powers are probably destroyed.

(2) Loss of Marital "glory or grace" through sex: Some ladies may have lost their marital grace by sleeping with yahoo boys, diabolic men e.t.c. These people may have exchanged their marital destiny to make money, and if so, might make the ladies not to get a life partner.

(3) Bad Character: Some ladies are single because of their character. They may be toxic, proud, promiscous, stubborn e.t.c. These may be a hindrance to them getting someone who wants to marry them.

(4) Personal Ideology or Plan: A lady may decide not to marry for a period of time, maybe because of career goal, academic pursuit e.t.c. No one should shame such lady because she has the right to make her choice.

(5) Waste of Opportunities and Time With bad boys: If God sends a husband to a lady, He won't wait for her to be done with the bad guys. She has to "brutally" make a decision outside her emotions of what is right and not right. If she wants to rock with bad guys before she settles with a good husband, when she is done with the bad guys, there may be no available good husband for her.

If several 30yrs and plus ladies go back to memory lane, they may notice that a responsible and serious guy came for love and marriage, when they were busy with the bad guys.

(6) Curses From Past Evil Acts: Things like abortion of children with great destiny and other abortions may bring a curse of marital delays. Also, past wicked acts and connivance with bad guys, evil men e.t.c, against innocent people or other people may bring a curse of marital delay. Anti-marriage curses from people because of a bad act may cause marital delay.

(7) Generational Problems: Some ladies have anti-marital issues from their lineage. It may be an ancestral agreement by their forefathers with a deity for the future generation not to get married on time. it may be a generational curse. e.t.c.

( Late Prayers For Marital Spouse: If ladies begin to pray seriously to God for husbands starting from the age of 15, many may be fully settled in marriage before or at 25. But if several ladies use their young age for clubbing, having sex around, smoking, doing hookup e.t.c, and then begin to pray for good husband at 26, they may still be single at 33.

(9) Sexual Covenants With Past Partners: Things like blood covenant with former lover e.t.c, marriage covenant during pre-marital sex may hinder marriage.
If a guy is having pre-marital sex with a lady and says "I will marry you" during sex. Such statement may prevent marriage with another person.

Other anti-marriage bondage may come through pre-marital sex.

(10) Spirit Spouses: This may sound like a myth to some, but it exists.
If a lady sees her self sometimes or frequently sleeping with someone in the dream or spiritually, she may have a spirit spouse/husband, and it may prevent suitors.

Bad guys might waste your youthful days and leave you, and many guys have sense not to follow ladies looking for "escape".

Abstain from sex completely.

The rate at which people have raw sex.

cutecommend:
If your heart is genuine and good, dress the way your heart looks like.

I got this insight from someone: "Do you expect a mad man to say his heart is not mad, though he is appears, behaves and dresses like a mad man?"

As a true Christian, it is wrong to dress in worldly, seductive and ungodly ways that makes even sinners confused or doubt whether you are a true Christian. You dress to glorify God, not to dress or appear anyhow while saying "God sees the heart".

Lastly, decent dressing should not be worshipped or idolized: and a Christian should dress decently in God's standard and by the leading of the HolySpirit, and not because of any Church's sentiments, tradition, dogma e.t.c.

Please remember to say this prayer: Lord Jesus, have mercy on me. Forgive me all my sins and come into my life in Jesus name. Amen.

Dress in a way that glorifies God. God wants you to dress to please Him.

Do not say some wicked people are dressing decently that is why you hate decent dressing.

Remember, people do not go to hell fire in groups.

If your heart is genuine and good, dress the way your heart looks like.

I got this insight from someone: "Do you expect a mad man to say his heart is not mad, though he is appears, behaves and dresses like a mad man?"

As a true Christian, it is wrong to dress in worldly, seductive and ungodly ways that makes even sinners confused or doubt whether you are a true Christian. You dress to glorify God, not to dress or appear anyhow while saying "God sees the heart".

Lastly, decent dressing should not be worshipped or idolized: and a Christian should dress decently in God's standard and by the leading of the HolySpirit, and not because of any Church's sentiments, tradition, dogma e.t.c.

Please remember to say this prayer: Lord Jesus, have mercy on me. Forgive me all my sins and come into my life in Jesus name. Amen.

Happy Sunday to you. Visit a bible-believing church.

Please encourage someone today not to make a mistake in falling into sexual temptation.

Share your experience on very alluring sexual temptation you fell into that you regretted so much.

Let the President rule well. Afterall the President also talked against Jonathan.

It is well in Jesus name. Amen.

Its okay he left a will.

It is good to forgive those with bad sexual past, body counts e.t.c, though it is not compulsory to be in a relationship with someone who has a bad sexual past; but if you can overlook and marry such person, you may enjoy the future with that person.

One problem with some people and their sexual past is that they may return to their sexual past when they have gained stability, commitment, rest in a good and promising relationship. So a lady who has high body count may at first be happy with a guy who has accepted her past, loved her, married her, made a beautiful home for her and given her the marriage she wants, and then later, may see the good marriage as boring, and may return to past sexual partners e.t.c to get wild again. She may not ever wish to marry them and they may never wish to marry her, but for sex sake, they may connect. This also may apply to some guys.

If you love someone with a bad sexual past and you feel God wants both of you to get married, be double sure that they have repented and disconnected from their past in soul, spirit and body.

creativejagaban:
You can imagine how the i.pobs were celebrating the killings in Benue and using it to abuse the president and the Yorubas.

Now, lets wait and see what they will say now.

Celebrating the killings? Please talk responsibly. Have you condemned the actual people responsible for these killings? You focus on a "tribe" that lost almost everything in the civil war and is now one of the richest tribes

Take him to Mountain of Fire and Miracles.

May God forgive and show her mercy if she repents.

May God give you the lady that loves you and that you love in Jesus name. Amen.