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If you ask several people about their Exes, you may hear negative comments from them about their Exes. But if same people want to marry or their Exes want to marry, when the information goes out, same people may still meet for good-bye sex few days, weeks e.t.c to wedding day.

What makes you scared marrying a single Mother? Is it because they may go back to their baby Daddy if he is available?

Truly, we have nice single Mothers and they may love you without ever cheating.

Evil will never come near your dwelling in Jesus name. Amen.

cutecommend:
Someone I used to know had nickname as Method. I saw another online as Tempest. Though tempest seems on the negative side.

You can say yours!

You can have other good names like prosperity, favour, success e.t .c

Someone I used to know had nickname as Method. I saw another online as Tempest. Though tempest seems on the negative side.

You can say yours!

Pray in the Spirit always and pray without season.

Speaking in tongues recklessly; whether at home, in church, while leading prayers e.t.c is not good. You should speak in tongues rightly, always, but not frivolously.
When You Should Not Speak in Tongues:

(1) During Prayer for Repentance: if a person or group of persons are praying a prayer of repentance for sin, backsliding, disobedience e.t.c. It is wrong to speak in tongues at such times; rather, a clear confession of sin & request for forgiveness from God should be made. I got part of this insight from a clergy.

(2) During Prayers in Secular Places: If you are told to lead prayers in a political gathering, national centres, office, general places e.t.c. It is not a time to show spirituality. It is a time to pray so that everyone understands. You can pray in tongues on your own.

(3) When Praying to God About Your Weaknesses, shortcomings, Character flaws: If you are speaking to God as a Father on your weaknesses, shortcomings, character flaws e.t.c, you are to tell God clearly about it & that he needs to help you get free. It is not really a time to blast in tongues.

Do much people still watch Big Brother Naija and do you still watch it?

Christianity is much oh. Even many or most Igbos are Christians.
One Nigeria!

If for example someone leaves Nigeria to a place like Senegal to hustle, is it also Japa?

Please do DNA for your kids in this era if possible.

cutecommend:
Preach the true word of God instead of concentrating on criticising others.

This is true. Though there are times for true criticism.

brain54:
The only grounds for divorce the Bible (Jesus) gives is divorce...

Really?

May God have mercy on this country in Jesus name. Amen.

When I was young, I saw a picture of someone that looked like me.

You can stop doing abortion from today. Turn a new leaf and follow God.

Abortion is shedding of human blood. Terrorists kill, abortionists kill. Stop Abortion from today.

Does fufu mean any kind of swallow or does it truly mean akpu?

Why is it that those whom you crazily love to date or you are crazily in love with in a relationship, do not appreciate you, do not love you much, beat you, abandon you sometimes, treat you bad e.t.c?

I may not have the right answer, but please follow you appreciates you so much and stop wasting your emotions on those who do not really like you.

Firstly, please if you have money, it is good to support and give your Fiancee or Wife during needs and even out of love, care e.t.c.

Just to remind you of the saying that "what goes around comes around". Now, you may have seen where ladies were broke-shaming broke guys online or physically, but currently someone has sold and is probably still selling his own ideas that are against ladies receiving finance, support from guys e.t.c.

In the past, guys were known more for being cheats. Today, ladies in general are "coming up" in the cheating game. Again, many ladies tussle position/authority partly or fully with men in marriage. In the nearest future, many ladies may start paying bride price, supporting the family e.t.c.

Lesson: Remember this saying "What goes around comes around"

If many young guys who have spent so much on their girlfriends, use same money to buy bags of rice, foodstuffs e.t.c, to share for widows, the poor, orphans, needy, less-privileged e.t.c, they may have a very bright future filled with blessings. Now, have you ever seen any guy that became blessed because he bought iphone for his girlfriend? Have you ever seen a girl who received iphone from her boyfriend, pouring out prayers, good wishes and pronouncements of blessings to her boyfriend? But if a guy even divides iphone money to buy food stuffs for widows, the poor, the needy, the less-privileged, the orphans, he may receive great prayers and well-wishes from them that may move God to reward him.

Please if you have a good Fiancee that is in true need of something, help her. You can also give to her just because you love her and want to marry her: but give with wisdom.

Christian couples should forgive all the time no matter the offense committed.

If Christian couples have challenges such as Adultery, DNA issues, side chic issue, immorality with EX e.t.c., should they forgive and move on with their marriage?

Answer: The sincere answer is Christian couples must forgive each other and continue with their marriage or forgive and separate for some time, then come back together. Now, in this case of Adultery, there may be need for medical check, to be sure that the partner who cheated is not with any sexually transmitted disease. If infected with a disease like HIV, there may be need for separation without any partner re-marrying, or they can look for a better way to still communicate, while taking measures to prevent any transmission of disease.

Advice: Adultery may cause complications, trauma, heartbreaks, heart attack, devastations and prolonged problems. Please consider the pains your spouse may feel if you are caught committing adultery. Fear God and avoid adultery.

If there is an open application portal for advanced slave trade in countries like USA, SPAIN, CANADA, IRELAND, NORWAY, NETHERLAND, SWITZERLAND, SWEDEN e.t.c, will there be crowded applications submitted? If yes, Africa has failed even after the abolishing of slave trade.

Say No to Slave Trade.

You need wisdom in discussing your bad past to your fiance or fiancee. It is not everything you must say, but make sure you say vital things on time so that your spouse does not discover by themselves in Marriage.

It is compulsory to discuss your bad past such as if you have had sex, if you have aborted, if you had unwanted pregnancy, if you were into hookup, yahoo e.t.c. But it may not be ideal to discuss how you had sex, the number of people, details of various escapades. Use wisdom and summarize.

Now, if the person is so sensitive, you need to be careful or you may need to get a partner who is open-minded, by God's help.

You may have read cases of Nigerian women in the UK calling the police for their hubby, chasing their hubby away from home e.t.c. The question here is, have you read any case where a white woman chased her white husband from her home in Europe or a Nigerian woman chased her white husband away from home?

Another question is: if men had more power in a place like UK, will their be rampant situation of them calling the police for their wives or even chase them away?

Original greatest.

The other one is not the greatest.

By my imperfect estimate, from 18 to 32 years, ladies are likely not same age mate with guys of their equal age. Example, a lady of 22 years may not want to date or marry a guy of 22 yrs. She may want a guy older than her with up to 8 years. Now from 33 years upwards, ladies may start considering even guys of their own age. A 34 years lady may consider a 34 or 35 years guy, but when she was 23 years, those guys may look immature to her; she may want guys of 30+.

Amongst the best gifts you can have in this era is faithful person and true love.

In this era of more darkness, a person's so-called committed partner can be on phone call having sex, yet discussing love or other stuffs.

While it is very good to be faithful, also engage or marry someone who is faithful, else you may be in a situation where you are excited gisting on phone with your partner, while someone else is having sex with your partner same time.

tanigororo:
Fallacy! Fallacy!! Fallacy!!!
Fallacy! Fallacy!! Fallacy!!!
Fallacy! Fallacy!! Fallacy!!!

Abortion is not good! Abortion is not good!! Abortion is not good!!! Abortion is not good!!!!