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peeparty:
yep

bro, I just checked my mail.. Dnt see any frm u. Pls resend.

b0rn2fuck:
they thought maga is yahoo game between foreign and Naija, not knowing itt all occurs within naija to naija! Even me I bi maga to some girls but not to this extent! This one na Ebo to ni a ta, sisi eko go kill ham die.

me sef I be maga too .. We all hav been magalized at a certain point in our lives . Afterall, money is meant to be spent

peeparty:
stiil yet to reply my mail bro

r u sure u sent me a mail?

Caseless:
well, they reserve that right and power; it is exclusively theirs. All I can do is to clarify when asked like you just did.


I can decide to start calling God almighty as 'god' because I don't even believe there is any God except him, the creator.

I sometimes believe that when my name is written in capslock, it is still mine and, when it is written in lower case, it is still mine. Why would someone have me play to the notion that when you write 'god' , it means smaller gods, and when you write 'God' it means the almighty?

the capital G denotes that there is a being above every other being..

Most people say I can't date someone who is very much older or younger dan me (Age) while some other group of people say they will rather date someone who is matured (Reasoning)

Now question time

Which is very important to u wen choosin a partner

Age or

Maturity(level of reasoning)

Jollyjoy:
what has my age got to do what it uuuuh?
Dont tell me you want to analysis my level of maturity to my age.....

lol at "don't tell me you want to analysis my level of maturity to my age

Caseless:
Well, check my signature and you'd know that ALLAH=God. Again, the declaration is done deference to 'god' (in low caps) and, not 'God' . Extensive use of that declaration by people overtime led to that alteration.


God created English language and gave himself a name in that language and he created Arabic and named himself in it. Who are we to say if he( the creator) is not mentioned in a certain language, then it is not him that's mentioned?

then if u knw its him dat's mentioned why not reiterate your muslim mods to review that writeup..

Chiam55:
No it's simple men just don't LIE or CHEAT and we are happy.

but u knw most ladies dnt like honesty

Lol dis op e b like say u been taste her punny na why she ask u dah question.

If my wife does dat, I will turn d table around and say, nw I definitely knw, u lack trust in me.. Whatelse is thr for us? We need to divorce den.

A good boyfriend is understanding. He is sensitive and reads her body languages..

[quote author=AdeniyiA post=33496709][/quote]mornin krase

Caseless:
so?

You hate all Muslims?

caseless.. I wantt to ask u a question.. The inscription "I swear I am a muslim and there is no god/God but Allah and Muhammad is his prophet" on u guys profile means wat?

The bolded God in question isn't it the meanin of Allah? Or is there another Allah u guys are worshipin?

What is d chemistry behind it

MRBrownJ:
@lasstropinky
i disagree with most of what you said, as you are painting teenagers like some clueless/mindless people, and if they are then let it be because of the wrong upbringing/education they got from their parents. IMHO there is nothing wrong about a teen dating so long as his/her parents has instilled in him/her the right and wrongs of life, and prepare them mentally for the real world. you have to be part of that child's life from the get go, meaning from that 1st day they open their eyes/minds until their teenage years and well into adulthood. so many parents dont educate/follow/care/raise their kids and expect that "wild" person to ultimately act right. nonsense! also, let us remember that some kids out there will become rebellious whether you raise them proper or not, and as parents, there is very little you can do about it.

#1: there is much a teenager can give but their body or money. affection/friendship/companionship/care/warmth/a sense of self/ a sense of being loved etc. many teenagers who were raised properly would understand the dangers and consequences attached to having sex, and most importantly, would understand that such act is made for adults (even though many are doing it from a very young age). also, it is good to note that most kids who are not raised/educated properly on the dangers of life by their parents will therefore be raised and educated by their mates, which is the 1st step to failure. sadly, beating your child when they fail or threatening to beat them if they do is just the wrong approach here (but sadly one that many parent take).

#2: sadly, here is where (as a supposed counsellor) you are wrong. we ALL need companionship, we all need a self of being, and this from a very young age. love is a feeling that can be felt while very young. it is also a very NATURAL feeling so long as it is toward someone your own age (teenagers). so trying to tell a child that A) it aint right or B) they should disregard that feeling is wrong on so many levels. what you need to do is educate that child how to love RIGHT. most people fail with their kids when they try to block such strong feeling thats coming from a teenager, who has a young mind and probably dont understand what is going on. in this day and age where the media is quick to throw all sort of nonsense whether in TV/internet/phones/street advertisement etc, it is each and every parents duty to be the one to prepare your child against all that nonsense. trying to pretend that its not there, and/or shield them from it, is IMHO foolish (no offense)

#3: sadly, the last thing you should tell a teenager who is growing up and trying to find their identity/worth/mind/self, is to make them believe that any r/ship MUST end up in marriage. thats such a wrong way to look at r/ship, its sickening. if you listen carefully to your children, you will realise that from their kindergarden years they have GFs/BFs, and although it starts as kids joke, thats what they feel at such a young age. you should certainly not tell that kid that what they feel is wrong, what you should tell them is that "when times come, you will find someone who will love you (and vice versa) with whom you will get married and have a family of your own.... but that there are priorities in life and before you can get married, you need to have an EDUCATION then A JOB, and possibly then you can get married". should that mean they cannot love until then, of course NOT, they just need to be educated RIGHT to know how to love as a teenager. teenagers should not be allowed to do adult stuff as they should know very early the consequences of such act, sex is for adults and if you raise your kids right they will know that, and refrain from it. they should also know that they may have urges, be socially pressured etc but at the end, they must wait for the right time do such act.

#4: is it not in schools that most of the dating starts?! you have to accept the time/world we live in, and ADAPT, if not you will simply fail with your kids. you have to let a child knows that she can go meet her friends, chat online etc when that child has finished his/her studies and her home duties. you need to be on top of your game and BE THERE physically around that child. you need to TALK to that child and RAISE that child, be physically there... it is definitely NOT an easy job but it has to be done in order to raise your kid RIGHTEOUSLY. so many people are allowing some stoopid housegirl/boy/school friends etc to raise their kids, then turn around and wonder why they have failed. so many people give every toy possible to their kids but fail to give them the most important tool, which is a conscience/mind/brain/acting right etc, that these teenagers can use properly when things such as sex etc will come into the picture.

kudos

Well, wat can I say? Nothing is perfect.

Adaeze003:
Yeah... unlike girls, dudes are so perfect!
they don't friendzone any good girl,

they don't compare the current to the ex,

they don't blame the whole female population for one bad experience,

they ain't insecure,

they don't spend heavily on girls even when it's unnecessary and they're literally broke,

they ain't fake,

they don't expect a girl to change for them....



When will guys realize that we don't need their hypocritical advise? And most importantly, we don't need their sympathy?

If you're as imperfect as we are, then you should stick your advise in your butt hole.

stickn my advice in my butthole...

adrainuche:
Please this is not a case of magarism

den wat is it? When she isn't even yet ur wife

Some people should study d full meanin of maga

laidian:
Cutehector needs to be ignored.

u shuldnt mention my moniker den.. Dnt u think?

Nice one op.. Also my advice to you children, dnt do drugs...

Even if konji catch u and tie rope for ur hand, at least, use a condom. It will save u a lot of future embarassment.

peeparty:
bro dont do that not cool allow dem do their job and not call dem in.na ur bros ebi oo so correct am

oya settle

Early marriages isn't adviseable in nigeria

sinaj:


werin b ur own na

bad girl.. U want to see free prick abi... I no knw say u don spoil like this sinaj chai

Too much of american pie movie dey worry MrCork. When betta shii dey hungry me, na him u wan mk I go dey find magazine to read? Shii go don dropp commot frm my boxers by then na

Fact..he enjoyed it

Rocktation, I knw ur very strict with nairaland rules, please do the nEedful. Thanks

Hmmmm. I will keep quiet sha

Jollyjoy:
is this the best advice you can give? I thought you are more mature than this......
Smh!

how old r u please

Many dudes be commentin tinz like "wat a big fool" buh r d ones playin d victim.

Mzflexydeeva:
could be

so wat is d price of ur womanliness