₦airaland Forum

Heyofrizzle:
haba! Nigerians should please stop this idea of godfatherism, if u dnt know senior officer u can't be enlisted have u forgotten the creator of heaven and earth? Come off this please.

osedvgirl:
come and stay with me

Baseverb:
You can tell me yours....am interested in knowing what others have done that was productive in that time range.

Am trying to develop myself as a public speaker and also a writer. That's one of it.

So am so confused about that and I guess I just need other ideas

Diddyydiva:
will you type this had it been a lady wrote what's up there ?


No , you would have typed something worst.



Can't you guys be honest for once?




Fvcking Hypocrites

Diddyydiva:
what?

Diddyydiva:
Your prick should be cut off and offered to Sango



Yet you will be the one to call ladies hoes and all sort of names.

You got what you wanted and now you feel nothing for her.





Damn!!! You are nothing but an irresponsible being.







Ewu

ryanfletcher:
lol,not to sound cruel but op is wasting his time,even people wey never get ride done know all these things

Reyginus:
Wrong move. I don't think anyone should be honoured by the government for passing a test. Awards from the government should be for a person who's added something to the nation. I don't see how graduating with a 5.0 CGPA equates to adding anything to the nation.

He did well, yes. But then what's the impart of his result on the Nigerian populace? Having a good result doesn't automatically mean you've imparted on life or ever will. Awards should rather go to people who have done this and not people who excelled in the tools necessary to impart life.

He can be sponsored on a scholarship for a higher degree because of this potential but he should not be celebrated by the country because he's not done anything for her but himself. When he does something for the country then should he be rewarded. So far what he's achieved is only for himself.

queenfav:
u r mean bro..lol

ATMC:
Twinkie8 can you do this one thing? Listen to your husband and ignore them.

Again, another thing that might help is imagining your husband was the one in your shoes, what would you have done for him? You may do something close to what he did...'pls ignore them, Ihave your back'.

If you can just try and ignore them for now, in a matter of time they will tire.

Bear this at the back of your mind, IF PERSON NO LIKE YOU, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Let them deal with the hate when it's time for PEACE, not even their warrior hearts can withstand.

Love your baby, respect your man, listen to the still voice in you and be good. It will come to pass.

Iolite:
Just as Cutehector said, you where wrong, should have let her spend sometime with you, then go to your mother for the rest. In my case, my husband was the one telling his mother no need but I insisted she comes, which she did. Your mum can be very tolerant but not MIL. So I suggest you and your husband should pay a suprise visit to MIL home and try to make amend by appologizing for the obvious. Goodluck

adult91:
A woman abandoned her husband & her four (4) year old son for her rich boyfriend & they both (woman & boy friend) eventually travelled to the U.S.A

Out of frustration & desperation the husband went & married another woman.

Unfortunately the 2nd woman couldn't bear a child for the husband.

Despite her inability to bear a child, the 2nd woman took great care of the boy & treated him like her own son.

Few years later, the husband died in a car accident.

The 2nd wife did everything in her power to educate the boy, she engaged in petty trade such as pepper, maggie, salt, palm oil, onion, tomatoes, etc, in the market square in order to sponsor the boy's schooling.

The boy only knew his step mother as his real mother & there4, he called her Mama.

The real mother in the U.S.A did not for once find out about the wellbeing of her son thoughtless of sending a penny for the boy, even after she heard that her x-husband (son's father) died in an accident.

Some years later, this boy grew up into a very intelligent young man waiting for his B.A Hons degree in Petroleum Engineering from the University.

The real mother who also could not bear another child in the U.S since she eloped with her boyfriend, realized that she had made a terrible mistake by abandoning her own son.

She decided to return home to look for her son & present to him all her wealth acquired over the years in the States.

She eventually found her son battling between life & death in the hospital for kidney failure.

The Doctors demanded huge amount of money for the operation & the step mother couldn't afford it.

The real mother stepped in & paid all the hospital bills & donated one of her own kidneys & the son was saved.

Shortly after, the final results were out the son got a distinction & also got a five year (5) scholarship to pursue his Masters and PhD degrees in the U.K

At the presentation of the certificate, the Vice Chancellor gave the mic to the son to call his mother to come up stage & receive the certificate.

The moment the Vice Chancellor made the statement, the real mother got up & arranged herself waiting to be called upon whilst the step mother sat down & looked at the boy with tears running her chick.

The answer is suspended..........

Assuming you are the son, who would you call on up stage?

A) real biological mother
B) step real mother

Remember only one person you should call.

lalastica abeg na

Tallesty1:
You misused the opportunity to make things right

Big4wig:
There is nothing to accommodate here,Abuja is a very distant place & i won't want to discomfort myself 4 almost 7hours of drive cos am trying to b nice...Buses obviously don't av large boots so most of d luggages were placed inside making everywhere tight & inconvenient