Aside women's issues, I myself don't like my dick size. I don't dare want to involve in orgies and sometimes I used to think maybe it's a way God want to curb my fornication

Demigod22:
Him: babes, why don't you want to ride me like a horse?

Her: because your dick is small.


Just accept what you have and look for someone that is compatible. Some girls enjoy small gbola. Don't allow overused vaginarian to pressure you.

You can't have it all bro, you are cute and financially ok

Sorry bro but I think you should learn to love yourself and manage what you have.

hhj

You are just so dumb,who talks about killing anybody here,in fact even though i'm the one who brought this matter here,i'm still the one that is least concerned about the matter cuz i have done mostly all what a successful man should do in life even before my father sold the hotel but i'm just concerned about my other siblings cuz there is an adage that says one rich man among 6 poor men,they are all poor men.

Triniti:
Different case scenario, your mom helped you because she wants to, op’s dad does not give a damn about him, now dude wants to kill his old man because of 55milliion, did you commit any crime for your mom to help you?

It is dangerous for him in the nearest future in the sense that he is still going to need us when he grows older and we may not be there for him as most of us have decided to be far from him.We were good children to him as we served him well,there was never a bad report from the outside about any of us.My father does not demand money from us cuz he has enough but we did buy him gifts whenever any of us went to visit him.For example some one like me would buy 25 litres of diesel to give to him to power his Generator or sometimes buy recharge cards.BUT i think you guys are not getting it,we are not asking him to share all the money to us but atleast if it's 1 or 2 million naira each it is still something,remember i told you my elder brother and i were the witnesses my father presented to sign for him.

The amount of money he gives to us is not as important as the joy it brings to know that our father cares for us even if na 500k.Please don't be biased in your reasoning,you keep shouting he does not owe his children,did he owe his younger brother,wife and church that he shared money to??that alone shows he values outsiders more than his own children.

elektra:


Please I want to know, why is it dangerous for him?

Can you answer these questions too?
Do you (and your brothers) contribute to your father's upkeep regularly, no matter how little?
Do you guys buy gifts for him?
Have you guys recognized a significant need that he had and took care of it (even though you know he can afford it?)
Does your Father demand money from you guys? Does he tell you how to spend your money?

I think you are being incredibly selfish. You have refused to consider your father side of things.
Your Father is getting old, he cannot work as he used to in the past.
He needs to save for his own upkeep. Old people need to survive too, they often have chronic illnesses that require recurrent spending.
You guys are young and you can hustle. Allow that man to live the remainder of his life on his own terms. He has worked, let his reap the fruit of his labour.

I don’t think he’s trying to save our heads we are not kids most of us are above 30 years and have been working for years.He knows someone like me have come across several millions so I see no reason to think we will misuse money

abimbola74:

Look at it from this perspective ...what if he is doing that to save your heads probably he knows what might likely happen if he gives you guys ur share thinking about your step mom.you should know it's rare to see a woman who will be so happy seeing her husband give so much wealth to her step sons and daughter....have a rethink about the whole issue bro,d eldest among u can have a 1 on 1 conversation with him(only him,nobody should follow him).No father will do that on purpose no matter how heartless he is .On d other note bro,you guys should help eachoda grow ,remember if dey r successful ,it lessen ur burden too.hustle like an orphan and I pray God will shower u guys his blessing..let your father issue slide for now but believe me ,a time will come he will need u guys by his side..bless up

Nope I don’t understand

sassysure:
I did say I will delete this as it contain personal info.
Hope @op saw it.

I really appreciate your comments,yes our step mom could be a reason cuz she is not a good woman and she pretends she doesn’t know what is happening and we are not willing to involve her.But look at it this way,our father can still settle us without involving her and besides why would she not want our father to settle us when she was paid 3million naira for nothing.she doesn’t have a child for my dad

abimbola74:

Look at it from this perspective ...what if he is doing that to save your heads probably he knows what might likely happen if he gives you guys ur share thinking about your step mom.you should know it's rare to see a woman who will be so happy seeing her husband give so much wealth to her step sons and daughter....have a rethink about the whole issue bro,d eldest among u can have a 1 on 1 conversation with him(only him,nobody should follow him).No father will do that on purpose no matter how heartless he is .On d other note bro,you guys should help eachoda grow ,remember if dey r successful ,it lessen ur burden too.hustle like an orphan and I pray God will shower u guys his blessing..let your father issue slide for now but believe me ,a time will come he will need u guys by his side..bless up

So if you were a father with well over 50 million naira in your account you won’t help your struggling children? They will only wish you die on time so they can inherit your property. I have seen a rich man that forbade his children from using any of his cars and other property,the day the rich man died was the day the children shared the cars among themselves as in they didn’t wait till the second day.it shows they have been praying for his death

Eketem:


You are shameless, between you and an armed robber the difference is small

It’s only normal that we approach him for our share he is our father and he carried us along when he wanted to sell it he even mentioned settling us,but the reason he changed his mind is what I don’t understand

Chubhie:

Matter of fact, He has done his duty by getting you guys education. Some runaway from this. He also have a right to dash his monies out to whoever he sees fit.

You look stupid approaching him for a cut. Have a lil dignity and self respect. This is all you've got as a man.

If he was a poor dad we will not bother him in fact as a rich father we still did not bother him until he decided to sell a property for that huge amount which we signed a document as witnesses.it is only fair that he settles us

Triniti:
Bro , forget about your fathers riches and work on becoming rich yourself, you are past 30 for crying out loud and you are still sounding like a teenager. What would have happened to you had it been your dad was poor? Stop depending on the old man,take your ass to work. I’m in my 30s and the only money I can remember receiving from my late dad who died 4 years ago was my school fees in junior high school

I’m into haulage business which my father is aware of,I have discussed with him severally about ways he can help to expand my business but all to no avail

Chubhie:
Approach him from a business angle. You deserve your full commission as a witness. This is for service rendered.

A rich father that does not help his children simply doesn’t want them to be successful like him only shows how selfish and unreasonable he is and it is dangerous for him in the nearest future.

Triniti:
Forget about your dad and move on,you are a man now and should start planning for your own future by hustling, like your dad said, he owns you nothing and that’s the gospel truth. My rich uncle told my cousins that the only thing he owns them was taking care of them when they were young and the good education he made sure they had, that when he dies, all his properties belongs to the wife and she can chose to do whatever she likes with it

Thank you so much you have just said the truth unlike others claiming he does not owe us.But what can we do to make him succumb to our wishes

edoman2016:
@OP, your dad is a stingy man and doesn't care about the future of his children. In this modern world, parents training their children to university is not enough for them to be successful and independent.

There are many jobless graduates with good results living from hands to mouth because they had no parents to support them financially to establish a business or connection to get a good job.

It's your father's responsibility to settle you guys with some money out of the hotel sale so that you guys can have capital to start businesses and be financially independent. Even Donald Trump is what he is today because of his inheritance.

@OP, there is nothing wrong in expecting inheritance from one's parents. It's a biblical right and don't allow your dad to deny you.

that is the irony of life.

Laird:


A lot of people don't know that clothes and cars are liabilities that depreciate and take money from ones pocket and clothes and cars cannot be used to measure or guage if someone is wealthy.
16 year olds in USa on college/University school fees loans drive cars on hire purchase..installmental car loans...it does not mean they are wealthy

In school I knew a guy who never drove a personal car in campus but was wealthier and had assets that bring money than a lot of other students who drove cars. He even gave a car out to a cab man to make returns but never drove a car in school
Wealth is measured by things and assets that bring in income and money and appreciate in value like Money profit generating businesses, property, land, ownership shares in companies, artworks, Rare antique car collections, rare antiques, gold, creating, providing services and goods that people pay for
Cars and clothes are Liabilities that remove money from the pocket by needing money to buy, maintain and depreciate over time (except Expensive Antique cars abroad)

Some people driving Corollas have more wealth than some other people driving Range Rover Sport and G wagon Benz Jeeps

What's that?

CharlesJok3r:
VVV

Yes we try as much as possible to forget about the issue but seriously it gives us sleepless nights cuz this our father used to tell his friends that he cherished his children so much but it’s all lies.

generationz:
op just take it that you don't have a dad around again


your father giving you guys money is a priviledge not a right.

Your right is quality education (according to UNICEF) which he has given you.

I want you people to start thinking 'what if I don't have a rich dad what would be my next line of action'

Put yourself in the shoes of thousands of kids in Africa who had dead beat fathers and are still surviving

you said you did well without his help


why don't you show your brothers the way.

show them how you made it so they can make it too. Do this , instead of joining hands to fight the man for his property.

Its all about mindset

If you all have set your minds that without that money you can't make , opportunities won't come in.

Even when they come in you won't notice it because your mind is focused on the wrong things.

However, if you make up your minds that you can make it without your old man , you will

Stop comparing yourselves to your friends. Everyone's destiny is different.

Stop being bitter against your father.

Unforgivness can impede your blessings
complaining can impede your blessings.


Can your brothers begin to save no matter how meagre?
can they look into multiple sources of income while working at their jobs?

they can start drop shipping men's wears to their colleagues.


You people see a father who hasn't helped you.

I see a father with wealth of knowledge in business who can mentor guys to an extent.

You people see a father who hasn't helped you. I see a father who through his years in business has amassed connections which if you guys use well can sell your ideas / products to and get more connections.


You people see friends/ agemate who will laugh about your present predicament . i see friends who can help market your businesses by word of mouth or resharing on their WhatsApp.

Its all about perspective.

And the annoying thing is when people see us nice up or drive good cars they just assume that our father is behind our success

Laird:
Op having experienced something similar,
It's horrific, The richest men in the world from Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates and Warren Buffet to Facebook Ceo Mark Zuckerberg all had family that supported them.with Connections, money...yes money and networks that enabled them focus, amplify and multiply their Talent and Business .
Some guys we looked down in school academically are presently in a better financial state now because their parents sent them abroad where there are lot of opportunities both for intelligent and not so intelligent people unlike Naija where even professional are looking for jobs or are Gross fully underpaid.
Even Dangote, Adenuga, Otedola , Davido Dimeji Bankole all had Family financial and Connection support.
Plum jobs in Naija are first gotten through Family and personal Connections and not through first selecting the best and brightest.
Even the most popular not richest Saudi Investor Prince Alwaleed Bin Tall Al Saud who has shares in Twitter, Apple, CitiBank and Snapchat had family financial support
Keep hustling and doing your thing and ignore the Man though tell him say Him no try. Keep hustling. That's what I am doing

Seriously it baffles me a lot and I’m beginning to think it may be spiritual or he’s just being purely heartless

Guitarlife:
Well the interesting thing for me here is that he paid 5.5Million naira to a church as tithe but did not give his children a dime.

mmmnmnnnnmmm okay.

Of course I do help my younger brothers in fact two of them live with me even though they are working. I decided to accommodate them so that they can save money and not worry about renting an apartment and also help them in other possible ways

OgogoroFreak:
Why can't you help your siblings since you are very comfortable? At least, your dad gave his brother 2million Naira from the money.

I'm really ashamed of your way of reasoning. You are a graduate means you have been trained on how to think and make it in life. It's not about the paper certificate.

We are independent and doesn’t rely on him for anything for several years but it is only normal that you will expect some help from a father that sold a property for several millions.The worse part of it is that when people see us they would believe we are rich because our father sold a hotel and must have settled us

OgogoroFreak:
YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!

Your father did nothing wrong except for paying tithe out of the money.

You are no longer a kid plus you are a graduate for crying out loud.

Why not think of how to secure a better job? Take professional courses to update your CV, keep applying for JOBS, don't settle for less.

YOU MUST BE INDEPENDENT AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE! else, the image below is how you would look in your father's eyes..

In Nigeria of today everyone knows that university certificate is not enough to make one successful.there are millions of graduates out there without jobs or underemployed.imagine a graduate of Covenant university working a 55,000 naira a month job and my father is cool with it.please tell me when such a person will save enough money for marriage and raise a family.Even the Yoruba says Ti a koba ri eni feyinti bi ole lanri

eyinjuege:


The property shouldn't have been yours. It's his property. Not everyone is fortunate enough to be left an inheritance. If you are, good for you. If you're not left any, life goes on.
It's very easy for millions to be run through quickly, especially in Nigeria. Your dad is getting older, and will be having more health issues he has to face squarely. He is also not a very old man either, and could easily live 15 to 20 more years. How will he manage to sustain himself till then?
He has tried by sending you to higher institution. He even sent some of you to private schools. Be grateful for even that. Many young men are sponsoring themselves through school.
Not everyone will turn to crime. We have children of poor men who will never consider crime, so why should you consider it as a child of a relatively comfortable man, who is also a graduate. There's no excuse for crime please, and definitely not because your dad didn't leave you an inheritance

We all have work,in fact i'm very comfortable and i would say he didn't contribute a dime to my success and not even my school certificate brought me fortune.I have my own house,i'm married with kids,i and my wife use good cars but my point is that i seem to be the only successful one cuz i never relied on my parents and school certificate but my other siblings are still struggling with their peanut salary.My two elder brothers are still unmarried because they are not financially okay.

appsdope:
Oga go and work. He doesn't owe u a dime. He sent u to school and he tried. Biko u people should free him.. Just get ur own money. He already laid a good foundation for u guys by educating u. At 30 plus you're still looking for entitlement.. This is shameful. I've seen guys and babes from wealthy homes who made it without their parents. He might be keeping it for u guys but if you keep pestering him, he won't give it to u.

BUT seriously,he is in his 60s and retired,he has more than he needs till he dies so why is it so difficult for him to help his struggling children.He knows we are not lazy children and do not bother him for help but when you sell a property that should have been ours,its only unfair that he didn't give us our share.If all parents are like him the crime rate of this country would be very high.

eyinjuege:
There's really nothing you can do. The property is his, and I'm sure he also didn't inherit it from his own parents

Go and work hard for your own breakthrough sir. Leave your dad to do as he wants with his property. Perhaps, that's his own retirement plan.

Thank you so much,i have already decided to look past the issue but it is painful...I will never treat my children like that,i will support them with everything i have until they have become successful CUZ i know that way they will continue to pray that i live long but when you don't make your children successful they will pray he dies early so they can inherit properties.

sherylbakky:
Forget it...Think about it dis way- what if u dont av a rich father? what if he dies n he doesnt will any of his properties to u? wot if he has even died yrs ago wen he had notin n u guys were small?...Consider all des n continue d hustle, av it in mind dat if he cud made it, u can equally make it without his hlp...Alot of youth u see suffering ar also dealing wit issues like dis- rich or average father dat can at least establish dem, but d fathers wudnt just do it, dont b suprised if i tell u we even av few mothers like dat (tho few). Continue hustling n bliv in God. Dis country is just wack, if not, no one sud stil b dependin on parent or expectin money from parent after graduating.May God hlp us all. Forget it n dont b offended wit him...Remember, its his property n his money, n he has d ryt 2 use it how he likes

ghjkldfffffffffffffffff

Chai.That face though....tiger face

Las las na beardless guy be most handsome while many ladies will hype bearded guys like they are the most handsome

I See God On the Tortoise Shell.

LIKE IF YOU SAW IT IN LESS THAN 5 SECONDS.

i get work,i'm a big boy but money is never too much

dannyrhymes600:
no go hustle o olé olę oshi alapa ma shi she

not really,i'm only collecting my entitlement.

comshots:
So you are pimping for your sister?