₦airaland Forum

77up:
Because they will have a pay rise to 10,000,000 monthly if they support Obi.

Dey play

Of course not. I'm just asking what an unemployed person gets from supporting APC. At least with the current price of fuel . An unemployed person can't afford it , coupled with the many policies that the FG put in place... what exactly is the "joy" or benefit an unemployed APC member gets

Ustadah:
I asked you a question. Will they get employed if they abused APC?

oh. So what's the real benefit an unemployed person gets from supporting APC ?

decatalyst:
UK citizens and the Jakpad population, the shege is coming, rumbling like a great storm.

Brace up, winter is coming 😁

Can it be more than what Nigerians are currently experiencing? 🤔

Ustadah:
Dey play. So if they join you to abuse APC, President Tinubu and Nigeria in general they will suddenly be employed and their salaries upgraded to 500k

I don't understand you

The funniest category of people are the unemployed and people earning less than 100k monthly still supporting APC. What a pity it

kestolove95:
Like say you know Sabi d ethnic group wey U come...dem don use her for money rituals cook d other parts of her body chop

Why are you always so stupid and insensitive just for nairaland likes. Dem swear for you ni ? Can't you just pretend to atleast have sense on a topic as sensitive as this?

Kobojunkie:
That one no suppose be your concern since you seem to have spun a separate reality for yourself of OP's story. A child is missing, according to OP, meaning the authorities should be called in.

The guy you quoted is a well known troll in the politics section.

Kobojunkie:
So because he abandoned the child, he has no right to ask after it's welfare? Basically all should simply move on like it never existed?

Nigerians are very sick people . I don't even understand how we are like this .

Beverlyjean:
Why would u leave ur child behind...u are a very irresponsible person... u certainly got pregnant out of Wedlock and that was not enough for u hurting ur parents...u now dumped the baby on them and fled despite telling u not to leave

Na who swear for Nigerians like this . Now that you have insulted her now ... provide solution too abi . Many of you are just brainlessly emotional. Gosh!

addmole:
INFACT, I once paid for her to travel to ITALY because she said she wanted to go to ITALY to 'hustle'.

So since then, I used to wonder that, someone who wants to go to 'Italy to hustle' with her body, but yet, I decided to marry her and then she acts weird.

Bro , no offence oh, but are you really this daft or is your self esteem really this low ?
No offence but you're not a man at all . With this point, oh boy you're not a man at all .
I wanted to excuse all the calling the mother , sister , brother and family members before....but with what you wrote... it's obvious you're a low value human being . Shame on you

Foodqueen:
You said you are financially stable, are you sure the money is really coming from you
🤷

LOL , this is the real question. No family will ever disrespect an inlaw who's truly a "provider". To crown it all , he doesn't want to have sex 3 times in a week. so how many times in a week does he wants it

olatade:
He’s had 0 pre season and 1 training session give the kid time

With the heavy price tag , he won't be spared by the media and rival fans. I hope he doesn't suffer the same fate as Maguire. I hope he delivers sha

I should have joined Liverpool

Title contenders 😄😁😄😁 lost 3-1 to Westham. This Chelsea's team is so unserious even with the "star studded" lineup. Let's hear what their excuse is now again

Fsboperator2:
Only if it's the US.

Canada and UK nah scam.

Germany is cool but there is the German work ethics and OCD that will drive you mad.

Avoid EU entirely because like Canada and UK, it's a tax plantation.

Australia and New Zealand are fcked beyond repair.

Thank me later

Do you live in any of these countries ?

questioner:
My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ?

I've seen lots of very wrong advices on here and please I'll advise you not to take them.
The truth is, in this mordern age that we are, porn use increase over time. Let me tell you this , it probably started out as curiosity, and then maybe a few times in a week , then daily, a couple times daily and now she watches it any given time she has.

As time being spent watching porn increases, the degree of what she consumes will also increase. She will start watching more cruel scenes(because she will get bored watching all those "normal ones" )

She will start watching threesomes, foursomes, gandbangs and really crazy things you can't begin to imagine (and beleive me , there's so much porn on the internet to satisfy whatever crazy things you can imagine), and God help you she doesn't start getting curious about lesbian porn. And over time she'll fantasize about trying out those things. That's why you need to get her help right away.

Even has she is, how are you sure she's only "just" watching and not already masturbating?

You have to understand that porn addiction is very hard to break. And at that age that she is, excessive use (just like you described) can lead to severe damages on her self esteem and even her brain.

Please try and Google yourbrainonporn, so you can understand what I'm saying.

Search " Help My teen is addicted to porn" so you can get more insights and how to deal with this situation .

immortalmortal:
She go sweet to fvck o

You're just a daft fool. That's why most of you never progress in life . See what the topic is about. see what you're commenting. Get a life mate

OZIOGU1:
If you have the resources please help them, orphans prayers don't go unnoticed in the eye of God, My wife is an orphan i took her like my blood sister i can tell you that after Almighty God what i am today is largely to the blessing from her, she prays and wish me well every morning before leaving the house, i was in one level for six years, after my marriage to her, i got 4 promotions consecutively. So my brother help and i encourage you to do it with one heart, you will see your life in the next few years

I don't think you read his story well oh , The wife wants him to house her 4 sisters + new born baby + wife + him ..... how do you expect all of them to feed daily in this period that we are

CartelKenneth:
and by the way, I will never make peace with the fact that I’m Nigerian I will always resent and hate that little detail for the rest of my life and I wish there was a way to change my nationality

It really didn't take long to figure that out. But no matter how fluent you think you are in English , you'll always have that Nigerian "accent" and no matter how Fluent your French is , it'll still have that African tone . There's really nothing you can do about it. I don't know your story, but as long as you didn't lose anyone to banditry or kidnapping , boko haram and all that.. Find peace bro. You can only prosper in a land you Love

CartelKenneth:
You just put your entire argument in English why didn’t you write it in vernacular or one of your stupid Nigerian indigenous languages? Why are you writing it in English

Like I said earlier, you really need to make peace with yourself . You refer to your own native language as Vernacular and stupid c'mon now if this isn't sadness I wonder what else it is... At this point I can only pity you, cos you have real issues going on in your life that makes you hate yourself and whole being so much.
I pray you heal from it You're a really sad soul bro that radiates sadness I can't even begin to imagine what's going on in your brain or how you're living your day to day life ....HEAL little bro.

XerXers:
Baby factory is not entirely bad as you people make it appear to be. That is simply informal adoption

Are really sure you're in your right senses ? People are being "reared" like pigs to produce babies for whatever reasons and you say it's not bad enough ? It's like most of you on this site are actually brain dead or just wicked people cos wtf ?

If anyone wants to adopt there are laid down procedures in each state. Stop defending rubbish you this evil human being

Kesteem:
I don't have time for kids. this is a serious matter. Especially when I know some people are planning to extinct my religion

How can a religion with our 5 million faithful in just one country alone be extinct ?

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Isn't it sad this is what your whole life is reduced to ? A stupid , miserable pathetic online troll who's only joy in life is to come online to bash women who you can never score in real life ? You better get serious with your destiny olofo omo ale

Gamesmart:
Let me shock you!

I can bet less than 20% of Black Africans today have indigenous names.

Majority have Western or Arabic names. And many continue to give their children such names today, but yet whine that Whites and Arabs don't treat them as equals.

They make they race look like a race of people with IQ of baboons, yet wonder why they are seen as baboons.

It's really sad bro. Most of us still have our names , but it's just the new set of 1990's parents who think its cool to give their kids funny sounding English names. We really have a long way to go

CartelKenneth:
dude, calm down, insulting me, wont change anything. it not our fault that we were colonized and forced to learn English. There isn’t a need for a second language anymore, because English is kind of all we need.

The fact that your fore fathers were colonised doesn't mean your brain should be colonised , it doesn't mean your whole identity and every thing that makes you should be colonised in this mordern day and age.

Trace your roots and find peace , you need to be true to who you are ... You're a lost man bro .

Gamesmart:
Honestly, many black people are just fooolish people.

You will see them at family occasions with their elders, siblings and cousins, discussing and speaking in their mother-tongue fluently. But when their children come closer and they want to speak to the child, you will see these fooools, who were speaking their language a micro-second ago, just switch to English because they feel it is a cool language to speak with their kids and make them look cute.

When you go to parties, you try and observe this.

Failure parents with deep colomentality!

It's just sad. Seeing little children bearing silly funny english names these days just makes me wonder what's wrong with our society. Just like the silly boy I quoted who wants Nigerian languages to die , many of them just hate themselves ... because I don't undestand why you'll come from a place and not want to identify with the place, through your name , language and even food ...( there are many silly ones like that too who will say they don't eat "swallow" , forgetting that that food that you love to eat is a normal native food of a particular place )

Something is definitely wrong with the black man. the Nigerian especially

CartelKenneth:
80 percent speak English only
You don’t need any stupid data source just go outside and talk to people

No offence bro, but you're actually the insanely stupid one here. More than half of the population speak at least one indigenous language and English... Even in some parts of the North it's Hausa/fulfude (or whatever indigenous language ) and Arabic. This statement is backed by data , I'll suggest you look it up

If you're so daft that you think you can just excrete data out of your gut and expect us to foolishly go along with it , it won't work bros and again you're really a stupid soul for that.

If you hate yourself and where you come from so much that you'll rather speak english instead of your own language , I'll suggest you look up videos online on how to make peace with yourself , because bros you're a NIgerian whether you like it or not and that's your identity anywhere you go even till you die .

Again, No offense bro ... but you foolish gidi gaan olohun ngbo o gò gan, o tun fi enu hora.
Love and light

CartelKenneth:
by the way, nothing like bad parenting because it’s because of colonization that we all speak this language 80% of Nigeria youth speak English only it’s our official language and there’s nothing you can do about it.


Indigenous languages will die off and that cannot be stopped.

LOL , you are very funny. I don't know where you're from but one thing I can tell you is that
Y oruba isn't dying in the next 50 years , neither is Hausa or Igbo . Check the data on the number of people who speak each of these languages and check the data on the languages that have phased out with the past century .... Do you know how many people will have to die within the next 50 years for any of these languages to " die" according to you .

Your comment reeks of self hate , you can speak english all you want but that won't make you an english man . So come to terms with reality and stop all the nonsense colonial mindset.

By the way , show the data source of 80% of Nigerian youths speaking "English only "

Gamesmart:
Being proud of who you are, keeping your identity with dignity and not being a dumb wannabe (who thinks by not speaking your mother tongue or any Nigerian language makes you "civilised" or "cool" ) makes you a more valuable black person in general.

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Bless you for this. I don't undestand what it is with the mordern age Nigerians that only speak english to their kids and totally neglecting their own language. Only God knows how they spread the stupid mentality that your child will speak bad english if you continue to speak your native language to the child.

The whites really fuked with the black man's brain, to the extent that blackman wants to lose his complete identity. As for me, I speak and write yoruba fluently with a little bit of hausa. All my kids will bear Yoruba names and will understand at least 1 Nigerian fluently.

Unbiased1:
That app you are talking about was created by a bigoted fool and he was served with his own medicine. At a time when the masses were complaining that the government has banned Twitter and accused the government of dictatorship, the fool came out to openly defend the government's actions and Nigerians said, if you support the banning of Twitter and dictatorship by the Buhari administration, we won't also use your app.

Are you talking about Adamu's crowwe app ? :