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If she spends money on you!...that's it.

Guys women would rather give you pusy than money.....money is more important to a woman than pusy....that's why a lot of women sell their pusy for money.

It makes sense, after all pusy cannot finish and money can......If a woman goes out of her way to buy you things like clothes, food and she gives you money I assure you she is into you women don't like to part with their money when it comes to a guy.

Now sometimes if a girl meets a rich guy that spoils her with gifts and money she may sometimes buy him something small and cheap like boxers and singlet just to impress him and to manipulate him into doing more for her, this doesn't count, in this case she may not be that into you.

But if she seems like she wants to spend more on you than you spend on her then be rest assured you have her mumu button, a girl that is into a guy doesn't use all this feminine logic of he has to invest more.

Lol....tiri gbosa for original mumu.

Feelings have blinded you.....you have been duped and made a fool of but because you have invested a lot in her already, cos of your SUNK COST(look it up)....you dont want all you have invested to be a waste that is why you want to convince yourself that she was indeed raped so you dont feel like a mugu.

it is better to feel like a mugu now, get rid of her and learn from the experience than be taken for a fool your whole life....."your" woman would not respect you.

lammylam:
I'm on the thick side.

Fat is not thickness!
FAT is FAT. point blank period!

ZINIBANKS:
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh niggar I swear I don lafff tire here Where she dey

no go send your fellow guy money o

lammylam:
See this one o who is complaing? Na you dey put mouth for wetin no affect yo na. Fat or slim , Tall or short! Its nobody's fault just go for the one that suits you! and mind your business.

Lol....no vex
if u born one now everywhere go burst.
hit the gym asap

lammylam:
Soo being fat is now a crime??
So we kill ourselves or what??

Mtchewww

Do short guys kill themselves over being called short?...why should a fat girl kill herself?.......a short guy cannot do anything about his height, but a fat person can....work out and eat healthy and stop complaining.

Mvena:
All this yarns na Okoto meow

Lol....okay.

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive. She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too. There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship. We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex.
In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too. As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning,,,blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all. My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.
Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.
Thanks

Let me be honest with you, even though you marry her, one day when you guys have a very bad argument she'll call the guy and he'll take advantage of your situation, if she misses him sef she'll create drama and chaos for an excuse to have space to visit him (she'll come back to you though, because guys like that won't keep her trust me)

He has imprinted on her and there is nothing you can do about it, rid yourself of emotions they are not useful to a man, wear a garment of self respect...that girl is not for you, you need a girl you'd imprint and groom for yourself if not you'd always take second place in her heart......you may not even be her 4th choice.

Feelings blind you from the truth, purge yourself of feelings so you won't be distracted from your purpose pursuing another man's property....let me ask you this why didn't she call you when she was drunk.....you think she is stupid, she called him on purpose because she wanted him to Fvck her, so I assure you he didn't take advantage of her.

He is the typical bad boy who smokes and drinks but wouldn't commit to her....DON'T SET YOURSELF UP.

Ayoothniel1:
It depends, I stopped talking to a lady that was curvy before all of a sudden, within two months she became round and fat with big cheeks..funny thing is she still eats like a glutton and I pity her shape when she finally puts to bed...being fat isn’t bad but one has to diet and exercise..

Fat women have no impulse control, a lot of them may say it's genetics, if you get close to them you'd find out they have poor eating habits and they lack discipline.

ArticleBeast:
Fat girls are for real african men. Unfortunately most of you on Nairaland are boys.

The heart attack and diabetes they have a chance of getting is it also for real African men to deal with.

Lizzie99:
same way I can't date fat guys

I love normal,tall brown skin boy�

Yes!.....Fat people should work on themselves.

akpunda86:
Mumu post.I bet ur mum was or is fat.looks like how ur dad treated her when she lost weight.Under18yrs just full here now.MOFO

Say what you want...but I bet you won't date a fat woman....

DaInferno:
body shamer, I am not fat but this is nonsense, some ppl no d reason wetin them the talk well before them talk !

I said fat girls not guys....or are you a girl?

Regardless of how some modern day fat women(like LIZZO) are trying to glorify being FAT and acting like they love their body....I can assure you they don't and they are highly insecure about it.....It doesn't matter how confident they like to act, it's a front, they seem to be very outgoing and sometimes rude, its all a front to throw you off the scent of their insecurities.

Fat girls have a high tendency to be sluts because they seek validation from men with their body using sex as a weapon to boost their ego that a guy is attracted to them....guys who have been in the field know that fat women are the easiest to fvck.....and if you date them your friends can easily fvck them don't date fat girls!

Even if you are naturally attracted to fat women, don't if you date or marry them and somehow they motivate themselves to loose weight....and as they begin to look fit they would loose attraction for you because in their mind they are not on your level anymore, it doesn't matter if you love fat women,fat women always settle for what they can get......and a fat woman would see you as low quality if you settle for her.

In the united states statistics show that most fat women who lost weight later in their marriage filed for divorce from their husband 85%....i'm not making this up......the reason is they crave that attention from men they are sexually attracted to who were not attracted to them when they were fat, so as soon as they loose the weight they'll create drama and chaos and look for a reason to cheat.

So you don't want to toast her or bang her?
you want dey change light bulb?....or help move fridge, you want dey start generator for am?

guy be useful to yourself.

My only problem is, why is she mounting pressure on you to see her parents after only one year?......that's suspect.


Truth is those kind of girls(disrespectful girls) don't really change for the better.....I believe a 23yr old girl is already set in her ways.

Are you sure she is actually 26? she may be older.....you never know the length girls go to hook a man.

If you still want to marry her although i advice you not to, you have to train her with a very strong hand, like a father would not just a romantic lover.

Use your sexual and non sexual attention, silence use a strict punishment and reward system to bend her, become emotionless towards her if she acts any way you disapprove of and reward her with you attention and sex when she acts submissive and respectful.

but make sure your punishment is extended longer than your reward,(reward in crumbs and make her yearn for your validation)

Don't feel bad women use sex as reward and punishment for men to tame them into being loyal slaves.....you need to be the one playing this game, but to successfully do this you have to control your urge for sex.

Then the power is yours.

Starz825:
who told you that... So 2 face Is light skinned?

he is certainly not darkskin

fati2001:
am I complaining?
OK well I also like dark skin..... he can't withstand those (2face, Trey Songz Miguel, future and the dark-skinned niggas) in terms of handsome or any body statue.

2 face is not dark skinned

fati2001:
Nahwa oh, you never go far you Don dy show urself.

madame no vex, someone is out there that would like your color.

myles16:
Soooooooooooo!!! someone that escaped albino, lightskin yen yen yen... una go dey do like say una be oyinbo

no vex

I am a light skinned guy although not as light skinned as Ozo , but some shades lighter than chocolate.......for a long time my friends have been bugging me talking about me being the only light skinned guy that likes only light skinned girls, as if it is my fault that i find dark skinned girls unattractive and masculine...

A light skin guy can look more masculine and tougher by working out more(bulking up like Ozo) some even get tattoos (like chris brown),or grow a full beard(like phyno)......but dark skin girl look kinda rough and what can they really do to look more feminine?

I'm rooting for that Ozo guy, atleast we have something in common.

and NO guys two light skin couples won't give birth to an albino, that's not how that works....stupiid.

Apart from other factors like :

* Who invested more
* Who broke up with who
*Who cheated and so on...

All things being equal, on average the woman moves on faster, she heals faster. Moving on doesn't mean she forgets you but she can get "entangled" in a new prospective relationship faster. because of 2 reasons:

1. Women love relationships just as much as men love sex.....the average man can't go long without sex, its the same for women and relationships, women crave for the comfort and security a relationship brings.

2. BIOLOGY....believe it or not it's a scientific fact that women move on faster and there is a scientific explanation for it.....you see guys, a woman doesn't have the luxury of time on her side, by the age of 30 a woman has lost 90% of her eggs and the chances of her conceiving decreases rapidly afterwards and the chances of pregnancy complications increases...a woman's body understands this subconsciously on a deep biological level.......a woman would push her past aside to fulfill her biological imperative of reproduction.

So there you have it guys it's not personal, its the effects of EVOLUTIONARY BIOLOGY.