₦airaland Forum

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LegendHero:
Lol which Obidient?

Any protest that do not originate from Lagos and have some certain movers won’t see light of the day.

Na Yoruba people understand protest and how to move it because we have history of true activists that command respect.

Remove Yoruba from your protest and see it die a natural death.

So Yorubas are not buying fuel for 600 naira abi, the reason why we are still talking is because jungle have not mature a month from now everybody will hate Tinubu including you because once food items increases you won't endure it just wait you go witness the sleepless

kokorokoman:
you you want me to show you a link of when obi was a governor, lets bet, if you see any good comments about him in the first three pages i owe you 5k naira. are you game ?

So you want to me to believe on a sponsored news or thread
Show me the infrastructures built by Tinubu, Kwankwaso and Obi let's compare not showing me Nairaland thread created by opposition sir come up with the development index

LegendHero:
NLC about to be rubbished.

Seems they don’t know they are now dealing with President Bola Tinubu.

Let’s see how it goes.

If Obidents get involved in the protest Tinubu will be unhealthy

kokorokoman:
please were you on nairaland when obi was governor?
even anambrarians wanted to kill him with insults here, he performed abysmally as a governor.
of the three past govts in anambra obi is the worse of all, three of the four major contestants in the last elections were past governors in their respective states, name kwakwaso, tinubu and obi, of the three of them obi also is the worse of them of all in terms of economy and infrastructural development.
so how do you want such a person to come second in an election against people that are obviously better than.

And why did Obi win governor of the year if he was so bad even in opposition party

zomby:
This is 10000% certain.
The igbos don't understand that, to win a presidential election in Nigeria, you need either the northerners or the Yorubas. The northerners will never deal with the igbos, the yoruba on the other hand have finally woken up; the igbos will not be entertained ever again.
The big question is: Are the igbos enough to elect an igbo president?

The answer is NO!
There will never be an igbo president in Nigeria for the next 130 yrs.

Make 400 yrs

Kobojunkie:
So, no place for wisdom at all in your traditions?

Which wisdom again, you type believe in making himself happy your type can bleep another man's wife and say nothing will happen (no vex oh) but that's my projection on you tradition is very very important

casualobserver:
Avoid women from complicated families…especially those who do not have a relationship with or know their biological fathers. What the mother did to the father, the daughter will do to you. The mother has set a precedent that it is ok to take the children and alienate them from the father and allow another man to raise them. Don’t say you were not warned.

You think it won’t happen to you? Who is going to stop or talk sense into her when she decides to do same with you, is it her mother who took the children and alienated them from their father or the father who is absent from her life? Don’t forget every divorce started with “I love you”

If you want an idea of how your marriage will be look at the marriage of your parents and that of your potential spouse…history always repeats itself. It’s called learned behavior, but Nigerians call it generational curses.

If you want to marry a woman and the father is alive, that is the person that will rightfully grant you blessing to marry his daughter. If you go to another man for blessing, another man will give blessing for your own daughter. If there is a reason why you cannot go to the father for blessing or the father cannot walk her down the aisle then that is a red flag and a warning to run for your life and find another woman to marry.

The only reason why anyone other than the father should give blessing or give a woman out in marriage is that the father is dead. If you want peace and a fruitful marriage, listen to me. If a woman’s father is alive and she cannot bring her father to give you out in marriage, or says he doesn’t matter, she is not from a good home because it shows she has no respect for her father and will not respect you once she is married to you.

As far as the adopted father, only a stupid man will give his step daughter out in marriage when the father is alive. It is not his daughter to give out no matter if he has raised her. All this shows to me the step father, the mother and the daughter are not well brought up.

You're a true traditional man God bless you

Kobojunkie:
But your traditions and beliefs clearly fly in the face of commonsense/wisdom as it exists in the year 2023. Are we to flout wisdom in the name of customs and traditions?

Oga tradition is very important in marriage even the bride price is tradition. Maybe your tribe don't have tradition and custom

UjuJoan2:
May God not let my daughter come across men like this.

May my daughter come across a man like him a man who believes in tradition is a man

MetaBroadband:
I appreciate all you comments so far, but I see many of you ignoring traditions and the points I raised because of emotions.

Have you not seen where person was mandated to pay bride price twice either because of one or two mistakes?

That's the girl's story, what if they all lied to her and she grew up with it? What happens if the tradition doesn't permit another man to collect bride price of a girl whose father is still alive?

Please drop emotions and be more critical in this matter I beg you guys. I've heard of a scenerio where they have to change the venue of a traditional marriage simple because it wasn't supposed to be held at the place it was holding then.

Are we simply trashing the traditions when indeed the bride price follows the tradition?

Abeg make we think or ask person wey dey advance for his own opinion before we comment.

What if tomorrow now, they said because of A wasn't supposed to be A, I have to come and pay goat and Elon musk before this and that?

Don't listen to those girls advice, their advice will lead you to anguish. Tradition is very important don't neglect tradition

Kobojunkie:
So, in 2023, your clan are full of ignorant people who still believe children might die of unknown causes and you came here to beat your chest about this? Rather than dig to figure out exactly what illness keeps taking children in your community, you can here to beat your superstitions-riddled chest about how it is all the fault of evil spirits?

Sir my tribe have custom and tradition
You can't take bride price of whom you didn't give birth to when the original father is a life in my tradition it always back fire seriously

ZIMDRILL:
this is complex but it differs tradition of every tribe etc

where i came from son in law can ONLY pay bride price to the biological father in law or the women's family. if the child was raised by the mother alone, the biological father will
be present at the bride price day to witness and given a little token, but the large sum is given to the mum and her brothers



In my culture a step father can not represent a living biological father not matter the reason
they separated from the mother and whether deadbeat.

In my culture, if the father was absent when the girl was growing up and when she is getting married the biological father is invited to charge bride and the same time they will
charge him for being an absent father. if he had not paid bride price, they will charge him pride price, meaning instead of getting pride price from him daughter it will go pay the bride price of the girl's mother

For spiritual reason you pay bride price
to the biological father


In such situations your own family (son in laws) must guide you in finding the biological father or or his relatives, otherwise you pay pride price twice

Back to the story, lets say he pays bride price to the step father and in the long run the couple fights or have problems in house, which family will intervene to help ? the step father's family ? but if pride price is paid to the biological father its easy to seek help from relevent people from the biological father's family there are related by blood.

You're right if his Igbo it will affect him or the children in future, you can't represent a living father no matter the condition

MetaBroadband:
I'm so sorry Ma, this is not the reason for this post. Yesterday we spoke she said the man is aware, that he does not have issues with it.

So why can't I meet this man as well if truly the man is aware that she's getting married?

Secondly, if they are in good terms then it should have been proper for me to meet him too.

I've seen and heard marriages like this that later required some attention in the future because of a step that was skipped in the past. So get this clear, this is not a fiction to castigate women.

Run away from that marriage it will letter affect you. Your children might suffer and letter you will still go and look for the biological father pray then he might be a life

Jovialjune1:
All of you will rest las las, keep typing from your imagination just to castigate women, even if we choose to believe your fiction, who do you think you are to want to meddle into what is not your concern?

Do you think the lady and her mother haven't thought of the traditional effect before deciding to go ahead with the wedding? The step dad that took care of her since childhood, is he a dunce to not know her dad abandoned them thereby marrying and taking care of them? The dead beat that remained a deadbeat all these years, why didn't he look for his daughter if he really wanted to be a part of her life? Did her mother's marriage to another man stop him from looking for her? The lady abi na fiancee that told you he abandoned them, do you think she wouldn't have made an effort to hear from him as a grown adult and still see that he's still the same?

It's not by force to marry her, she sees her step dad as her father, being a sperm donor doesn't automatically make one a father, if the step dad is not enough for you, move on to other ladies.

This is the reason my friend refused to marry outside Igbo tribe, he believes other tribe don't have good traditional marriage custom in my Igbo clan they might end up not having child or their children might die when they grow maybe after university graduation

Parachoko:
Person wey dey earn 30k in a month no need generator

See eh, subsidy is gone for good

Person wey dey earn 30k and get car and generator should sell them or stop using them. So he or she will have enough money to spend on transport fare

Bros how much will someone earn before he or she can buy car, generator, motorcycle, do civil servant deserve to have phone too because we need electricity to charge phones and we don't even have 3 hours electricity

Parachoko:
Person wey dey earn 30k in a month no need generator

See eh, subsidy is gone for good

Person wey dey earn 30k and get car and generator should sell them or stop using them. So he or she will have enough money to spend on transport fare

Bros how much will someone earn before he or she can buy car, generator, motorcycle

But the said Judges told them to go home and arrange them selves inorder
APC can lie

OJEROBIN:
Efforts in futility,

This we know

Na you talk that one but I won't say anything about APC vs PDP and LP court case because I can't say what will happen because I didn't see, any way all I can say is nothing is certain

duduade16:
God bless you jor

Amen and also you

Mindlog:
The minimum wage in Kenya is about N78,000 per month as a domestic staff/house help in a city like Nairobi. Their primary school teachers is about N125,000 per month while for their policemen, a newly recruited has a minimum wage of about N170,000.

Thanks for this May God bless you

duduade16:
God bless you jor

I support Peter Obi but if he does anything bad I will criticize him I must not swallow every thing because it's from the man I support

Oya show us their Minimum wage and tell us about their power sector, health sector, education sector and mostly security

NzogbuNzogbu:
Attention seeker

You sure you don't need donation?

After talking shiiit you trek to your working place, see Tinubu forcing you to trek 15 kilometers like say he can trek for 3 minutes

OGHENAOGIE:
cos they refused to vote ur overhyped Messiah Obi... Wailing and blame game won't solve it if u are angry that pple led protest 2011 organize ur own and galvanize opposition simple

When you finished talking you'll trek to your house. If we protest now you will be the first person to say we want to spoil Tinubu government, but soon protest will start

richmond500:
Na person weh understand this write up I go vote for next election

You haven't survive the one you voted and you're here planning to vote are you sure you will survive Tinubu hardship or think it's only fuel prices will increase. Hospital bills will increase, foot items the prices will increase, everything will soon increase

Biodun556:
His own will never reach that amount. The 511 includes taxes and custom duties on the imported oil

Okay long days ahead

deeva2:
Peter Obi will be disgraced at court of appeal and Supreme Court.
You heard it here first!
You can’t win Grace! It’s not by man’s effort.
Study Grace then you understand what I am saying!
Tinubu is a Man of Grace.
You can not defeat Grace!

We're talking about fuel scarcity and you're here calling Peter Obi. We are still at early stage very soon food items the prices will go up that time your eyes, nose, brain go open

Na every body go hear amm.
We so much depend on Dangote Refinery make him no come disappoint us, make we no buy fuel for 900 till end of the year

Spirit04:
Government subsidize fuel for yahoo boys buying Benz and driving aimlessly about and then return home to turn on generator just to blast music for 24 hours straight. Make fuel enter 2k sef

Na only yahoo boys go buy am for 2k
Fuel go soon enter 3k

For now it's not KANU it's fuel
What matters now is fuel

Tinubu and Buhari no try at all