eteba:
The only help i can offer is that i have Sure fixed matches for you.

Thanks I'm good.

Gamesmart:


It is easy for me, bruv.

I know where to put my money and how to sensibly use it.

Anywhere I put my money, I study it completely to ensure I have a good chance of it growing, or at least getting over 80% of it back.

Anyone with sense will know that in gambling, the house/betting company has to win majority and be rich. The money comes from the magas. They only have to have a few once a while to let magas continue having hope and believing they will win.

I am no fooool, it is hard to part me from my money without giving me a beneficial value in return.

That's it... I need to know & practice stuffs like this!
But first I gotta get rid of gambling.
Thanks for the word.

Restructure9ja:


Call 07042020423

I'll do just that
Thanks so very much bro. God bless you!

BRATISLAVA:


Delete your gambling apps and use a phone without internet access. Change your paths to avoid you're favorite gambling spots. Keep away from your old friends, tell them you're meditating or something. Face your teaching with new vigor.

You're a gambler. You will say you've heard, but you actually haven't. What you're feeling is remorse that will last until your next salary. Once that salary comes you're back to square one, isn't it?

I'm actually new here
Thank Goodness there are no betting shops around! I've deleted every betting related app on my Phone and I'm going off the internet for some time tomorrow probably!!
I'm taking my sim card out of my phone... That's the plan..hopefully it'll work.


Thanks for the comment bro.

isax:


it is alright, you are not dead.
At least I thank God you are alive to see the result of your deeds. As some other people get depressed over issues like this. That is a life learning lesson, learn and move on.
Failure is not final.

On a lighter note just to get you to smile; YOUR TOPIC REACHED NAIRALAND FRONT PAGE!!!!!

And I've learned my lesson this time for real!
I hope I don't fall back anymore....

I did smile bro. No Cap
Thanks so much i'd appreciate

written007:



Until you accept what gambling does psychologically to you, you would not stop.

Know this and know peace: Gambling is a lose lost street, a two way street, if u like, with same finish line. One is You Lose and the second is you 'win' which allows your mind forge unhealthy habit that traps you until you lose.

That's deep & hard to grasp
Bottom line I'll get rid of it that I know.
Thanks so much

Gamesmart:


Advice on how to stop yourself from doing what you should not do that is bad for you?

Mehn it's not as easy as you think!

Gamesmart:


This shows your IQ is too low to manage and improve your life.

I guess so!
I know for a fact i'm getting there though.

Tony142:




Nobody should help this bastard , as matured as u are u uss all your allawee take gamble, idiot

Thanks for the comment!

vickolex:
You are one of the millions of Nigerians in this self inflicted mess. Quit it asap for tou mental health sake

Definitely... I'm working on that!
I'll be better off real soon, that I know.
Thank so much

seyz91:


no be help you need
.na serious beating plus enough slap you deserve

when it comes to gambling and lending out money, gamble or stake what you can afford to loose same as lend money you can afford to loose

help kee you there

Thanks Bro.!! I seriously need am! I no mind make I order two slaps from you wey go rewire my brain so i fit get sense. Make I drop addy?

InvestorO:


Accept the fact that you are loser when it comes to gambling and there is no trick you can pull off that you can win or recover your money back,...

Let your subconscious mind know that so when the urge of gambling comes again,you keep your money to your self....

It is urge to recover your losses back that mostly keeps gambling addicts into deeper shiit in a rabbit hole they never come out from

True talk.. I'm working on that!
Thanks so much

Akanaz:
I'm glad you said you need advice and not financial help because if you had won, you wouldn't have remembered nairaland at all. Well, I would advise you to stay away from gambling completely and if that's a lil bit difficult because you don't have any other means to shore up your meager income, you should also learn to gamble wisely.

And as for advice on how to move on, just accept your fate and seek financial help from friends and relatives who would have benefited from your earnings if you had won.

Thanks bro. You've written well¡
I'm getting over it. I just hope I don't fall back

Domipraiz:
Bro wake up and be strong
Gambling destroy which I believe u have seen.
Forget ur past and think of 2moro which will be great for you.
Remain bless
Jesus love you

Thanks a lot Bro.
This means a lot!
I'm working on my problem! Real soon I'll be better off.

Amtrak:
That you have gambled your alawee away just this once is not the real problem... the real problem is that you could have a gambling problem.

That I Know & Thanks for reminding me.
Hopefully I'll get through this..

Promoter2:
Don't be too hard on yourself. Everybody dey get when e dey f up.

Try to source for some money for your upkeep.

Forget gambling for now and act as your monicker says

One day, everywhere go stew. Cheers.

No kill yourself, na money you lose no be life.


Having problems with your CV? See my siggy for professional CV

Thanks Bro. I really appreciate! You too much

So sad! The rate at wish Youths especially those in the Tertiary institutions are dying is really alarming!

May Her Soul Rest In Paradise....Amen!

15ssDRIVE:



Nothing is wrong with you, you have only learnt your lessons.
The owner of the gambling business, set up the business to make money .
So you are always gonna loss 99.9%. You are educated, so if it’s worth risking ur money on 00.01 chances of wining, then go ahead and gamble again.

If not look for other thing you can do to make ends meets, like teaching extra classes. Build a network of people you meet daily and create opportunities .

Alright thanks so much bro. This means a lot! I'll work on this advice...

uvie66:
You are a teacher who should be acting as a role model advising his students not to gamble...

I know right!
I Believe I can still be that Role Model to the kids.

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Mehn I wan just stop am!

DMCY:


Was once in your shoes back then in uni, I was almost sent back home when I used my tuition to play how I was able to get the 65k back till today I don’t understand, na then I know say I gats stop or else it will stop my heart beat.

The funniest part of the game is when it remains only one for the game to enter and you’re so sure that team will win and they eventually play 0-0 till 70mins, that’s when your refreshing flashscore every second begins reality dawns on you when they later finished the match like that

If it’s night, you just jejely lay on your bed and think to sleep

I can relate bro. I've been through it all
Damn!

frozen70:


Good thinking

Thanks so much.

Vaiki:
You gambled away just 33k and you are crying? Poverty is bad!!

For real its not actually the money that made me to cry... It's how I'm destroying my Life!
I don't wanna continue like this. Deep down I really wanna stop. I'm tired¡

Yoighaman:


Bro, don't be hard on yourself, take it easy. We all have at one time or the other had a vice or two. Just know when to let go. Gambling is an addiction, just like Cigarette, Alcohol, Masturbation or Drugs, and it can be dangerous; You need to consciously work on quitting, though it's not easy. For now, please gamble with only the amount you can afford to lose, not your entire earnings or savings. May God help you quit. One love, my brother.

Word!
Thanks so much bro. I'd appreciate
Hopefully I'll get rid of the habit.

samuelson06:


Dog don leak this one face. Look at what a graduate is saying. Stwepid!

Thanks bro.
I needed that..

SweetDipBenny:
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Word Thanks bro.

JerryJJZ:
Nigerians and savage responses.

Anyways, @OP, you need understand the simple logic to get out of this mess. If not, you will keep going and coming forever. Gambling is more spiritual than physical. The spirit of gambling is like that of pornography. They are both difficult to exclude. I have been a victim of both scenarios. My gambling was worst to the extent I derive beautiful formular and strategies to help me win. Other people use my strategy to win big but it never profited me. I studied bookies like a 3 unit course and I mastered the art of the odds. I read books and subscribed to different punting channels. I dedicated my time to it and I took it as a real business. But in the end, I kept loosing and loosing and loosing. I left countless times and vowed never to come back, na lie oooo... few months later, am back to my Bet9ja. I have to tell you this, so you can understand you are not alone, but I left the crew already.

I finally left gambling 5 years ago. And only one principle helped me "Gambling is a spiritual manipulation that bargains your destiny with the physical". To further buttress the fact that gambling is spiritual, you will see yourself imagining things you will buy, even without winning yet. You book games, even in your sleep. Your mind and attention is always in bookies. You dont bother calculating the ratio of your lost funds to your gains. Even if you do, you never have the courage to let go. You seldomly hear whispers on which games to pick. You always, as in, always and always think that your next game may be your breakthrough game, even if it never happens.

I make bold to tell you, only your strong will and determination can help you out. You must wholly conclude NEVER to engage in that activity again. When your will is strong enough, your prayer will become more effective.

Finally, in my own case, I finally concluded my case was worse because God never wanted me to continue in gambling. My wealth isnt hidden there, and that was it.

I dont know if you can relate with this. But this is my story and encounter. If your faith is strong enough, I can provide you with bet9ja log in details so you can calculate how much I burnt in this bookies, you will be shocked sir!

Thanks so much for sharing your story, I'll key into your advice, hopefully I'll get through this. I really appreciate!!

obehi231:
In summary to all these advice and words of encouragement, you might av learnt a big lesson it was greed on your side u make money gradually hw do you gamble with a full alawee in a foreign state when you knw is not easy to borrow due to the harsh economic condition

I really messed up big time, I'll pull through this phase eventually thanks a lot.

frozen70:


Experience is the best teacher, this is the right time to mend your ways, the worst us still coming if you don't drop those dirty habits

I'm positive this the end of it.
I ain't looking back at it.

DMCY:


You don hustle hustle so tey hustle don hustle you

Guy no be small thing aswear
I pass through hell.

Trimjos:


Drop ur akant

Thanks bro.

Aklee4994:
Gambling or betting pls

They're both the same!