drealcivilceno:


What do you want to use the winnings for?.. To buy cloth abi and car abi, to show off.

Listen, gambling is not bad, it is the way you play that is weird, just as laughing is not bad but when it is done improperly, people think you a fool.

Play what you can afford and for it's future usefulness... That is why whenever you loose, you feel like shit.

You are contributing to economy, and it will get to your turn someday, but have enough to survive till that time.

Let no one put you down, no one ever knows the truth, we all say things that fits our narrative and that is it.

Thanks so much... You've written well. I really appreciate, hopefully I'll get rid of this habit.

VULCAN:
Surprisingly, your problem isn't gambling.

Your problem is indiscipline.

Gambling is just where you chose to express your lack of discipline.

I read a post here a few days ago of a guy who never bets more than N100 and sometimes he wins good money.

I respect that level of discipline.

The fact that you also cannot teach the kids is another sign of your indiscipline.

Teaching those kids is supposed to take place regardless of what happens unless there is a death in the family or something close to that.

But your indisciplined self wants to abandon that responsibility.

Let me share advise now

Decide that you will NEVER bet more than N1000 at once and if you lose then the next bet must be N900 and if you lose then the next bet must be N800 and so on.

Only if you win do you go back to betting N1000

If you lose 10 times in a row then you pack it up as that is a clear sign that it is not for you.

If you can discipline yourself you can do this, if you can't then your type has already lost their future because you will bet with your company's money and end up in jail.

It's because you haven't seen anybody who destroyed their life by uncontrolled gambling that you are still there.

Only the disciplined survive

Thanks for sharing this I really appreciate.
I'm actually working on getting rid of the habit...i feel a bit better now, I'm currently in class.. It's break time tho

InvestorO:


See it as an investment went wrong and you will definitely feel better .....

That won't solve the problem bro.
I wanna get rid of the habit

vickydevoka:

Gambling is bad especially when u are from poor background. Two guys i know killed themselves bcus no hope. Hunger n frustration everyday.

Leave gambling for rich people or people with hand work.

Teachers, corpers, small salary earners n SME should stay completely off.

I'm working on that.
Thanks so much for the word!

So Sad, May Her Soul Rest In Peace...Amen!

SimeonOTC:


NYSC total allowance is about 396k for 12months..I was able to save 300k from it.., after p.o.p, the state I serve paid us 96k, making it appropriately 400k, as I type this now, the money is still in my acct since February we passed out..how was I able to save this much? I am low-key nigga, never gambled, wasteful or even have a girlfriend dispite have lots of younger ones that look up to me, I have big problems, but I handle the strategically..that aside anyway..

O.p I laugh you, if you dnt stop, I swear bro, you go suffer.. heavy suffer..
I ones gambled long time ago.. gambling does interest me..I really don't know why.. there is a spirit in me that always fight anything that takes away my hard earn funds, I go back to the drawing board to see how to starve the thing or addict or better still, look for an alternative.

O.p try this little solution, it may rewire your brain.

Channel all your funds into a 'legit' saving financial app, where you can watch the money grow through interest or investment, apps like cowry saving app, rice investment app, piggyvest..
Always login just the way you login your bet app to check your money and interest been sent to you daily and also check for other investment opportunities in the app, check for other people's savings and funds they have invested, you will be amaze and challenged to save and invest like them or more than then, you will shock to know that in this country, people save like mad man, I jst loggin piggyvest and saw some saved 5milli in his target savings, about approximately 20-40k interest will be paid to him every month for absolutely doing NOTHING!!

Try this, but first, delete and unsubscribe from all bet apps as well as uninstalling them..starve yourself from betting for some days.

Word!
Thanks so much bro. This means a lot!
I'll key into this. God Bless

FolabiCash:


Damn wish I could be of help , but you know the country is on fire at the moment , next time don't go all in while gambling. God be with you.

Amen! Thanks a lot bro. I really appreciate.

Herbephe1:
I was tempted yo gamble last week.My roommate has being winning bet9ja since last week,he bought plenty food and while I feed only on garri..I asked him of just 1k to buy food stuff, the guy unleash unprintable words on me because I used to discourage him from gambling. Few days later my lecturer a friend sent 2k to me..I used 1k to buy kulikuli and used the remaining play bet9ja,... Now I'm back to square one... betting is evil, dissociate yourself from it.

Your roommate?? Ain't y'all supposed to be feeding together?
Sorry, you're going through this I can relate though.
I'm currently working on getting rid of my gambling issues.
Thanks for commenting.

Akposkibo:
https://www.nairaland.com/6780662/next-decision#106409007

Gambling is not good
You might win today and loose all tomorrow
Be contented

Click the link above

Thanks so much, bro.
I'll key into this too... I'll drop you a message on WhatsApp.

AbujaCitiBlog:

Sorry about your situation. Don't be a gambler be a business man. A lot of people are building houses with money from betting. Be wise. Let me see what I can do for you tomorrow.

Thanks so much.

CaveAdullam:


Find a particular child or coteries of kids to work with, that is, get closer to them, teach them, kind of try to imbue some educational qualities in them both within and outside the classroom. Then, you can use that opportunity to get to their guardians and parents whom you can also benefit from.

Stay safe!

Thanks for this advice
I really appreciate bro.

KamalGS:
Let go of the thinking the deed have been done . Just learn how to stop gambling using these tip.
You become who you associate yourself with. Change your circle of friends.
Stop going around the place of gambling

I'm actually new here so I got no friends.
Everything happened online, so with the advice I've gotten here. I wanna go off the internet for as long as I can.
Thanks so much!

CaveAdullam:
This darkness you're witnessing now will pass away. Just take everything slowly, 2-4 months from now, you look back and leap for joy for this hurdle scaled through.

Try and mingle with the locales in your community. I believe they will have good hearts towards you as a Corp member. What's important here is not too much fretting, murmuring and crying. If you can eat daily even if it's once, you can overcome.

Only you can elevate yourself, please do!

Thanks.

Thanks so Much.
I really appreciate your comment, hopefully I'll get through this.

lied:
Dont give up.
Winners never quit.
Take a loan, and play again.

Guess I'm a Loser, so I gotta quit.
Thanks for the comment.

sheanzy:
first of all, tell me the games that cut your ticket before I ask you to send ur account number

I just need advice on how to get through this phase, I'm not asking for tips here!
Thanks for commenting.

Karleb:


I will advice against giving him a kobo. Let him learn the hard way.

It's even better that it's just 33k and there's hope next month. If he doesn't learn now, he might gamble with a million tomorrow.

Hopefully I've learnt my lesson!
All I need is a kobo of advice to get me through this mess.
Thanks for the comment.

Karleb:
I don't see this as an issue.

Just take it as an opportunity to learn, another alawee is coming, if you like gamble with it again.

I hope I learn from this
Thanks a lot!

Princeadebayo11:
Without loosing the money on gambling, the 33k na rubbish self talk less of loosing it on gambling. The 33k doesn't last at all

True! E be like blood money e dey go as e dey come.
But I no still suppose throw am like that... Hungry kids full here better say I do giveaway than donating to some rich betting company. I mess up big time..

infogenius:


Come on! Forgive urself and give urself another chance. Your healing starts from there
Go on ur kneels and pray to God. Believe God to take off the rest
He will definitely respond to ur prayer in His own way.
My advice is this, once u pull through never mix up urself in gambling and debt. There is no way for through this route.
All the best Bro

Thanks so Much Bro.
I'm trying my best hopefully I'll pull through

shomutuski:



Better wake up, mugu no be only you owe for this life

Mehn my own too Much Abeg!

May His Soul Rest In Paradise Amen!

Gandollar:
I'm still wondering how someone could be bold to say he gambled away his money and now wants people to make contribution for him

Thanks for commenting on the post... I just need help on how to get rid of my gambling problem, I don't need no tip.

abumeinben:


Any money that comes to you, remove your saving first, then you can do whatever you want. Savings are not to be disturbed except for house rent, school fees, other essential projects.

Alright Bro.

McStoic:


The first help you need is to come out of gambling. Only a genuine heart to heart talk with God and a compelling desire to change can help you do that. Once you have resolved to end it, you can seek other helps. Cos if you succeed in getting about times of two of that money now i.e 66k, you will still rush back to it, to chase the ones you lost. YOU ARE ONLY SAD BECAUSE YOU LOST MONEY AND NOT BECAUSE YOU LOST A BET! THINK ABOUT THAT! YOU ARE STILL NOT YET DONE WITH IT!!

Quitting bet is not easy, but you will be glad you did ..

I've tried to stop countlessly but I still fall back. I'm just working and hoping to stop it for good.. Thanks a lot!.

McStoic:


You probably played virtual to have lost such huge amount..

Like I said before, God factor is always necessary when we encounter dead ends in life ..be more prayerful and engage in activities that will occupy you from the habit. Distance yourself from that betting app and delete the links, sites and contacts etc that fuel the habit..

Stay away from following football passionately. Go to the investment and business section of Nairaland, you will find other business and ideas that will help you forget/replace the habit. Hope these help for now...

Thanks so much
I'm planning on going off the internet for as long as I can.

abumeinben:
This is the beginning of responsibility. Man up and face the game. You nor go die.


And remember, you gradually sliding off the childish request: "Mommy/Daddy send me something na"

Real Talk! Thanks Bro.
I wanna fix up my Life.
First by getting rid of this bad habit. Tryna figure how?

HenryDion:
Don't worry op, hunger will teach you a lesson.

I've been through it all!
I don't wanna go through it again.

nniero11:



wow! your future is calling bro! it's good to make mistakes but a real homie does not make the same mistake twice.

ask for help from whatever you believe in and i assure you that help will come.

BABA U NEED SPIRITUAL BACKUP AS A MAN because LIFE NO B BEANS!


SPIRITUAL BACKUP!

THE RICH DON'T PLAY WITH IT. BUT U WILL SEE A POOR MAN LIVING CARE FREE.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A POOR MAN AND A RICH MAN IS SPIRITUAL BACK UP.

THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE GIVEN U TODAY IS PRICELESS

WORD! Priceless indeed!
Thanks Bro. I really appreciate... I'm working on my spiritual Life likewise.

femi4:
God forbid

You Criticize a nigga? & you don't wanna help him get better!
Hope that makes you feel better about yourself though?

malcom1X:


When you stay hungry small you'll have a change of mind. In that hunger while you sleep you'll start seeing things that will make you aware.

I've been there bro.
I'm trying to change my mind it's just hard! That's why I came here for some advice on how to get over this.

femi4:
Irresponsible soul...not a good role model for your students

I was hoping you'll model me. Thanks for the Word Regardless!

Jamesbiodun:
#rule number one, only play gamble with the money you know is not in your budget, I gat no advice for you , follow the rules

It's an advice...thanks bro.