7 Infallible Ways to Soften Tight Shoes

Shoes and women often have a relationship of blind passion, and one proof of this is that many suffer from shoes that tighten and injure their feet.

We are sure that you will be able to have a lot more tranquility to walk beautiful, free and loose with footwear properly softened and more comfortable.

Enough of the despair, to think that your favorite pair of shoes will no longer be part of your looks! What then are the simple ways to get this done?

1. Moisturizer for feet and shoes
There are pairs of shoes that are already scary before you put them on because of their hardness, right? If this is happening to you, know the infallible tip is to apply moisturizer on your feet before shoeing.

However, even if your feet are evenly trimmed, it is still difficult to put on the pair, you can pass the moisturizing cream on your shoes as well.

Apply the cream in the most problematic areas, the ones that tighten more, this will make the footwear more loose and for your feet to slide on it. You can use any type of moisturizer.

2. Large potatoes for shoe lacing
Big potatoes for shoe lacing. This technique for softening tight shoes is somewhat curious, but quite effective. You will need two very large potatoes, they may be common potatoes used to make potato chips.

Put the potatoes inside the shoes and leave like this for a day or two. The idea is that the potatoes play the role of feet to lace the shoe in a way that is more comfortable to be used.

3. Expansion with water
Another very effective way to make your tight shoes more comfortable is to use bags with water.

For this, fill bags with water and fasten them inside the shoes. Take care that water accumulates at the most problematic points of your footwear, that is, where it tightens more.

Then put the shoes in the freezer so that the water becomes ice. When the water freezes, it expands so that it takes up more space and this forces the shoes to expand also becoming less tight.

4. Newspaper with alcohol
This technique should be done with shoes whose lining is dark, and preferably not suede since it can ruin the shoe due to blemishes.

The method is simple enough that you soak the newspaper with alcohol (if you prefer you can use water, however, with alcohol the result to soften tight shoes is much better).

Evaporation of the alcohol causes the footwear to expand.

5. Wear shoes at home
If even the pair being the size of your foot gets tight, the tip is to find a way to make it more comfortable by the habit.

Before venturing into an exit, with the shoe that is tightening you, use the pair at home.

Over time the footwear will sag and become more comfortable. If you feel that the footwear is bothering you to the point of calluses and the like you can take it off.

6. With dryer and thick socks
How to soften tight shoes with dryer and thick socks. Wear thick socks and fit the problematic pair of shoes, then warm your feet with a blow dryer.


Stay with your footwear for half an hour and then, when removing the thick socks, you will notice that the footwear is already much less tight.

In case you think your footwear is still tight you should repeat the procedure. Be careful not to get the dryer too close to your shoes.

7. With softener
The last foolproof method of this list to soften tight shoes is very simple and very effective. You should put two tablespoons of fabric softener in the heel of the footwear.

Let it act for a while, and when it comes to pairing again, you will find that it is much softer and easier to use.

The above mentioned points are little home remedies to care for your legs, when you wear a tight shoe. Why don’t you drop a comment for us and let us see how that has benefited you.


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Before you go into that marriage, there are many things to discuss with your beloved to make your journey easier and gain a better understanding of each other.

1. GOD: Who is he in your life? You need to discuss this and the roles you will need God to play in your life, starting your relationship with him. If you don’t agree on this, your marriage may be turbulent if you go ahead.
PURPOSE: What is your purpose in life? What is the reason why you are on earth? You need to know this and discuss it with your spouse to be and listen to his or hers too.

2. VALUES: You need to discuss your values and set of moral beliefs.
Everyone has their own set of values. While most values don’t differ too much, one thing to discuss before marriage is what values are most important to each of you. Then you can decide what values you will share as a family and build your family on that.

3. VISION: Does he know what your future vision and goals are? Do you know his? If you are career minded and plan to put all you have into work for the next six years so you can get a certain promotion or make a certain amount of money, he or she needs to know this. Share your vision about the future, finances and about your children together and marry your vision before you get married.

4. SECRETS: There is no better time to share these intimate and secret things than now. As you look ahead to marriage, share family secrets and challenges. Don’t keep your partner in the dark about your family issues. He or she should marry you with your liabilities and assets if he or she truly loves you. Discuss personal choices, health challenges, problems, mental health concerns, debts, past relationship, addictions. This is the time to share things big and small, paving the way for honesty,[transparency and openness as the foundation of your marriage.

5. CAREER: You need to talk about your career, educating each other about its demands, challenges and what it takes to get to the top there. The level of your commitment should also be discussed. Do you live to work or work to live? How will your respective careers affect family life? Who comes first, career or family? Do you have more schooling and apprenticing to finish? Is there a professional course to be done? If so, what’s the time frame for completing these steps toward obtaining the kind of job you hope for? What kind of personal sacrifices will you and whosoever marries you would have to make to enable you to climb the career ladder to the top?

6. CHILDBEARING: Discuss children, how many, and the time you want to start having them, taking note of the spacing. Discuss child care, where the child will be when you go to work and so on.

7. CHURCH ATTENDANCE: You should discuss the church to attend. How committed you will be there should also be discussed.


8. LOVE LANGUAGES: Your love languages should also be discussed. By love language, we mean what someone may do to make you feel loved. This differs from individual to individual. Some of it are:

a. Words of affirmation: Continuing to say how much one cares and loves the other person.
b. Acts of service: This is helping the person to do things, serving the person in love.
c. Giving gifts: Gifts of any kind that come constantly make many feel loved.
d. Quality time: Spending time together makes some feel loved more than any other thing. For someone like this, giving gifts without staying with them may never make them feel loved.
e. Physical touch: For some, it is touching; hugging, kissing, holding hands and such gestures that spell physical closeness that makes them feel loved.

You need to discuss extensively and know your beloved love language and use this vital information to win his or her love all the days of your marital life. You should also tell your spouse to explore your own love language too.

9. WEAKNESSES: Getting to know your beloved weaknesses will help you a lot in handling him or her. Before you enter the pressure-cooker of marriage, you need to get rid of your bad habits and hang-ups here and now. Do you have some luggage you are yet to drop, do you have some weaknesses? Do you have a tendency to express anger through rage? Do you struggle with any addictive behaviour? Are there any areas in your life that you need to expose and address before you move forward toward marriage?


10. HOW TO FIGHT: Talk about how to fight fair, how to talk when you disagree. Abusive words and curses should be left out no matter the offense or misunderstanding. Physical abuses too, like slapping and beating. So, discuss before marriage how you can approach problems maturely without allowing a situation to get out of control. Also, figure out what topics are likely to generate friction. Avoid such in order to fight fair, and mark a conducive moment when to talk to each other to get the best out of your discussions.

11. BELIEFS: Discuss your beliefs in healing, religion, prayer, marriage, sex, love, tithing, giving and so on.



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Bisi Oludare



If you are presently in a relationship or planning to marry from Ekiti state, this is a must read for you. Marrying an Ekiti man could be seen as doing yourself a ‘big’ favour depending on how you see it. Generally, Ekiti men are great to marry but the truth is there is no tribe without their own downsides.

Here are the attributes to watch out for in order to know if Ekiti man will be good for you or not. 7 Things You Need To Know If You Want To Marry An Ekiti Man

1. They Are Great Lovers
Ekiti men are wonderful lovers; they can love a woman to a fault. The way they show love to a lady they are truly committed to could at times make the lady wonder if they are for real or just pretending. Trust me, an Ekiti man is an unbeatable lover boy.

2. They Are Naturally Faithful
Ekiti guys are naturally faithful. It seems they were born, fed, and trained to be faithful. They are just faithful or come to think of it probably it is in their gene. This is not just something I notice but what I have heard several people talk about. So single ladies, you might “wanna” consider Ekiti “Bobo” as you will not need to have any problem with trusting him. He will not cheat on you.


3. They are unrepentantly stubborn
Exactly, you heard me right. I actually told you earlier that they have their good and bad sides. So this could pass for one of the bad sides, they can hardly take no for an answer. They are very stubborn and will not just allow you to talk or defend yourself. If care is not taken, you can be a ‘Yes Sir’ wife. Accepting everything because you want peace

4. You Will Pound Yam
If you are a lady with a stainless hand that can’t work (pound), please keep off. Ekiti people’s favourite food is pounded yam and they delight so much in it. They eat it MORNING, AFTERNOON, NIGHT & even in the MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT. They can as well eat the leftover the next day.

5. They Love Repeating Words
This is another bad habit you will have to cope with. An Ekiti man can repeat the same statement several times as if the person he is talking to is deaf.

6. They Have Respect For Elders
You will never see Ekiti man disregard an elder. This makes them respect their in-laws very well. They don’t treat their in-laws anyhow.

7. They Don’t Divorce Their Spouses
Isn’t that a plus for them in this world where divorce is very cheap? No matter what, Ekiti men hold their marriage very dear to heart so you cannot see them threatening their wife for divorce or filing for divorce.

8. They Don’t Hide Their Feelings.
Ekiti man will never hide his feelings from you. They say it as it is and as they feel. He is never scared of you criticising or nailing him. He just feels free saying his mind


Ekiti people are generally known for their academic prowess. They just love reading, remember in the record, they have the highest number of Professors. So, if you cannot cope with a man always locking himself up in the study, steer clear and look somewhere else for Mr. Right.

So, what are you waiting for ladies? You might want to consider the next Ekiti guy

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10 HOT REASONS TO ATTEND LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE

Hey Friends, are you planning to attend this year, LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE? You can’t afford to miss it, the following are Ten hot reasons to attend this extraordinary Program:


1) Lagos couples’ conference will involve Intimate talking time(ITT) You’ve not seen it before? Then don’t miss Lagos couples’ conference.
2) Lagos couples’ conference will involve romance time, Waoh, you can’t afford not to be part of this.
3) Lucky you, You will have time to “globally” dedicate your Children, Don’t forget to come with their pictures
4) It will involve Couples’ dancing competition, you and your spouse can win the star prize, start practicing now and don’t forget your dancing shoes at home.
5) The program involves Two-diet seminar you’ve never seen before.
6) It will also involve QUEEN DRESSER; want to know what that means then join us at Lagos couples’ Conference.
7) Have you heard about SOUL GAZE before now? whoosh, you are missing, okay it will take place during LAGOS COUPLES CONFERENCE, don’t miss it.


Praise-Connect will also take place, you will be glad you are part of it.
9) MELTING POINT will also take place, I know this is strange to you, don’t worry you will enjoy it when you come to Lagos Couples Conference.

10) There will also be TEXT-A- L session at LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE, huuuuuun, you want to know what that means, come along with your spouse you will enjoy it and start new HONEYMOON after.



Woah, there are lots to gain in this year Lagos couples’ conference, it will be an unusual program, full of surprises, it will be romantically romantic, am expecting you there with your spouse, invite other couples and be a blessing to them.
Date: 29th, May 2017, By 10am.
Theme: Fight For That Marriage.
Venue: THE REAL PLACE, NO 9, AFISMAN DRIVE ANIFOWOSHE, (NEAR IKEJA LOCAL GOVERNMENT) IKEJA.







Ministering: Pastor Bisi and Yomi Adewale.
Visa: N4000
Pay to: Zenith Bank, account name: Family booster ministry, Account Number: 1013626553
For info: Call 08056457013, 08068312004.




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DEAR LADIES: BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW ABOUT SEX




Bisi Oludare

In this sex-saturated world where everybody sees sex as a Visa to get anywhere in life, some great truths must be noted about sex for singles. As a single lady, you cannot use sex to keep any man, that guy is with you because he wants to be with you.

Here are some things you need to know about sex

1. Sex Outside Marriage Is A Sin

It could have turned to something singles celebrate today, but sex outside of marriage used to be and it still a taboo that nobody wants to even relate with or be found doing. It reduces your worth as a lady.

2. Sex Can make Him Stay only for the night

Sex will only keep him by yourself overnight till he is done with you; it cannot make him stay with you forever. What he is looking for is a lady he can take home to Mama not a German sex machine of every man.

3. Sex doesn’t keep a man.

Listen up! Whether you can do different positions and turn 360 degrees in bed; that cannot keep any man. You are only short changing yourself and your destiny.

4. Sex Will Only take You To His Bedroom

Having sex with him will not make you resident in his heart or create a palace for you in his life. You will only be that sex partner he is waiting to drop soon.

5. Sex Can Only Bring Few Seconds Pleasure.

That sex will only give you few minutes’ pleasure followed by a lifetime of regret

6. Sex Is A Product Of Love

Don’t get it twisted; sex is just one of the products of love. Sex is not love in itself and love can never be a product of sex.

7. It Erodes Trust

The guy will find it hard to trust you so there is no way he would want to marry you because trust is one of the bedrocks of a solid marriage

8. Sex Is Not Cheap.

There is no cheap sex as a single; you are actually paying with your life. It will soon backfire

9. You Cannot talk Boldly About It In Public.

The fact that you cannot even boast of it in public makes it a bad act of indulging in.

10. You Lose Your Dignity.

Having sex outside of marriage makes you lose your dignity and you tend to hide your face in shame when you see the guy or his friends.

11. You Probably Become A Dropout.

Once you get pregnant, it turns you to a school dropout. Depending on your level, once you get pregnant education might stop and you tend to waste years while your mates have already graduated.

12. You Are Playing With Death.

One thing sex outside marriage will give you is death. This will happen after you are pregnant and you want to abort. Abortion will only offer to you your death sentence on a platter of gold. This is the result of your act. You can even lose your womb in the process and you become barren for life.


13. You Are At A Higher Risk Of Having STD.

This is very common and it has even been shown that condom might not fully prevent you from it. Sexually transmitted Diseases are easy routes to the grave. Run for your life

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In most Marriages, couples do forget to be creative in love so they fall into the “usual mode” making their marriages boring and uninteresting. In this piece, I will be showing you 41 quick ways to show your husband love.
1) Tell him “you are such a great man, thank God I married you”
2) Get him a new shirt
3) Send I love you text to him
4) Praise him in front of the Children.
5) Greet him at the door when he gets home–drop whatever you’re doing and kiss him!
6) Give him a back rub.
7) Brag about him to your friends when he can hear.
Speak glowingly of him when you talk in the public
9) Give a peck and tell him you are looking very handsome
10) Tell him one thing you admire about him in relation to his work–and try to make it a different thing every time you say it! 41 Quick Ways To Make Your Husband Love You
11) Rub your fingers through his hair as you’re watching Television
12) Polish his Shoes
13 Lay out his clothes for him the night before.
14) Make an appointment to Service his Car
15) Get his picture on a Tea shirt and write ‘’Meet a great man’’ on it.
16) Get a sticker for your car with the inscription ‘’WIFE OF A GREAT MAN’’
17) Text him and tell him specifically what you love doing with him.
18) Bring him a glass of water if he’s working out in the Sun
19) Bring him a drink when he’s working at his desk.
20) Take his food to him in the office.
21) Wear something you know he loves.
23) Enter into the shower with him, give him a sensuous thorough bath
24) Rub him dry when he gets out of the shower
25) Put some “manly” moisturizer cream on him, or some talcum powder.
26) Towel dry his hair for him and tell him you just love how he smells.
27) Read a bit of a book/funny story or a newspaper to him while he takes his bath.
28) Pray for him while you’re lying in bed–out loud. Reach out, put your arm on his, and say a sentence-or-two prayer.
29) Rub his feet while you’re watching TV.
30) Get a cloth and wash his feet and put some cream on them.
31) Ask him his advice on something and then follow it
32) Ask him to explain something about his hobby to you.
33) Don’t just tell him you love him–tell him WHY you love him.
35) Warm some water, get small towels, dip them into the warm water to clean his body several times. Do it slowly.
36) Go ahead and massage him slowly
37) Put his head on your laps and stroke his hair.
38) Tell him he is very special to you
39) Tell him ‘’If you toast me hundred times I will marry you two hundred times’’
40) Tell him his Mum did a great Job on him.
41) Declare a bedroom banquet, initiate sex with him for five days in a roll. It’s a feast you will remember.

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MAN SET TO DIVORCE IS WIFE BECAUSE SHE LIED SHE WAS A VIRGIN BEFORE THEIR WEDDING

– Austin Eromosele
A Man plans to divorce his wife after just six months of marriage because she lied to him that she was a virgin when they were dating.
A 36 year old man, named Jerry is at a point of divorcing his wife because she lied to him during courtship that she was a virgin. This has generated a whole lot of controversy in the social media.
Jerry is sad today because his wife lied to him about her being a virgin, and he said in his letter that he wouldn’t have mind but for the fact that his wife manipulated her into marriage using virginity tactics.
Below is the letter he wrote to pulse recently.

“Dear Pulse,
My name is Jerry, a 36-year-old man living and working in Lagos. I got married six months ago but right now, I’m full of regret and I want to end it all.
The reason for my disillusionment stems from the fact that my wife, Martha, lied to me that she was a virgin when we met and refused to allow us to have sex till we got married.
But after we got married, I found out that she was not even close to being a virgin but very experienced in the sex game who had had many sexual partners in the past.
I met Martha when she started worshiping in our church where I was the head usher. Our church doctrine is such that you had to inform the pastor if you were interested in a woman and such relationships must always lead to marriage or it would not be approved.
When Martha came to join the church, her zeal was so great as she joined almost all the departments and was always a reference point.
One thing that stood her out was her carriage and charisma and many of us guys were scared of getting close to her but I summoned the courage and made my intentions known to her.
I also informed the pastor that I wanted to marry her and thus began our courtship. In the course of our courtship, Martha told me she was a virgin and wanted to remain so until her wedding night.
I was pleasantly surprised that a mature, beautiful and brilliant lady like that would remain a virgin despite the temptation out there and that made me even love her the more and hasten our marriage plans.
We got married after five months of courtship but I was shocked on our first night when I discovered that my wife was not what she claimed she was. Not that I would have minded but that lie alone has really put me off her and I don’t think I can ever trust her again.
She has confessed that she only lied to me because she thought I only wanted to use and dump her like other men in the past but how can I live with a woman who manipulated me into marrying her?


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Nollywood Actor-Fadeyi Oloro Set To Become A Pastor

Legendary Nollywood actor, Ojo Arowosafe popularly known as Fadeyi Oloro, has categorically stated that he would soon become a pastor.

As reported by newshelm,Fadeyi, who was quite popular in the 80s and 90s for his role as a herbalist in movies, attended the protest with his trademark costume and said he was never a herbalist; instead, he will become a clergyman in the nearest future.

In an exclusive chat with a Media TV on Wednesday, March 22, after a rally against gender-based violence in Abeokuta, the Ogun state capital, he explained that although he is yet to attend a Seminary, he believes he is likely to become a pastor in the nearest future.

He also added that he would soon return to location to show his teeming fans that he is still in the business of film making.


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