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If you like, give her the entire 280k monthly. After 20 years of marriage, she will wake up to ask you what have you achieved since you married her. She will compare with her brothers and other men out there who were intentional about building something for themslves and tell you that you have not achieved anything since you married her. You better divorce her and marry someone that will build with you and not an adult liability.

Rapmoney:
Never use this expression: 'I flashed her' or 'I flashed him' when you find yourself in a country where standard English is spoken. Examples are the United Kingdom, US, Australia, Canada, etc.

REASON: It might be a slang for saying you called someone and hang up quickly for them to call you back in Nigeria, but in these countries, it means to show someone your unclothedness or nude, which is a very serious crime

WHAT TO SAY INSTEAD: The standard English for that expression is 'I gave him or her a missed call' or 'I gave him or her a quick ring'.

I hope you have learnt something today?

Also using the word Drugs for medication is another word that can land you in serious trouble over there.

TruthU87:
Democracy has shown us that even the dumbest person can end up ruling a nuclear-armed country.

If this guy become Nigeria president, Nigeria will be totally finished. Those shouting PBAT and APC won't see this. They are blind to this kinda news. Seee broad day light swindling.

SixSeven:
Hypergamy is real no matter how women deny it. It's in their nature. That's why I tell men

YOU MUST ALWAYS WORK ON YOURSELF

The world is not fair on men but the world does not care men. They say women and children will get help before you. If you think that's a lie, see what happened in Ukraine war, who did they first prioritize to leave? Let your wife complain about you, you are not exciting, you are boring, you don't have drive. Once another woman shows interest in you, it will drive her crazy because even if she does better than the other lady or even if the girl is a househelp, she will just be mad that another woman species can see value in you as a man. Hypergamy for women is nature in action. She is built to submit to you the man. If she doesn't see your worth, she will be asking herself why she needs to submit to you. Women want leaders, not mates so those women who preach partnership are also misleading other ladies. We know this but no need to argue about it. If the man is not someone she looks up to, she will not submit to him.

This Tyler Perry movie captures the native of women and hypergamy. You are not on her level

While he was struggling financially he found out is wife had $280,000 in her bank account pic.twitter.com/CVdqSdxrwm

— Abdulkabir (@olawale__01) May 14, 2026

If she is doubt better than you, I'm sorry, your marriage age is at risk. I am not saying you should not support your woman but only the one with fear of God will know the value of the man in her house beyond a career that cannot be more than 30 years. I was watching Mr Brown say the man must never allow the woman be in charge of rent, school fees etc. Some people abused him but I absolutely agree with him. I have seen it over and over again. Women being in charge with a man who's not doing well as them is a very big test that only the one with fear of God can manage it. Eventually we will all realize after bashing marriage that no human being can survive alone. We need each other. So when they finish tearing marriage pant, I hope they don't get too old or its too late to know its importance.

What's the title of this movie? Would love to watch it.

MCentral:
Nigeria’s stocks, bonds and naira are surging as investors embrace President Bola Tinubu’s economic overhaul.


https://moneycentral.com.ng/exclusive/article/tinubu-reforms-power-nigeria-stocks-past-new-zealand-as-bonds-crush-em-peers/

Reminds me of 2005 to 2008.I do smile when I see all these AI adverts say buy shares.

AnonPoet:
Delta Grounds Lagos Flight, Passengers Stranded — But Where Is the Social Media Fury?




https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1EJp8nTC9F/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Just imagine say na airp3acedo this one. Social media will be on fire by now.

MaxInDHouse:
First of all there is no predestination in evil doing and secondly hell simply means grave everyone who dies goes there and lastly death is the ultimate punishment for sin so at death all the sins of a sinner has been fully paid for by his death there is no punishment after death for previous sins!

what about those who knew no sin but died. How do you answer that. So, no heaven?

MaxInDHouse:
The damaging aspect of this idea is that the wicked person has been predestined to be wicked so it's God's fault not theirs!😟

So should they be punished in hell if it was predetermined that some shall surely act in a particular manner even before being birthed?

elated177:
Maxindhouse, tctrills is actually right. Yahushua the Messiah knew who was going to betray him from the outset. The Scriptures didn't mince words in that regard.

John 13:21 After he had said this, Yahushua was troubled in spirit and testified, “Very truly I tell you, one of you is going to betray me.”

22 His disciples stared at one another, at a loss to know which of them he meant. 23 One of them, the disciple whom Yahushua loved, was reclining next to him. 24 Simon Peter motioned to this disciple and said, “Ask him which one he means.”

25 Leaning back against Jesus, he asked him, “Lord, who is it?”26 Yahushua answered, “It is the one to whom I will give this piece of bread when I have dipped it in the dish.” Then, dipping the piece of bread, he gave it to Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot. 27 As soon as Judas took the bread, Satan entered into him. So Yahushua told him, “What you are about to do, do quickly.” 28 But no one at the meal understood why Yahushua said this to him. 29 Since Judas had charge of the money, some thought Yahushua was telling him to buy what was needed for the festival, or to give something to the poor. 30 As soon as Judas had taken the bread, he went out. And it was night.

The apostles didn't understand till after the event had taken place.

Absolutely true. Even Judas knew before Christ exposed him. Right?

tctrills:
Please explain the relationship?
Are you saying that Peter was the devil spoken about in John 6.70?
Please kindly explain how what you've quoted above show that Jesus did not beforehand know that Judas was a devil.

Let us even consider it from the angle of Jeremiah.

Dtruthspeaker:
"Presupposes" as you presuppose and not certainty.

And his crying and remorse shows that he was aware that he was responsible for his choice and action.

And we all have seen that we are subject and have obeyed to 2 forces, one Good and the other evil and we are all conscious of it, so no excuse

How do you juxtapose this with the concept of the subconvious mind as propagated by Carl?

Was he aware before or became aware after?

If your father is a good man, you surely learn from how to love God and be a better man. Same if you have a good mother. Learning about God shouldn't be difficult.


But have we stopped to ask which of the God they call upon? If you read some works gnosticism and read your Bible very well, you will understand what I mean.


Nobody preached to Kenneth E. Haggins. He encountered God himself.

MaxInDHouse:
The scriptures didn't mention any name so it could be anyone close to Jesus who can lead the Pharisees to arrest this man whose face they don't know.
Judas put himself in that condition due to his love for money {1Timothy 6:10} he used to manipulate others to keep whatever they get in the purse of their group which is with him and then steal the money for him own personal use. John 12:3-6
This takes us back to what Jesus said about those listening to him:

“Therefore, everyone who hears these sayings of mine and does them will be like a discreet man who built his house on the rock. And the rain poured down and the floods came and the winds blew and lashed against that house, but it did not cave in, for it had been founded on the rock. Furthermore, everyone hearing these sayings of mine and not doing them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. And the rain poured down and the floods came and the winds blew and struck against that house, and it caved in, and its collapse was great.” Matthew 7 24-27

Judas failed to keep Jesus' sayings that's why Satan who is seeking anyone to devour could make use of him! 1Peter 5:8

So what happened to Jesus could have been someone else not necessarily Judas and of course only a close associate of Jesus could identify him!🙂

From your explanation, do you think this was replicated to correct the scenario at the Garden of Eden?

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you". Jeremiah 1:5 (NKJV).

But if John 17 speaks of a predetermined role Judas was playing as shown John 17: 12, what was the exact sin of Judas Iscariot?

It presupposes his actions were out of his absolute control. But why did he cry and killed himself because of doing exactly what he was programmed to do?

Do we now seem to agree with Freud and Carl on the subconscious directing certain aspect of our lives as if it's automated?

What do think?

Wotowotoman:
Where homeless person go get money to pay you per day? Why do you think the person is homeless if he get that kind money? Ooooh to drop better konk on person bald head dey hungry me fa. Walahi

Go back and read it. simple.

Pootle:
when agbero homeless man slap you like 3times na free him go dey sleep for ya shelter

You go put who Sabi them in charge na. Na madness dem take dey cure madness.

Kalulu44:
Good day lovely Nairalanders, wishing you a happy raining day from my end.
There's this worrying trend I have noticed among our Nigerian men.
Though, not like it started today, but it's getting rampant now.

I work in an hospitality industry (Hotel/Guest house).
Everyday I see guys both young and old bringing in babes to come and have fun.
But I hardly never see anyone that goes straight into their rooms with the girls without coming to the bar to buy one alcoholic drinks or the other.
.
Not to talk of the ones that comes with different types of smokes and drugs.
Is it that our nowadays men can't have s*x with a woman without taking something or feeling intoxicated?
Where are our men of 70s, 80s, like me that have natural strength and don't depends on these alcohols and drugs.
For example, I tasted my first alcohol in the year 2010 when I was 30. Before then I have been knacking very well with my God given natural strength and quickly having my 3 kids before hanging my boots.

So what's happening to our nowadays guys and even some men of back then that can't do without drugs and alcohol before knacking a woman.

Let's discuss, what's your take on this growing trend?

Like this, I am looking for money to buy a massive expanse of land in Ogun, Badadry or Epe. Why?

Next 10 years is when the results will show up. If you have a large hall with bunk beds, homeless people can rent and pay per day.

Then have large farmland where they can earn a living wage. Then a soup kitchen where they can eat decent meals.

The next 10 years, even Rehabs won't have the strength for what is coming. Even FG go fear begin fire brigade approach. This I am certain of.

Shalom

Deollaa:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/lp-crisis-resolved-coast-clear-for-2027-says-otti/%3famp

So the Agulu Messiah was the problem of LP before now?
I won't be shocked if ADC comes out tomorrow to say the same thing and suddenly NDC starts having crisis.
Mind you, I didn't say anything oooo.

EKITI001:
SOURCE: https://ekitinews247.com.ng/2026/05/08/video-police-officer-caught-on-video-allegedly-intoxicated-by-colorado-in-ekiti/

Video Here :

VIDEO: Police Officer Caught on Video Allegedly Intoxicated by Colorado in Ekiti pic.twitter.com/jqn63EwGBd

— EKITI NEWS 247 (@ekitinews_247) May 8, 2026

It is well

givedemwotowoto:
Aisha Yesufu Dumps ADC for NDC, Declares FCT Senate Bid



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They will always truely show their true motive at the long run. Those seats LP won in 2023, how far?

What impact was made that could be built on?

All of ona na the same. Just selfish interest as it is with human nature. Nothing more.

Ireti did same.

ogododo:
https://dailytrust.com/wike-to-pastor-jabi-lake-takeover-stands-even-if-god-comes-down/

“I am not carried away by such emotions…” - Wike replies Abuja Pastor.#theeagleonlinenigeria #gist #wike #fctabuja pic.twitter.com/Vv8YzADiBA

— The Eagle Online (@DEagleOnline) May 6, 2026

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You dey use land joke with ikwerre man? You never see something.

Donald3d:
LG 1.5 HP Dual Inverter AC

350k

Fully functional, comes with installation kit.

location?

fergie001:
Wike monthly media Parley

The day the house of Ramson will fall eh, i say no more.

naptu2:
https://statehouse.gov.ng/president-tinubu-mourns-dr-muhammed-yunusa-ishola-salami/

Happy home going to him. He did well with his time here.

Adexvivacity:
I noticed that in this Nigeria or among Nigerians, the rich has the most of spiritual problems....You will notice they have wealth but they are always running from one Alfa to Pastor to Traditionalist.....What is their problem? is it that they dont want to die or they need more money?

Making sugar is easy. But sugar invites ants and others dangerous stuffs. So, the sugar has to stay safe. Else, dem go lick am, lick the owner hand join.

Making money is easy. Keeping and growing is more difficult cos there are gate keepers in every facet of life.

They are all running whether na alfa, babalawo or pastors, they are all running. Even Dangote and Tinubu still dey find power and authority dey got till tomorrow. Wealth is useless in the face or power and authority.

God bless some landlords. Especially mine. Amen.

Somebody told that his signature was also forged on a document you claim he forged, and you did not investigate that material fact? Maybe there are other counts or facts to hold him in sha. Else, It seems the case of forgery might be DOA.

Optical illusion. Psyops divert attention from the failed and costly mission in Iran and get people talking about other stuffs. The cash out has been made. Masses paid the cost, the rich and fast cashed out on the consequences, another drama is silently introduced to distract the already heavily distracted masses while the world moves on.

It's always been a pattern. At best senate or congressional hearing months or years later, there is or are noises and perhaps a few unlucky guys are used as scape goats and its all finally over.

Kinda crazy right?

But look as the pattern from the 1920s it hasn't changed much. Let's take it aback to the house of Roma Borgia. Has much changed?

Your guess is as good as mine.