₦airaland Forum

As my contribution to peace on the home front, i will keep sealed lips especially if the one caught is father because i wouldn't want to break my mum's heart.

I just heard  the story of a  man who was so interested in 'feminine ' chores that he requested to change roles with his wife for just one month and then revert to their respective customary roles.
Would you like to behave likewise?

Dear Nairaladers,
Happy 2008, i wish you all the best the year portends. may we continue to blossom in Jesus name.
Peace.

@Hotfunmi,
omo odo agba, waa l'alubarika. you are blessed.
for you.
infact your husband is quite fortunate (he that findeth a good  wife obtaineth favour from God)


@Almondjoy,
what do you mean by 'job'?
House or domestic chores, that  erection you made mention and the sex bouts that proceeds aren't jobs?, do you forget that there are ( both male and female)  professional prostitutes who uses money earned to fend for their homes? How about  the increasing trend in online/ work from home jobs?


In my humble submission, Leadership entails taking responsibilities, providing direction, protection, care and leading by example which i believe goes beyond just going out in the name of  being employed.

Life is all about giving and taking, but it's amazing that quite a lot of us are not ready to step out of our comfort zones, sacrifice here and there to make the world a better place.
Marriage or better still, family  forms the building units of the larger society, so if all of us were to stay as singles or individuals, what sort of communities do we get ?
Marriage is good for companionship, support(help), childraising(this goes beyond just rearing children 'cos dogs too rear chidren)etc. And  it is sweet as it effectivelly addresses the issue of loneliness which goes beyond sex.

Haba, you are the main problem of the guy, you stayed on for close to a decade in a relationship with a guy with no visible plans or seriousness for his life, no ambition?
You must have been enjoying one thing in him,  at least if money and ambition no dey, the thing under dey work, and it probably sweets you so much that you dont even bother to hear other suitors out, almost one decade of been available to serve him his dish of pulani, (cunt) makes him feel on top of the world, a king whose queen supplies the food, venue of "sextactivity" (since he has no house) and most of all, free cunt, how on earth could you think he will be ambitious?
My dear, suspend all sexcapades with this distorted fellow (though may be difficult to bear it) tell him seriously and mean it that you wont resume unless he comes out with a definite plan for his life which he is ready to implement and give him a time frame within which to act at the expiration of which you look else where for love with a guy that will be capable to shoulder responsibilities.
Time waits for no one, now is the time to act as you said, keep him on his toes, stop sleeping with him now, if he is not ready to loose you i.e if he loves you as you claim, he will change n get serious.

@poster

considering his dedication to duty, loyalty (not to the Nigerian constitution) to his boss, zealousness,etc
may we say Al mustapha, Abacha's chief of staff is hero?

The man Nuhu Ribadu would have qualified to be an hero but the outcome of Petroleum Trust Fund misappropriations, funds diversions, with public funds ending up in private accounts (ot**ba fasawe,& co) where a lot of cans of worms were opened to the full glare of Nigerians by Atiku vs Obasanjo and the whole issue was swept under gives me an impression that Nuhu's job is selective, this is no characteristic of heroes.
Anyway, he tried for his fatherland, he is brave and courageous.

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Hey,
It is an agelong truth that the man is head of the family, no strings attached. Any other thing is an aberration.
My candid wish for all men in the house is that may we have some dough (however little) to be able to actually be the head in our homes. Of what essence is an husband/father who doesn't fulfill his obligations financially at home, it automatically affects his morale and social carriage and this will invariably come to bear on the children as well as the couple's sex life

Haba, "Alhaji" or best 007, what has degenerate to the level of labelling Nigerians as "mad" we require that you tender an unreserved apology, now.
And watch your language in the public next time.

Yeah, i am fully with you my brother, i tried to get the pics posted over the weekend ( on Friday specifically) but the usb cable of my phone disappointed me being the first time i am using it for that purpose. I am still working on other alternatives of using a photographer, I am sorry for delay and the inconveniences this may have caused.

I heard that a genius is born every 100 years, can that be YOU? Peace.


@ iice,
long time since I see your face on the thread,


@everybody,
compliments of the season (happy sallah, Xmas and New year in advance)
ENJOY

Fellow nairalanders and nigerians, let's thank goodness that this is happening in our land at last. The fact that the supposedly big guns are made to face the consequences of their kleptomaniac acts either while still in office or immediately after shedding their immunity toga is heart warming. My people, let's forget whether it's a smoke screen or not, the issue is that a strong signal is been sent to others still in positions of overseeing the peoples resources as regards dipping their hands in public funds anyhow, they will want to think twice.

While i appreciate the contributions and concern of all, My humble submission is that Nigeria will get to that point which you all desire, a state where the rule of law is the order of the day. A state where public office holders will serve with the love of the people and that of God at heart, a place where leaders are accountable to the led,, the campaign has begun for real, selah.

To EFCC,ICPC, Judiciary, Presidency, etc, all eyes are on you, posterity is beckoning on you and history is waiting to see what you would make out of this , I wish you are able to brace up and summom up courage to fight the tetra headed monster called corruption in this land.

To President Yar Adua, this is a litmus test for your administration, the house contract saga of Olubunmi Etteh has come and gone, we are waiting to see how you handle this case more so that the person involved is not just a former colleague, but a huge benevolent of your ascention to Aso rock.

To the goog people of Nigeria, " weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning"
Peace.

@ Boladex,

For the picture(s), please allow some time to take it. The car presentlly needs another engine, it's factory fitted AC needs servicing and gas refil.Then, you may have to re paint the baby to bring it up to an official car image. I kept the fittings as much as i can as brand new.

Do you care for Peugeot 505 Evolution, full option company used before i bought it. however this car needs some tone up now. IF this appeals to your interest, contact me on 07027535202

The hand feels like Jacob's while the voice sounds like Esau's
Most welcomed. Peace

After spending months in a place, u just come to realise that you've not really greeted the people you met on ground yet you expect someone to welcome you!
All the same, welcome, Peace

Hhmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Ayodave,
Are you on this plan and already earning money from this online stuff? If so can you kindly post evidence(s) for us to really be able to come on board, if need be as your affliates.
One more thing, i 've tried registering with one of these data entry companiies, but was not allowed (reason: being a Nigerian) what do u know about that policy?, and how do you get your payment cheque cleared at home here.
you may want to contact me on bolaa333@yahoo.ca. thanks.

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for who , when and where is this gonna come up dear.

If Mohammad wont go to the mountain, then mountain would go to Mohammed so goes the saying.

Go for gold dear sisters in da house.

My dear keep to your dream and look away from the carrot being dangled at you.
Real satisfacion comes not from money but doing what one loves to do most, then does your first degree give room for professional advancement in the banking industry? ponder on this n ask God for directions. Peace

May the almighty save us from these useless gold diggers. where do they expect a job seeker to get that ammount, when did nigeria immigration service started issuing passport thru a third party outfit even with this advent of e-passport,why on earth would the company in question take the interview to Abj when the head office is in Lagos and their operational base/ field is in Delta? should the candidate come out unsuccessful in the interview, what happen to the international passport paid for? Fellow Nigerians, lets all join hands together to exposing these misfits in our dear father land.  Peace.


I do hope the poster on his own part has not misrepresent the issue too!

when are you coming to Naija? Peace.