fakawer:
she wan fuk u, simple

Haha what if? She was telling me I'm a fine boy

I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

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Battlefield2:
You no get sense

And why would you say that?

Answers?

Met this girl today and it was small talk because I didn't have anything to say to her,


I'm normally good with girls but damn in the middle of the first question my mood Changed to a bad mood so I just asked her name and a nickname and then where she lived and told her I lived somewhere close and I might have seen her before....



I then asked for her number but my phone wasn't there so I asked to give her number and she said jokingly that if I give her my number she will even forget.


Girl was catching glimpse at me during the service and when I went up to her she couldn't look me in the eye and was smiling through out the conversation and now she said that after the short convo so I was like you would forget my number? and she's like yeah, yeah I will this and I will that forget it and I'm like hmmm and just turned and gradually focusing on somewhere else Abit before I walked away, she was with her friend/sister then so they both just left.

Man I feel like I have low self esteem because it's been bothering me so much that she said that... any advice?

Met this girl today and it was small talk because I didn't have anything to say to her,


I'm normally good with girls but damn in the middle of the first question my mood Changed to a bad mood so I just asked her name and a nickname and then where she lived and told her I lived somewhere close and I might have seen her before....



I then asked for her number but my phone wasn't there so I asked to give her number and she said jokingly that if I give her my number she will even forget.


Girl was catching glimpse at me during the service and when I went up to her she couldn't look me in the eye and was smiling through out the conversation and now she said that after the short convo so I was like you would forget my number? and she's like yeah, yeah I will this and I will that forget it and I'm like hmmm and just turned and gradually focusing on somewhere else Abit before I walked away, she was with her friend/sister then so they both just left.

Man I feel like I have low self esteem because it's been bothering me so much that she said that... any advice?

Purvan:
Friend groups are for losers


Only have one close friend and enemies that should be it

Very much reducing it as it seems, they aren't serious to the extent I like

I'm losing interest in my yet small friend group



I just broke up with this girl that disrespected me badly and I'm moving on since I like dealing with my problems privately the only thing I told them is it pissed me tf off when she that because it really did and I'm pissed to grind and make money that no girl would ever do that crap to me. I'm not heartbroken since I didn't even love in the first place, I just need money





Now I expect them to tell me to go and grind and become the best version of myself but instead they are telling me I bleeped up for not sleeping with her and I have this king mentality because that's what I call it "if it's a 50% chance to sleep with the girl them I wouldn't" it will ruin my masculine energy if I begged her to have sex or forced her to have sex because I knew that's what she wanted, she never gave me herself freely, always removing my hands when I want to finger her, shifting from kisses so I knew to sleep with her I'll need to beg or grovel which I would never do.




That's what her ex did, force her and also gave her weed to make her high before sleeping with her. I don't see a reason why sex should be counted as an achievement or maybe I just have a high IQ and I think things differently from them but I expect them to try to push me to grow not feel bad for not sleeping with her and to get a new girl. I don't even have my own place, I'm pissed because I didn't love the girl but she bleeped with my respect and I don't play with it.




Preferably they don't understand that women will always be there but time wouldn't and focusing on women would take my time. The country isn't a place for someone to keep joking with anymore.



Once I come out of the house I'm already longing to go back in and continue grinding but these my guys just walking about all day and grinding at night, one will walk about all day, meet his girlfriend in the evening and then grind at night but for me i feel these are a waste of time.... he's not even bothered about the fact that he doesn't have the ability to get him consistent data in his phone at this age not to even talk of money daily

I'm losing interest in my yet small friend group

I just broke up with this girl that disrespected me badly and I'm moving on since I like dealing with my problems privately the only thing I told them is it pissed me tf off when she that because it really did and I'm pissed to grind and make money that no girl would ever do that crap to me. Now I expect them to tell me to go and grind and become the best version of myself but instead they are telling me I bleeped up for not sleeping with her and I have this king mentality because that's what I call it "if it's a 50% chance to sleep with the girl them I wouldn't" it will ruin my masculine energy if I begged her to have sex or forced her to have sex because I knew that's what she wanted, she never gave me herself freely, always removing my hands when I want to finger her, shifting from kisses so I knew to sleep with her I'll need to beg or grovel which I would never do. That's what her ex did, force her and also gave her weed to make her high before sleeping with her. I don't see a reason why sex should be counted as an achievement or maybe I just have a high IQ and I think things differently from them but I expect them to try to push me to grow not feel bad for not sleeping with her and to get a new girl. I don't even have my own place, I'm pissed because I didn't love the girl but she bleeped with my respect and I don't play with it.

Preferably they don't understand that women will always be there but time wouldn't and focusing on women would take my time. The country isn't a place for someone to keep joking with anymore. Once I come out of the house I'm already longing to go back in and continue grinding but these my guys just walking about all day and grinding at night, one will walk about all day, meet his girlfriend in the evening and then grind at night but for me i feel these are a waste of time.... he's not even bothered about the fact that he doesn't have the ability to get him consistent data in his phone at this age not to even talk of money daily

superCleanworks:
Now you have gotten the attention you were looking for by mentioning "Night grind" all over the post.
All these kids sha. You will learn later.

I'm a marketer and youtuber, grind doesn't have to be yahoo

Is it normal that I have alot of self improvement inspiration to tell my friends but when I'm outside in their midst I just feel weak and tired wanting to go home.



I find myself that my energy is drained and I just say few words and if there's a topic to be discussed or argued and I see they don't want to listen at the first try I just give up and support them in what they're saying by making a silly sense out of it to boost their ego because that's how I am, if I'm tryna tell you something and you don't listen instead of arguing much I'll just let you continuing doing what you're doing. Thoughts?



For example, I just broke up with this girl that disrespected me badly and I'm moving on since I like dealing with my problems privately the only thing I told them is it pissed me tf off when she that because it really did and I'm pissed to grind and make money that no girl would ever do that crap to me.



Now I expect them to tell me to go and grind and become the best version of myself but instead they are telling me I bleeped up for not sleeping with her and I have this king mentality because that's what I call it "if it's a 50% chance to sleep with the girl them I wouldn't" it will ruin my masculine energy if I begged her to have sex or forced her to have sex because I knew that's what she wanted, she never gave me herself freely, always removing my hands when I want to finger her, shifting from kisses so I knew to sleep with her I'll need to beg or grovel which I would never do.



That's what her ex did, force her and also gave her weed to make her high before sleeping with her. I don't see a reason why sex should be counted as an achievement or maybe I just have a high IQ and I think things differently from them but I expect them to try to push me to grow not feel bad for not sleeping with her and to get a new girl. I don't even have my own place, I'm pissed because I didn't love the girl but she bleeped with my respect and I don't play with it.




Preferably they don't understand that women will always be there but time wouldn't and focusing on women would take my time. The country isn't a place for someone to keep joking with anymore. Once I come out of the house I'm already longing to go back in and continue grinding but these my guys just walking about all day and grinding at night, one will walk about all day, meet his girlfriend in the evening and then grind at night but for me i feel these are a waste of time.... he's not even bothered about the fact that he doesn't have the ability to get him consistent data in his phone at this age not to even talk of money daily

Owain:

Good day, bro
I read one of your post where you mentioned something about running some online businesses. I'm in need of a job at the moment and I could use some assistance please. Are they businesses I could start too? Help a bro.

Go into marketing free and paid sites

talented321:
As man have your likes and don't, make decision for yourself because you the one to face the consequences of your action. 'goodluck in your journey'

True talk

talented321:
Manchi is not all the relationship you will take serious, some are just Bleep and pass, When u see girl that want to spend her life with you as manchi wey you be you go know, that girl don spoil. The decision is yours because you are the one to face the music later.

I feel you bro, I've already lost interest and clicked off. No need for plenty talk nigga I fit nor even message am again. Because I don't want to be like these small boys that starts begging for attention, that's bad for business. Better to leave with respect than with shame

Sharpsharp00123:
sorry please how old are u?

E get y

Just take it I'm in the age range of a young adult

talented321:
Bc

What

4Additions:
Patronizing olosho: it all started when I was in secondary school jss2 can remember vividly a not too close friend of mine introduced me to a local brothel. That day I got disvirgin ever since then, I have been patronizing olosho up till this moment. I haven't had a girlfriend since I was born, just pay as you go.. I spend huge sums, like 40k a night.. 20k short time, like 5 days in a week. I am dying within me. I can't seem to stop.



Gambling: this has been eating me since 2017, but it has been getting worse since 2020. Every money I make I put it into sporty bet. I can't seem to stop, it's almost like I'm being manipulated. Just this year alone I have lost close to millions of naira. I think I am curse. I am dying deep within me. I can't seem to stop.



Masturbation: due to depression, I started masturbating in early 2020 up till now, even when I'm with a runs gal I still masturbate. It has become a habit that I can't seem to stop. I am dying deep within me.





Drugs intake: I was introduced to drugs by a runs gal I carried in 2019. I still remember that day. Now I take drugs like it's water in my system. I'm depressed, I turn to drugs..when I lose in sportybet I turn to drugs then I masturbate.. I logde hotel just to take drugs. I'm so skinny.. people are starting to complain. I know, but I can't seem to stop. I'm dying deep within me.



I have contemplated suicide several times but I haven't made up my mind to end it yet because I know just snipper will end this. I still have hope, but I don't know how to redirect my life. I have tried and tried, I don't know how. I tried to enroll myself in a rehab and booked an appointment with them but they didn't talk well . I am dying..I need help.

Please, I need help.



I have told my mom about this she should pray for me. I am ready to go to church, herbalist, shrine or mosque to reconstruct my life.
I can't help myself.
Everytime I try to stop just 24hours I relapse the next day.

I wish I can just die.
Every night I sleep and wish not to wake up because once I do I know it's same suffering.
I am like a living corpse that's breathing but dying with great pace. I might just take my life but I wish I can survive.


Nlfpmod

Then you don't want to stop. It's in your brain it's not controlling you, if you truly want to stop you'll stop. Stop being little shit about it and quit your addictions you're a man not a pussy.

First understand you have a high sex drive so get a girlfriend even if it's a gold digger since you have the money for it but just use her for sex.

Learn to control your masturbation and make it 2 or 3 times a week. Nothing wrong with masturbating so don't kill yourself about that

Gambling, go broke and you'll stop gambling. This is caused by excess money you thinking you have. When you start choosing between food and gambling you'll obviously choose to survive

Drugs? Find the reason why you started drugs.... It's depression right? What can cute depression? Work on your purpose in life and if you don't have a purpose then find it and as soon as your life has meaning you'll stop drugs. I presume if you can fix the first 3 addictions then you'll fix your drug adduction because I believe you use drugs as a coping mechanism to feel alive or like your life has a true meaning.

Reach out to me on Instagram if you need some reality check brother... once in a while about how much of a weak man you are lol @Mooner_x

BE A MAN AND TAKE YOUR LIFE INTO YOUR OWN HANDS

YinkaOlusesi16:
In every relationship there is one thing every guys should know. You can't separate a girl from her Ex. She will always go back to him or always come back to her. Know this and have peace, afterall we are all Ex's.

True talk bro, not everyone is like me. I'm principled that I don't even communicate with my ex at all in a new relationship but it seems she doesn't respect the relationship enough

Well I've been dating this girl for a while now when I came back from travels, it was last year I came back after losing alot of money so I started strolling to my guy side around here to just chill and clear my head and that's where I met her.


Boyish girl but I didn't mind so I took her contact and got to know her better, she came off smart and emotional mature to me. Told me she's had a bad past with her ex. He cheated on her with her friend and I was like damn why would the nigga do such even with her friend for that matter.


Also told me the first time they slept together he forced her by shouting for her and the second time he gave her weed to smoke with his guys and took her in when she was high and bleeped her. Felt bad for the girl and based the fact I'm a principled person I just told her if this relationship goes sideways it'll be you because I won't cheat on you it's not my vibe.


We started dating and two months in she started demanding more affection and time that I can give regardless of the fact she knew I was always working and trying to fix my life back up. I'm a hard guy but interesting if you don't act entitled and actually get to know me.


Then she started acting up, cut the call on me when I was trying to tell her to stop having beefs with her sister then people intervened in the matter so I made a harsh voice note about her to our mutual female friend, the dumbass girl sent it to her. Had to apologize for the anger


Since then we kept on quarelling over petty things because she purposes kept crossing her boundaries but I don't quarell with her it's only if I'm pissed that I shout for her and the rest times I just give her space because I don't have time to involve in petty quarells with my woman.


Eventually before Christmas at that time she started giving me attitude not knowing the ex started calling her and she was responding to him, even followed him to a show he went to perform and she was talking with him in the phone when I was there that's when I caught her that shit was silly to me since I hate betrayal so I've not been trusting her since then and I couldn't end it then because I found out the truth late. Still kept quarelling over petty shit till recently


After leaving me waiting for 1hour plus for simple stroll I wanted to stroll with her I left her be thinking maybe she's not interested due to recent attitudes and if you ask her why's she's acting up she says it's nothing so I've given up on her in my mind then she called and I asked if she's still interested she said yes.


The next two days... Boom she posts herself in a hotel room and I was pissed and I went to meet and was like what was that? Where were you? She said birthday party, I'm like how do you expect me to believe that? She said is me that's thinking like that and I'm like huh.... wow cool then we're done enjoy your life.


The reasons I've not slept with this girl is she's acting like she doesn't get Hot, we usually go to one uncompleted building to hangout when go over to her side so I fit nack am there or even get a hotel.



I make enough money to do that but last year everytime I tried to go second base like finger her or even put my hand in her trousers she just removes them, pushes me back when we're kissing for long and generally just acts uninterested to get intimate in any form and I'm like what's up with this chick?



So I left her be and I have a rule (if she acts like she's doesn't wanna sleep with me then I don't) I only sleep with girls or women who are really interested in sleeping with me, it improves my masculine energy. If I'm in a position that I know if I beg or shout I can get her to sleep with me then I don't even try, lots of girls in the world to bother about one.

I'm not bothered about leaving her but what I'm against is being fooled you know, right now I've clicked off the relationship because she's not putting any work just more attitude. She doesn't want to leave because I'm a very attractive guy, down to earth, introverted, confident, muscular and I'm an entrepreneur but one thing I've never done us give her money because watching her closely she doesn't deserve it so I've never spent on her and she never asks because she's scared of looking like my ex I told her about that used me like a bank.


What's your thoughts?