Sammy07:
My state only has two.

Ondo state

Yoruba and Ijaw

Bodyodour:
motivational speakers always capping nonsense. when hunger sets in, you will be nowhere to be seen.

Sapiosexuality:
Don't you think he's trying to place himself in perpetual poverty?

prophetfire:
. If he had proposed to you would you have agreed. Omo motivational speaker.

lightangel65i:


Google always overestimate stuff

Tripitaka:


I have tried a couple of times, but I can't tell if it was successful. I really don't know how it works.

Tripitaka:


Dammy, I would recommend these songs for you hoping that you find them interesting.

Lost Boy - Ruth B
Malibu - Miley Cyrus
These Days - Rudimental
Blended Family - Alicia Keys
I'm Not Going Anywhere - David Ramirez
Be All Right - Dean Lewis
Gambler - FUN
Always Remember Us - Lady Gaga
Heart Is A Drum - Beck

All top of my playlist. Smile.

stormborn28:
be careful of scammers...he may ask you to pay something.. This is how they earn the money dey are boasting of... Watch out

Bondatt:


What a load of tripe!
All in a bid to make whoring acceptable, you are subtly trying to make virginity unappealing.

Try projecting your insecurities somewhere else. Our mothers were virgins and lived with our fathers till their death. No accounts of infidelity. For degenerated minds like you, you think sex is the only ingredient in marriage. Sex is not the only ingredient, neither is it the main ingredient. It is a cherry on the top.

With mindset like yours it's no wonder we have a lot of broken homes, bastard children and abortions. Our parents knew that family life meant responsibility, selflessness, integrity, self control, morality and virtue.

The holy book said that he gave Sodom and Gomorrah to unattainable sexual lust. That is exactly what is happening with you and your ilk. When your vaginas have suddenly overriden your brain. Blame no one but yourself for the fact that you have overrun your mileage and have no control of your own libido again.

Project your degenerative thinking elsewhere. You try to 'smartly' paint abhorrent black to become white.

When you talk about sex, you talk about it in a way that will make the unwary think it's rocket science, and that there is more to gain than the minutes of gratification. Let me ask you. Who taught Adam how to satisfy his wife eve? Is it your degenerate self? Who taught our parents who were virgins, both male and female to have sex, procreate and have happy families? Is it your degenerate self i ask again.
Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast? Didn't you learn as every adaptive creature does?

For men and women virgins reading this, don't lose your self worth because of wolves like these who have lost them trying to demean what is naturally vitreous. A man and woman who love themselves would have all the time in the world to learn about sex among themselves and experiment all they need to with themselves. They would have the love and patience to seek medical help and consultation if they have a need to do so while maintaining the bonds of their marriage.

The way these sluts talk, it is clear that the only thing in their cranium is sex. That is why say if for example their husband or their wife becomes handicapped and can no longer carry out their sexual duties, they cheat on them, or worse yet they leave them. Our forefathers and parents knew what marital commitment and true love, a ride and die kinda love truly meant.

Remain vitreous, have your own standards for what is right and stick with them no matter what others may say.

TO these whores I say, go reap what you've sown.

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wamiikechukwu:
The Chronicles of the abnormal Nigerian yoot...


Hello everyone,

i have been a silent member of this thread and i think i should express the way i have been feeling this past period... please pardon the rant... i just need to let out some steam

EDIT: i have to cut out a large chuck of this, so that it would be short for you guys to read.

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Being an introvert isn't that bad, what is worst is being an introvert and also a stammerer... yep that is me.

well i have come to accept the fact the way it is and there is nothing that can be done about it

i am the type of person that is scare of any thing that would single me out, i remember how my heart pound when i am asked a question in school that will make me express my self... i dont know if its the fear of me stammering or that "introverted fear" that will make my voice shaky and my hand sweaty with a cold feet.

Because of my kind of personality i so so so much love to stay indoors -at least it makes me to reduce the way i meet and mingle with people, but as i grew older, i knew i will have responsibilities to bear, so some months ago i got a job.

the day i resume my job, what was in my head was "how will i cope with this people", "how will i socialize" and i am amazed that i survived after 2 and a half month and funny enough, no body talks to me in the office except when its critical. My kind of job is one that i would need to be relating with people everyday and God has done it, i have been able to adapt -this still remain a testimony.

so let me talk about me being depressed, that i was so close to commit suicide.

Over the past year i have been extremely depressed, despite i got a job but i still feel like a failure - i did so poorly in school, that my career is in ruin, currently my mate went to NYSC and i am still here- i dont even have the hope of going in the next two years; and no body in my family knows or even bother to ask me except one of my aunt.

i had to summon so much courage to tell my aunt not to expect anything from me because i have fail them...well that what i get when i cant have a conversation with others family members and them even not bothering to know how i have been coping for the last four years in school.

let me spare you all my misery and tell a bit about my social life...

the only person i call my friend, that i could talk too is avoiding me, why, he told me "he now has more contacts" meaning he doesn't need my company again every since he came back from NYSC camp, we barely chat unlike before, he probably made new friends there over there, friends he thinks are better than me... he is the only person i open up to tell what i am passing through... he doesn't even know the reason i come online in whats app is just to communicate with him, well... i will survive.

oh i didn't mention he has a girl friends more of a f***k mate now, probably devoting his time to her.

so when all these things happened, i figure that " hey dude (me) its time to get out of the shell, see if you can make news friends or in this case see if you can make a girl friend.

i feel so shy among people especially the opposite sex, i tried having a girl friend and it all failed, i am even lost interest in trying but i just have to keep pushing on.

i feel most of you may be asking why is he concern about having a girl friend, well, i just need someone of the opposite sex to talk to, all my life i have away been with my guys, so i want to know how it feels like talking to someone else.

for the last 3 days, every evening, i would just walk around my neighborhood thinking of who i can talk to but unfortunately i have seen none... rather i have seen none like me.

i apologize for boring you with my long tales...i just needed to air it out, in case i am not there anymore, let me have someone/thing to speak for me

The Chronicles of the abnormal Nigerian yoot...

Karleb:

I feel your pain.

This is exactly what I hate about this thread.

They all come here to celebrate how awesome and great it is to be an introvert but deep down, that's all a facade.

Many here are married, have a good job but are still suffering from social anxiety. Many here have never made a single friend in their life, the friends they have made them.

...and y'all still think this is normal?

This thread should be focused on how to make people better. How to make people come out of their shell and face the harsh realities of life.

But what do we have?

I think the thread should be deleted. It has lost its purpose.

DivineGrace123:


You have almost the same traits as I.

I believe an introvert should also date or marry a fellow introvert or at most an ambivert. People always say such relationship will be boring but I don't believe it will be boring especially if both of them are in love with each other. I am not sure an introvert-extrovert relationship will work. One of my friends is having issues in her marriage because of this. Her husband is an introvert while she is an extrovert. So, this is really creating issues in her marriage because her husband loves staying indoors whereas the wife loves having fun and the like. I know sometimes, it is possible for them to complement each other but I still believe introvert-introvert relationships will work best than introvert-extrovert relationships.

Just my opinion though.

ayanbaba2:


everything is 101%

what kind of music do you like listening to?

every of my colleagues hate the genre of music I have on my playlist... I don't give a fuc.k because, I still look out for more of those "good" music.

lastly, I have always cut my coat according to my clothes! no pressure at all.



kudos!

justmi1:
I bet no one knows that the intensity of the waterfall is proportional to the sound around it, was there in 2012 with colleagues from school, 40 of us, we screamed so loud, guess what, the waterfall intensity increased immediately, we almost ran out. It was fun, an unforgettable experience.

CDMHELPDESK007:


Congrats,

Do explain in details as instructed by the man of God

1. I moved forward
2. I moved 2 steps
3. I moved 2 steps
4. I moved 3 steps
5. I moved 3 steps

So you can move to the next stage

nextlevel2020:
I am a single and I am at my late 30s, but when issue of marriage arises my heart always beat. I am privilege to have good job with 6 digits salary and I own my house, but the greatest fear I am facing is what I experience from my colleagues marriages on daily basis couple with my jungle life to the stardom. To cut my story brief, I will talk about my colleague who is also my closest friend's marriage to illustrate my fear for taking the bold step. This my friend married a pretty young lady and they started life together from scratch and they were blessed with two kids. Few years later, they built their home in one remote area and they began to live there without any neighbor. The first day I visited them, I have nothing but to praise the woman for developing such audacity to live alone whenever my friend leave for work. As time goes on, my friend decided to allow his wife to enroll for her degree program in order to better their future and the life of their two kids. When the woman finished the program, she said that she is done with the marriage and that was the end. Pastors from their church, family members and friends did everything to find out what went wrong but all efforts to get things to normalcy proved abortive. Few months later, Lawyer brought divorce letter and that was the end.

One thing I learned from their marriage is that, for a couple to live together till death puts them apart, there must be effective communication and determination to sustain the union. Till today, my friend could not say this was what went wrong in his marriage and the woman also muted till she sent divorce letter.

About my jungle life. I want to say a little about myself and I do hope that the good people in this platform can advise me to kill the fear I have for marriage.
I am from a very humble background and none of my parents has formal education. I began primary school when I was closed to fourteen, I was able to foster myself from primary to tertiary institution with the help of farming activities and site jobs. These periods, I encountered several humiliations that I can't share all. The girl I was dating then, said to me open that I should go and look for my wife elsewhere because she could not see any traces of survival from me and she left me for someone else. Five months later, I got an appointment with multinational firm and God has been faithful in all aspects of my life. I have traveled to Europe and some Africa countries too but the phobia of who will make me happy and will not abscond from my life like my friend's wife is the greatest concern am facing at the moment.

Femsyn:
To buttress the OP's views...

I read this story and i laughed... i laughed hard because marriage is complex and is often more that what meets the eye.

Do you know the couple's story? They alone, know why they act in the manner they do. Look! how a woman or wife react in marriage is borne more of the input of the husband. What you see is what you get.

Let me ask you a question? Do you think the woman would've reacted the same way, if the man is often of the habit of squandering family cash on irrelevant things, stays away from the house with girlfriends, ignores the wife, does not carry the wife along in major decisions and does not take care of the home?

Young men, don't read hastily. The man the OP depicted up there is a responsible man. Most women align with their husbands easily, when the man is doing the needful.

The man has done enough for the reward you saw for few moments. Men, that reward doesn't come automatically. You work for it!!!

My response is not for the OP, because s/he has done justice with the points given thereafter. My response is for men who might read hastily, and assume the wife's behaviour is follow-come.