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It really not my style of life. This lady has made me spend money on her too much only for me to discover she is breastfeeding another guy with my money. I have seen her for what she is now and it's affecting my work, i feel useless and i find it difficult to sleep.

She knew from the on set that my intention for her was marriage. She knew i wasn't strong enough to manage another heart break after my previous one and yet she played me for a sucker. Very obvious she never loved me and was there to destroy me. After all i have done for her, now i am finding it hard to concentrate and to do what i do to make money...

I know it's part of life but i have decided never again would a girl play me for a fool. I decided this after several attempted suicide when my ex girlfriend left. The funny part is, their reason for cheating is not justified, they only come and push other ladies away and even made me draw myself from my major female friends.

So, after the thinking i thought to myself, i would be a monkey cousin if i allow this girl play me for a sucker, an idea popped up.





Don't judge me, i am hurt and i am only taking this measure due to my emotional emptiness and betrayal

bolaayenimo:
Wike will soon storm EFCC office to rescue him

lol

Within a period of three months, i have been a victim of two period fraudulent irregularities on my account. This of course i have traced to my regular use of POS services wherever I go...

The first card happened to be a MASTER CARD and when the stunt was played, i had to do everything necessary to shut down debit transaction on the account as the transaction was done on Indonesia currency using Google services.. I reported to the bank and had things sorted out. I quickly contacted Google with my details and my money was refunded within a week...

Then just yesterday i received another consistent debit transaction but this time it was done with naira currency. I quickly recall i had used the new card on a suspicious POS centre because the merchant there seemed to air the feeling of insecurity when i used the service...

So, how is this done. POS machine are programmed to steal card details which are then sent to the programmer to access your account without the use of otp. Some of the pos merchants are into this but on selected account only associated with visa and master card only.....

When next you get a fraudulent alert with a Google description, fill out Google form on fraud and get the money reversed..

Block debit transaction with your bank ussd immediately and visit the bank to rectify the issue, thanks.

Nigeria their country....

Anyway, i sell cars direct from contonu with paper rap

Abu

[quote author=itman19 post=91662974][/quote]Scammer, check the date he registered

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Nigeria

chizillar:
No Chief executive is beyond reproach

is chidinma ur sister ?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Low budget asss Moda fuckkking assassin
No common automatic Kalashnikov 47( Ak 47) not to talk of Ak 49
No British L96A1 sniper rifle.
No Russian Orsis T-5000 sniper rifle.
no Ruger Mk II gun
No Remington Model 700 gun
No Walther PP gun
No Claridge Hi-Tec/Goncz GC.
No Beretta 92FS gun
No Smith & Wesson Model 10.
No Heckler & Koch USP.
No SIG-Sauer P226.
If you are a niggarrr and you know all these guns then you must a real assassin

Just because you use Google to search for guns specs does not make you a military pro..

Always pretending to be what you're not....
From Yahoo to Arm Robbery

GuestLog:
If he doesn't know the origin of the document or what bank it is, if he wasn't expecting any form of payment then it's obviously a phishing email meant to extract your information. I once used a phishing page to get login details of a guy who hacked my brother's Facebook page. I suspect that it is nothing more than a phishing email.

My advice is to ignore it completely. Don't dare click any link or submit any form.

He confirmed it's from the bank. Should he still ignore it ?

GuestLog:
Hushpuppy things!

Is he getting scammed or this is one real thing

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Macphenson:
It's obvious she has tested it from somebody and wants it from you. If you refuse, she will keep getting it from there.
"Use your Head".

I don't care anymore. She's making me unhappy

TurnerG:
. Dis person wise no be small

I don't think i care anymore

My ex girlfriend was everything i ever wanted in a woman. It's so sad i lost her to another dude after all that we had together. She was kind, romantic, caring and available. I had no boring moments with her and even through her family wasn't doing well financially she never bothered me with her problems, as a fact, she always assisted me with the little she got because she believed i ought to have expenses as a student...

Our love was perfect but along the way she cheated and started hating me. Well, i tried all i could to get her back but all my efforts couldn't get her so i gave up on her. On the other hand, my current girlfriend bombards me with her financial crises, from Body Cream to House rent, she has no financial sense and always want big things even though she can't afford them. She's a student like me, but imagine a girl that can't boast of her own 100 naira demanding a bathing soap worth 12k while i use 420 naira bathing soap.

Her demands are getting me nuts and i have dreams, plans and even projects that require money but how can i get my projects or plans done when i keep giving her money, taking her out, sending her card, paying for everything in her life even though i am a student.

I have no problem supporting my girl, the only problem i have is that i don't think i love her( i can't be too certain in matter of the heart) and she demands a life far more than her current standard. I find it hard to dismiss anyone from my inner circle because i only keep few people around so loosing anyone always make me think and worried for sometime which is something i don't want this period.

I don't even know what to do. I discussed with my female bestie yesterday about getting a better girl. A girl i can plan life with, that is concerned about me and doesn't exploit me with emotional blackmail, turned out my bestie does thesame to her boyfriends as well. I don't even know if those type of valuable ladies exist anymore...

Please i need your words of wisdom..

Runtown nor dey find trouble O..... Runtown is lyrically confam

Naso

Buru

So, i have been dating this girl for three months now and we have been having our relationship going fine for us until she asked for head job.

I told her "it's against my ethics to do that", babe didn't even bother herself that day. Fast forward to few days later she brought the idea again and i said "no head job".

This morning she texted me to either pick between giving her headjob or a break up...

It came as a joke to me but when i called her she made it clear, well it's one hell of a relationship.

Stevyne:
Do me a favour

no

otipoju:
I overheard a lady in my nieghbourhood backnthen telling her friend that she can never date a guy who is not man enough to beat her when she misbehaves.

I dont know where she is now.

In hospital

kalufelix:
If too much of everything is bad .. A lil bit of everything should be good... Why do you think women keep going back to abusive r/ships.. That was some test right there.. now she is certain her man is not a simp but a real alpha that loves his woman... Congrats bro but please don't hit her again.

you funny

I was a perfect gentleman but even at that my girlfriend was always careful not to hurt my feelings by saying words that could annoy me..

So, i have never laid hands on a woman before even when i feel insulted, infact i despised it. My ex girlfriend nearly made me a hardened kind of guy but i jumped over...

Straight to the point, my girlfriend left town to visit her cousin which she did not tell me. She just told me about taking her little sister there for holiday and would be back the next day( she was scared i would say no..). On finding out, we resolved everything through phone and when she finally came back to town i took her for a date in a fancy restaurant, from there we went to a luxury hotel. I booked a room just so we could spend the evening without outside intrusion....

We got in and then she settled down and turned on the TV while I glanced through my phone, she started murmuring about how i went to a beauty pageant because of my ex while she was not around, i was so angry that i lost control and slapped her. She feel on the bed and said something about my mum being a bit*h, that made me so angry that i pulled out my belt and flogged her. I reminded her never to travel again without me consenting....

Strangely i realised what i have done but she was already on the bed crying profusely, i was totally ashamed of myself. I opened the door and went to the swimming pool session to calm myself. I spent most of the evening there with my phone and strangly she texted me an apology. I was fucking amazed, i empirically wanted to apologize and break up for her own sake since i was transforming into someone abusive....

I went to the room, she knelt down and apologized. The love became so intended and she became completely loyal...

Today, i ordered a new laptop for her because she complained about her system battery but when she received the laptop, she told me to accept half the payment from her.... The girl is completely different now. Nigeria girls are strange, very strange

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn Niggarrr
Isoright


You must be a real niggarrr
Like i said anybody can delve into politics...
Even me Last last
After all the bombing
Na politics go end am
i go Join a party with Great ideology
I nor go join APC! Never. For me to join APC i better join PDP

Then like play like play i go find my way into the legislative arm of government
Then boom
I go begin they introduce some real niggarrrz bill
I go introduce the bill make all religious institutions dey pay huge amount of tax
I go propose or introduce the bill to legalize weed
I go begin recommend and make sure all my real niggarrrz in the street get government contracts

Nor be only bombing, na bottle..... Dey form street for Jews

You wey small pikin dey smell follow ur post na dey form street

Nawa o

lowkeybahdguy:
I had a neighbour during my University days who regularly beat the crap out of his girlfriend. sometimes leaving her with serious bruises on her face and all. Everytime this girl would scream her lungs out to be rescued, and every time stupeed me and fellow lodge mates will intervene to settle the pair only to see the pair together again the next day and so the cycle continued.

Looking back now, I have come to understand that the beatings only increased her love for the guy. imagine leaving your smoke sesh to go and settle two bumbling idiots because I was the most respected person there and I also didn't want police barging in unannounced on my smoke seshs.

Another time, a more personal situation, my then gf once queried me why I don't scold or beat her. I was flabbergasted to say the least, but I concealed my surprise. we moved on to other issues, but that incident has never been far removed from my thoughts about women ever since. incredulous creatures women are.

You said the truth brotherly. My ex asked me thesame thing on why i don't slap her when she misbehaves, she even suggested i beat her whenever i see her misbehaving.... I tried to raise my hands then but i just couldn't slap a lady no matter what... Currently she is dating three guys i am aware of and they could be dishing her what she loves *hot slap*

I can't involve myself in bf and gf issues. I mind my business that's the reason it's still growing

420active:
Try stop your brother from beating any of his punching bags in the house cos if he happen you fit no follow am chop beans but na all of Una dem go first carry.

God forbid. I am only in that house temporarily for a visit, i don't care if they arrest him. He is so disrespectful and has made a fool of me outside in the past. That's his life, make E carry E cross

espn:
3 of you are foolish...Maybe he learnt that from you. If you cant scold your brother... What do you expect Nairalanders to do...

Bull*shit. My lil brother is disrespectful, he would result to violence if i dare get involved. Beside, they might reconcile tomorrow and i would be the mugu.

Minding my business is bae

heendrix:
Let ur brother kill her/beat her to coma then y'all eyes will clear including you esp if you all stay under same roof

All I see here is two brothers that grew up in a domestic violence built up home that you had to walk away from such battery scene instead doing something to stop it just like you call urself an Elder

It's our family house, not my house. I have my own place. To be honest, my brother and i are not in greeting terms, dude is so disrespectful that a little move by me would result to him attacking me violently

This igbo girl(Amaka) keeps coming back to my little brother even after receiving royal Rumble smack down from him. My Little brother would shut the door on her and rain punches on her, the girl screams and shouts, pleading for help, it's so horrible.

The worst part is that the girl is an annoying 18year old girl that school in one stupid Polytechnic with my little brother. My brother had two girlfriends in the past and she treats them both thesame, it such a relief that the sensible one left him. This brain*less one is not just Stu*pid but insultive, she lacks simple mannerism and always walked past people without a single courtesy.

Just today, the beating was so intense that the girl was shouting high above roof for anybody to save her.... I just left my room and went to one guest house to rest my head..

My Little brother is as insultive as the girl but it baffles me how girls like guys that treat them like trash and they look down on the ones that shower them with love...

Modified: The girl is now smiling and walking down the street with him.... Use your head, nor go carry Mata wey nor concern you

NevetsIbot:
This is a heads up for any feminist or gender bias person thinking I'm here taking a swing at the female folks... You're grossly mistaken.

I met this girl... 22yrs of age.. Should could converse well although most of the undertones of her sentences were always that of "manipulation".

She's damn good swimmer who spends a lot of her time at hotels that have pools. That was where we met cos I'm pretty big on swimming too. After constant contacts... She loved up and one thing led to another. She dances actually and I did my part to show her to offer her skills as a service to anyone who wants her and her crew to dance for their music videos.

Two months down the line - She was demanding almost 24hrs of my time - I was not going to give any woman the luxury of my whole day - when there was money to be made. She had to adjust.

So then - I ran at a loss at one of my trades yesterday which will mean I'll have to refund a friend of a huge sum. I got online, saw she Had dropped a text for me... She was asking for money for subscription (Can you be so broke at 22yrs that you can't manage to subscribe for yourself?) I ignored it and proceeded to tell her the mess that just happened.. I was about to take up my small phone to load her line .... Next thing she said was "SHA DO MY SUB"

Anger mixed with disappointments and rage but I chose to ignore her messages. Then she came with the barrage of slight insults saying I was ignoring her cos of 1k. And she went on ranting.

Told her how inconsiderate she was and how dissaponted I was at her. The money was not even the issue, it was her inability to not see my own loss just for her gains.

Bottom line - she said stuffs like "You know I have never asked you for anything, when have you ever told me to send my account number as a compensation for me not asking you for money?" - LIKE I WAS OBLIGATED TO REWARD HER FOR NOT ASKING ME FOR SHIT!

I asked her this " If I were Hot and I came to you for sex and you told me you just developed a stomach ache and I shrug if off and say "Sha lie down and let me do my thing"...... Would you not find it offensive that I totally ignored what was wrong with you? "

NOTE : We ain't had sex yet cos I just didn't want to.

She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.

Egbami... Ordinary 1k....how many mins does it even take a 15yr old to spend 1 thousand naira. And here was a 22yr old ignoring that her boyfriend made a very bad trade and lost a lot of money for it... ONE THOUSAND NAIRA..... O WRONG NAU. O WRONG!

I reloaded the airtime she needed on her line as her severance package... If 1k is more important than your boyfriends wellbeing , take it and go.


who's at fault?.. I obviously am for letting myself down and going for a girl way below my worth..... I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.

Working class ladies all the way from now

What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.