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No doubt I had doubt if her love was genuine. I have asked myself just how to get the truth out of her head. She came with tales of love, always making me feel like a king. Yes, she told me she thinks about me every seconds and how scared she becomes thinking of losing me.

This relationship started barely a month ago. We started as friends and eventually she became my girl. She was intrigued with tales of my ex and how hopelessly i drowned in love with my ex, how my ex gave me the shove of my life and how i wanted someone to change my obsession.

Then she came, she acted well but the connection just wasn't there but i had to play along and for the first time in my life, i felt what responsibility is, all her expenses became mine and she barely said no to anything i thrilled her to (do you want ice cream ? Yes... Do you want apple ? Yes..).

I became worried because she was a liability, always taking and never giving. She couldn't advise me in the simplest of assumed situations and making love to her doesn't excite me that much because i barely feel the thrust during sex... She lacked bedmathics and financial management. So, obviously she offered nothing.

So I called my friend and confidante to advise me about her, Afterall i was becoming unhappy each passing day with her. He told me to test her, "simply refrain from giving her a dime for now...."

I went to her place and after our usual boring moments i left without giving her money (I usually give her money). I arrived home and settled down to reminisce about the day, just then i realised she didn't call me. Oh no, she always put the call first so what could have been wrong. I texted her, thanking her for the moment we spent talking that evening and finally she called. We spoke for few minutes and bamn, she told me she wants to get busy with her chores, okay. The minute went bye, an hour, 24 hours, a day and few hours and still no call...

Why should i put the call Afterall, i offered her what most guys wouldn't and the only and one thing she had to do is call me to atleast say "Danielfx i miss you...."

Well, i learnt a funny lesson. She ain't loyal....

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Always online

Jobless Niggarrr
Isoright

SILVERLINES:


EFCC should come to Rivers State

Yahoo Boyz plenty for her

Efcc don't go after yahoo boys, they go after G-Boys

Lalasticlala mynd44 come and say something

Anyway, get my point. Asking for money to spend on extravagant commodities is a no no for me(at least for now...) And i have no challenge with money for judicious use...

Get it, i only give her money i approved of, that is money meant for a course that seems reasonable to me....

When we criticize a lady for being financially insufficient, we should not forget that her financial downside could be as a result of anything even ranging to her family background.

Most guys would prefer the working class lady, some of which are born into wealth but majority of working class ladies work with working class men. Some were made or got to where they are because someone built the bridge they crossed over.

A girl's pocket is not her nemesis. To me, it seems prematured of any guy to castigate a lady based on her pocket. If you want her to be financially responsible then set the package for her, get her a job, get her ideas, just anything to change her to the taste you want....

My girl is not from a financially bouguos family and it pains me when i see what she faces, she lost her mum long ago and she is the first daughter, her dad is also trying his best but the economy is not helpful to him. You see, i am a student just like my girl, as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university. I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

I don't judge her because of her financial downside, it's not your job to say she's broke if i can't do anything about it for her.

To cut the thread short, only broke guys complain of a girl financial downside. Do your best if you love her, take care of her, shape her to your taste and don't ever feel you're entitled to her because of your contribution to her life....

If she breaks up tomorrow, i won't have any regret for everything i did for her..

So, my girlfriend said this today and it's making me wonder the nature of those ladies that see themselves as males' advocate.

I have heard that statement literally from every Sandra and Amanda from my past to present and it's like hearing it over and over again. Are the Kardashians really thinking that those relationships are flawless or there is a passenger on the train ?

Please share your opinion.

Have you ever heard of the spirit of the universe ?
Have you ever heard a whisper to go or come at any time ?
Have you had a slight vision before an invent took place ?

Then you should know the element behind this force.

The universe has a soul, a soul that has a voice and it speaks to anyone that wishes to listen. The universe interacts with your spirit to reveal great secrets to you and this is imperative if you must discover your destiny.

At a time, we had dreams to be a pilot, a doctor, a lawyer, a politician and so with nature's innocence, we path our heart towards achieving that which we believed, but along the way, most of us are made to go with the wind and whatever direction the wind blows, so our new destiny lies.

Johnny always wanted to be a doctor, he went through school and when he finally wrote his entrance exam into the UNIBEN, he was given physiology. Johnny was conscious of what his mates would make of him spending one more year at home and so, he settles for physiology. And then he assumes with utmost confidence, "perhaps physiology is my destiny."

Johnny could not achiever his destiny like most people. Many people live a life of regret because the treasure of their heart was never gotten. But at a time, our heart has always spoken to us, to be patient, to try again, to take the next door but we choose to ignore because we want the way of the wind which refreshes immediately.

Where our heart lies, is where our treasure is and it is the soul of the universe that speaks to our spirit which sends the message to us......

paulolee:
ar u sure she is not playing u??

to be honest, i don't know but everything about her family is true

Millennialaku:
mtcheww. this one dey find idiots wey go ask am how e take dey make money ................use your imagination to complete the rest


awon forex trader


i don't have any replies for you if you eventually decide to quote me

It seems you're ruined psychologically that you could not discern common relationship issues. Do you see anywhere there where i asked you to talk about my financial sufficiency. Please respect your young age, awon over sabi

After i broke up with my ex girlfriend, i finally met a lady that was loving and beautiful.

Sometimes i feel like she is there for the dough mostly. She is good, not even the type i suspect for cheating, she wouldn't do that. She's fragile and concerned about my obsession with my ex girlfriend and until recently, she was always complaining to my friend that "she isn't feeling secured because i always mention the name of my ex."

The thing is, she is a student in Uniben, my ex girlfriend can't even use a simple sentence and she is a secondary school dropout. This new girl is into thesame course as I, but in different university. She's the first daughter in the family and she lost her mum many years ago...

Now, her dad isn't doing so well and she sees it as her responsibility to make the family happy. She asks me for basically everything including food. Her excesses are too much for a student like me even though i have little money. I pay for her hair to taking her to ShopRite every week plus hotel bills. So today, she told my friend about her financial issues and my friend asked me to give her something which i did. I even promised to buy her phone tomorrow because her phone was stolen.

The girl is a good girl, even my friend is asking me to stay with her than stay with my apologetic ex girlfriend but i can't bear the burden of an entire family and i don't think it's my destiny to start that journey with her. I am confused, her excesses is my only fear....

As a student, a young guy and a guy without support from anybody except prudence and God, would you advise me to go on with this relationship ?

Should i stop now or what do you have in mind. I need your advise.

[quote author=coputa post=90689115][/quote]Child pregnancy is not the same thing as teenage pregnancy.

coputa:
Agbarho is the most developed town in ughelli north local governmet,it is a town adorned with standard hotels,good road network,pubic/private schools,modern market,with beehive of commecial activities.PTI and FUPRE are stone throws to the town.strangers are falling over themselves to acquire land in the town because of its hospitality and prosperity.is this the town you called messed up town

PTI and FUPRE are not in Agbarho. It's obvious you don't know anything about this place. A friend of mine read through your post and advised me Against responding, quite sure you're not in the town.

There is no educational centre there except secondary and primary school. Light problem and drainage problem all the time, road problem too. Youths wahala, towns force extortion too is common plus child pregnancy. Visit the villages under Agbarho, ikweghwu and others, the children there have no other idea of life other than getting pregnant and leaving their parents' house. A girl of 9years is already a sexual personia in Agbarho....

My dear, i can go on and on. Don't defend what you don't know. My parents are there and i visit that town often so i know what i am talking about

Hardrive:
You have gained the most valuable of experience. She has BPD(Borderline personality disorder). Worst still, she became your ONEITIS. ( Meaning she fitted the description of the lady you though had everything you needed I'm a woman to spend the rest of your life with).Just cut her off simple. But let the experience be a reminder that any lady can do the same to you if you make them the most important thing in your life. I was right all along. I had to go and check out your posts and I guessed right. If you have the time, you should read therationalmale.com by Rollo Tomassi or better still download his books THE RATIONAL MALE. He had the same problem.

Thanks bro. You're a live saver

coputa:
obada helped many agbarho youths into the army,except those without the requisite qualification or street urchins,which i believe you belong. He stopped cultism in agharho,he is an astute community leader,he was instrumental the tarring of roads in agbarho.his discipline and strigent laws chased away hoodlums and crimimals from agbarho.an iroko tree has fallen,

I didn't apply for military and you obviously don't live in that messed up town. That man never helped anybody. Ask around, he is a huge failure and he didn't do a dime about any cult issue. He even contributed to youth control and fuel issues upon issues.

That man is wicked and evil, ask any sincere AGvice youth

Nemere2020:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/06/14/obada-ex-nigerian-commissioner-works-dies

General Obada that refused to sign Agbarho youths into the military. Thesame man that caused chaos in Agbarho with youths and shot his own son.

A JW fanatic with huge hold on the community. This community does not even have a king(osuvie) because this fuc*ked up General created havoc on the guise of his greed.

There is nothing distinctive about this man. He had zero contribution to the improvement of youths in his own community.

Go and do local politics in hell.. or wherever people like you go to and abeg carry NDA follow body as E be say U nor want make anybody for ur community go so

When people talk about how heart broken they are or how they can't stop loving or obsessing about their ex partners that abandon them, they are really talking sense and it has nothing to do with weakness.

I was one of those that experienced this. First time we met wasn't too fantastic but a week later when we started relationship proper, it dawned on me that i have met my partner in this race of life.

It was an amazing affair. I was a student in my year two while she was an ssce holder working as a sales girl. After our romantic holiday, i travelled back to school, we exchanged few times on mobile calls and then it all stopped.

My obsession started when she left me, which i couldn't control. I became too angry and even acted like a mental patient. I went to beg her even though i wasn't the one at fault here. Well, she set me up, insulted me, insulted my friend, used me and so on. And in the midst of these, i was still obsess about her that people became concerned about my mental welfare.

I attempted suicide on various grounds all scaled to zero and i always try to get her back with intent to marry her later. I lost weight and even got addicted to hard drugs. I went from one counsellor to another and i was drained financially. Along the line, i wanted to pull out but no hope was there. I had no room for another girl and it was always about her all the time.

So, at one time, i had a financial breakthrough. I went back to town and spent a couple million addressing everything regarding my life. Then one day, she stole her aunt's money(10k) which obviously she gave to a guy and then led a couple of guys to my place laying claims that i took the money from her. When they arrived, they saw how distinctive i was and they said i possibly couldn't have done it and even apologized. At the end they left leaving embarassed then one of the men that came with her recognised me and took it upon himself to reconcile us, he invited me to his place on various occasions and had the lady apologized. The lady was however still as cunny as ever but i wasn't much concerned. I could get any lady i want and pay her off. I made out pretty well with little attention to her severity. I made out with a model in my town and took her out shopping and spending on her. I spent most of my time with her and i can say she is worth every dime. Yes, 50K in five days wasn't much for her right ?

We had our amazing sex and had all the day spending time together. Well, she became my bit*CH which was okay with her...

I must say, going out with my best friend, his girlfriend and my bit*CH together drove the desperation from me. My friend was pissed with her attitude and even advised me that the lady was drawing me backwards. She couldn't even speak plain English when we visited her and she was so out of the modern type of girl.

So now, i am not calling our new relationship off. I am just going to make her bleed while i enjoy myself even without fucking her

ProfDview1:
U go add one of ur kidney join

On top phone wey U thief ?

ProfDview1:
We pray that our soldiers come back home safe to meet their families..

No need to protect the nation border again, we can protect ourselves... We have mouth and we have social media


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Throwback:
Until we start burning Yahoo boys with tyre on their neck like we do for petty thieves, we will not exterminate this cancer.

Burn them at the stake, and watch the rest scurry away to find legitimate income.

I will gladly volunteer without pay to help capture these fraudsters.

They are not the cause of your frustration and poverty.

Burn them for what ? Did they steal from you or you are just jealous they are not as poor as you are

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Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Buhari my real niggarrr
We will get there!

As a real niggarrr
I understand that the terrorism can not be quashed
The activities of terrorist can only be reduced
Because terrorist are like hydra when their head is chopped off then expect another head as an outgrowth from other part of the body

Softly softly catchee monkey

God bless Buhari
God bless Nigeria

Your damn nigar talks is becoming stale. At first, i thought you are one hell of a smart dude but going through your comments i realised that you're dull and completely ignorant of it... This is not because of this trend, it's just a precised analysis

CANDYDADDY:
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She,going to a high paying job interview,they see her tick all the box of being a potential employee,but they got discouraged seeing those mark on her face,eventually got disqualified

Saddened and tired,she went to her boyfriend's abode just to seek for sympathy and a word of encouragement just for her to met her boyfriend nacking her blossom friend

last last na to commit suicide

Prophet

Hello,

I came across something interesting and perhaps the most helpful article i have came across on the internet.

The article reads " Germany Don't Charge For College Tuition"

How true is this ?

I am well and hearty now. I have learnt a valuable lesson on the importance of life and that it should not be thrown away for any reason or for anyone.

Jesus has done it, why should i do it. I can't die for a lady and i don't want anyone to die for me. In full, i am judiciously contented with the act of Calvary. I am a Christian and my belief does not affect my preferences at all.

To Stella, she deserves what she deserves. And i don't see any reason to push her into loving me. If she doesn't love me, then it's okay. I still have amazing ladies around me that are giving all their best to make me accept them. This is the time to open my heart for a new rain to pour in. This is the time to take a step forward.

In addition to this, i am adding a new business to my already established businesses. This is web designing and professional blogging. Like i said before, i trade Forex but i don't trade for people. So, this new business is opened to all who care to patronize me. I have also created a link to hire new people to work under me as administrators. I will make this business public in the week to come.

Once again, thank you all.

Danielfx.

I want to end my life. This is not a financial thing or heartbreak, this is just me not having any reason to live anymore.

Two years ago, the only girl i ever loved and stood as my everything human left me. It was the worst experience ever and even though she cheated on me, i still had to apologize for her to accept me. She sets me up and i nearly lost my life. It was obvious she wasn't in love with me anymore as at that time. Even though I was in my 200level then and a good looking students' rep, i never cheated on her because of my love which is undying till now.

I realised the part of the brain that processes pain is thesame part that processes heart break and heartbreak is far worse than when you loose a thump literally. It took me more than six months to finally gained my sanity from the heartbreak but ever since then, i have never loved anyone again and the fear of loosing people has always kept me from getting to know them.

Stella was everything i needed in a woman and when she dumped me for an MC in Agbarho known as Exclusive, i lost my balance and even had to resign as my class rep. People have come and go in my life ever since then and i have always been cold. The MC dumped her two months later to marry someone else, and i had to go to her to tell her to accept me again. Don't call me a weakling, i wasn't, it was all love. She wasn't the prettiest girl i have been with and i didn't meet her a virgin, still, i was bonded. I think my addiction to her may be liken to my parental negligence. I never had love from the onset and when i had it the first time, i could not stand the face of loosing it.

After all the cheating, and well known four guys that have slept with her since then, not to mention the ones i am not aware of, we came back together. Something led to something and her pastor called us together and counselled us. Maybe because i am doing well financially now.

I know she has someone now which she isn't completely honest to me about. She has blackmailed me in the past when she gave money to a guy and had to bring thugs to my place to lie that i took her money forcefully (though she later confessed), all these took place recently and it pains me knowing how much i want her to love me.

I take drugs, it keeps me alive( you won't understand). I have a pharmacy shop in warri, a land in Abraka, and i am in my final year in school. I also trade on Forex too and has tutor few people. I am also pretty young as a 24years old guy plus the proud truth that i financed my education all through from 100level till this stage.

My mum is alive and healthy and my seven siblings are also there too. I am the most hated and that was the drive that made me the most successful yet as the second to the last child. I have done what the eldest son couldn't do and i know i should be proud of myself. My dad is battling with stroke for years now, well, he never liked me before but still, i love him as my dad and I have always been to the family house to see him most times.

The truth is, life is boring and tasteless to me. Even though Stella has reconciled and even visiting me tomorrow, i still can't see any reason to live. I have this force inside me to rest from all the struggle and pains plus loneliness of life. I guess life has been a good teacher to me but be it that my elastic limit has be exceeded, it's time to pass out. I intend leaving my shop for Stella, plus the land too and the little money in my bank account. Don't even remind me that she is going to use it on another guy. Every moment i spent with her i never regretted. She gave me human hope and even though she doesn't love me anymore, i see this as the only reward i could offer her.

So this week, i just have to put few things in place and take an overdose of tramadol to end my existence.

Thank you for reading, this could be my last diary.

eagleu:
Buhari will not like it. He prefers his tribesmen from Niger way more than other Nigerians.

lol, ona wahala strong o

thesicilian:
Drug addiction will ruin you sooner or later, if you don't take proactive steps to tackle it. I'll suggest you speak to a professional close to you if you have the willpower to end it.

In as much as i enjoy taking it, i don't see it right. The truth is, i am in pains, i didn't mention something on my write up that has been a serious source of depression to me.

The drug has saved my life. I would have been gone by now.

Sometimes i just imagine a world with no one with me. No family and the only girl I ever loved left me. The drug keeps me happy and forget my challenges.

Thanks bro

KingAzubuike:
There is nothing like money ritual or juju. They don't exist. It's all hearsay and fallacy.

You don't know, you don't know. Don't generalised your ignorance. "Ignorance is when you don't know, while ignoramus is when you don't know that you don't know"

You know nothing about life

daddytime:
I don't gerrit with all the rants, unsolicited info about owning a pharmacy, and the show of your bank account transactions.

What are you trynna achieve son?

Are you advertising your forex business, looking too hoodwink an innocent babe or just want us to hear you? If the later, oya we don hear. Kpele

daddy daddy, show some time for the guys na. Thanks for your kpele.... I am an Urhobo but am sure it means something polite

Bluehill1051:
U be confirm ode I swear!

lol and behold. We are brothers afterall

thesicilian:
You seem to be tenacious, I must say. With that kind of attitude, the future will always be bright for you.

Amen and i wish you great too. But the thing is, i am addicted to tramadol. I take it everyday like eba. I don't smoke, i don't drink alcohol and i don't sniff. I hope you don't see me trying to talk to an anonymous person as disturbing.

I don't misbehave with the drugs. The major issue i have with it is the communal standard set against drugs addicts. I don't even take from my shop, i buy outside my shop (30k monthly). Yes, i have been taking it for five years now.

walkwithgod:
Relatable, may the Lord be with you.

Amen, you too sir