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Na wa oo. Wetin person no go hear 4 dis world.
God, pls, protect dis innocent child.

ℓ☺ℓ . Very true

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]Yea. They're very identical.

These nollywood ppl must think Nigerians are dumbbbbb [/quote]U̶̲̥̅̊ didn't even read before commenting.
She played d dual role.

Mtchewwwww.
ℓ̊ think say na naija celebs sef.
Next.........

God ℓ̊ thank U̶̲̥̅̊.
Will forever be greatful.

ℓ̊ 'm 100% sure d woman is nt normal. They need 2 take her 2 see a psychiatrist asap.
WTH...mtchewww.
Thank God d baby survived.

honey86: it seems you didn't understand my post. My step brother incident was wen I was still living with my parents. I used him as an example that if I have an in-law that Is like him, that person won't step into my house. Thank God I got married into a civil and respectful family. By the way, my family are very civil, we call before we visit anybody. We don't even visit most times sef, ile oge toge je.

Okay. Now ℓ̊ understand. Bt even in such situation, best thing to do is to lock up Ūя rooms and let him sit in d sitting room except if he steals to d extent of carry d tv and vcd. Not withstandin, d woman should hav been more diplomatic cos ℓ̊ 'm sure if it was her sister, U̶̲̥̅̊ would hav unlocked d door and asked her to go in.
Anyway sha....

Stop expressing cos when U̶̲̥̅̊ do, d breast gets fuller. So just leave it. If Ūя breast is d type D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ brings out milk when full, just use Ūя breast pad so it doesn't spoil Ūя cloth.
Again, stop putting on bra as dis can cause U̶̲̥̅̊ more pain.
U̶̲̥̅̊ can take paracetamol to ease off d pain. ℓ̊ doubt if it really makes any difference.
Ramadan Kareem.

honey86: The wife must have had a reason for not allowing the op to stay in the house while she is away. Have you given her a reason not to trust you. I have a step brother who is fond of stealing, and whenever he is home, God help you if you don't safeguard your purse and your belongings. if I have a brother in law like that God knows I won't allow him come to my house for any reason whatsoever.

Hmmmm. Lovely response. If it's Ūя brother in law, U̶̲̥̅̊ wn't allow him come 2 Ūя house. But since it's Ūя brother, he can come to Ūя house? Hmmmm, well done.

vivianc: @Kulyie: you are quite a two faced sword. Geez!
You did this on the other thread and you are doing This now, pls take a stand and let's know where you stand.


For the facT That you have no relaTionship with your broThers doesn't mean anyone shouldn't have with theirs.

Families are differenT, as a lady, before you go in undersTand the family you are going into. Are they very close people or jusT family by name? Whichever way it is, can you cope? Don't be all preTentious when you are coming in, and when u finally come in you now become The Tigress, it doesn't work that way. If you know you can't cope with family That has a strong bond, Take a walk. Don't come in and scatTer them.

This "give us some space" is jusT a phrase orchestrated by wicked women To justify their wicked acts. Does this space only apply to you in-laws? What abouT your own family? Your friends? Does this "space" bullshhit apply to them Too? Or are they family and your husband's people communiTy?

I believe love is a contagious, if you truly love your husband, you would love his people. Cos that's what love does. If his family is imporTant to him, they would be imporTant to you, cos that's what we do for the people we love. And when a family is important to you, you would treat them righT.


As for me, I'm a family person. For me family comes first, and I guard my family jealously. If a man unreasonably wanna make me choose between my family and him? He would lose, big time.

The same thing is applicable To a man I'm dating. If you don't treaT your own family righT? I have no business with you, cos I believe a man thaT can't Treat his own family righT cannoT Treat mine righT. If you can't take care of your own mum as a man, you can't Take care of mine cos I know chariTy begins aT home.

I also have no business wiTh a man That can't gaTher his people, cos I'm a gaTherer, heck I'm a mother hen.

God forbid thaT tomorrow I starT singing "space" song, buT even if I do, it would be applied to the boTh families.

Women should stop creating problems for themselves. Stop running when no one is chasing you, stop claiming territory when no one is dragging iT with you. I mean how can you possibly enjoy this family when you are 24hours on your toes?

If you know his family values and yours are differenT, quietly take a walk!

God bless U̶̲̥̅̊. Some women can be so funny. 4 Godsake, dis guy wasn't even comin 2 spend d night, just a visit oo.
Some people responses can b so annoying. Tell me if it was d woman's family D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ came visiting, would she hav done same? Abegggii.

For where U̶̲̥̅̊ don come see am?

Hmmmm,
My hubby is very gud at it. In fact, he deserves an award.
D highest W̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̣̣̥ can go on dis is a day cos ℓ̊ 'm always ready 2 apologise. D problem most people hav is learnin hw to say sorry. For God sake, wat is dere in sayin ℓ̊ 'm sorry?
Two wrongs can neva make a right. As women, W̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̣̣̥ already know D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ men hav dis ego/pride problem.
Even if my hubby is d 1 D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ is wrong, ℓ̊ stil say sorry jst 2 make peace, den later explain 2 him hw hurt ℓ̊ am.
Silent treatment is neva healthy bt wat oda way do U̶̲̥̅̊ expect spouses to express their anger?
When 1 is mad, d oda shld do d calming down.

;Dℓ☺ℓ. ℓ☺ℓ.

Hmmmm,
Things are really happening on dis planet earth.
God help us oo.

Hiannn,
Na wa oo

[quote author=TUNEX89][/quote]Mtchewwwwwww.

@ op
U̶̲̥̅̊ shldn't hav revealed d answers.
It wld hav bin more fun allowin us 2 guess.

Eeeeeeeeh. Na wa. Wetin W̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̣̣̥ no go hear 4rm dis our oga at d top.
Mr president, even U̶̲̥̅̊, W̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̣̣̥ dn't hav confidence in U̶̲̥̅̊ nt 2 talk of dose heartless people W̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̣̣̥ call police.

Wit due respect sir, U̶̲̥̅̊ ar a big fool, in shut, biggest fool ℓ̊ 've ever seen.
Wat ar U̶̲̥̅̊ tryin 2 do? Stir up a religious war in Lagos? God no go gree 4 U̶̲̥̅̊.

Congrats 2 Lupey.
Congrats 2 all d beautiful ladies D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ participated.
Really had fun while it lasted.

ℓ̊ vote 4 LUPEY.
Team Lupey 4 eva.

Leave d case to Ūя hubby 2 handle. My oda advise is 4 U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 cultivate d habit of always lockin Ūя door wheneva U̶̲̥̅̊'re in.
Guess wit tym, he'll get used to it

Congrats 2 d 5 contestants D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ made it 2 d final round. And to the other three D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ lost out, ℓ̊ sympathize wit U̶̲̥̅̊. U̶̲̥̅̊ all ar beautiful. ℓ̊ had fun of seeing Ūя beautiful faces while it lasted.
Can't wait 4 d grand finale.
Go team Lupey.

My advice for U̶̲̥̅̊ is to wait till U̶̲̥̅̊ hav Ūя own apartment. If she moves in wit U̶̲̥̅̊ to Ūя family house, she can neva b comfortable. There ar tins D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̣̣̥ on a normal day, she can do in her house, bt in Ūя family house, she'll hav 2 reconsider. And again ℓ̊ 'm sure U̶̲̥̅̊ dn't want a situation whereby dere'll b quarrel(s) between Ūя wife n any member of Ūя family.
So pls wait.

kulyie: which kain excused.my kid brothers friend came to spend some time with his friend (my brother) and he said in his house boys dont do house chores and i was like in this house you will do.i made him wash the bathrooms,sweep and mop both sitting rooms and of course cooking too.i cant stand laziness from any gender.the last thing i taught him before he left and got admission in a university in u.k was moi moi packaged with leafs if he doesnt get it,ill pour the grinded beans inside a bucket and show him till he gets it.funny enough that is what he does in the u.k to make a living for himself.he owns a small restaurant with the help of my aunt who is a lawyer there.he cooks and sells african foods there like semo,eforiro,egusi,moi moi and all.he calls me over the phone when he is less busy to greet and thank me of which this was a boy that couldnt even sweep talkless of boiling egg which was caused by his african mentality father that says boys shouldnt be found in the kitchen coupled with laziness except to watch football and argue about man united,chelsea etc with my bro.anyway the bottomline is that domestic chores is not restricted to a gender because as a man you never know when you are going to be alone and you wont see anyone to help you clean your home or cook.this things are part of self development,character and discipline

God bless U̶̲̥̅̊. ℓ̊ S̴̩☺ much L♥√ﻉ Ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ȋ̝̊̅̄Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ Ūя reply.