Akpabio22:
When you enter the business you go know say Yahoo hard pass any job. Joke apart before you see green light for the street you might turn gangster unknownly waking up most night bombing to get a pay client na weed go remove sleep from your eye no me Bobo juice. Before you go see pay client you fit bomb 2 years nothing come out ur baby go dey look you like mumu. Until your pay day come no body send ur papa

My bro you cap legit 💯 Yahoo no easy as dem dey always assume..

Prettygirl200:
I hate fair guys ehnnn? God forbid, handsome dark skin guys all the way.

Learn to make use of words properly..!

Palmpay is unique 📌

Ladies dressed this way is more appealing than those dressed half naked 💯📌

But we're not ready for tha discussion 🤦

But sex is overhyped 💯📌

Next time.. Limit Ur help cuz street ain't got no memory 📌

You're not a fool but they see people with good heart as fools...

Just let it slide ✌️

Lance008:
Most of us don't believe on spiritual stuff till some event that made us believe it's exit
Mine was when a pastor die days after fighting the gods in the community

People who don't believe in Spiritual are the are the dumbest people I've ever seen...!

Mostly,educated folks feel this way.. Ona never see anything.! Penny Wise 😒

Gadafii:
First of how you go pay 8.6k for 2k followers on IG, no he juju be that

Was it out of nativity or you lacked street Orientation to know that there are sites that offer these services for as low as 900/1k followers

Some of una just get money to waste na why

Bro pls recommend the site to me

I need it Asap 🙏

As seen, my brethren how do I promote my Studio work on nairaland.!!??

I've got a forthcoming track 🙏

Kobojunkie:
And you know this because you have a spiritual wife/husband of your own right? Or are you here to tell us tales that were fed you by others --- dem say, dem say! ?

The question yo just asked, is the reason they refer some of you as "People with eyes,but can't see" You think everyone has this "physically naked eyes" like you do..! Work on your spiritual growth and come banter with me..!

These things are beyond Ur comprehension..! Don't argue blindly here pls...!

Samantha124:
Is this whole spiritual husband thing really real? And how does a woman knows that she has a spiritual husband?

Does he appear to her in person at night or what?

Spiritually husband/wife is real ..! Forget these ignorant people here..! What yo don't know is greater than you..! This life is more of spirituality than physical.!

And spiritual spouse can be the worst enemy a man/woman would have,cuz they're extremely jealous..! They can even end the Life of any suitor coming to ask her hand in marriage physically . Lemme stop here..!

That particular number has been blacklisted..!
You can't open Any Social media Account with it, not only WhatsApp tho..!

Try using another number..!

Nothing's special 'bout them actually..!

But SIMPS makes them feel that way..!

Borntosmoke:
From age 17 upward if you are still collecting money from your parent to buy food, shoe, cloth. You are useless to the society. Except expenses like school fees or other responsibility of your parent anything apart from that you are useless to the society. If there is a good policy working in Nigeria. Such person need to be disown by is parent. This is what is been done in north Korea.

You should understand that There're people that count on their parents and There're also people that their parents counts on 💯✌️

RTID:
How To Identify Girls With Water Spirit.

1). Any Fair Amaka is 99.9 percent likely to be from water.

2). Those girls who are extremely neat, arranged and can fight your destiny if you as much as pick their stuff and not return it where you got it from, are from water.

3). If she loves plaiting corn rows, especially those two single type.

4). Those girls who can bath up to five times a day.

5). If she loves wearing trinkets, bangles, waist beads, ankle beads and has cowries on her head.

6). If she's always complaining about mood swings, just know it's her Ogbanje from the Marine kingdom that is manifesting.

7). Any girl that hates fish is from water; they can't eat their own people.

. Take her to a swimming pool and pay attention to how she swims. If she swims like a mermaid, run maka ndu gi!

9). Their Igbo names always ends with Ka. Example, Amaka, Njideka, Ginika, Anwurika. They also bear English names like Sophia, Linda, Jennifer.

10). They don't play with fanta.

No 7 sure pass 💯 They don't eat anything that comes from the water..! Some of them are even afraid of going close to water..!

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fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

This is the backstory:

Sometimes last year ending, I attended the burial of my boss' mom. This burial ceremony took place late last year. We first of all went to the church, then from there we proceeded to the home of the woman. During the course of the burial proceedings in the church, I mistakenly sat on my phone. There was a lot of sitting and standing. So, in one of the many sitting 'downs', I mistakenly sat on my phone that was on the pew. My phone was affected. It went bad, but not so bad though, just a little ink that appeared at the bottom of the phone. The phone screen didn't crack at all, just the ink that appeared. I didn't like the fact that the ink is there, so I decided it's better I get another phone. This phone was bought for me by my boss, when he heard the story of how my former phone was snatched from me while on transit. He felt pity and gave me the money I used to purchase this one I'm using currently. The phone is just a year old, not upto two years, until this incidence of my phone going bad happened.


Why I stopped talking to him:

About last week or there about, I asked my boss( Although, I no longer work with him. I worked with his mum before she passed, but he's the one that pays my salary then), to
please get me another phone, that the one I'm using is so bad. When I sent the chat, he said he'll get back to me soon, maybe he was busy. So, he later replied with this " hello dear, I've been looking, but not lucky yet", something like that, I've forgotten the exact thing he said. I don't want to open the chat again because it will make me view some pictures/videos or messages he has sent me on WhatsApp, because after I got that reply ( though I don't know what he meant there) I stopped chatting with him or talking to him. He has sent some pictures/videos and messages on WhatsApp, but I'm not going to reply, at least not yet.


The thing is, I don't like what he did. This is someone that can afford hundred of the phone. Someone that has lands here and there, houses with tenants here and there, plus other businesses fetching him cool money, someone that has about 4 Porsches, Benz, Range Rover, lexus and other cars in his garage. Then, you now ask the person to please get you a phone that the one you're using is bad, and then you're getting this reply, (even though I don't know what the reply meant), as a person how would you feel?


Did I do the right thing ignoring him? Did I do something wrong by ignoring him? I need your opinions/ suggestions. This will determine if I'm going to reply or ignore him. He sent me some videos/pictures and messages on WhatsApp, but I'm yet to open them or reply them. He doesn't know I'm angry with him.

Please, I would appreciate your input on this. If you're in my shoes, what would you do?

Thanks!

It's not as if yo can't afford a phone yourself, but yo just want to eat your cake and have it at same time....!

Entitlement has eaten huge part of you guys..! And you're proud to say that "you're angry with him" Tueeh.! On another man's money 👌Nawa oh

Reminderz:
you better free her.. if she's truly loving as you said, you wouldn't have met her single...

when she's passed her youthful years after spending time with the bad guys, she's now disguising herself as good and nice lady to you to nail you down.. lmfao, shey na today? well since you're a "real man" and a nice man, go for her... since "aGe Is JuSt a NuMbeR"

women always want to eat their cake and have it, and there are simps and weak men out there willing to settle down with them and do their biddings after they've spent their fruitful years as a cum bag for the bad guys.. The nice man is now left with the remains... smh

one, she's older than you...
two, she's not a saint, or is she a virgin??
three, when your eyes have finally opened after marrying her, no one would be there to console you.. don't let lust cloud your reasoning...

If the vulture is a consumable meat, people before you would have taken it home and make delicious out of it..!

I pray yo grasp my proverb 🙏

CondenseMilk:


Na marriage be your problem?

..

efelicity:
I have been married for four years now and nothing like this ever happened. My wife is a trader so she returns from market late in the evening. If I want to do anything I will do it sharp sharp before she returns and as she don't have eyes behind her head she won't notice my cheating act. Honestly, I met my wife a virgin and she's the most faithful woman after my mom.

My gf suggested we go to hotel but I insisted we come to my house and also citing the cost attached to booking an hotel. During the act my wife just bounced in and caught us. She fell to the floor because she never thought I could ever cheat on her.


My wife has been crying since yesterday.
How do I console her and restore the full trust she had for me. Honestly, I regret.

It hurts her the most, cuz she never had it in mind to cheat on you... But funny enough, you've given her lecture on how to cheat..!

Pls don't come here wailing when she pays back, cuz yo the one who taught her...! #UngratefulSoul

Negroid001:
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Spare124:
I was heartbroken just few min ago and I can only relieve myself by pouring my heart here.

So,I had this guy I have known him since he was in 100l, a church member introduced him to me because he had challenges with mathematics and I'm in the dept of applied maths,I took him tutorial for the whole section without collecting a naira from him.

Now fast forward to today the bro is in 500l,I connected with him when I came back to school...I left school then because I couldn't pay the school fee.


Now I have been sleeping in school for over a month now.
(I posted on this tr on how my ant keep disappointing me and that why I'm stranded till this day.

https://www.nairaland.com/7648554/need-helpim-depressed-confused)

I went to this my guy place tonight because I was feeling maleria bcuz of the mosquito,I asked him if he was excepting any visitor tonight he said No.
I asked him if I could spend just this night with him,bro said no he doesn't like sleeping guys in his room that if it's a lady it's different,I offered to sleep on the floor dude still said no...Omoo I just left in shame I'm on my way to school tho.

This same guy passed several night at my place then when I was taking him tutorial,I was really hurt,not that I'm feeling entitled I just feel the least he could do was to help me for the sake of old times...
He doesn't know I wasn't feeling too well tho but at least a night won't kill him, but it won't kill me either.on my way to school,and I regret ever asking him.

Life will be good and I'll live comfortably well.☺️

The earlier yo realise tha humans are cruel, the better for yo...!

But my Brr never stop doin good 💚🕊️

Rokiat:


So if you had cristiano ronaldo kinda money would you still be faithful to one woman?

Those unfaithful and ingrants of men, are they close or quarter to having Cristiano Ronaldo kinda money...!??

Incognito21:
I was on my bed almost about the time am about to fall asleep, It looked like a dream but it wasn’t, my nepa light suddenly ceased, I wanted to on my phone torch light, for the first time my iPhone 13 Pro Max torch light refused to on, it wrote Temp needs to cool down. Then I felt this cold feeling and I felt strong goosebumps all over my body, and it feels like someone is sucking my life out of me, I checked my phone time it was 2am and I was constantly using my phone screen light to light my room up cause I hate darkness, then my legs suddenly start vibrating softly, then my mind tells me something strong is here, suddenly I saw a big figure close to where I dropped my microwave, then I wanted to shout Jesus, then my other mind was telling me not to shout it, I should be quiet and the figure will disappear, then this big figure started talking to me but wasn’t speaking, I was hearing it in my mind, just the way your conscience speaks to you, the figure said that it will be with me some other event, that I should call it moon Gasha, and if I’m willing to create an event I should call on it, stare at the moon and call moon gasha it will create an event with me, this figure was speaking to me through my mind and wasn’t speaking any language and in my mind I was receiving it and understanding it, do you know that as soon as this figure was gone the Nepa light suddenly came on and my phone light started working, please this isn’t a made up story.. can anyone understand this meaning,

Your NEPA light and phone flashlight ceased convinced me that Ur write up is real 💯... They don't like to be unveiled to humans with naked eyes (Cuz you no go ever forget wetin u see)...!

So my own take on Ur matter is tha you've got a gift, and tha spirit tha visited yo, is Ur own personal spirit (Agent) .... Soo now,it is left for yo to discover if it's a spirit of darkness or a spirit of light 🕯️..!

Yo need a spiritual mentor to nourish yo my Brr 💚🕊️

Bekeey:
Good morning my people, please pardon my grammatical errors and long writeups. I'm curiously in need of your help to help me decide if I should confront her or not. This is the problem, traditionally I got married to my wife this January 2023 and by grace of God our wedding is coming this July 2023, our IV is already out, we have got 45% of the Wedding needs already, like Asobi clothes, her own clothes and my clothes too, we have also booked for Decorations, DJ, MC etc.

So, here is the issue that I need to confront her or probably council the Wedding because since I got noticed what has been going in my absent, I wasn't myself for past 3days, I am emotionally exhausted. Here is the problem, there is thus guy that always call her late in the night from 10pm, whenever I asked her who was that, she always tell me is just a friend that they have known right from secondary school, that she knows her girlfriend that nothing is between them. I asked her,did he know that you are married, she said of cause, he is aware. I said OK, that day passed, so the call kept coming same time 10pm but not everyday. Later I began to notice that the guy doesn't call in the night again maybe because she have asked her not to call her by that time again. So 3days ago, I had access with her phone, my brothers and sisters, I was shocked, behold the person that told me she has nothing to do with him that is just a friend. All there conversation in that chat was sweetie, sweetie, that's what they call each other. Though, I found out my wife doesn't give him that chance that she's only interested to eat his money because I saw a receipt of 20k he sent to my wife. The guy was seriously asking for her nude videos which she didn't send to her but she instead sent him stickers. The guy will send her some videos showing her how he will sock her breast, and one hot round of sex, my wife will just replied him OK. Last chat my wife chatted him was where she is begging him for 50 to 100k to pay back by June. She don't have anything doing, I wonder where she will get the money to pay him back. Till now the guy have not replied him. I can say she has not started cheating on me because, she just relocated from Awka to Abuja where I leave and she doesn't know anywhere yet. She is always at home. So where I'm confused now is, is she sending him her nude and delete it at instant or she is just playing ▶️the guy? Even at that, as a married woman 👩did she suppose to engage in such conversation with a man? And she is already pregnant, 16weeks pregnant precisely.

Please house, what should I do in this situation, should I confront her or to keep monitoring her but the fact is, it still disturbs me why my wife a married woman should be having such discussions with a man.

A cheating girlfriend must finally end as a cheating wife..!

A stitch in time saves nine, Make haste while the sun still shines,.. cuz 👉na from clap ,dance dey take start..!

Never forget to run DNA when she finally gives birth 🤲

saintbillion:
My guy if ur situation no ever reach like this, then u are enjoying as u haven't tasted poverty.
If u ever used your soap or toothpaste up to this level, two things are involved
1. Its either ur stingy to yourself
2. Your poverty level has a confidence interval of 100%

Lol Brr.. This ain't poverty tbh 💯..! Sure yo bought those items yo posted with Ur money..! Buh some people ain't got a dime to buy a soap or even toothpaste..

Yo doin better than thousands of people out their 💯✌️

I'm always thanking God for life tho 🙏
No be everything man go talk sha 😢

If you see poverty my Brr u go know say u be rich man 💚🕊️

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

So sorry to hear this tho 🤲, can't even imagine the kind emotional damage and trauma this has caused to you...! But I just gotta few things to tell yo

1. No time is too late to make corrections
2.Make haste while the sun still shines
When a River gets dirty,it all started from the head of the River... I don't think you can ever please that family with what I have just read rn 💯...

Do what you have to do now (As far as is best for you and Ur mental health, it doesn't affect anybody)cuz they'll still blame you when you get doomed in this marriage ..!

I wish and pray you know the meaning of the things I just said 😢

fidelmarshal199:


I will never forget the first time I took tramz, Its over 11 years now but the memory is as fresh as yesterday's news. It was just 250mg but it felt like it was 1000mg, I almost vomited everything in my stomach including my intestine. It was my first and the last day of taking it sha

You went too far taking 250mg brr, forgetting it's Ur first time...!!

Thank God for life tho 🤲

Freedomlurther:
Whenever I reach a dead end and Im confused all I do say is " life will be good,and I will life comfortable well"...tho life dey show me shege pro max,but this word never seize from my mouth.

Nothing good comes easy..!

Life na turn by turn...!

Sorrows comes in the night but joy cometh in the morning ✌️..

A journey of thousand miles begin with a step..!

No pain No gain...

Lemme stop here fess💚🕊️

Bobwil96:
It all started when my friend introduced me to gambling 10years ago, I became addicted to the extent I literally don't have any savings, I went into debt and depression. I have lost millions to betking, sporty bet, bet9ja, nairabet.. I noticed whenever I try to stop for a week, I still go back to it and lose heavily..
Please how can you help me to stop.. I have cried, being depressed because of this addiction.. in 2020 I went 1year straight without gambling and I was happy, but I still went back to it.. please guys I need your help on how to stop this addiction.. I have made up my mind that on the day of Resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ, I hereby stop it permanently...
Amen.. I believe I can overcome this..
Let the challenge begin (9-04-2023)..

I made a covenant to stop it today, I would make sure I fight this demonic act with my last blood this time.
Enough is enough

Apply same energy yo applied in 2020 ....!

Yo gotta keep off gamblers as friends if yo still got one..!

Never forget to put it to God in prayers💚🕊️