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Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

You have commitment issues.

It's not spiritual.

It's a coping mechanism you may have developed either at childhood or sometime in life.

What you need is a thorough therapy session with a psychoanalyst who will carry out some diagnostic sessions to discern and determine the root cause and proffer the right solution.

God bless you.

Richdad50:


I am so proud of you and your resilience in life. You desire to take care of your Mum and siblings and the willingness to sacrifice. God will oil your hands with prosperity and your feet with good tidings.

Son, wisdom in this time is profitable to direct. Go for the part time program of six years and alongside, write professional certifications within the said time. You would have killed two beautiful birds with one stone. Six years is quite a short time with plenty of room to acquire as much certifications beyond your imaginations tailored towards your choice career in computer science.

Perhaps you are inclined towards Cybersecurity and Networking. I had love to see this as your introductory name in six years time;
Bamidele Chukwuma Bsc. CISSP, CISM, CISA, CCNP, CRISC, CCSP, CEH

Richdad

This advice made my day...

I support it completely

THE MORE WE CRY OVER MINIMUM WAGE IMPLEMENTATION THE MORE WE COMPOUND OUR PROBLEMS!

RATHER THAN THINK ABOUT N30, 000 MINIMUM WAGE IMPLEMENTATION
WHY NOT THINK ABOUT EARNING 6 OR 7 FIGURES MONTHLY?

MUST YOU BE A CIVIL SERVANT FOR LIFE?

SEE, I WANT YOU TO GET ANGRY AT YOUR SITUATION
BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T YOU MAY LIKELY NEVER TAKE ACTION
WHEN YOU SEE AN OPPORTUNITY.

WELL, HERE'S AN OPPORTUNITY. BUT IT ENDS IN 24 HOURS!
YES, TWENTY FOUR HOURS, I SAID.

BUT BEFORE TAKING ACTION READ THE STORY OF A YOUNG MAN
WHO ALMOST MISSED AN OPPORTUNITY BUT FOR
THE TIMELY INTERVENTION OF HIS WIFE--

[A TRUE LIFE STORY.]

For days, Jude was restless. After hearing that his company
was about to downsize he could barely sleep.

Very early in the morning one day before leaving the house
for work a court bailiff served him a 7 days Notice

to vacate the premises where he lives at Mushin.
As if that was not enough, on getting to work

that morning he was served a notice formally
informing him that his services was no longer needed.

It was as if the earth should open and swallow him.
What was happening? Just in one day, two notices!

First, house eviction. And then, a lay off…
As he left the office, he thought about his wife—

Her three months pregnancy, and their two children
who have been home for two weeks

because they were driven
from school because of school fees drive…

He thought about ending it all—drink sniper and just end
all this endless suffering

When he got home his wife was at the door demanding for money
to prepare their evening meal.

“You didn’t even give me money for breakfast this morning, Jude!”
she was shouting as if to remind him.

The neighbours had gathered,
trying to settle the matter.

As usual, amongst the pack, there were those
with ulterior motive: who were too happy

To watch husband and wife quarrel. At least, it made them feel
better about themselves that their own condition was better off.

“Human beings,” Jude spat on the floor the next day
when he was brushing his teeth outside the house while

he went thinking about the whole
incidence the previous day.

When he finished he picked up his phone.
He saw a notification and quickly clicked on it.

It was an email message. He opened it.
It was the Fb REM offer.

“All these scammers have started again,”
he murmured and threw the phone on the bed.

But one voice was telling him to pick
the phone and read the message.

And so reluctantly he did.
He read every line of it.

He found out it was about making money from real estate.
The offer promised that he could make 7 figures

in 30 days if he was diligent enough.
HOWEVER, that they were not guaranteeing him 7 figures.

But they were sure he would make good money if he put
in the effort and apply all they will reveal in the FbREM.

“Tah! Fraudsters," he shouted and
dropped the phone again.

“What is it, Jude?” his wife who was sitting
on the bed asked rudely.

“Nothing,” he lied. And then on a second thought
he told her about the email and showed her.

She read it and encouraged him to give it a try.
He had never done real estate before he argued.

Again, she encouraged him to give it a try.
“I don’t have the money to get the material” he argued further.

She promised she will ask from her cousin; that her
cousin will lend her the money.

Jude vehemently refused.
Talk about men and their pride!

But in the evening when she returned from the market where she went
to buy garri and few other things on credit she handed him N15, 000.

“What for?” Jude asked.
“For the real estate business so you can

get the material and learn how to do it and make
money too. My cousin gave me the money.”

Jude argued and argued that it was all a scam.
Eventually his wife told him that if it doesn’t work out

He should blame her and
that she will pay back.

Jude refused to take that. His manly pride won’t allow that.
Eventually he reluctantly decided to give it a try.

And so, exactly four days after being laid off
from work he ordered for the FbREM.

A week after buying the material, he made his first income—
only N10, 000 in a letting deal.

He felt disappointed and then somehow elated. But his wife kept
encouraging him even though she sometimes quarreled with him too.

Two days after making his first money, he got another deal.
This time he made N30, 000 in one day.

Two days after he made N25, 000 in another deal.
A week later he made N75, 500 in another deal.

Four weeks after buying Fb REM, he made over N385, 000
doing real estate using Facebook.

At his former job he was earning less than N45, 000 per month.
He couldn’t believe it! N385, 000 in 30 days! Almost N400, 000!


Yes, he didn’t make up to N1, 000, 000 in his first month
but he was too glad to make N385, 000 in 30 days...


For the first time in his life! He told himself that if he could do
this in 30 days as a newbie when he masters the business he was sure

he could make 7 figures in 30 days.
Today his children are back in school.

He has relocated from the face-me-I-face you house where
he was living to a standard 1 bedroom flat.

He is now thinking big. Thinking of NOT renting
a two bedroom flat next year BUT thinking of

owning a four bedroom bungalow.
Owning his own house!

And afterward, owning a duplex!
Life is beginning to make sense again.

This was where it all started for Jude,
https://minimumwagesyndrome.com.ng/fbremsales/

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While applying, entertain yourselves with this lovely piece,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vhz90bPhKQg

I'm listening to this lovely, soul inspiring music,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vhz90bPhKQg

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