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[quote author=Giwoni post=88616841]My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks
Maybe she does not love you to marry you.please I have a beautiful sister who is a level 3 law student.if ur interested hit me up.

God used pastor David to bring him back to life.To him alone be praised.

[quote author=Cyberterror post=88426697]Port Harcourt is a disgrace to oil cities around the world. Houston, New Orleans, Abu Dhabi, Manama, Jeddah and all other oil cities will be ashamed that Port Harcourt is mentioned alongside them.[/quo like wise ur state.The poster snapped the ghetto part and ur there ranting.you need to visit ph urself.Even in American we still have ghetto.

Marriage isn't for children.you can be 40 years and have a mind of 18years old boy. My own little experience on marriage.Most marriages fail because the two people involved expect much from eachother,parents , friends and not been truthful to each other .I married at the age of 25 and this year December is my 6th year in marriage.The first one year of our marriage was hell even thou I dated my hubby for 4years.Sometimes the problem comes from me and other times from hubby. Once we start having issues then the next I will do is to move my things back to my parents house.my dad and mom will seat me down and give me lots of advice especially on the area of respecting my husband and they will drive me back to my hubby's place. This whole thing made me angry cause I felt they were supporting my hubby not knowing they were really helping me .My mom bought me a book on my !My Marriage must work! .My mind set then was let me just divorce him mind you money was never the issue for the qurels not that he has lots of money at least he was ok for a guy of 29. One day I sat myself down and adviced myself ,called my husband and apologizeed to him for not been a good wife to him and also listed out things he does that I am not happy about. We decided to work things out and ever since then no more major qurels list I forgot my husband's friend was the one always feeding me with false info I don't know what his intentions was but I thank God the � did not break my marriage. Your spouse must offend you but the ability for you to let go the healthier for you and ur marriage. Most men have one dirty habit such as smoking ,drinking , staying out late and womanising.My sister don't kill urself pray to God he will change. My husband was a big time smoker never knew all this year's of dating it was after marriage I noticed and that was one of the problems But today the sight of cigarettes and alcohol irritates him.The day your wife tells you she is tired of cooking ,my dear let her be you can help out making the meal or you both eat out it's all about understanding your wife is not your maid .

May God help marriages.BUt why will a woman do such a thing to her husband.she should have just worked away.

That means everyone will claim the ransom

[quote author=rex444 post=86742683]he can be coming back early na ...like 1am or 2am sef.... madam keep quiet ,no use children as your excuse . what do you want him to be doing at home with a boring lady that cannot come up with a healthy conversation but nags.... let him be [/quote
Try and get sense somewhere.If u don't have any reasonable thing to say u shut ur smelling mouth.

[quote author=edoairways post=86764787]Lawyers in the house does a single judge passes judgment at the supreme court?[/quote

I tire ooo

She was not the only person that passed the judgement.

This Ernest no get wife