Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 7:40pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
onoja12: understanding is one thing, reading is another. The word cheating was crafted by who ?if i may ask Men are polygamous in nature ,Africans new this hence why polygamy is a way of life in Africa. it is the white who try to tell you other wise but have ended up making there women polygamous too,let us face it a man been married 4 times with kids from 4 different women is polygamy in a stupid way You do not want to be insulted yet you want me to allow you to insult me indirectly Our ancestors used to do human sacrifice. I swear they had a very good reason. Don't you think as true Africans we ought to continue with it. Whites do not tell me otherwise. It is common sense. people get attracted to to other people. Why do you find that hard to understand? Do you seriously think you would be the only guy your wife would be attracted to for the rest of her life? there are lots of women who did especially old women. If you are Yoruba, go back to your hometown. Ask them about women who were married to more than two husbands, I am not talking about women born in the 80s o. I meant older women. I know at least three women in my family who had nothing less than three husbands. I have friends whose great-grandmothers and grandmothers had the same excperience. It used to happen in those days. It might be rare but it sha happened.  |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 7:33pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
onoja12: and secondly watch your tone,if you are here to pick a fight please,go to some else post using BS or/and statement like that are not welcome.if you are a feminist that is fine for you,but doesn't mean anybody is intimidated by you especially me Trust me when I say Intimidation was the last thing on my mind when I was writing the reply This is not about feminism. What does feminism have to do with the fact that married women also desire men other than their husbands? Unless you can prove otherwise, you have no argument. I also do not like it when people start man vs woman argument for no reason. |
Family › Re: The Law, The Husband, The Wife Or The Man, Who Is To Blame For This? (snapshots) by dare2differ: 7:11pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
The man and the law Pray tell, what reasonable person would believe the man's explanation?  and he also has a strong motive to kil his wife. You cannot really blame the law  |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 7:01pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
basilo101: Hahaha. Kid, just because someone said he thinks ivy league schools use quota system in scholarship you rushed here to pontificate on what you know nothing about What are you trying to say? |
Politics › Re: Details Of The 2016 Budget Submitted To National Assembly by dare2differ: 6:53pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
LadyExcellency: Stop being clever by half. You will forever be judged for selling an archaic military dictator with zero modern-day knowledge and no problem solving skill to Nigerians.
There was no fuel scarcity in 5 years of Jonathan's administration.
Fear of uncertainty caused by APC denial of existence of subsidy and sponsored protest against total deregulation leading to the only nationwide scarcity can't dent Jonathan"s record. I can wail and wail and wail  |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 6:05pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
paschu: Suite yourself, son. Suit yourself, child! You think say every one na mumu  |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 5:56pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
paschu: Even if your jamb score was 400 and your SSCE was 9 A1s, you'd never be offered admisson into ALL the fedral universities in Nigeria, maybe in the ones within your Geo Political Zone/catchment area, but never in ALL. That's the point.
And, before you forget, you were the very first person to start "worrying your head" on this thread. You are the first to "start issues where there is none." So please take note. That is the biggest lie ever Try again! I wasn't the one that pointed out their ethnic group. Lest I forget, Ivy leagues schools use quota systems too  |
Romance › Re: Why Most Girls Are Shy Or Ashamed Of Drying/hanging Their Undies Outside by dare2differ: 5:51pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
marvelck: I don't know nor understand why most naija girls are usually shy or ashamed of hanging/drying their washed or wet undies outside. Don't know why most girls are like that. Is either they ask someone else to do it for them or simply leave their undies dirty or wet inside their room for days until they get dried by force. Imagine? Is it not what they wear, and ought to be proud of it. So, why are they shy about it? The whole thing get as e be. Na wah for Naija girls. After dem go dey form... Tell me how it is of your fvcking busines! |
Health › Re: Help : I Underwent Appendectomy, I Haven't Been The Same Again by dare2differ: 5:44pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Daninya11: In 2011,I was diagnosed with Appendicitis. I underwent surgery to remove the ruptured appendix. It's 5 years now and I still feel uncomfortable.
Before these time, I can stay up to 2 days without using the loo. I hardly experience any form of stomach pain or rumbling noise in my stomach. But after undergoing Appendicectomy, I can hardly eat or drink water without experiencing mild or severe stomach pain, stomach noise and using the loo up to 5 times a day.
I also find it difficult digesting some food like pounded yam as I end up with constipation. I usually throw-up after eating draw soup like ogbono, okro and ewedu. I also feel dizzy when I consume fatty food.
Are all these, the aftermath of undergoing Appendicectomy??.. Have you seen a doctor? |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki's Lawyers Contradict Bukola Saraki's Claims. by dare2differ: 5:38pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
babadee1: I don't believe one iota of your statement. No Yoruba person in Ilorin told you any such nonsense. And even if they did, well in every tribe there are always a few sellouts. That Sunday Ogochukwu Oliseh came out to categorically deny being Igbo doesn't in any way mean that he automatically ceases from being one. I know you are blind to the truth. Don't quote me again! |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 5:32pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
paschu: You missed the boat. The guy was talking about quota system and maginalisation, but your ethnic bias has bent your mind and forced you to read bigotry into his statement. I read the 'igbo' part And i don't know which of you is more ****, Teens that are as brilliant as those two kids needn't worry about quota systems or marginalisation. Why are yoou worrying your heads? Oh! I know. You love to start issues where there is none. |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 5:31pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
PRXPERT: mr man sharaaaap dia! mention one person you know that is a product of ivy league schools! you think say na quota system? nonsense!! Who is this one? |
Education › Re: Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna Accepted By Eight Ivy League Schools by dare2differ: 5:24pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Francis5: Last year was Harold Eke another Igbo kid Now it's Augusta Uwamanzu-Nna, also an Igbo kid
You see where merit works?
In Naija these kids will be affected by quota system I am 1100% that there are Yorubas, Hausas, Efiks teenagers who have had the same offers. Why do you guys like you are the only one on earth? |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki's Lawyers Contradict Bukola Saraki's Claims. by dare2differ: 4:54pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Misternas89: My name is Temitope, I'm a yoruba boy ma/sir. Thanks You are welcome However it hasn't changed my opinion. You and I know that your leaders do not care about loyalty to Oodua. I have met a few Yorubas from Ilorin, who claim to be Yoruba yet would tell you why you cannot really call them Yorubas. Some of them even told me that they belong to the NC if anything should happen (that would be your leaders stance if we break up today), some of them couldn't wait to tell me the number of Fulanis and Hausas in their families, some of them have told me how other Yorubas are different, some of them told me how they prefer to marry a non-Yoruba girl, some tld me that the traditional Ilorin outfit looks nothing like our Yoruba traditional wears....I am sorry but a true son or daughter of Oodua will never hold such opinions. I understand you might not feel the same way but as along as your leaders themselves are not willing to fully associate themselves with other Yorubas, what you feel holds no weight. Arewa forum (I suppose) have once held that you belong to them. There is so much going on with you guys. I know there would be those of you who are Yorubas in thoughts, culture etc but I don't see you anywhere. It is no big deal to be part of NC. I am cool with it but I wouldn't want us to be dragged into your issues anytime you feel like it. You are still Yoruba however in the interest of politics and the general interest of other Yorubas, you are not Yoruba. Ermmmm....Alaafin still owns your lands though  Babadee1, shey you grab now |
Education › Re: Nigerian Student Of Warwick Suffers Racism (Photo) by dare2differ: 1:49pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Baroba: Racists in UK are pure cowards, they will rarely confront you face to face, instead the resort to this sort of tactics. A French person will tell you boldly we don't like you, leave our country.. They are spineless. Just tell me to my face, kini big deal |
Romance › Re: Woman Exposes ‘Pastor’ Who Sent Her His Unclad Photos by dare2differ: 1:15pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
SpotlezDonald25: Lol... bros 1 hrs too much...
Just a few mins, u'll feel irritated seeing her unclad  vizkiz: is it the same with your mama? |
Romance › Re: Woman Exposes ‘Pastor’ Who Sent Her His Unclad Photos by dare2differ: 1:09pm On Apr 06, 2016*. Modified: 4:08pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
I am not comfortable with unclad pics She could have limited it to chats.  But then, this iis what you get when you refuses to take 'no ' as an answer. The mor.on must have thought that his complexion, height, body, frame, spirituality and car go endear all women to him  |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki's Lawyers Contradict Bukola Saraki's Claims. by dare2differ: 12:54pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
babadee1: You have been deceived and brainwashed by your own tribal sentiments. Whatever  Are you one of the loyal Yorubas in Kwara? |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 12:49pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
onoja12: i do not understand anything you have written,in fact nothing you wrote relates to what i wrote,so what are the comparison for ,if you are trying to put a defense for women,then you fall into my second line,men and women are two different beings,they operate differently,they are not in competition,although the whites have fooled you into believing they are,men and women complement each other not compete with each other,so this comparison thing is a waste of time.men are men and would be men no matter how much the women try to turn them to behave like women . and a simple experiment would show you that women are more problematic than men,put 5 women in one house and put 5 men in another house for 2 weeks,then you can come back here and tell me your findings I am yet to see how this relates to this issue now. The question is why do people cheat? Telling me nonsense on how different they are is nothing but BS. Why do they cheat? Just because you are a man does not make a woman's reasons less genuine. Being a woman has not stopped women that cheat from cheating. In fact, they have succeeded in juggling their secret lives with their marital lives. What else do you want? |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki's Lawyers Contradict Bukola Saraki's Claims. by dare2differ: 11:56am On Apr 06, 2016 |
babadee1: Loyalty? You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Don't allow your prejudices and distorted information about history to colour your perception about other tribes. Why don't you mind ya business? We want nothing to do with people who choose and pick when it suits them. |
Romance › Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 11:34am On Apr 06, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 11:31am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Chizzy759831: thats wah u and ur family are. jobless e-goat Liability! |
Romance › Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 11:27am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Chizzy759831: liability like ur 50year old sista. at least i beta pass am. with all una family foreign cert .put togeda she wont b married. so who is the liability? make sure u take d right dosage of those pills given to u @yabaleft. kill yasef . 22 years old i strong enough to handle a home-kill urself Liability! |
Romance › Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 11:20am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Chizzy759831: eh ya! i so pity ur pity. if u had all d foreign certificates i dont think u will b on nairaland looking for who to quote and say trash to. who made u better as a person with foreign certificate? "it ia nt of him that willeth but of God who shows mercy" yu shud b busy in all ur "big companies" you say jealousy dey worry me ova ma fellow girl, ova marraige abi ova dat ur 50 year old sister wey day waka from church to church dy curse una village witch whearas na she b d witch.? it baffles me to know dat a simpke suggestion i gave to the OP is wah has become ur problem. take heart missta! meanwhile, udon drink ur medicine today? #proudlynaija! #Ilovemadeinnaija. kill yasef. Liability! |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 11:02am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Persephenee: You're pissed? and so what? Too bad I cant make an ediot agree with me that this also goes for women. Bloody hypocrite forming women's advocate. What has your brain done for you? Because a man cheats,women should also cheat? Dimwitted Congo pygmy looking ediot! You don't get it, do you? No one is saying women should cheat because men also cheat  ...that would be da.ft.  We are talking how the society makes shit up just to treat them differently. Whether we like it or not, women also cheat and if people are not willing to crucify men who do, they definitely have no right to crucify women who cheat. Women and men are not the same...agreed However do their differences include stuffs like these...Hell No |
Romance › Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by dare2differ: 10:47am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Chizzy759831: Who Quality don help? whether yu bag a degree from nigeria, chad, U.S et all, If the Grace of God has Refused to favour u fogerit... u wey dey talk aw many foreign certificate u get? if u do, who e help? oloriburuku. u want the 22yeard old gurl to go get d certificate cum back so dat u go pursue am till yu marry am, thereby shinibg on her glory. learn not to b stupid mr man. here in Nigeria 22year old can handle a family....#caseyabaleft Here is the thing babe, you are highly likely to be better off with a foreign certificate than with a Nigerian certificate. Almost all top officials have got foreign certificates. You see all this big big companies all over the world, their top top personnels get foreign certificates even their Nigerian bred officials sef go go abroad to meet up. Naija education na shit. You are an example of how shitty it is, I no tok say she dey too young to marry, no be the question be dat. The question be say, can op wait for 1-2 years for hin future wife to get a quality education that go help hin family join You should have gotten the memo by now. You stink of mediocrity. The babe he wants to marry goes all the way, na strong, mature, smart babe. You be none  The mentality is different biko. if you were from a financially stable family, you no go think like a mo.ron Na jealousy dey worry you. Liability! |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 10:30am On Apr 06, 2016 |
mimzy: Thank you for this post... I think you should ignore stuffs like that unless it is staring you in the face. Do your thing but do them smartly. |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 10:23am On Apr 06, 2016 |
[quote author=Sagamite post=44435923] Personally, I would wonder what a women brings to my life if she does not do the domestic chores.
I would gain all that emotional baggage and illogical arguments that come with a woman for what benefits?What will you bring into a life of a self-sufficient woman? his comes back to the famous key and lock analogy.
"A key that opens any lock is a Master Key.
A lock that can be opened by any key is a Crap Lock." I am not a lock and you are not a key.  Look, girl, pack this crap. You are going to get pumped because men do the fcking, not women. So men are the keys, women are the lock.
So their really is nothing to brag about about your sexual encounters of being fcked. Men do the pumping, except you want to claim to be fantastic and mean in bed, which I doubt. I agree with you.  . You do not need a woman at all since sex is all about you. You do the pumping, you do everything, it is all about you. By the way, a girl's friends are free to hail her about her sexual escapade. Are girls' friends all male? If not, why are you blaming men for them not hailing a girl for it? Girlfriends do hail themselves. It depends on the circle. This an interesting argument but have you ever considered it in light of same-sex relationships. I don't know but with the way they have inherited most heterosexual baggages, I say we stop blaming one another. You do you but be ready to face the consequences of your choices! |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 10:08am On Apr 06, 2016*. Modified: 10:24am On Apr 06, 2016 |
KingRex1: Mimzy. Women always play the victim. You people always wanna be pampered nd cared for bt at same time step on thes guys nd wana be above em(feminism).
Forgettin that guys are egocentric nd wuld take away that care nd respect wen trampled upon.
If you ask me, i feel this world favors nd smiles on the ladies more.. We men kip suffrin nd smiling only to hear the complaints nd nags of females at the end of the.
I am nd will neva be in support of men maltreating ladies, i condemn it.
Also men are easily aroused, some even by breeze. Its natural even in lower animals.Tho this is no excuse for cheatin bt fact is that its EASIER for a man to fall into havin extramarital sex affairs than a woman.. Unfortunately that law ws propounded by mother nature herself. So if at all less pity shld be accorded to any, it shld be to the man.
Ladies should be treated with maximum love, care nd respect but wen thats taken advantage of...? You knw the rest.. Such thread as urs would come up the next day. Maybe women do not get aroused by every thing in trousers however they do get aroused when they see a man with what they like It is different in context however it does not change the fact that women also desire other men. That is the koko Women also pamper men especially after wedding. The same woman that would wash your clothes, apologise even when you are in the wrong, call you olowo ori etc. Buying gifts or giving her money is not the only way to pamper another person. Women do pamper their husbands too! |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 10:05am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Dcholeric: I permit you to disagree as much as it seems ok to you dear .
60:40 could be what is expected , but it ain't what is practiced. same goes for the domestic chores issue.
unless if you're talking base on some foreign and well developed countries, and yet 60:40 ratio isn't still a norm in countries like that .
to be really honest with you, I am being in accordance to realty and not sentimental only because I perceive a good level of sincerity in your posts.
if not I go don Dey state 1000 reasons and events where and when 60:40 ratio isn't even in connection with today's thought, not to even mention the today's world in realty.
but I must confess, a hand full amount of women are grabbing the importance of the "independent woman ",but even at that, women seems to be naturally dependent on men when it comes to providing and protection and men find it naturally a thing of pride to take hold of such reponsibilties.
in essence it is only natural that men dominates in providing and protecting and women mostly do keeping and helping . Not true, except the man is actually rich In many homes especially in Nigeria, the woman shares and contributes almost the same percentage of her salary as her husband yet she is still expected to deal with most daily chores. |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 10:02am On Apr 06, 2016 |
[quote author=onoja12 post=44445337]first i do not know the kind of Guys you roll with probably black american men,but Africa men i know do not refer to a lady as a batch except you give him dam good reason. That is not true as for the remaining first understand the concept of male and female are not the same either physically or psychologically.so you shouldn't expect the same behavior ,or does your brothers have breast or are they as touchy as you are when you understand this then all would fit in quite well,just as you claim,let me inform you now that women are grand masters of the game of double standing Why do you like to think for women? You are the same people that comes with our strengths and limitations. We ask you? What makes you think a a woman cannot cope. Women cope just fine!!! A man who cannot use his brain to think when he is getting laid is actually more stupid than a woman who plans for it. Men are also emotional beings  . Going through troubles to keep mistresses for fvck sake or chasing your daughter's age mate screams like a man who actually took his time and other resources to invest on a course that he knows would hurt his partner, tidy it all you like. It is not an excuse!!! It still sounds like a fo.ol who can think logically. ,it is only a woman who wears fake ass,padded bra,fake nail,fake hair,fake eye lashes even fake complexion yet she tells you i want a real man can anybody be more double standard than that What is stopping men from wearing enhancements? Na we hold you? |
Romance › Re: Men And Their Double Standards. by dare2differ: 9:49am On Apr 06, 2016 |
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