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blackboys:
am kenyan and in this world cup am for any african country especially any black country.i hope nigeria can atleast perform to africas expections,they have been in the competition for quite a lot of times but always comes short.if nigeria doesnt get anywhere near quarters or semis then they are just lame

Scented:
Hey guys, I opened this account just for this reason alone, I just can't use my popular Nairaland moniker. I'm a very active and popular member on Nairaland but I'm using this moniker because you guys might give bias advise if you all know who I'm.

I'm 27, I work, not earning high though, but enough to keep me financially independent to some degree to fix my basic needs and wants.

I'm dating Daniel, I'm in love with him, he is 29, he works for an average firm, his pay is just like mine, just average pay. But enough for basic up keep and basic "flexing". Now I wanna tell you what's so special about Daniel, he is 6 feet tall, he is not too slim and not muscular, he has not just a handsome face but a pretty one, he makes my intelligence seem like ignorance with his high level of intellect and smartness, he has taught me a lot I couldn't have learnt even at Harvard University, calling him intelligent is an understatement! And about intimacy, ladies, have you ever met a guy who is so good in bed that you can hardly resist him even when you are in your worst mood? Daniel is just something else in bed, he is perfect in bed. His is a firm and loving guy, he doesn't tolerate me behaving silly but yet he still draws me closer if I behave silly. He has never hit me even when I get on his nerves, he acts calm and collected and goes silent if he is not in the mood to put me in my right place with his some harsh words.

Career wise Daniel has focus and has a vision where he sees himself in the next 5 years. He is my 3rd ever boyfriend and he is the type any girl would wanna keep.

Now the only issue with us is that Daniel has told me he would be ready to get married when he 31 years, that's 2 years from now, he has calculated everything for me to see how it would take 2 years before he is ready financially and otherwise, he is not a fantasy dreamer who thinks he would win a jackpot and marry tomorrow therefore his 31 years age mark of getting married considering his current job and future career prospects.

Now guy number 2 is called Joe, he is 32, he is a very high earner financially, generally he is a nice guy, handsome, neat and a gentleman.

I met him at my place of work some months ago, although he doesn't work there, he had a project with us which made him to frequently be at my work place a lot during that period. From the initial familiarity talks and all he stated it from the beginning that he wants me as a wife and he has observed me for about a month and I'm the one but I always sternly told him I'm dating someone else I love and nothing can happen between him and I. He has asked I follow him to his family house to see his mom on a couple of occasions, I refused on all occasions. I have never accepted to even hang out with him for once, we just talk on phone and chat.

I was surprised when one day at work during break at the cafeteria he came with his mom, he smiled and left us alone, his mom looked me straight into the eyes and told me that as a woman she gives me her word and she is telling me that her son is for real and not just after sleeping with me, she even told me that she already told her son she will not vouch for him if he wanted a sex involved courtship with me. And she also told me she liked me the first time he son secretly brought her to the office so she can see me. She also said if I agree the families would commence marriage plans after Joe and I have had about 3 months of courtship, after which we would do all medical tests and proceed to the actual wedding proper.

My dilemma now is this; In 2 years from now, would Daniel still love me and remain faithful to me and still keep to his promise to marry me? If I decide to wait for Daniel, in 2 years from now I would be 29, isn't that too much of a risk to take?

My parents and relatives keep pestering me about marriage and in my family all ladies get married before they reach 27, I'm the only person who has clocked 27 without being married yet.

I'm in love with Daniel, I'm crazy for that boy, but Joe on the other hand offers me what Daniel can't offer for now. I don't have feelings for John at this stage and to be fair he is the type of guy any girl can fall madly in love with if given a chance into her life, so my question is this- "Should I wait for Daniel or should I give Joe a chance?"

Please this is more complicated than the popular cliché; "If you are confused about two people to love, pick the new guy because if you really loved the former guy you would not consider the new guy". This is more complicated than that, please I need good opinion and advise, and your reasons for your opinions.

Thank you all!

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Note: I copied all the romance section commentators I know who I'm sure would not disappoint me in giving me good advice.

sufferNsmiling:
It is very good for the nigeria. Why do you go to another country and open your big mouth start fighting the citizens some people can never learn. Thank you ghanaians very much

gallivant:
Hay guys I am a gallant idiot just yesterday I was caught banging the hell out of my useless mother while making my pig of a father watch the entire thing. I was caught and now I am contemplating suicide

gallivant:
Go and see a zoologist, you need help.

NigeriaIsDoomed:
pained Ipod, if u get dick like man make I give u address for Abuja, u go come dier come spew ur rubbish against Naija, if u no go get Nnamdi Kanu treat then I no be man.
Na only for behind ur keyboard u fit dey dey form like you be man, if them pick u up now u go dey piss for ur body pained Ipod pig

AkoniMoipei:
Nigerian fools with internet

AkoniMoipei:
Nigerian fools with internet

NigeriaIsDoomed:
Abeg ah take God beg una my country pepu make we no dey use English here again, na wetin go make these Little Indians and Kibera monkeys disappear from here. E dey punish dem to understand wetin we dey yan for pidgin.

gallivant:
This thread pains you, keep it up you will find yourself with a therapist.

AkoniMoipei:
Fools with internet

gallivant:
Monkey chatter. Not interested.

ednited:
What is Kiberia?
And your english is different

ednited:
It has been a long time when Nigerians speak pidgin to me. Dey, dem, una and other words sound weird to me now

NairobiWalker:
These people are so delusional.

See Obaboon for instance, he's googled my name and knows every forum I contribute to yet gets excited that I checked his profile. Mark you, I checked his profile because he kept alluding to my comments on a different site. Then he comes here and lies that he comes on Nairaland to 'read news here and catch up on sports events and a lot of other things on nairaland' yet he joined Nairaland for this thread and all his posts are on this very thread. I tell you the delusions and stupidity I have encountered on this forum are appalling.

rvp2018:
For the record I will cheer Nigeria in world cup like i have done since 90s and hope they go past quarters like roger millas of cameroon.obviously african team are up against serious competition n corrupt fifa.

Nowenuse:
2 things here.

It's either emeka1101 had a Nigerian father who abandoned him and his mother, hence his burning hatred for Nigeria
OR
he has been so fascinated by Nigerian culture and desperately wants to join in but was rejected.

NigeriaIsDoomed:
na madness dey worry this kibera monkeys. Imagine o tellin us make we no speak pidgin for platform wey we create 4 ourselves, now na to dey worry about the time wey we dey spend on nairaland. Which madness pass this one.
Naija boys for kenya make una tell dat dier criminal presidiot wey ICC dey find to come carry their kibera monkeys wey don run mad for here.

nemesis8u:
That sir is a personal opinion

My small question would be if one cannot love his family members how can he love his neighbours ?

NairobiWalker:
Lol, you're going to drop out in group stages. Nigeria is a joke in football. My African hopes are on Senegal.

NairobiWalker:
Can amazing grace thoroughly save a wretch like me because I am beyond saving

NairobiWalker:
One Obaboon has spent more than double the time I've spent on this forum within a shorter period than me but somehow believes I spend too much time here. These Nigerians are just not deluded. They're stupid.

NairobiWalker:
They live in bubbles these people while I live in kibera maximum slave facility

NairobiWalker:
So hay guys I just dug my grave in kibera. I plan to jump in next week if my Nigerian visa is refused hope I end up in the section of hell where dey keep idiots

NairobiWalker:
This is embarrassing. Can you see how useless I am since I joined Nairaland( thank my wretched stars) in 2016 I have made 1916 post on Nigeria maybe by the time I hit 2000 I would finally be a Nigerian. Please pray for me

Just30:
the whole world knows that I am the most senseless person
Our gas station trying to make itself important by buying from Nigeria on credit hilarious.
Go and ask your leaders, were they put the money .because we are too broke to pay

Please who has any useful information on how I can find my way to Lagos I want to start hawking Ghana burns .

NairobiWalker:
Buhari used a Kenyan. A former news presenter. Cynthia Nyamai. Oh I forgot to tell you guys that was in another one of my stupid dreams