₦airaland Forum

ZIMDRILL:
from few studies marrying early has s bit disadvantage

usually you would be young doing things as duty/ as expected eg give him sex as long he wants it

while hubby is also busy doing it for rounds aka i do 5 rounds (beer talk with friends) instead do it satify the wive too

so eg girl get married at 20 the guy is 25

buy the time gets 30 she would have matured to understand her sexual needs and her body etc sex by then is nolonger duty but desire too and the 10 year would have built self confifence of sex desire etc

For me the sex of early marriage years is more of duty (women), self praising (men)
i agree 35 and above brings in a bit of exprience and confidence

Women mature sexual at above 35, mature i mean having confidence in what they want sexually than just waiting for hubby to initiate etc

Poverty can kill sex drive, if you are poor leaving hand to month sex is the last thing in your mind

Why would anyone marry a 30-35 year old woman? Okay she has sexually matured and weve romantically matured and realized that marriage is pointless. It's better to just date her and have fun chopping where were both sexually mature.

Samantha124:
Maybe you used money to woo her, isn't that how you Nigerian guys woo ladies? By using money?

She might've fallen for it hoping that you're this romantic guy, only to find out that you're not.
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Isn't money the only thing broke Nigerian women care about? Aren't they obsessed with it and always asking their boyfriends for handouts ?

Bro you turned your own mother away for your wife ? The one who gave birth to you and raised you and was all alone for the devil woman you married ? It's too late for regrets now but you should have kept your mother with you and if your wife had a problem with it, kick your wife out.

If you have sex before marriage you should be forced to marry each other.

To the women complaining and crying about being single mothers, stop having sex with men that won't marry you. It's 100% your fault.