Nazgul:
I strongly advocate that guys must be responsible in their sexual life. However when an unplanned or mistaken pregnancy sets in, parents shouldn't force the guy to marry the lady. He must rather be forced to take responsibility of catering for the girl and the child.

If both the girl and guy agrees to marry, then so be it but no one should force marriage for them, if you do so and after grumbling, murmurings, quarrelling...etc, he eventually marries the girl, one or more of the following would happen in that marriage.

1. He wouldn't love or respect the girl. This is usually the origin of abusive marriages.

2. In most cases, the girl would look untidy, shabby, unkept...why because the man in her life who should make her look like a desirable woman doesn't care.

3. The girl will hardly have a voice in the family of the boy, this is because her husband who should stand by her hated her from the onset.

4. The girl herself may not love the guy but might be forced to swallow the bitter pill of marrying him just because he got her pregnant. This might make her cheat on him.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Hmmm, this our nairaland? Is like I’m slacking ooo . I agree that men are victims some times sha. How was your day

IyaebeTheGreat:
Same way you should stay away from women if you think marriage should never be forced on anyone. I won’t shut up, come and beat me

obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

IyaebeTheGreat:
Was it a mistake sleeping with her? If a man can sleep with a lady then he should be forced to face any consequence from such action. Leave women you don’t like alone, stop sleeping with them only to abandon them when you feel you are done, it’s very bad. They are people’s daughters and one sure thing about life(especially on fornication) is that whatever you do to others will surely be done to you. Sleep with people’s daughters as you like but when it’s your turn for people to sleep recklessly with your daughters, please don’t complain.

bluefilm:


Story for the gods.

If the babe doesn't want to get pregnant, I believe she knows what to do .

Killbillz:
Exactly but u will hear things like I don't take pills and condoms hurt
Baba when u hear the bold just tear race bcoz that hoe definitely got plans against u

EriMma1:
That's their cup of tea. Abstinence still remains the best.

A man should be forced to marry any woman he impregnates first to teach him a lesson. So that in his next life he'll learn to control himself.

Some men don't like to listen to advice when you try to caution them to lead a decent life until they fall into a ditch. Then you see them trying to get off the hook. Na lie. Make e hook them there.

My ex thought he was doing me. We had a little misunderstanding. Not really a misunderstanding like that. We just stopped communicating for a while. You know this issue of "he didn't call me, I won't call. She didn't call, I won't call. It lingered for a while and me as a fine girl wen I be, I just blanked him. No be woman dey find man abeg.

Do you know this zombie started sleeping with anything sexable? To the point of sleeping with an old lady that sells palm oil, Maggie, crayfish and those kinda stuff haha... For someone who claims he's a fine boy with his Americana lifestyle. ** men don't have class when it comes to konji**.

The next thing, nwanyi crayfish don carry belle. Hahahaha...
The mugu wanted to play smart. E hook am. For two good years he didn't go and do anything on the womans head.when the baby boy arrived, he looked so much like my ex. As in.... Chai! I don laugh Taya. Even after the baby was born, aboki still dey zuzu. He didn't want to marry iya elepo.

He now remember fine girl. He came to my place. I was just laughing at him. He was still trying to form Americana. I just dey laugh say see this nwanyi crayfish husband. He was now discussing marriage with me. I just shook my head. Men!!!

After one year of not returning his calls much following his visit to my house ( in fact I told him I moved so he'll stop coming around), uncle finally succumbed and married the woman. Now, he's making life miserable for the woman.

Every time, the lady is posting one sorrowful text or the other about relationship on her Facebook status. The guy is taking out his frustrations on her. The last time I checked my nwunye dim, she was looking two times older than my guys mother. No jokes. Just that I can't post her pics here. Chai...

I'm happy he ended that way. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for his lack of control.

Many men have lost their happiness this way and many will still lose if they continue sleeping around like untamed dogs.

bluefilm:


Ah swear.

Some of these bitches just looking for ways to trap a nigga into marriage.

eroticecstasy:


Where can we find the virgins?

purples25:
Don't say the girl was aware.

If every time men say they were unwillingly made to spend on a woman, when no one forced their hand...

That's the same way a woman can also be manipulated into sleeping with a man.

Iyaebe is right. Men lie, pressurize and manipulate, guilt trip women into sex. Women they don't love. Women that they are not sure of their faithfulness.

After pregnancy comes in, the guy will start recovering his memory that:

-This is not my dream girl.
-She sleeps around, how can it be mine.
-She is not fine.
-I don't want to marry her...

Etc, etc.

They knowingly contribute to the destruction of women they do not prefer through sex, then start looking for a way out after the consequence.

You as a man can never be caught in the mess of a woman unworthy or a so called LovePeddler unless you also sleep with her like the others. In that case, you are the same as what you detest.

Honeydenz:


Lol, so what happened to the love you had for him, the love you once shared? While I admire u for taking a right decision, I am in tears for my biological brothers who have refused to listen to my advice that women dont, don't and never really love a man.

SPAMBOX7:
Even Nigerian virgins some of them are useless. Their virginity has eaten up their senses. They always think cos they virgins the world revolves around them hence most of them end up with the most crooked character/behavior.

razzydoo:
I really like this your perspective. Plight of women. Quite understandable. But you too don't smell what you won't eat. Most times, you wanna eat your cake and have it. What do you expect? He or she who must dine with the devil must have a long spoon. The game is the game.

missymide:
Can impregnating a lady happen by mistake in the first place? Is it that the man will do it at gun point or he was blindfolded cos am not understanding at all. If he did it then he must take responsibility

advanceDNA:
Wait.....I dont undertsand the mistake part....
Were u walking, hit a rock, fell and and ur dick fell into the vagina....

or u were masturbatinģ in ur room and ur sprem flew out the window into the naked lady's vagina two blocks away??

U were skin-diving without cońdom, and ddnt use after sex pills...what were u expccting??.a plasma tv or an iPhone 14 pro max??

jeff1607:


Hope you have seen situations where men beg ladies to use after sex pills and she refuses.