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i am writing this with heavy heart,broken heart,lonely mind and tears in my eyes.. its been 2weeks now and i hardly sleep nor eat. sleep is far away from me,my heart is heavy.i feel like committing suicide but again God wont be happy with me..just a period of two weeks im like a starved human being that havnt seen food for two years now..

This is my story,please i need the best advice i can get..
i met this girl in my final year and she was in 300l then,i asked her out and as time goes on we started dating, we have dated for two years now and the relationship has been like an average kind of relationship.. we have our good and bad times.. sometimes we fight,other time we settle.. before i started dating this girl who is in her mid 20s.. 24 to be precise.. before i started dating her, i carried out so many findings about her,stalked and monitor her to be sure she aint a cheat and without her knowing..she was really decent.. i find it hard to trust any lady but wit her i strted having second thoughts that all ladies aint same as people do say.. i find every way to make dis girl happy,even when i dont have enough i do stll support her.. i loved her to the extent that if 1000 naira is my last card i can give her 500 to keep up pending on when i get buzzes up.. all my friends knew her back in skul, i was kind of popular in school.. so through mr she was even known that they have to make make her MISS MASSCOMMUNICATION. in her department.. because i was an SUG official then.. so many people respected her cos of me,even guys that wanted to ask her out,saw her with me they back off.. she got respect even from lecturers and all..

After school things was moving cool.. i was settling her little bill to the extent i could afford.. she was loyal and caring also.. even her mum knows me..in the company im currently working.im working in the I.T department making some small cash waiting for when i will get a better job.just last five months the company needed some part time workers in the company for the post of assistant supervisor in the warehouse.. i decided to connect her.. she got the job which she meant to resumes by 8am and closes 3pm sometimes 2pm.. its like a shifting job..some days off some days on..

we dont work on the same site, her place of work is a different building..miles away from mine so we hardly sees eachother except when shes on break she come check on me or when im free i do go some times but she does most of the visiting.. i do call her if shes free so i can come meet her.
last 2weeks,i didnt hear from her for about 3 days and her pings aint delivering,so i decided to go visit her at the site.. only for me to discover she isnt around..i tried calling her the number wasnt reachable.i left.. on tuesday around 6pm we were asked to report our activites to the head of operation at the site,i went their,walked passed her table.thinking she has left work to school.. on my way back from were i went to drop my reports i saw someone dat looks like her walks into the Directors office.. my mind skipped a bit..i wasnt sure,i was curious so i chilled a little while.. and waited for the person to walk pass again.. after 5mins nobody passed.. this was around 6 geeting to 7pm.. i moved closer to the office, behold i heard her voice..i wasnt stll sure yet.. i had to move to look tru the door.. see my girl on my directors laps.. i was crazy.. i moved out..came back just to be sure behold she was d one.. i waited outside for her.. after like 40-50mins i saw her coming out form the site.. i hid myself and she and my director went into d car and drove off.. im weak and dead... my head rose high,.. dont kniw wat to do.. pls advice me.. im ill at the moment..infact i have switched my phone off and barred her line since then.. im still thinking on what to do..she has made and attempt to visit me in my office but i told the secretary to tell her anytime she comes that im not around.


NOTE : Im not posting this here to get pitied or get sorry from anyone,but i want everyone out their especially guys to know what they are going into before they venture into any of that shiit called "RELATIONSHIP" .
Dear guys please becareful,these girls are all same.. they pretend to good today,once they see the one that can offer more than you can do..you become an option to them..

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Against the backdrop of checkmating crime, and criminal tendencies among youths arising from the problems of massive unemployment in the country, President Muhammadu Buhari has said that the federal government is emplacing appropriate framework that will facilitate the employment of an extra 100, 000 Police officers.

Additionally, he said government is to establish properly trained and equipped federal anti- terrorism, multi-agency task force that will effectively address the challenge of Boko Haram and any form of insurgency in a sustainable manner.

Speaking at the one day National Security Summit organized by the Nigerian Police force and Sun Newspapers in Abuja with the theme ‘Community partnership approach to internal security and crime management’ yesterday, Buhari said, “In order to further strengthen the security of the public space, consideration is being given to the expansion of the CCTV Monitoring System across major cities and towns in the country while police accountability mechanism will be strengthened”.

According to the President, “The need for community input to policing and crime management in Nigeria has even become more imperative considering our current national security challenges in which kidnapping, armed robbery, murder, transnational crimes, terrorism and other organized crimes have evolved to threaten our national values and developmental strides”.

“While it is understandable that unemployment, illiteracy, radicalization, negative peer group influence, substance abuse and erosion of family and moral values are social factors that underline criminal tendency, the reality remains that the task of addressing these challenges is that of parents, community and the state”.

Disclosing that efforts are being made to enhance the operational capacity of officers of the Nigeria Police force through tailor made training programme that will give them the right civil orientation in their roles as guardians of the constitution, the President said his administration will encourage the development of state-level community policing under a model that will integrate members of the community to policing functions at the grassroots level.

Commending the leadership of the police force for appreciating the yearning of members of the public by ordering the dismantling of police road blocks which have consistently constituted a dark side of policing and object of discord between the police and the citizenry, Buhari said the initiative of the IGP to introduce the ‘Safer Highway Motorized Patrol Scheme’ and deploy 555 patrol vehicles along all major highways to fill the void created has reassured the citizens of their safety and security”.

In his remarks, Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar called on the federal and state governments to face the task of reforming and re-positioning our national institutions; including the Nigeria Police force and related agencies.

“It is imperative, to ensure that our security agencies truly become 21st century organizations able to discharge their mandates effectively and efficiently.

We should be able to cater to their operational needs and to the welfare of their members. When we state that they serve and protect, we should mean it by word and deed”.

“Secondly, our national security agencies must join the crusade against corruption, with commitment and determination. Regardless of how well trained and equipped an organization is, it cannot attain its full potential if it allows corruption and corrupt elements to grace its corridors.

Those who conspire to corrupt our national institutions from the outside must face the same consequences as those who do it from within”, the Sultan said.



http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/08/buhari-to-employ-100000-police-officers-put-cctv-in-major-towns-cities/#sthash.Oe3xpAji.dpuf

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THE Peoples Democratic Party, PDP has urged the Senate and the House of Representatives to reject in its entirety, the proposed $75 million credit loan which amounts to N14.7 billion from the World Bank for Edo State, just as it warned that if granted, it would impoverish the state.
Speaking with Journalists yesterday in Abuja, Chairman, PDP, Edo State, Chief Dan Orbih who noted that this was not the time for what he termed endless borrowing against the backdrop that the state forms one of the most indebted states.
Also yesterday, two Senators from Edo State disagreed sharply on the proposed loan.
Speaking to Vanguard yesterday, the Senate Deputy Chief Whip, Senator Francis Alimikhena, APC, Edo North described the loan as very important and time, just as he stressed that the previous ones have been useful and effectively executed in carrying out world bank projects in the state, warning that people should not play politics with the proposed loan.
But disagreeing with his colleague, Senator Matthew Uroghide, PDP Edo State stressed the need for verification of the previous tranche to ascertain if the loan was used properly and for what it was given it for, adding that Edo State cannot afford to go for such a loan now when it was presently groaning as it cannot pay salaries.
Also disagreeing with the proposed loan, Senator Clifford Ordia, PDP, Edo Central who opposed the request on the grounds that it will plunge the state into further indebtedness, stressed that if the loan was approved, it would raise the Edo State’s debt profile under Oshiomhole to N44.1 billion ($225m) in World Bank.
President Muhammadu Buhari had written to the Senate requesting for the approval to obtain a total of $75 million credit loan amounting to N14.7 billion from the World Bank for Edo State.
According to the president, the proposed loan facility of $ 75 million would be a second leg of a Development Policy Programme the World Bank had approved in 2012 which was a total sum of 225million dollars ( N44.1 billion ) to Edo state government designed to be implemented in three tranches of 75millon per annum.
Speaking further, Orbih who called on the national assembly to first verify what happened to the first tranche, said, “I want to call on the leadership of the Nigerian Senate to kindly reject the request for Mr. President to grant this money to the Edo state government. The issues that comes to mind at the mention of this loan are; what is the governor going to use this loan for? How has he utilized previous loans obtained by his government because you must look at what he has done with the previous facilities he has taken before considering offering him any new financial lifeline.
“Don’t forget not too long ago, he went to the capital market to obtain 35 billion loan for the Benin water storm project as we speak the only thing after paying out billions of naira in respect of that project all that is visible today in Benin city is the pool of stagnant water littered all over Benin city and the attendant emergence of what people now refer to as Oshiomhole mosquitoes, very stubborn and deadly mosquitoes that is what that project has brought to the city.
“There is nothing to show that the 35 billion which he took for the capital market for that particular project has been utilized. So what is he talking about 75 million dollar loan? In fact what the governor is asking the Senate to grant him permission to access is not up to what he collects as security votes for undisclosed security challenges, it is on record, the vouchers and related documents showing that Oshiomhole takes up to an average of 500 – 700 million every month for what he refers to as urgent security challenges, what these challenges are never disclosed and from the records available to us from the police headquarters Edo state since he came into power has never witnessed any major, urgent security challenges that will warrant the expenditure of 20 million in a month talk less of 500 – 700 million in a month.
” So we see this request by Oshiomhole presented to the Senate by the president as a request to further impoverish the good people of Edo state, to further drive the state into a bottomless pit of ineptness occasioned by his mismanagement and misappropriation of his government.We call on the leadership of the Senate to reject this request and it is time for all hands to be on deck to check the declining economic fortunes of this country. This is not time for needless borrowing by government and government institutions. So, I think what Edo people expect from the senate leadership is to reject this request.
“More so, it is coming from the means of a previous rejection by a minister, we are aware that the former minister of finance, that great lady of distinction had earlier reviewed this request, an informed position of a renounced economist. She analysed this request and rejected and declined to approve this request. Going through the back door now by way of request to the Senate is Oshiomhole’s antics of wanting to play smart, the world is now aware why Oshiomhole has be launching an attack on that woman of distinct, I think she can now laugh loud now that the actual reason for the recent uncontrolled attacks by Oshiomhole on her person is arising for this request which Oshiomhole made earlier which she turned down.
“That request was made when elections were approaching it was the last presidential, national assembly and state assembly election were approaching and it was turned down by Okonjo Iweala. Now that Edo people are gearing up for the governorship election in early 2016, he has presented it again, to me it is clear signal that Edo state is broke and I think rather than resorting to this financial palliatives that the new government to state government, the government should come out boldly to challenge some of these state governments, ask questions what they have done with the previous money granted them, allocations, excess crude account, IGR, they have various ways this government has generated money to say the list.
“Today I make bold to state that Edo state has borrowed so much in the past that for over 5 years now the people got into agreement that a particular sum should be deducted as funds anytime the state is receiving its allocation. It is sad to state here that for over 5 years, the sum of 520 million is being withdrawn as source as part of the mandatory obligation to institutions the state government has borrowed money from. When it became clear that the government on its own wasn’t prepared to service these debts the issue was brought to the attention of the former minister and a meeting was arranged where the state government agree that they withdraw 520 million to service previous loan.
“So if this loan is granted I am sure the state maybe giving up to 800 million on monthly basis to service all these numerous loans they have taken and it is really sad that there is nothing on ground in Edo state today to justify the huge debt profile of Edo state which is put at approximately 250 billion.
” These are figures that have continued to emerge from various quarters and the government hasn’t been bold enough to come out with the actual figure of our debt profile, but no one can take away the fact that the debt profile of Edo state is huge and unbearable because for over 5 years if they can be paying 520 million every month from source and from the information available to us that money will continue being deducted well after Oshiomhole has left office, it means we already have a very huge debt profile and I challenge the government to come out with all relevant document about the actual status of Edo state profile.”

- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/08/pdp-senators-disagree-over-proposed-n14-7-world-bank-loan-for-edo/#sthash.YskpnlQq.dpuf

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