i am writing this with heavy heart,broken heart,lonely mind and tears in my eyes.. its been 2weeks now and i hardly sleep nor eat. sleep is far away from me,my heart is heavy.i feel like committing suicide but again God wont be happy with me..just a period of two weeks im like a starved human being that havnt seen food for two years now..

This is my story,please i need the best advice i can get..
i met this girl in my final year and she was in 300l then,i asked her out and as time goes on we started dating, we have dated for two years now and the relationship has been like an average kind of relationship.. we have our good and bad times.. sometimes we fight,other time we settle.. before i started dating this girl who is in her mid 20s.. 24 to be precise.. before i started dating her, i carried out so many findings about her,stalked and monitor her to be sure she aint a cheat and without her knowing..she was really decent.. i find it hard to trust any lady but wit her i strted having second thoughts that all ladies aint same as people do say.. i find every way to make dis girl happy,even when i dont have enough i do stll support her.. i loved her to the extent that if 1000 naira is my last card i can give her 500 to keep up pending on when i get buzzes up.. all my friends knew her back in skul, i was kind of popular in school.. so through mr she was even known that they have to make make her MISS MASSCOMMUNICATION. in her department.. because i was an SUG official then.. so many people respected her cos of me,even guys that wanted to ask her out,saw her with me they back off.. she got respect even from lecturers and all..

After school things was moving cool.. i was settling her little bill to the extent i could afford.. she was loyal and caring also.. even her mum knows me..in the company im currently working.im working in the I.T department making some small cash waiting for when i will get a better job.just last five months the company needed some part time workers in the company for the post of assistant supervisor in the warehouse.. i decided to connect her.. she got the job which she meant to resumes by 8am and closes 3pm sometimes 2pm.. its like a shifting job..some days off some days on..

we dont work on the same site, her place of work is a different building..miles away from mine so we hardly sees eachother except when shes on break she come check on me or when im free i do go some times but she does most of the visiting.. i do call her if shes free so i can come meet her.
last 2weeks,i didnt hear from her for about 3 days and her pings aint delivering,so i decided to go visit her at the site.. only for me to discover she isnt around..i tried calling her the number wasnt reachable.i left.. on tuesday around 6pm we were asked to report our activites to the head of operation at the site,i went their,walked passed her table.thinking she has left work to school.. on my way back from were i went to drop my reports i saw someone dat looks like her walks into the Directors office.. my mind skipped a bit..i wasnt sure,i was curious so i chilled a little while.. and waited for the person to walk pass again.. after 5mins nobody passed.. this was around 6 geeting to 7pm.. i moved closer to the office, behold i heard her voice..i wasnt stll sure yet.. i had to move to look tru the door.. see my girl on my directors laps.. i was crazy.. i moved out..came back just to be sure behold she was d one.. i waited outside for her.. after like 40-50mins i saw her coming out form the site.. i hid myself and she and my director went into d car and drove off.. im weak and dead... my head rose high,.. dont kniw wat to do.. pls advice me.. im ill at the moment..infact i have switched my phone off and barred her line since then.. im still thinking on what to do..she has made and attempt to visit me in my office but i told the secretary to tell her anytime she comes that im not around.


NOTE : Im not posting this here to get pitied or get sorry from anyone,but i want everyone out their especially guys to know what they are going into before they venture into any of that shiit called "RELATIONSHIP" .
Dear guys please becareful,these girls are all same.. they pretend to good today,once they see the one that can offer more than you can do..you become an option to them..

Move on... let it goo

ACCEPT YOUR FATE.
My cent

Dats girls for you. . .The moment you help dem. . .dey forget you. . .u wl automatically turn to a riff-raff. she wl even start forming for you.

These hoes aint loyal

#YOLO

She needs to be treated like OMO WOBE...dats all.

its hard bro..very hard.. wasted 2yrs +

collinsy2:
Move on... let it goo

is this wat fate brings?

madridguy:
ACCEPT YOUR FATE.
My cent

So painful, this guy has been used and dump by a typical Nigerian girl of 21stcentury.



:-/

Sorry man

i can just kill her if i want.. i really wana Bleep her up

Neyoor:
So painful, this guy has been used and dump by a typical Nigerian girl of 21stcentury.



:-/

Take heart bro! May God heal ur pains.


U suppose to ave entered the office without knocking and catch this girl redhanded or better still snap her that moment she sat on his lap.


Meanwhile, there is more to life. Just challenge her and see if the devilish girl would deny or not.

..hhaha aha hahahah ahaha ha ha ahahahahah a let me read again.. ahaha hah hahah ahah sahs hashash hahhh chaaaaaaaaiiI!

GUY you are a learner.. your Girl-friend is smart.. she is following the money which is what every sensible girl does.. but her methods are not pure.. but still yet i truly admire her ambition and speed to be disloyal . you need to mellow in this phase of your life and try to reach the level where you can play the same game your boss does.. my advice be dat.. make i laugh again.. hashashhs hah ahs ah hhahsha ahhaha

Chill bro, your boss will fire her when he sees a hotter ass.

Cheiii take heart and move on. Soldier go soldier come barrack remains the sam3. You are more impirtant now. She is enjoying and having fun why keep yourself in bondage? Its hard but in life one must press on.

But o, OP to be frank, have you broken a girl's heart before? If yes then this is karma if no then she will get her karma.

This is not funny sir..

voltron:
..hhaha aha hahahah ahaha ha ha ahahahahah a let me read again.. ahaha hah hahah ahah sahs hashash hahhh chaaaaaaaaiiI!

GUY you are a learner.. your Girl-friend is smart.. she is following the money which is what every sensible girl does.. but her methods are not pure.. but still yet i truly admire her ambition and speed to be disloyal . you need to mellow in this phase of your life and try to reach the level where you can play the same game your boss does.. my advice be dat.. make i laugh again.. hashashhs hah ahs ah hhahsha ahhaha

Sorry.

Darlingting:
This is not funny sir..

That is LIFE bruh.. That is Reality,, Accept it and Move on. I was in this position before.. do not blame your girl-friend, there are many fishes in the sea. Love is not Forever and you yourself are not perfect.. you will one day cheat on your girl FACT.. go play basketball, watch a movie, hang out with friends and club it away.. start a professional course online.. use your anger and frustration wisely

Go and start dating your boss' wife, mum or grandma.

Or

You can quit your job; set up your own business, employ people and start dating their girlfriends.

Boys are now sissies.

tohpahz:
Sorry.

NOTE : Im not posting this here to get pitied or get sorry from anyone,but i want everyone out their especially guys to know what they are going into before they venture into any of that shiit called "RELATIONSHIP" .
Dear guys please becareful,these girls are all same.. they pretend to good today,once they see the one that can offer more than you can do..you become an option to them..

Job palava

Even married woman go through hell in the hands of those MDS/HRMs

The case of a single lady is never a surprise at all

The solution is do not be doll,
be vigilant
Pity but not for love
Be bold to say your stand

And if you must go with her
The solution is
Just be blind :- do not see any fault in her
Be dumb and deaf:- either she's killing you. Assume you're hearing and you can't speak until you're six feet under the ground

agarawu23:
NOTE : Im not posting this here to get pitied or get sorry from anyone,but i want everyone out their especially guys to know what they are going into before they venture into any of that shiit called "RELATIONSHIP" .
Dear guys please becareful,these girls are all same.. they pretend to good today,once they see the one that can offer more than you can do..you become an option to them..

I'm not pitying him.. or telling HIM sorry.

naijaboiy:
There is nothing else you can do other than move on.

Try to forget about her and make yourself happy. You have your life ahead of you.

Now see how this one happened,,some women will still come here and rant about how the Op did not mind his business.


Cc: sveen...

Op, please for God sake don't dump her, fvck her wella and after you've counted score up to like 30-0, tell it to her face that she's just your sex tool.

tohpahz:


I'm not pitying him.. or telling HIM sorry.

OK o

voltron:
..hhaha aha hahahah ahaha ha ha ahahahahah a let me read again.. ahaha hah hahah ahah sahs hashash hahhh chaaaaaaaaiiI!

GUY you are a learner.. your Girl-friend is smart.. she is following the money which is what every sensible girl does.. but her methods are not pure.. but still yet i truly admire her ambition and speed to be disloyal . you need to mellow in this phase of your life and try to reach the level where you can play the same game your boss does.. my advice be dat.. make i laugh again.. hashashhs hah ahs ah hhahsha ahhaha

Na you're wrong. Every sensible lady strive to make their own money and are not commodities that are sold out to the highest bidder.

Op what a pity, never give all your heart to any lady until you place a ring on her finger .

falconey:
[color=#990000][/color]

hands him handkerchief...

Lalasticlala ishilove seun come see this o! When I posted on How My Boss is Fuccking my colleague.. Egovina abi wtin was busy ranting..