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Ruby_Pearl, i disagree with you. Being sexy has little or nothing to do with a guys appearance.

A guy can be handsome and not sexy while a guy can be ugly and be sexy

Have you ever heard a woman say something like:

"I want a guy who is sensitive."

"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings."

"I want a guy who's a good communicator."

"I want a guy who is strong."

"I want a guy who is sexy."

, ?

Of course you have.

Women say this stuff all the time.

One of the favorite is:

"I want a REAL MAN."

Here's the problem,

When a woman says one of these things, she
actually MEANS something that is different from
what a guy would mean if he said the same words.

WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN,

So let's "decode" what women "really" mean
when they say common things.

Consider this your own personal "female
language translator". Refer to it often.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"I want a guy who is sensitive."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in
life, who has goals and objectives, who has
passion for things. If we're out together, he
always keeps me on my toes, and I'm always
wondering what's going to happen next. He's
challenging, interesting, and funny. I would
really like it if he was also sensitive enough to
know when I need a hug, or to be held, or when I
want him to make love to me."

Does this make sense?

Again, she's not imagining a picture of a
boring, predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt
feelings because he's so "sensitive."

Big difference.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"I want a guy who is in touch with his
feelings."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who
doesn't get upset about petty things, a guy who
can deal with the fact that I freak out
emotionally sometimes, and who knows how to be
cool when things are tough. But I also want him
to be in touch with his feelings so that:
1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then
eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and
2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a
passionate rush, he'll grab me and make love to
me like a beast!"

What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a
meek, afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do
you like me? Because I sure like you".

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS:

"I want a guy who's a good communicator."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time,
because he knows how to let me know what's on his
mind without using words. I want the kind of guy
that can touch me in a certain way and I feel
tingles all over my body. And I want the kind of
guy that can say things in a way that I
understand, not crudely and man-like."

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"i want Sexy Man."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,


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Have you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good “line”… or

with something “polite”… and had her totally blow you off?

Well, this may come as a surprise, but there’s a very good chance that she made the

decision to reject you BEFORE YOU EVEN OPENED YOUR MOUTH.

If your body language suggests to her in any way that you might NOT be “man enough” for

her, it won’t matter if you have the best line in the world… because she will have already made

up her mind about you BEFORE you get a chance to say it.

But if she likes what she sees and feels, it almost doesn’t matter WHAT you say.

You can approach her with a cheesy pick up line, or a compliment she’s already heard a dozen

times THAT DAY… and she’ll still give you a chance to see what you’re all about. Sometimes it is not what you are

saying but how you re saying it

If you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you, you must learn to project

the physical signals that women are biologically programmed to respond to during your interactions

with her.

If you watch a guy who is a "natural" with women, you'll usually find that he NEVER tries to "convince" a

woman to feel attracted to him with logic, instead, his words are often focused on seemingly irrelevant things,

while his body language is "doing all the talking" for him,

When two people are communicating face-to-face, most of the communication is happenig through body

language and voice tone while very little through the actual words. 7% of what you communicate is done

verbally, while your body language and voice tone make up the other 93%.

Women are far more sensitive to body language than men are. Women are as much as TEN TIMES better than

men at reading and communicating with body language.

Body Language just happens to be the easiest and the MOST ACCURATE way for a woman to disqualify guys

who don’t “get it” before the guy even opens his mouth.

Most women prefer men who are confident, men whose body language telgeraph confidence .

How do you use your body language to telegraph confidence & masculine power that makes a woman

go "gaga"

, to be continued

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You should move from chasing women to creating attraction and making them want you.

Learn how to trigger,creat and build attraction

Learn how to speak women and useyour Body Language,.

You need to see the article

Why "Chasing" Doesn't Work some With Women .

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Women love 'mismatch communication". what this means is that women

like it when you are doing one thing serious and one thing jokingly, or being

verbally tough, but physically affectionate. This make you interesting and unpredictable.

People in general, including women, are attracted to the novel, the unusual, the different.

Predictability is the enemy of interesting.

If you act predictable, by definition you are not interesting.

Let me give an example.

If your girl sits on your lap, push her off. But give her a hug later when

you feel like it . If she wants a kiss, say "No".But kiss her later when you feel like it.

For instance, saying, "You're beautiful " 12 times day is not attractive, but writing

a poem that says it and leaving somewhere as a surprise is very attractive.

Keep doing things that interesting and unexpected.

If you become too predictable, you will become uninteresting to a woman.

Do some things that dont make sense, keep some things a mystery.

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some women are accustomed to having a guy kiss their ass

and do anything and everything to attempt to please

them….

When a woman meets a man she thinks she might be

interested in, she wants to know RIGHT AWAY if he is one

of “those guys”. How does she do this? By TESTING him to see just how far she can go.

Letting her get away with things like being rude,

whining, or complaining, tells her INSTANTLY that you

aren’t the strong man she wants and needs.

So stand up for yourself and don’t ever acccept

second-class behavior from a woman

Men are often behave like ass kissers because they

are afraid that a woman might get upset and leave. The

fact is that by acting this way, a woman is MORE likely to

leave. It’s one of those paradoxes that’s a self-fulfilling

prophesy. If a woman whines, a man might begin to

think, “Oh, no, I need to please her or she might

leave. Even though she’s being ridiculous, I have to go

along with it, ”

This is bad for her, for you, and for the relationship

between you. Learn to never let a woman act like a Brat

without you calling her on it (AND IN A COOL, ALMOST

INDIFFERENT WAY!) She’ll thank you for it.

Women want a man who has enough confidence in

himself to know that he can please her WITHOUT being a yes man

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First of all, you must realize that your body
language is more important than the words you use.

Most guys use submissive, apologetic body
language and voice tones,  they almost look as if
they're pleading with a woman to give them
approval and that they're nervous and self-
conscious about the whole event.

   In other words, most guys come across as
WUSSIES when they approach a womAn.

   On the other hand, the guys I know who are the
most successful with women are the opposite.

   They're totally cool, calm, and collected. They
often approach a woman and begin the conversation
like they would with an old friend.

There is no apologetic body language, and there
are no signs of insecurity.

   They aren't there to find out if the woman is
going to give them some approval,  on the
contrary, they are trying to find out if the woman
meets THEIR standards.

Think about how you'd act if you were only
interested in finding out if she's the kind of
exceptional woman that you're interested in
getting to know better, instead of being concerned
about whether or not she's going to like you,
big shift, isn't it?

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nice one vicade. It shows that you are powerful,confident guy who is in control of his emotion. it also shows that you have gotten over fear, insecurity and jealousy

nice one

Competition From Other Men - How To Handle It

What's the best thing to do when a guy is
making his move on your girl?

Let's say you're out at a bar with your new
date and you excuse yourself to use the boy's
room, and when you get back, there are TWO big,
handsome guys talking to your date, and she's
laughing hysterically at what they're saying.

What would most guys do in this situation?

THEY'D FREAK out.

All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc.
would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be
thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys,
them taking her away, etc.

And what do most guys actually DO in one of
these situations?

They walk over, act nervous, and try to take
the girl away from the situation. And they make
the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they're all
freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.

This, of course, only makes the other guys feel
more powerful, and makes the woman realize that
she's with an insecure WUSS.

There are guys who are only interested in women
who are out with other guys. It's a game to them.

And they've found that it's EASY, because most
men are insecure, and most women don't want to be
with a WUSS, (insecure,clingy,needy guy).

So what's the answer here?

What's the best thing to do when a guy is
making his move on your girl?

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Attractive women dont feel atrraction for guys who get too-lovey-dovey and emotional too soon, guys who fall too fast for them. (nice guys)

Most women dont feel attraction for men who act clingy, needy and insecure. (nice guys)

Women dont feel attraction for men who act weak and tentative , men who will give up their status in exchange for her approval and attention. (nice guys)

Women are not attracted to men who act boring, predictable and uninteresting.

 Attractive women are not attracted to men they can control. Most "nice guys Exhibit these trait.

a guy can create attraction in a woman by:

tease her, bust on
her, and generally act like you don't care. Make a
comment about her and walk away. Be Cocky & Funny
when you're with her, and don't be boring.

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE a guy.

There's a term that single, attractive women use to describe men who use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures,comments, and mannerisms,

The term is "NICE".

"He's nice, but, there's no chemistry."

attraction is not created by being nice, it is created by trying the following idea:

For instance:
1) A challenge is generally attractive to women.

2) Teasing and being evasive is generally
attractive to women.

3) Making fun of a woman's appearance in a flirty
way, as counter-intuitive as it might sound, can
lead to ATTRACTION.

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The way it is when it’s love & Lust

When it’s love, he likes to look at you
When it’s Lust, he loves to look at the T.V
When it’s Love, he spends time talking with you
When it’s Lust, he doesn’t have time to talk
When it’s Love, he goes out with you and shows you off to his friends
When it’s Lust, he keeps you in his room
When it’s Love, he buys you romantic cards and gifts
When it’s Lust,he buys condoms and nothing more
When it’s Love, after sex he holds you and stays close to you
When it’s Lust, he reaches for his cloths immediately he comes.
When it’s Love, he memorizes your birthday
When it’s Lust, the only thing he crams is your menstrual cycle
When it’s Love, he shares your problem
When it’s Lust, he shares only in your success
When it’s Love he takes you to his parent’s house
When it’s Lust, he takes you to a cheap hotel & rent a room for an hour
When it’s Love, he comes to your house
When it’s Lust, he won’t think of it.
When it’s Love, he wants you to share his life
When it’s Lust, he wants you to share his bed
When it’s Love, he talks of the future
When it’s Lust, he postpones it
When it’s Love, forgets his other girlfriends
When it’s Lust, he meets them secretly.
When it’s Love, he wants kids
When it’s Lust, he takes off if you mention pregnancy.
When it’s Love, he discusses with you
When it’s Lust, he commands you
When it’s Love, he embraces you in public
When it’s Lust, he embarrasses you in the public
When it’s Love, abandons his homeboys for you
When it’s Lust, he abandons you for them
When it’s Love, he spends an hour on fore play
When it’s Lust, he just climbs on top of you, humps a while and then
rolls off to fall asleep.
When it’s Love, its heaven
When it’s Lust, its hell


(Source: A guy called OKEY, may be he got it from the net, who cares)


N.B: I don’t agree with every thing here. I will never abandon my homeboys for any girl and I am not good at remembering a birth date .

The 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men

Most men HATE the idea of "rejection".
The idea of walking up to a woman and having
her REJECT you causes most men to instantly feel
sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally
feel a horrible combination of nervousness and
confusion.
A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go
talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to
actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes.
The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens,
eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection
fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes
too much to bare.
Most men find this state so scary that they end
up deciding to forget about approaching the
women, just to end the discomfort.
The temptation is great to just "walk away"
because just as quickly as the intense nervousness
is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it
goes away when you decide to "forget about it and
walk away".
The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads to
the "instant gratification" of the nervous feeling
going away makes it the most popular option.
Most of the time (and I'm talking about
probably 99% of the time here) men just walk away.
They give up before they've even started.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ACTUAL REJECTION AND THE
FEAR OF REJECTION,
I think it's important to realize that there's
a BIG difference between ACTUAL rejection (having
a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you
when you start talking to her) and the FEAR of
rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman
rejecting you).
The FEAR of
rejection is actually FAR, FAR more painful and
difficult to deal with than ACTUAL rejection in
the real world.
The main reason for this is that most of the
time when a man starts talking to a woman, she is
actually rather nice about the whole affair.
Men aren't "rejected" very often!
If a woman isn't interested, she usually just
says "I have a boyfriend" or "No thank you", or
she'll just walk away without saying anything at
all.
But here's the kicker,
You can experience an intense FEAR of rejection
EVERY time you consider approaching a woman.
You can be in any situation, anywhere, anytime,
and still have FEAR of rejection, which will
prevent you from approaching a woman.

HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION,
The best way to deal with rejection is not to worry about it.
If you get "rejected", you'll be fine.
Really.
It's no big deal, and it doesn't happen that
often.
And when it does, you'll recover shortly
thereafter.
You'll find yourself telling your friends about
it, and laughing together. Rejection from a woman
is about as painful as getting a "" on a test.
It's basically insignificant.
The REAL question is "How do I deal with my
FEAR of rejection?".
If you can overcome your imaginary FEAR of
rejection, you'll be on your way. (Some guys have
a type of fear that they might call "terror" when
thinking of approaching women.) If you have this
level of fear, then you might want to take a
minute and check this out before reading on:
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WHY WOMEN REJECT MEN,
Now let's talk about those rare instances where
a woman actually REJECTS a man.
For the sake of this discussion,
rejection "define " as a woman doing something that
lets you know that she's upset and offended that
you started talking to her, and she responds in a
mean or vicious way to make you go away.
I do NOT consider a woman walking away without
stopping to talk to you, her saying "No thank


you", or any other time when a woman just simply
doesn't engage to be "rejection".
There are a few main reasons
why women actually DO reject men.

Here are the main ones:

1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does
something stupid to begin with.
Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to
a woman, put their arm around her, and say, "Hey
baby, you sure do look hot tonight".
Some guys don't see anything wrong with
following a woman around all night, staring at her
constantly, then walking over with a nervous,
sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, "You
remind me of my sister".
These are bad ideas.
2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.
If two women are sitting alone at a table in
the corner, and one of them is obviously upset,
and you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy
you a drink?", and the upset one looks at you
and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a
conversation" (then looks away from you back at
her friend), and you say, "Aw, cummon, have a
drink. You need to lighten up and have some
fun", and she looks back at you and says firmly,
"We're busy", and you say, "What, are you in a
bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you
a drink", and she says, "We don't want a
drink", and you say, "Well maybe your friend
does", and the friend says, "No, I don't want
one either",
OK, hopefully you get it.
If you ever do something like this, you are a
dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have
47 drinks thrown in your lap.
3. Making a woman nervous with your body
language.
If you start talking to a woman, but your
posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting
around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an
unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails
tucked in, you're probably not going to get a
favorable response.
If you creep a woman out, things aren't going
to work for you.
4. Not understanding a woman's body language and
other communication.
When you start talking to a woman, she will let
you know within a very short time if she's
receptive to talking to you.
When you first start talking to a woman she's
either going to keep talking to you in an open,
comfortable way or she's not.
She's either going to act like things are cool
or she's going to act like they're not.
This is an amazing thought, but women get
nervous too. They will often stop talking just
because they can't think of anything to say, etc.
But you need to pay attention.
Experience is the best teacher here.
My simple point is that MOST GUYS CAUSE
REJECTION by what they're doing. They aren't
paying attention, or they're doing things that are
offensive.
If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn
how to start conversations with women, and do a
few simple things RIGHT, you'll all but totally
avoid "rejection" from the women you approach.

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION
Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own
FEAR of rejection:
1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching
women.
Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone.
Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and
just watch.
Make sure you visit a place that is REALLY
busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.
Now, pay attention.
You'll begin to pick out the guys who are
approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance,
buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.
You'll be able to see for yourself that most of
the time, even if the woman isn't interested,
nothing bad happens.
You'll also see that when a guy tries to grab a
woman who's walking by, makes a crude sexual
comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn't
interested, that the woman's feelings might
escalate and she'll respond negatively.
You can watch what works and what doesn't right
in front of your own eyes.
This will start to reprogram your mind that
women don't usually "reject" men, even in the most
intense situations where they're being approached
all night.
2) Start small.
If you have to, start by talking to women who
are PAID to talk to you.
Go to a mall .
Stores in malls hire attractive young women.
Walk into any store and start conversations.
Practice making eye contact.
Come up with a few jokes that you can use in
any situation ("So, do you own this store?
Perfect, then you won't care if I just take some
things, "
Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne
(the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and
give you her opinion.
The more you do this, the more you'll get used
to starting conversations with women you don't
know, and having comfortable conversations.
3) Choose one default thing for each situation.
It amazes me that guys don't think ahead.
They don't plan what they're going to do.
As the old saying goes "By failing to plan, you
plan to fail".
You really need to figure out a DEFAULT thing
you can do to start a conversation with any woman,
anywhere, anytime.
Once you come up with your idea, mentally
rehearse it until you could do it in any
situation.
Then get out and do it.

HOW TO AVOID REJECTION AND INCREASE SUCCESS
Human beings tend to want to "save face" when
it comes to relationships.
We don't like the idea that another person has
outright "rejected" us, and we ALSO tend to not
want to "hurt other people's feelings" by
rejecting them.
This is one of the reasons why women will often
lie and say "I have a boyfriend" when they don't.
You must become aware of these "subconscious"
processes and motivations, work with them, and
eventually become the master of them.
Learn to recognize when a woman is "politely
saying no thanks", and move on.
If a woman isn't interested in you, forget
about it. It doesn't matter.
Go to the next one. There are plenty.
LEARN HOW AND WHY WOMAN FEEL ATTRACTION FOR MEN
Most men believe that if they could only
overcome their own fear of rejection, and learn
how to start talking to women, all their problems
would be solved.
Not so!
Just because you can start conversations with
women doesn't mean that they'll feel ATTRACTION
for you.
there is
actually a way to make women feel the emotion of
ATTRACTION for you, just by the way you
communicate with them.
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Have You Ever "Failed" A Woman's Romantic TEST?

"WHY WOMEN TEST MEN, AND WHAT TO DO WHEN IT
HAPPENS TO YOU, "

   Women test men.
   That's the reality of the situation.

   Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and
they keep on testing FOREVER.

   If you don't know how to deal with the tests
that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE
chance of improving your success in the dating
world.

HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN?
   For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing"
them seems a little strange.
   Why would a woman WANT to test a man?
   What could she possibly gain from it?

   The answer: A LOT.
   By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST
IMPORTANT thing about him, 
   And I'll share what that is a little bit later
on in this newsletter.

TEST: A DEFINITION
   Definition of the word "test".
1. A series of questions, problems, or physical
responses designed to determine knowledge,
intelligence, or ability.

      So back to my earlier question,  Why do women
test men in the first place?
   BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

   If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much
money do you make?" he can LIE.

   If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can
LIE.
   If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal
with the challenges of life, support a family, and
reach his goals, he can LIE.

   Are you with me here?

   In other words, if you get to the end of one of
your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask
you if you have a comprehensive understanding of
the material you learned during the course.
   But you could LIE.

   So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you
REALLY know what's going on.

   Well, in the same way that teachers test
students, women test MEN.

   And that means YOU, Sparky.
   But there's one LITTLE  difference
between the kinds of tests that women give you and
the kinds of tests that teachers give you, 

   Women don't tell you first,  that they're
going to test you!
   And they don't teach you what you need to know
BEFORE they test you.

   They just do it.
   Right when they meet you.
   Within the first few seconds, actually.
   Why?

   Because women don't have the TIME to deal with
all the guys who are interested in them.
   And they're not interested in getting together
with a man who doesn't "get it" in the first
place.
   Beautiful women aren't looking for a guy to
TRAIN.

   And the tests don't stop,  by the way.
   If you meet an attractive, interesting,
emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be
tested until either:
1) The relationship ends.
2) You or she DIES.

WHAT WOMEN ARE TESTING FOR

   Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of
things.

   Some women will test to see if you have money.

   Some will test to see if you'll SPEND your
money on them.

   Some will test to see if you're intelligent.

   And some will test to see if you're loyal.
   But BY FAR, in my experience, more women will
test you initially to see if you're a WUSSY! ( an ass kissing, submissive guy who has no confidence, and always trying to impress her)
   That's right, 

   The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to "know"
about you is whether or not you're a submissive,
ass-kissing boy who has no balls.
   And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in
the towel.

   If you are a Wussy, and you fail the "Wussy
Tests" that she throws at you, then you stand very
little chance succeeding with the woman who is
testing you.

   Of course, MOST men fail with MOST women,
MOST of the time.

   THESE TESTS ARE VERY SUBTLE
   Probably the most interesting thing about tests
from women is that they're not OBVIOUS.

   At least not to most men.
   In fact, I'd say that 99% of all the tests that
women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.

   They're right out in the open, obvious to other
women (and a few men), but for the most part, they
go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED.

   For instance, let's say that you're standing at
a bar talking to some friends, and you make eye
contact with the cute girl standing six feet away
from you.

   What do most guys do?
   They look away.
   And they do it FAST.
   Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a
few seconds.

   But it's already too late.
   TEST FAILED.

   Here's another, 
   Let's say you're at a bar talking to a girl,
and she says "Hey, buy me a drink".
   You say "Great, what do you want?".

   Guess what?
   She just told you what to do, and you went for
it without a second thought.

   Or maybe you've started a conversation with a
group of girls at a coffee shop.
   One of them says that she doesn't like your
shoes.
   You say "Oh, well I wasn't planning on seeing
anyone important today,  I just put on whatever I
could find".
   In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for
yourself.

   As you can probably guess, that's a BAD IDEA.
   In that moment, you have just failed the test
with flying colors.

THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU
   If you think back in your life about all of the
situations with women that went BAD, you'll
probably find that you were TESTED, and you
FAILED.

   In one way or another, you probably missed some
VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you
wound up failing.
   RESULT: She hit the road.

      And before I give you some tips on handling
tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find
yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT
basis, then you should get yourself some "in-
depth" reprogramming on a DEEP level.
HOW TO DEAL WITH TESTS
   If you're going to successfully deal with tests
from women, you first need to "get it".
   To say it differently, you need to learn how to
RECOGNIZE tests quickly,  and know when they're
happening.
   What's the best way to know when you're being
tested?
   Well, one way that I KNOW I'm being tested is
my GUT.

   Your gut doesn't lie.
   In fact, if we guys would just learn to use
this amazing "test detector" called our GUTS, then
we'd live happier lives.
   Here's how it works, 

   Next time you're interacting with a woman and
she does or says something that makes your gut
tense up, you're probably being tested.
   Now, I can't go into all the aspects of how to
deal with tests from women,  because that would
take me several hours.
   But I will say that the most IMPORTANT thing to
do is EXPECT tests,  and then pay close attention
to how you're responding to them.
   Most of the things we do with women are NOT
CONSCIOUS. When a woman looks at you, and you look
away, it wasn't a "conscious decision".
   It just HAPPENS.
   All of a sudden, you're feeling butterflies and
glancing away. It happens in an instant.
   So you first need to recognize when it's
happening to you.
   When a woman tells you what to do, she's
testing you.
   When a woman tries to change plans or cancel at
the last minute, she's testing you.
   When a woman asks you to buy her something,
she's testing you.
   When a woman nags, whines, or complains, she's
testing you.

   Learn to SPOT IT when it's happening.
   Next, notice how you respond.
   You've failed a million tests with women
already, so don't worry about ten more.
   Just notice how you respond.
   Most men respond by trying to win the woman's
approval.
   If she tries to cancel plans at the last
minute, you'll say "Oh, no problem".
   If she complains about something, you'll say
"I'm sorry, let me fix it".
   You know what I'm saying.
   Again, just notice what's going on when you
respond.
   Finally, learn how to PAUSE before you respond,
and then UNDERSTAND how you need to respond to
each test.
   Most tests will be tests to see if you'll allow
her to CONTROL YOU.

   If you DO allow a woman to CONTROL you, you
will lose.
   And you can take that one to the bank.
   You will lose in one way or another, almost
guaranteed.

   Women don't want men that they can control.
   So make sure you pass those tests first.
   The more you pay close attention, the more
you'll see the subtle tests that women are using
with you.
   And the more of these tests you pass, the more
success you'll have.

YOU MUST GO BEYOND THE TEST
      If you REALLY want to have success with women,
you need to learn how to deal with tests even
BEFORE THEY HAPPEN.

        And by FAR, the most important of these things
is to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you.
   Sure, you can show her that you're a great
leader, or self-confident, or that you won't kiss
up to her before she tests you for it.

   As you probably know by now, Attraction Isn't A
Choice.
   Women don't go through a logical process to
decide if they're going to feel ATTRACTION.
   It just HAPPENS.
   But it doesn't happen very OFTEN.

   If you're one of those rare men who knows how
to use your body language, voice tone, and other
communication to make women feel ATTRACTION, then
you will have the kind of success that most men
only dream of.
   And you'll deal with far fewer tests from
women.
   Success with Women and the idea of making women
feel ATTRACTION.
   It's something that no one talks about.
   It's something that most men don’t understands.
         Learning this particular skill can make ALL THE
DIFFERENCE in your life.

   cheers
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5 Truths About Women And Attraction


>You may have noticed that women aren't exactly
easy to understand. If you've been having a
hard time getting "inside the mind" of women,
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Listen to this interesting story as told by a guy

My name is O. I am 20 years old, living in Cyprus.
Actually in my college i got interested in a girl.
She was also good with me and many times did
some things that mean, at least for me, she is
interested in me. Recently I got her mobile
number and I called her the day after it and she
talked to me normally BUT after a few days when i
called her again she did not answer my call
(she didn’t pick the mobile up). Then I sent her
this SMS:
Without U life is Black not White. Without U the
world has no hope, no light. Without U I can’t go
left or right. Without U I lose my sight. THANK U MY
GLASSES!
I called her 2 or 3 times after it in 3 days but
she did not answer again. Then I sent her this
SMS: DAYS R 2 BUSY HOURS R 2 FAST SECONDS R 2 FEW
BUT THERE IS ALWAYS TIME 4 ME 2 REMEMBER YOU!
2 days after it I again called her and this time
she did not pickup the phone as well, So I decided
to tell her how I felt about her at least I will know if she really likes me or not, then I sent her this message:
Hello my A., I sent you lots of messages BUT you
did not reply me .I’m worried about you, is every
thing all right? I want to tell you a truth, I
like you, in fact I love you. You are always in my
mind, you are everywhere, I never forget you, I
REALLY MISS YOU!
Then, after 2 hours she replied me with this
message:
Hey O. I got all your messages I'm all right
Sorry for not replying. Anyway I want to tell u that I just want to be your friend. Sorry if I gave u the wrong idea, I didn't
want u to misunderstand me
With this message she told me that she does not
want to be my girl friend so in reply to her I
wrote this (I said good bye):
Thanks for answering. I hope you be successful in
your life everywhere with anybody and thanks for
every thing 'cause you taught me many things!
I was not expecting any reply from her but she
sent this sms right after my sms:
I enjoy being your friend. I WISH U THE BEST. Have a
nice holiday. Sorry if I made u feel bad
I did not send her any sms but after 2 days she sent
me this sms, which really made me quite confused:
* * * * * * * * * * * *, FRIENDS are like
stars, you do not ALWAYS SEE them but you know
they are ALWAYS there!!!
I really confused. The girl who did not
EVEN wanted to answer my calls now sends me
such messages!
I really loved her but when she told me that she
want just to be my friend,however,it was hard for
me to believed but I accepted it and said goodbye
to her with my last message.But as you can
see, !!!!
I need your idea totally, What do think about her?
and IF you suggest me to continue being her friend

End of story

I think that probably every man can identify
with the following sequence:
1) Meet girl.
2) Get along well with girl.
3) Feel attracted to girl and think she is
attracted to you.
4) Tell girl that you like her (after getting up
the nerve).
5) Girl disappears.
6) Call girl 47 times, but still no response.
7) Finally girl turns up and says, "I only like
you as a friend and sorry if I hurt you".
, Ouch. I know it's a bummer, but you might
take comfort knowing that this has happened to so
many guys I know MANY times.
Let me take a shot at explaining what's going
on here and hopefully help you and the others
reading this to avoid this kind of thing as much
as possible in the future.

There are a few main
issues going on here all at once,

1) Women are complex and often illogical (so are
men, but in different ways).
2) Women are attracted to men for reasons that
most men either don't know, don't understand,
or won't accept.
3) The way that women communicate isn't always as
"direct and straightforward" as most of us guys
would like.
4) It's difficult to un-do one of these situations
once it has reached this point.
5) There are things you can do to avoid this kind
of thing in the future.
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complex process of ATTRACTION. If you want to
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So, let's deal with these issues one at a
time as they relate to your situation,
1) Women are complex and often illogical (so are
men, but in different ways):
Women act on emotion and intuition more than
men. They don't do the "logical" thing as often as
men.
Women walk into Mr Biggs and order a "fat
free" snaches and then get WHIPPED CREAM on
top. No kidding. I see it all the time,
Women will go through a full closet of clothing
trying to choose something to wear to the
supermarket, then conclude that "there's nothing
to wear in here",
Women spend =N=20000 on shoes that are going to be
worn a few times,
Again, men have their bizarre behaviors, and
I'm not trying to "badmouth" women, but in my
experience women are usually not very LOGICAL
about things, and they're ESPECIALLY illogical
when it comes to relationships.
Men are perfectly logical.
My point is that you have to put your ideas
about how things "should" be OUT OF YOUR MIND.
Start a new way of thinking about things based on
REALITY and not LOGIC.
2) Women are attracted to men for reasons that
most men either don't know, don't understand,
or won't accept:
As I like to say, "Attraction Isn't A Choice".
We don't think about who we'd like to feel
attraction for, it just happens on its own in
most cases.
But the thing to remember is that ATTRACTION
has a pattern. It's like a combination lock or a
puzzle. There is a way to create it if you know
the "recipe". On the other hand, if you DON'T know
the recipe, then you're not likely to figure it
out by trial and error. And the reason for this --
again -- is because IT'S NOT LOGICAL.
While men are attracted mostly to LOOKS, women
are attracted mostly to PERSONALITY TRAITS.
In the story above, the guy displayed the
personality trait that I refer to as WUSSY a
little too early in the game.
Women generally aren't attracted to men who get
too lovey-dovey and emotional too quickly. There's
no mystery or challenge when you fall in love
immediately.
And when you call 31 times a day, it only makes
the problem worse. What you need to do in these
situations is LEAN BACK more and gives her some
space. Give her room to think about you and miss
you.
3) The way that women communicate isn't always as
"direct and straightforward" as most of us guys
would like:
If a woman wants to tell you that she isn't
interested in you in a romantic way, she'll often
NOT tell you as her way of telling you. In other
words, she might just disappear for awhile. Or she
might not return calls quickly. Or she might talk
about other guys with you,
Once again, you have to put the concept of
pure, rational LOGIC out of your mind when it
comes to the world of ATTRACTION.
Women are subtle. They read into things and try
to tell you things indirectly. Women don't
generally take what you say at face value. They
want to know what everything REALLY means.
If you meet a girl and after the first date
you say "I really like you, you're beautiful and I
have feelings for you" they think you said "I'm a
Wuss because I fall in love too quickly".
On the other hand, if you say "Good night, give
me a call sometime" she'll think you said "You
were kind of boring, and if you want to talk to me
again you're going to have to call me".
4) It's difficult to un-do one of these situations
once it has reached this point:
Unfortunately, once a woman has "made up her
mind" about a guy, it's usually VERY difficult to
change her mind.
If you're in a situation like this where a
woman has said "I only like you as a friend", then
you're best off going out and meeting some other
women and getting on with your life IMMEDIATELY!
Don't wait. Get on with it.
If you disappear from HER life, then turn up a
month or two later, and you're dating a few
other attractive women, she might see you in a
new light.
Jealousy is a VERY powerful motivator to women
and this is often what it takes to get a woman to
see you in a new light once you've let out your
INNER-WUSSY too early in the game.

5) There are things you can do to AVOID this kind
of thing in the future:
The most important step you can take is to
LEARN HOW ATTRACTION WORKS! You need to learn this
game so you know what's happening in future
situations, and, most importantly, you know what
to do to make women feel attracted to you from the
beginning (and, of course, how to NOT let your
inner WUSS rear its ugly head too often).
As you know, some of my favorite ways to do
this are by being Cocky and Funny, teasing women,
busting on them in a particular way, playing hard
to get, etc.
But if you want to learn how ATTRACTION works
and to make it work for YOU, then YOU'RE going to
have to go out and do it. No one else is going to
do it for you.
Once you understand how and why women are
attracted to certain types of men, and how the
human "mating dance" works, you will SEE things
differently. You'll understand things in a new
way.
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Why Women "Run" From NICE Guys

A guy ones said, "I know this girl who's beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we have
everything in common, and we get along perfectly, but she says that she's just not attracted to me, "

Have you ever noticed that:

1) The most attractive and interesting women seem
to be attracted to men who don't treat them very
well?

2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the more
she often seems to act like "just a friend" to
you?

What's going on here? Didn't mom say to be
"nice" to girls?

Here's the deal: Women aren't usually
romantically attracted to "nice" guys. Women are
attracted to men who are funny, confident, and
mysterious. Good looks don't hurt, but if you're
not 6'4" tall and model-handsome, then you have to
learn how to attract women with your personality.

And being "nice" isn't going to do it for you.
I believe:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about
whether a man is going to be "just a friend" or if
he has romantic potential, and once her decision
is made, it's probably going to stay made.

2) These decisions are made "subconsciously,"
meaning that women make all of them quickly and at
a "gut level."

3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction
feelings rather than "friend" feelings.

4) The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and
start acting, well, something else, and I
don't mean "not nice."

So what DOES attract women? And how do you do
it exactly?
Good questions,
At the beginning, I mentioned three qualities:
Funny, Confident, and Mysterious.
Before I talk about each, I first have to
remind you that WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE.
Remember that.
As much as many women would hate to admit it,
there's something very attractive about a man who
is just a little more confident than he should be.
And if you combine this with the right amount of
humor, you have a magic combination that will
charm almost any woman.

Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you first meet a woman, tease her about
something. It doesn't matter what it is, as long
as you do it early on. For instance, you might
say: "So what's with the big purse? Are you
carrying a gun in there?" or maybe "Those are some
pretty tall shoes, what are you like 4' tall
without them?" If you tease a woman, it shows that
you're not intimidated by her, and that you have a
fun sense of humor. KEY: Make sure you say
something FUNNY. If you don't know how to be
funny, get a book on it. The test: If she's not
laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Look around at other things and seem kind of
pre-occupied when you first start talking to her.
Make your funny remarks with a carefree, detached
tone. You want to sound like you're talking to
your best friend. Attractive women are approached
all the time. It's not attractive to a woman when
you look like you've just met Madonna. This "just
a little too confident" attitude is very
attractive to women, especially when it's
combined with humor.

3) Don't answer her questions directly. Women love
to ask questions like: "What do you do?" and
"Where do you live?" and "Tell me about your
family." Answer with funny answers, and don't give
her what she wants. Most guys say, "Oh, I'm an
engineer" or "I'm a stock broker." BORING,BORING.
If she asks what you do, say, "Oh, funny you
should ask. I'm a Calvin Klein Underwear Model,
What do you do?, " (This is especially funny if
it's OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you get
it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.
It's important to remember that I'm not telling
you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I'm
telling you to start being confident, funny, and
mysterious.
Now, if you want to REALLY learn how to get
away from being a "nice guy" who never gets
anywhere with women, I recommend that you
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If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN or guys. The reality is that single women have an entire laundry list of traits, qualities, and characteristics that they HATE in single guys. There are a few particular things that REALLY annoy single, attractive women.
A woman can like everything about a man, but if he does these things (or even ONE of these things), it can DESTROY his chances of success with a particular woman.

Here are a few of the BIG things that single women hate:


1) Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval

This is one thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS a guy's chances with them.

Men, in effect, say "Hi, I want your approval and attention. I'm willing to let YOU be the one who's in control, and let YOU call the shots, and do anything to please YOU, if you'll give me your attention and approval".

But the problem is that women DON'T WANT men to give up their status and "manliness".

Women are not attracted to men who act weak and tentative.

Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he'll give away his power in return for approval.

2) Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure

When one person "clings" to another person "psychologically", the person who is being "clinged to" RESENTS and REJECTS the needy, clingy emotional parasite,

For example if a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says "Hey, I have to go", he might say "Aw, well, um, OK. Um, will you call me when you get home?".

Or let's say a guy and a girl are out on their first date, and they're walking around in a large department store.

Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute.

If she wanders away, he'll come find her IMMEDIATELY.

He'll stay physically close to her, as if he's afraid she'll leave without him.

And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually ASKS a woman to tell him that he's nice, fun, interesting, etc.

"Do you think I'm interesting?"

"Do you think we could ever have a relationship?"

"Am I your type?"

Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. It makes them want to RUN AWAY.


3) Not Leading - And Even Worse, Trying To Get Her To Lead

Women have turn offs.

One of the things that turns off a woman is a man who FOLLOWS.

The REAL problem is that most women won't try to LEAD naturally.

So you've got a situation where a man is trying to FOLLOW a woman who isn't LEADING.

He's looking for little clues so he knows where to go and what to do, but he isn't getting them.

So what does he do?

He ASKS for them!

He says "So, I was thinking of may be taking you to Olive Garden for dinner, how does that sound?".

Everything about the way he asks says to the woman "I'm trying to figure out what you want me to do, please help me know how you want me to act, where you want me to take you, and what you want me to say".

This is attraction death!

Men who don't lead, and even worse, try to get a woman to lead, ANNOY THE HELL OUT OF SINGLE WOMEN.

They HATE IT!


4) Using Insecure, Approval-Seeking, Low-Status Posture, Gestures, Voice Tone, And Body Language

There's a term that single, attractive women use to describe men who use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures,comments, and mannerisms,

The term is "NICE".

"He's nice, but, there's no chemistry."

This is one of those areas that's not easy to talk about.

Since SO MANY GUYS do this stuff, it's almost impossible to explain.
It's like trying to tell a fish that they're not going to get anywhere in life
if they stay wet.

The fish doesn't even KNOW it's wet in the first place.

But let me try.

Go spend a day observing couples.

Go places where couples that have just met spend time together, like

bars, clubs, coffee shops, whatever.

Now watch the GUYS.

Watch how they lean towards the women.

Watch how they raise their eyebrows in exaggerated response to women's comments.

Watch how they slump over, let their shoulders fall forward, and smile falsely at whatever the women say.

If you're close enough, listen to how men ask questions and make comments with a voice tone that says "I'm insecure and I'm trying to be extra nice to compensate for it".

You'll see it EVERYWHERE.

If there's one thing that turns off a single woman's, it's a man's posture, gestures, eye contact, voice tone, etc.

It all happens in an INSTANT.

Women read this body language signs and interpret it instantly and accurately.

90% of all men alive today INSTANTLY disqualify themselves with women because of this problem.

Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. TELEGRAPH the message that they're insecure, clingy and not being themselves.

They do a thousand weird little things to let a woman know that they're uncomfortable and "not being themselves".

Single women HATE IT!


5) Not Understanding That She's A Woman And You're A Man

When it comes down to it, most men don't understand women.

But the REAL kicker is that most men don't understand MEN, either!

Most guys don't know what it's like to get in touch with their MALE NATURE.

Combine these two issues, and you get a guy who behaves in ways that DO NOT trigger ATTRACTION in women.

Women have a "nature". A female nature.

Men also have a "nature". You guessed it, it's a MALE nature.

Women are coy. They like to play hard to get. They like to enjoy the chase. They love anticipation. They love to "let a guy catch them",

Men are competitive. Men are dominant. Men like to play rough games, win things, and rule their territory.

Well guess what?

Most men don't BEHAVE like men when they're in the presence of a woman that they "like".

And since most men don't understand female human nature, they don't demonstrate that they "get it" when they're with women that they "like".

Women like men. Men like women. There are POWERFUL causes at play here.

When a man is around a woman that he likes, he shouldn’t behave like a GIRLY-MAN or a woman. It's not sexy, and it's not attractive,

And single women HATE IT!

6) Focusing On Logic Instead Of Emotions

NEWS JUST IN: Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.

Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL.

So what do most guys do when they first meet a woman?

They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.

Men try to engage women in LOGICAL conversations and interactions because that's where THEY feel comfortable, not knowing that they're SHOOTING THELSEVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!

Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before a guy will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for him by engaging her in logical conversation.

When a man starts a logical conversation with a woman he just met, he is basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head.

Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs, discussing politics, religion, weather, and anything that has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.

On the other hand, if he starts talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something, Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys, but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.


7) Not Being Interesting To Be Around

Underneath most behavior that I see most guys acting out is a "core belief" that goes like this:

"I don't believe that an attractive woman would want to be around me just because she enjoys my presence, so I make up for it by saying and doing certain things that I hope she'll enjoy, and if she enjoys those
other things enough, then maybe she'll want to spend more time with me."

Well guess what? Most attractive single women KNOW that if a guy is not interesting to be around, they become bored being around him.

In other words, no amount of material gifts, compliments, dinners, and other "displays" will EVER compensate for a lack of BEING INTERESTING.

Often material gifts, food, flowers, and other "displays" have ZERO lasting value to a woman when it comes to how she FEELS about a man,

An attractive single woman wants a guy who LIGHTS HER UP. She wants to FEEL GOOD.

She wants mystery, she wants to laugh, she wants a challenge, she wants sexual tension,

If a man is using compliments, gifts, food, and other "displays" to get a woman's attention, he needs to ask himself tough question:

Is it because he doesn't believe that a woman would want to be around because she enjoys his company?

If a man doesn't know how to be INTERESTING to a woman, then no amount of compensation is going to fix the problem.

If a man his boring, predictable, and uninteresting, then he will never going to have women calling him hang out.


Not Understanding Attraction

Women can INSTANTLY FEEL IT when they're with a guy who "gets it".

Women know very quickly if they're talking to a guy who understands himself and women.

Women know if a guy speaks the SECRET LANGUAGE of "ATTRACTION".

If he doesn't, then she stops all communication on that level.

If he does, then it continues.

Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE, and a man can't "convince" a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works, and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The PROBLEM with ATTRACTION and with success with women in general is that the things you need to DO to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS.

They're "counter intuitive", in many cases.

In other words, they're the OPPOSITE of what you'd THINK would make sense.

A man have to do things like CREATE TENSION, stop doing something that she likes, give her time to miss him, etc.

And if he doesn’t understand ATTRACTION, a woman is going to KNOW IT.

And guess what?

Single women HATE IT when a man doesn't understand ATTRACTION and how to communicate on this "other level".

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Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes You Make
With Women- and what to do about it
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women-And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes,

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A "Nice Guy".

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have. I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here? It's actually very simple, Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
"Convince Her To Like You".

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like, but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you, YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission.

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them, EVER. Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
approval annoy her



MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts.

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT. Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this happens, That's right, I said NATURAL. When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
"How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her .

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast, and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way,

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