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Boogyman557:
Holly Gram I understand u BRODA. Still de try hold ur self but waiting I go tell u b sey, Dem don sok ur CONDOM 4 JUJU long time ago and dat de REASON u find it hard to QUIT.. Although make u de try pray to wat ever u believe in and no b just prayer matter ooo. bcus after u don pray finish, wat next. d main DETERMINATION will come from u.. Na very strong demonic spirit my BRODA. make I know rilly enter deep into d matter. just try de hold ur self. No be matter of to get GF or WIFE. I don SEE many wey get and Dem still de boil in D UNIT STEADY STEADY. just try hold ur SELF. WTF MAN

dis guy comment da always make me smile
him go just da with e kala and loud da comment on every thread WTF MAN

In 2pac voice ''I see no changes wake up in the morning and I ask myself, is life worth living or should I blast(kill) myself i'm tired of being poor even worse I'm black

Now the bolded is my regret..

I just love the part where he said instead of war on poverty they got a war on drugs so the police can bother me

in same 2pac voice "give me a paper and men so i can write about my life of sin, and a couple bottles of gin incase I don't get it".

Jman06:
You're just ranting all over the place like a mad dog!

In relationships, men have seen the worst from ladies and no one goes about blaming them. Ladies have broken up with hurtful messages like 'you're not my type of man", "The feelings I have for you is no more there" " I'm in love with someone else " etc. We guys simply sulk up such messages and move on. We are not even expected to express emotions in such situations, hence some guys resort to alcohol and other substances to control the hurt. Like in the matter at hand, I'm sure that if it had been the other way round, many of you would even abuse the guy and call him names for threatening the lady.

I don't know why some of you hold the believe that in romantic relationships between a guy and a lady "the guy is using the lady", hence when the guy ends the relationship he is accused of " using and dumping the lady". We know that in such relationships, the guy is the one mostly on the losing end. He loses financially, he also loses sexually and so on yet he's accused of "using and dumping the lady". Sometimes, I even wonder why the ladies being supposedly used and dumped keep going into relationships knowing that they'll be " used". It is supposed to be a mutual relationship that should normally benefit both parties, but in this part of the world, ladies benefit the most due to our archaic culture.

So, free the guy mehn! Nonsense!

chai.. you nailed it, was actually waiting for dis.

a girl can say anything to a man irrespective of how d man will feel..but the the reverse is the case we start blaming d man.. relationship in Nigeria it's the woman that is using the man.. financially, emotionally, sexually, ..why would a lady think a man used and dump her..
I'm still wondering what always gave them the guts to alter such statement

Fiscus105:
Mentality of seniority then, I'm sure if he is alive, he would be full of regrets


As one grows up, he sees how childish he or she was.

The same thing applicable to teenagers who are wailing they don't need wife now.

lol teenager or not we don't need wife, but we will bring forth children

TheUndercover:
If you encounter a man who is currently a loser but who is working tirelessly and willing to take risks to improve his wretched life, help him out.

On the off chance that he succeeds, he will remember you forever

just months days ago, crypto blow my account
asked my formal roommate for help so i can buy d dip and boost up again, d guy d know my plan and know what i can do with dat money, e say e nor get, (30k) but later transfer 60k for his babe to buy wig..d tin pain me, i almost cry, but nothing wey guyman nor go experience for struggling phase, i nor wish am bad, we are still cool, but that doesn't mean I won't do him back wen necessary

what I'm trying to say is dat, if u don't helpwen u are capable dat nigga will never forget u, u might forget and think all is well..
if u help, same thing..
life can be hard for some us guys, but never look down on ur struggling nigga..

abstain from anything that is a threat to ur mental health, you are still in the process of achieving ur goals, sugar cane da sweet but e nor mean say u go swallow am
call ur girl and talk to her about it that u can't handle her parents bills ..and if it continue might end d relationship...
if a very rich man come now and ask their daughter hand in marriage they will gladly give him their daughter and consider all what u have done as nothing.... wise up man
as a struggling nigga, only ur parents bills nai supposed da bother u,not even d girl u love..

TheUndercover:
It's a shit test question.

Anything you say is good but do not say you just want to be friends with her. She will friendzone you straight out of the box, unless you wanna friendzone her.

I would rather say, "I want to fvck your brains out" (if she's the nasty type) or "I want both of us together doing what couples do" (*with a smirk). She will get the message.

Her response will give you the next step to take. Anything you say, even if she gets annoyed (pretending), DO NOT BE APOLOGETIC. Stand on it and do not be too aggressive also.

wisdom.... thanks man

@Op when a girl ask you
what do you really want from me
what's the best answer to give her so you shouldn't sound as if u are desperate?

i just want to use this medium to appreciate the op... it's not easy compiling the principles of life ...as i was reading through i was smiling and learning more cause i have been applying all dis rules unknowingly...if you wasn't born with a silver spoon and u went into d street of hustling at early age, d street will naturally impact you with these golden rules of life... i discovered at early age that in order to succeed you mustn't play fair..cause generation wealth starts with one theif or a high risk taker.. if u grew up in d street and still don't know some of this rules sorry you must be coward ...once again thank you very much Op.

Clickguy44:
Yea, simply nice points. Lemme add.

21. If she cheats. Forgive her, it's probably your fault. Now go on your knees and beg her to give you one more chance. Increase your affection and love this time. If she cheats again, rinse and repeat this step.

22. Don't ask about her past. It's unfair to ask about her past. Even if her body count is up to 50 and she is for streets. Once you start dating forget about it. She is new now and she has changed. You job is to change a damaged woman, and pay her dowry.

23. Put her on pedestal. Only a real man says yes to all of his woman's desires and he must fulfill it. Be a real man. That's the only reason why he is alive.

24. Always put her goals first. It's wrong of you as a man to put your goals first, that's selfish. Make sure she achieve her purpose first, then you can attempt yours, if she agrees.

25. Believe her no matter what. Girls are always accountable, when she says A she really means it. They always know what they want and go for it. It only unfair of you to doubt her. For example, if you see her chat with other guys, before you get angry ask her, it might just be joke chats.

26. Her problems is yours. The very first day you ask for her phone number should be when you start to perform your duties as a man. If she says she needs a new phone the next day. Provide her the latest, if you don't have borrow. If you don't, you have no business being in a relationship, you're not a real man.

27. A woman has every right to bring another man's child to you and pin it to you. Your job is to take care of the child, untill the supposed deadbeat father comes for the child. You are not to carry out a DNA test, because she is keeping you away from the trauma it can cause you and the child. Don't be an ingrate.

28. It she doesn't pick your call, she is probably busy. If she doesn't return the call, keep trying and text her love messages. If she is online and she doesn't respond she is probably in a business meeting. Drop love emojis. Love doesn't come easy you have to slave for it, this is why you are a man.

29. Only a simp cautions his girl. If she shouts at you, she probably had a bad day. Be a real man and apologize to her. If she nags at you apologize, if she has anger issues, apologize. She loves you. She is the queen of your life.

30. A real man allows his girl to have as many male friends as she wants. They might be business partners or her cousin, or her uncle, or her besty. Girls don't cheat.

Things we do for love, how many can we count in Adepele's teeth.

Lastly avoid The Redpill. It is as fake as the F in Alpha Male. After all the only thing that matters to a man is how to get the pvssy. And if you still didn't get the pvssy, it your fault, you probably missed one or two steps. Come back, reread and reimplement.

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Agbebakun22:
True talk man to man giving tight gan.. Me don stop to dey help my male friends cux wetin those nigga use my eyes see weh I no get money back then for sch.. Hmmm if no be female friends weh I get weh dey help me out with food.. Well Man gat thank God for today sha cux where dem see me put yesterday, today level don mature than yesterday own

i swr, if u get money them go da call u blood blood, if u broke, dem go da withdraw from u, if u mistake ask for help, they go use am mock u for ur back, say na u nor use ur money well.. anyhow sha, on God..the sun will rise again

Agbebakun22:
I don't spend or give my female or male friends money, they tag me stingy even a girlfriend sef I no dey keep. I was gullible back when I was in college, once my pman send me allowance I go carry some of my Gees for hostel to eat lunch or Dinner, spend well for dem but one day that story change till date.. There was a time I was damn broke my family never send me allowance, nothing to feed on, no foodstuff, I met one of my Gee to borrow me #500 to feed on and I will pay with interest with #500 once I received my allowance, baba tell me say e no get anything with him I say okay no yawa, as I dey go na my present e for e for use style give e babe #1000 weh come visit him,I just bone say I no see am since that day I tight my bet, shishi I no dey give both gender again except my mind I just say make I help u.. I wouldn't forget what that guy did to me and na my guy weh me dey do normal give once money show up for me

for sch here wen binance liquidate my money, coins really dip dat Sunday, i told my guy to borrow me 30k, to try again, i will even pay with interests, dis guy say e nor get, but dat same da nai e brother tell me say he transfer 60k give he babe for wig... imagine now, tommorow, my guy go come da tight corner, u go come expect me to help am?.. we know things are difficult, sometimes we guys make it more difficult for ourselves, imagine ur guyman go da tell u say if e never use d update blow, e nor go Share am..

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ea2783:
Mine started very long time ago. I complained to a very that I can hardly last longer, and he suggested I do soapy all the time that it would boost my libido. And that was how the addiction started and still continuing. I do it mostly when I'm alone and sex starved.

I think my case isn't addiction, I just fall back to it and relieve some urge after when I don't see a see partner.

you started masturbating cause you wanna last longer ...did you latter achieved your aim?

lilyheaven:
Report to a nearby police station.
You forced her to go...
Why did she refuse to go earlier?
It will help you gather more information

i don't trust Nigerian police, my fear is that they might detain me

do exercise regularly morning and evening.. kegel exercise precisely. always eat watermelon everyday for 2weeks.. banana too

i haven't met any nairalander before
if you know you are in uniben and lives in ekosodin
let's link up. A girl precisely.
dm on Whatsapp 07045650561

assinozick042:
If u can afford 2k plus, then go buy vigo capsule frm pharmacy shop. Its for proper treatment and nt jst for 1 time use. If u want a very strong tab to last so long then go gett anafranil tab, wanna get best result then take it and wait for like 12 - 24 hours . Rememba the side effect of it.

bro was the latter effect of constant use of this drug...and does it cure p.e..like if u take it today, you don need it for next sex

Account2Many:
but my mind kept telling me that they are so many fishes in the river.
Guy what's the best way to revenge the time wasted, the stress waiting for her and preparing a table for two only to be ignored.
Honestly my ego and dignity is down and I'm so ashamed of myself.
I want to revenge if not for the insults but at least the time wasted and the embarrassment

jst go make more money and forget bout her . u gonna meet someone better than her