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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by bigcee(m): 9:14am On Sep 26, 2021 |
teeshet:Simp? Really? Just like that? Is that how you're raised? Is your father a simp? Oga, don't mention me again. I no dey that level with you. I take God beg you, avoid me. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Ficeo(m): 9:14am On Sep 26, 2021 |
God bless you my sister. Nice articulation. It's only God that is there for us. 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Belawy(m): 9:15am On Sep 26, 2021 |
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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by brownemmanuel43(m): 9:17am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Demigod22:I personally own u palm wine with nkwobi and isiewu Men are facing a lot of challenges, that's why when 2 brothers had issue in their business at the same time accommodation issue, my brother I felt for them, so I only did what I could do by accommodating them first but they will stand on their feet 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by 30naira: 9:23am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: No, it's not that men don't help each other, men hardly ask. We take responsibility for ourselves , work for your own money. That's how we were raised 2 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by MummyD2020(f): 9:25am On Sep 26, 2021 |
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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by 66spirit(m): 9:28am On Sep 26, 2021 |
dammie4j:#Dammie4j I dont know but I think some folks have lost it when it come to helping a bro in need .. I am tired though. I wish I could see help as things are with Me. I need a little push from anyone out there, I want to add up to what I have and start a little biz. Phone accesories biz actually. Tired of asking but if anyone can help I will be grateful. Here is my account with zenith bank.. 2280902324 |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by AbujaCitiBlog: 9:31am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:I have not option but to support what you just said because it is the truth. Men are some of the most foolish creatures God ever made! They hate and fight each other idiotically for female attention like hegoats without sense. A man will idiotically employ a lady with lower qualifications just because she has bigger backside and boobs against a hard-working and by far more brilliant guy! Most men are cursed with foolishness! Women are I million times by far more smarter than most men. They claim they are weak, so that they can keep cashing out from the brutish hegoats!(Men). Infact a typical guy( hegoat) will never compliment a fellow guys but will be trembling with tongue hanging out looking to compliment a lady. Honesty, women are the smarter gender. I am waiting for the hegoats to attack me! Idiots everywhere! 2 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Tzar(m): 9:31am On Sep 26, 2021 |
My dear, almost nobody! Rarely, Siblings help marginally tho! It's tough being a man! Even fellow men will only borrow you money that MUST be paid back at the earliest. The women we break the bank for more often than not just abandon you to your fate. 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Noblewealth(m): 9:33am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Hmm, when am broke and thinking of way out, naso one person go just bring work or make one person from no where just ask why I dey dull like this before you know it alert don enter... Wo, it can only be God |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:35am On Sep 26, 2021 |
ESANMEA: God dey help am spray otapiapia? |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 9:38am On Sep 26, 2021 |
This brought back memories of last year. Was so broke that I didn't know when I started looking for help. Went to a popular church, all the pastors used me to catch cruise. Not 1 Kobo did anyone give to me. Hmm! 2020, it should never be well with you. 3 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Benzemma(m): 9:46am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Emmadoc: It is very hard for men to help their fellow men these days when it involves money, why because some men has taken that foolish position from girls. Some guys will tell you they don't have Shishi even to eat, but when their Shima came visiting them, the money will mysteriously appear in their pocket. I stay with two guys, though they Accommodate me for me to get my own room, but always the time if I tell them let's contribute and cook, they will complain of been so broke that nothing is in their hand, but the same person will go out that day and buy biscuits and malt when their girls came. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ojasweb(m): 9:49am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: I think it is not exactly as you say. Though you have some points and i agree to some extent. However, what i observed is that most men even from age 18, already have a woman that they think their responsibility is to take care of. And because of this thought, if they have some money and their girlfriends and male friends ask, they will rather give to the lady. Not actually because they don't love their male friends but for a couple of reasons; 1. The majority of the male friends will not automatically see you as a bad person just for not BORROWING them money, but most ladies will see you as a bad person for not GIVING them. 2. The male friends will not broke shame you for not borrowing them. The majority of the females will tender your situation as a topic for discussion, broke shame you and even use your situation to mock you. They might even tell it to your face that they are looking for a capable man that can give them more money while you broke person should get out of their lives. 3. The society have make it look like it is only the females that need help. Hence, the subconscious minds will oftentimes convince "some guys" that the male friends can survive without the help. Too bad. 4. There's another common behaviour among some guys - they immediately think that the help you are asking for is either to fund your babes or to spend on your lavish lifestyle. Most people don't see ladies using the latest iPhone, expensive hair and bags as lavish. They see it as classy for the ladies, and it doesn't stop them from getting help, rather draws more help to most of them. But when a guy is living such lifestyle, most people won't believe that you can ever go broke. There are many underlying factors, but let's just keep it this short. 2 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Erys(m): 9:51am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: I'm proud of the parents that gave birth to you and raised you. I've been reading all your comments and I can say, your wisdom precedes you. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Ajofiapero(m): 9:55am On Sep 26, 2021 |
[quote author=Demigod22 post=106136869]Fpood for thought. Men are going through a lot, especially in Nigeria that our ladies have commercialized relationship. The entire family is looking up to the man, his girlfriend, his own needs. [color=#990000][/color]this must be coming from Papa Prince Will |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by davealvaro: 9:58am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Agbebakun22:for sch here wen binance liquidate my money, coins really dip dat Sunday, i told my guy to borrow me 30k, to try again, i will even pay with interests, dis guy say e nor get, but dat same da nai e brother tell me say he transfer 60k give he babe for wig... imagine now, tommorow, my guy go come da tight corner, u go come expect me to help am?.. we know things are difficult, sometimes we guys make it more difficult for ourselves, imagine ur guyman go da tell u say if e never use d update blow, e nor go Share am.. 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Benzemma(m): 9:59am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Agbebakun22:. That's why I said some boys and girls are equal in foolishness. Your fellow man ask you lend him some money that he will pay back, (lending oo not dashing) you claimed you don't have it, but foolishly dash it to someone that will still take it and give the person she loves that you don't even know. Is that not penny wise, pound foolish? That how my own guy claimed he didn't have Shishi to contribute for our cooking, but when his girlfriend came that same day, he mysteriously had some change to buy biscuit and malt for her. 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:02am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Real men hustle. Some men do Bobrisky |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ultimateprof: 10:02am On Sep 26, 2021 |
An intelligent man help his friends today because of unforseen circumstances ahead, there is no way all his friends will dessert him in time of trouble. This is how we survive when we're broke. 3 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Goldbw122(m): 10:04am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Well it is good to have multiple income and source of hustling, as a man. Right from school I have knew that, to be a man you need to be smart to hustle legitimately because if you don't you will fall into the illegal way and that will be pretty bad but the society will still smile at you. Yes they will they will always smile that you gotten money from a Bad place but money is money as the society will have it. So as a man. You need to have some one to even borrow from like a back up, from your relative, friends and many more important people in your life, but you just have to pay back.. that is how it is.. To be a man you don't ask your wife for money always, if she gives you the money, you have to return it double times to her. That is how she will respect you yeah.. if not there will be a problem. To be a man is not easy. 4 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by greypencils: 10:10am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:It is easy to share money because you didn't work for it. If we don't give you women money because we are helping our fellow men, you will complain, You vagina people what do you want? What do bitches really want from we Niggas? |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Demigod22: 10:11am On Sep 26, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43: You did well bro, may God bless you abundantly. You will never fall. It is good for us to support each other in every little way we can. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ogkrakkid(m): 10:11am On Sep 26, 2021 |
dammie4j:God bless u bro. Those females out here ain't it at all. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Demigod22: 10:12am On Sep 26, 2021 |
[quote author=Ajofiapero post=106181674][/quote] Hahahaha, I never born o, I am still a student. But seriously, man is going through a lot. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ogkrakkid(m): 10:12am On Sep 26, 2021 |
ESANMEA:Chai lmfao u don kill ur client dem. It is well. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 10:16am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: You should write a book sis. As a girl whenever I am broke, somehow , magically my girlfriends always come through, apart from them and my dad no one else, that's why when I hear about women not supporting women and how they are stingy to themselves I never get it. Its not like I write on my head that I'm broke or I go around telling them but if they do find out, I'm saved, maybe its the species of girls I hang around with but I definitely love being friends with most of my friends, and its opposite for me i can never ask a guy for anything and they agree to help me without anything attached, it has never happened apart from my dad, I'm already used to it so I don't bother myself, highest for the girls is that I also come through but there's been some friends who give you simply to exploit you , its why you shouldn't accept favors from just any lady, my ex roommate will give you 500h just to take 5k worth of stuff from you and i found it hard to speak up coz i once took something from her , I don't believe in that stupid bro code, na man dey do man pass 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by siofra(f): 10:19am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Promzy99: Mtchew, shift. |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by siofra(f): 10:20am On Sep 26, 2021 |
teeshet: If I use my pussy then they are not dashing me again na. I'm exchanging something. 2 Likes |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by NaijaCover(m): 10:26am On Sep 26, 2021 |
No Be Small Thing |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ESANMEA(f): 10:32am On Sep 26, 2021 |
MrNipplesLover:Yes nau, na wise saying 1 Like |
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Karemarealty288(m): 10:32am On Sep 26, 2021 |
Man stand with God ....while Woman stand behind man(Trading by bata)
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