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Webmasters › Re: Get The Best Graphic Designs by davenaija(op): 3:12pm On Apr 16, 2019

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:50pm On Apr 16, 2019

So many emotional and character underdeveloped men in this generation. I feel sorry for ladies. Psychiatry would be bae in years to come from these glaring pointers

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:44pm On Apr 16, 2019

goodnewscliff:
if ur patner act stupidly in matters like this,,, and u could keep ur cool,, then be cool!!!!!! goes both ways with a naggy and useless wife!!!!! if everyone reacts to every action,, then u re both stupid and senseless!!!!!! if one is hot,, its wise for the other to be cool it not necessarily a gender thing!!!! use discretion wen quoting me next time or u regret it!!!!!

The energy that belies the comment speaks volumes. I pass IJN. Can't lose my lid over you, never cheesy

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:31pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Lol na so now. Can’t you see weak men everywhere nowadays. Men wey know say gf Dey do olosho and dem go still Dey advise her Dey form she needs me at this moment

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:22pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
No too much weak men will cause so many psychological problems. That’s why you keep seeing questions from weak men like can i forgive my cheating wife because she has never cheated on me before

Chairman.

Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:11pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Maybe people have been saying it but I’m not narssisstic

You've just confirmed it wink

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:10pm On Apr 16, 2019

UyaiIncomparabl:
He's both. An egotist will always have a trace of narcissism in him/her.

Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 2:08pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Yes it’s the abusive words i don’t support

You're egotistical, but you're getting close to beingnarcissitic, I hope you know.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:59pm On Apr 16, 2019

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes she did. One reason women should stop being emotional! Her emotional state covered the whole bane of her logic, thus making a wrong decision.

Ladies are now becoming less emotional and colder than men. If this my Akata babe fumble, straight to surrogacy.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:56pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
My point is there are so many people like the ops husband when it comes to household chores and I’m one of them

Me too, but doesn't mandate I can't. Or that I won't lend a hand. cheesy

my babe is a Canadian-Nigerian though. Despite she being oyinbo, I maintain my stance, but would easen the burden of work for her.

Was the chores the only thing you saw?

Any man that abusively control is wife is that not trying to Lord it covertly over her stylishly, psychologically, inducing low self esteem in his wife?

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:53pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Lol well to me that’s my own believe and that’s how I’m made

Ever heard of mental fracture. Or stalemate? You need to relax. Your pent-up energy is deeply rooted in unhealthy fear of losing control not leading the way. We all suffer from this feeling but don't let it consume you

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:52pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
In marriage, i come first and by so, i can’t loose myself

Power tussle, many marriages don't survive this phase.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:51pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Well i can’t inconvenience myself because of that and i believe so many people are also like that

Yet again " self"

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:46pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Well i can’t inconvenience myself because of that and i believe so many people are also like that

Once again self. You lose yourself the moment you marry. In a healthy marriage though.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:43pm On Apr 16, 2019

Jen92:
I agree.!! Well said!

You're too kind. We need more family oriented threads on Fp. Whoever knows these guys should spread the word. Thx

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:43pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
Well to me, a man is not supposed to do all those things. If the chores are too much, the wife can get a maid

This is a combative mental posture. A man can't, a woman should. Flexibility is key just standing around the kitchen while she cooks help them bond. If this alone is done, hope you know she won't complain. Plus both of them can gossip. These days gossips helps in bonding. grin

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:41pm On Apr 16, 2019

Jen92:
Well said... you couldn't have said it better. All these uneducated men need EDUCATION!

Men learn from their fathers, one way or the other, an absentee father or an abusive father. Men desiring to enter marriages must unlearn all they took from their dads, process it and choose and decide their own paths and not repeat their father's lifestyle in their marriages.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:37pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
No he doesn’t. He washes his clothes only. He doesn’t do any house chores.

Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:37pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
No he doesn’t. He washes his clothes only. He doesn’t do any house chores.

Self preservance, self centered Ness, selfishness. Too much of self. Men should lend their wives a hand, it reduces the psychological weight load of the work. Trust me,

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:33pm On Apr 16, 2019

This is glaring incompatibility issues though. Its either both go through it, around it, over it or under it. Some way the differences have to be processed. Husband has to calm, rather should be less irritated. Love conquers in the end, if there's healthy love, a multitude of errors can be overlooked if both sides meet at the middle. The burden of relationships musnt rest on just one party, nope. It becomes monotonous, stressful, irritating, unenjoyable causing stress, strain fatigue and psychological imbalance typical of unhealthy environment.

Bottomline, if there's love and a resolve to build and defend the marriage, nothing can break such a union. This home may have an appearance of peace, both the couple don't have a healthy bond.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 1:30pm On Apr 16, 2019

Samshumy:
If he starts doing chores now, anytime he stops, the wife would nag. So it’s better he doesn’t do any chores apart from his clothes alone

How you expect a married man to be doing household chores is what i don’t understand. This is Nigeria and not America or Canada

Not do as in duty, but as an emotional relief. Every married man does this, ask your dad.

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Family › Re: urg by davenaija: 12:57pm On Apr 16, 2019

goodnewscliff:
i dont wanto type much..... buhhh....

LOOK FOR WAYS TO CHANGE UR HUSBAND.....!!!!!!!
U MUST NOT ALWAYS TALK BACK
U MUST NOT ALWAYS SHOUT BACK!!!!
i know its not easy buhh its ur marriage we talking of here with kids involved!!!!!
be reasonable by all means.... give it time!!!!! ur husband could change for the better!!!!!

Must not always talk back eh. Should men not master their emotional trigger and responses? Using the wife as a channel of outlet for unprocessed anger doesn't it show it vividly that the husband is emotionally unbalanced and immature?

Please. This is how we blame all marital problems on women. So much so that in scenarios when men are innocent no one believes them. Put your thinking hat on please

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macmil89:
So quick of him

You're funny

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