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sistawoman is simply saying it like it is. Treat a man like a king and u'll get the best out of your marriage. Try and wrestle the controls of the ship from him and u'd soon have Somalian pirates on board.

women submit haba! No be fight now.

Pepeye:
There re those who think the days of miracles are over and they tell people the same, destroying any hope they might have in Christ

Without mincing words the bible says Jesus is the same yesterday today and forever. Why would you think Jesus cannot do the same miracle he did several years ago?

Aunty pepeye, let me remind you again for the 10th time. The issue is not unbelief in miracles, we believe that Christ still heals today . . . the problem is simple - Are the "miracles" in your church staged?

Aunty pepeye, you need to read your bible.

Pepeye:
@ AKO

Far be it from me to criticize, make any form of analytic judgment on any man or children of God, I leave that for the accuser of the brethren; that’s his work lol

That’s what I call spiritual wisdom sorry to disappoint you

Aunty pepeye, you have not been studying. The job of the body of Christ is to be vigilant and watchful. Was Brother Paul an accuser of the brethren when he criticized Peter? Was he an accuser of the brethren when he reprimanded John Mark? Was he an accuser of the brethren when he turned over hymeneuas to the devil for heresy?

Was Peter an accuser of the brethren when he rightly judged Ananias and Saphira for lying against the Holy Ghost?

Sorry ma, you have not exhibited "spiritual wisdom" but carnal knowledge cloaked in religious hypocrisy.

Aunty pepeye, you need to read your bible.

Pepeye:
@ David

The pure in heart is the one who sees God in everything. He lives on the positive side of life. Believes the best of everyone and everything he sees not engrossed in negative sides, doesn’t have a warped sense of thinking not engulfed with bitterness nor prone to casting aspersions

1. The bible is not psychology . . . christians are supposed to be Christ-like not live on the positive side of life. For we are in this world but NOT OF this world.

2. A christian is not to "believe the best of everyone", if not Christ would not have called the pharisees a generation of vipers neither would he have told us to try every spirit.

Pepeye:
They’re so well versed in casting stones; always compounding issues. They live in acute sense of unbelief

Speaking against iniquity, just like John the Baptist did is not equivalent to unbelief. We indeed believe the bible, we just dont believe your pastor represents Christ.

Pepeye:
That’s unlike the bro who is pure in heart; he looks at people from the perspective of the spirit and sees God in them. Inother words sees the beauty of God in them

God looked at the heart of David's brothers . . . He didnt see inner beauty in their.

Pepeye:
matt 5:8 “Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God”

They act like Jesus who didn’t condemn the woman caught in the act of adultery (John 8:3-11) albeit Jesus didn’t agree with the woman’s lifestyle but he saw the good in her.

See the God- side of life always, for that’s the way Jesus is!

The woman caught in adultery confessed her sin and was repentant . . . for indeed the bible says ONLY THOSE can find mercy. Those who perpetuate lies against the Holy Ghost while hiding under "touch not my anointed" are not covered under your mountain of incomprehensible distortion of the bible.

Aunty pepeye, you need to read your bible.

Pepeye:
The worth of a man is measured by the greatness of his adversaries. You measure a man’s importance by the power of his resistance; however the man that God will use will definitely collide with powerful forces because the message in his mouth will be resisted

- That is psychology and is not found anywhere in your bible.

- The bible says "not of him that willeth nor of him that runneth but God showeth mercy". How then is the measure of a man's importance determined by the power of his resistance? What of brother Stephen who was stoned to death? What of brother James who was beheaded for the gospel's sake? Where they men of unimportance because they had little resistance?
Elijah fled from Jezebel . . . was he unimportant?

Pepeye:
The prophets of old were seriously persecuted, the apostles were striped naked, flogged and stoned, some were even killed, but they rejoiced in all these because they made God’s Word effective and obeyed His voice

The Lord Jesus Christ was also rejected and wasn’t received by His own, so goes to the great men of God.

Heb 6:12 “followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises”

Your "pastor" is not being persecuted because of Christ, he is being rightfully exposed for being a wolf misleading the flock. By their fruits ye shall know them.

Aunty pepeye, you need to read your bible.

Pepeye:
Basically the healing ministry has always faced serious persecutions and if you ‘re involved in it u better be ready to catch some flak!

From people who profess to know God, the Pharisees and sadducees didn’t criticize themselves; they criticized Jesus because of His miracles. They got envious of Him and tried to discredit Him. Apparently it’s the same old story

Suffice it to say people criticize because they don’t understand the healing ministry or the Power of God

they didnt criticize Jesus because of "miracles" . . . the pharisees were well accustomed to miracles from the times of Joshua, Moses, Elijah, Elisha . . . rather they accused Jesus of - blasphemy (making Himself equal with God).
Where they EVER "criticized Jesus for miracles it was for performing them on the sabbath day.

he ebat u in ur friend's presence? Yeah just go on luffing him.

Na females dey lie pass. they have to worry about a biological clock ticking. . . if you tell a potential husband that u're 28-30 he will just vaporise.

the thread don reach page 8?  
the women no go let us hear word again. Intransigent set of ribs the Lord has created.

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]2day na my relaxation day jare, if not i won't be online.
babe you too much, 100% correct, no be that nonsense Sista dey yawn [/size]

Dreamland.

RichyBlacK:
The problem may be English o. Some people don't know the meaning of the word "slave", hence they throw it around trying to scare impressionable young ladies.

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to your husband!

dont mind J-girl, she must have followed India's new rocket to the moon.

No be dis planet she dey.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=197499.msg3109506#msg3109506 date=1227121198]LOL! I don't blame you. My husband won't mind. I know. [/quote]that husband you've been creating in ur sweet dreams abi? U too like sleep . . . wake up.

KarmaMod:
You're 20 years older than me.

Better start your life else you will be like those men who are already using a cane when the kid is done with highschool not to talk of college

afi 4 wives naa. alajenu.

Make una go marry first jare . . . too much argument.

See small girls dey claim feminist.   If dem see trouble now na under bed you go find them.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=197499.msg3109466#msg3109466 date=1227120727]@ trooe, you have more time that I do.

What rubbish am I reading on this thread? I always tell anyone that cares to listen that I'm a feminist. Submission is not a word in my dictionary. Compromise is more like it. How can my husband tell me to go and do something and I will act like a mugun and do it regardless of whether it's senseless or not? No man wants a doormat for a wife. Any man who wants that is a complete coward. It's better to have a woman who is not afraid to have and voice her own opinions.

As for cooking, we will compromise on that. I have no problem feeding my husband till his stomach pops out. My problem lies in the fact that he won't appreciate it or think it's my job to do it. Don't get me wrong. I will cater to my man but the feminist in me will also realize that I need to be catered to once in a while too.
If a man can put his career over his family because he feels that his wife is holding things down at home, who's the real boss of the house?
If any of you cared to listen, Obama praises Michelle like there's no tomorrow. I have never heard more adoration in a man's voice. Michelle is a strong woman and she's not a slave to him like most Nigerian men would want us to be. Most of you need to listen to what the man says about Michelle before you start calling her submissive all because she's carrying a flower.[/quote]You need to start a new website - www.hotair.org  

When you get married please type this and give ur husband, tell us the results.

KarmaMod:
How about you get married before you judge other people's marriages?

you've been screaming Somalian fiancee for the past 7 years

na uncle Richy you dey yab so?  

sistawoman:
my opinion matters but the final decison rests on his shoulders as the head of the house and what he says goes. There can not be two heads, one person has to be responsible for those things, at least that is how i was raised and how i function now. When the shit hits the fan he has to fix it too, so with that power comes responsibility and a real man wont buck under that presure but will welcome it.

I would never ever expect my husband to serve vistors that come into our home, i would feel embarrassed and would for sure chop off his head in private if he ever stepped into my terrorty to do that.

I would never feel comfortable with my husband serving me a plate of food, unless i was sick.

Does that make me a slave, I don't think so, i just know my place in my marriage and my worth in his heart.

Karmamod and Trooe pls learn from a married woman.

tRoOE:
[size128pt]LOL but there is a limit
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limit to what? Abeg be submissive to your husband joo before you start claiming "In Jesus name".

sistawoman:
This is a misnomer that really bothers me.

for me it works like this, I work, your ass should work too.

I want to build something WITH my mate not build something FOR my mate.  I want you to come to the table with something to offer.  So if that makes me money hungry because I ask what kind of job do you have, do you have good credit, do you own your own home, what are your 1 year, 5 year, 15 year and 20 year goals, how much money do you earn in yearly salary; then i guess i am money hungry.

But on the flip side of that i have A1 credit, own my own home, have a really great salary, have 1yr,5yr,15yr,20yr goals and I just want someone to share that with to build with that on.  We can go so much further, so much faster if both of us are working toward a common goal.

pretty nice soundbite but it misses the KEY ingredient in marriage . . . unselfish love. What's wrong with building something FOR my mate? What if ur mate somehow couldnt help with family finances for unknown reasons . . . u'll chuck him out and find someone else to build WITH?

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]even if things change, it will for the better not worse in Jesus name!!Amen[/size]

Even Jesus said you shld be submissive to ur husband.

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]@the sex lmfao, very funny
the % of white ladies marrying blacks is very small, so the marriage lasting 10yrs is out of the window[/size]

you must be living on a parallel planet.

RichyBlacK:
The in-da-closet feminazis would be up in arms if told to "carry the pot and walk behind your husband"! Obama my guy!!!

that's if she didnt bang the pot on his poor head first.

tope2000:
I don't have any qualms with interracial dating, i mean you can't help who you fall in love with. Hmmm well i think some of guys don't know what they want because i think they are some black women out there who can take care of themselves without any man's help but not all u guys like INDEPENDENT WOMAN . I remember a thread about this a while ago, most guys thinks they are arrogant and proud and yet they are some guys complaining all a black woman want is MONEY.

ALL men like independent women but not ALL men are interested in the black woman's idea of an "independent" woman.

Loud, aggressive, hyperactive, occassionally rude, not willing to follow her husband's lead . . . are not characteristics of an independent woman. And no we dont want such women.

tope2000:
Yes black women may have attitude but not all
White women are easily attracted towards black guys because they find black males to be stronger both psychically and emotionally. Some white women love dating black guys because they feel protected in the company of such guys. Every girl wants her man to be strong both psychically and emotionally. This is why white girls are interested in maintaining a relationship with black guys, which is prolly why they stick by u guys even when shudnt have

Bogus claim alert!  

white guys are equally physically strong (seen those wrestlers?) and are even more romantic than black guys so . . . out goes ur claim.

Why do you think white girls shouldnt stick to black guys?  

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]So me not bowing down for him is a problem heheheh thank God he doesn't think like your.
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You wait until you get married. you're still at the "everything is all rosy" stage.

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]Heheh what attitude, because I stood up to you, you should be lucky it was e-slap and not real one
Do you really think white women want to settle down with your black men, they are just doing it for the sex
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Sex with you must suck then considering white guys dont want to be with you.

That aside, your claim is bogus . . . many loving interracial families springing up everyday . . . wow its hard to see a 10yr marriage based on sex alone.

tope2000:
Was i expecting you to agree with me - No
Maybe its a gross misconception or not, this sh.it happens anyways. u know it  n i know it
Black men too also date white women beacuse they don't have to give, infact they would be the be one receiving.

It happens but it doesnt mirror all interracial relationships. A large portion of them are genuine loving relationships and is not about the poor white chic taking nonsense no one else is prepared to take. Seems to be the consolation for a lot of black women.

Your claim in bold is sometimes true . . . perhaps why some black men are more comfortable with white women, they are ready to take you for who you are, penniless or not. Black women are simply looking for a huge pay day.

KarmaMod:
let me see

No problem . . .  

Tope likes Djimon's body? You know why the guy is dating a halfcaste? He thot of how his kids would look too  

tope2000:
Why is that when black woman doesnt accpet the non-sense that white women gladly accept from black men then she has an attitude and not submissive.
I mean wassup with that

this is a gross misconception. White women dont accept nonsense and black men dont give them either . . . its the cliched excuse you people always give that is no longer tenable. White women are just as hotheaded as black women except they are way more patient and willing to ride through anything with you.

Most black women you meet are more interested in what they can benefit from you.

tRoOE:
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Can someone e-slap him for me
What kind of nonsense are you yawning, I hate that word **submissive***, are African women slaves, you better wake up and start smelling the coffee, things are changing and the women are taking over
No woman i repeat, no woman should ever bow for her husband.
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God help your marriage. Say amen.

I agree with you . . . the guy has made up his mind but its taking him a long while to get over her.
The girl just gotta beg if not the guy is as good as gone.

Anger na bad thing true true. I can imagine how the guy felt seeing his stuff on the front lawn of his house. He probably didnt sleep a wink that night.