₦airaland Forum

tope2000:
Lmao . . . . . . . ofcos not
Do you know there are many working from home jobs now?
I can always do that

lets be honest with ourselves. you wont be doing anything of the sort when the time comes.

tope2000:
Lmao
That was what i thought too
But i have always hated the the idea of taking my child to nanny esp with child abuse thing going around
i want to bring my children up with myself so if that means i have take a career break for a while, i will

that excuse wont fly again. You can pursue an active career and raise ur kids well at the same time. Besides lots of dads now want to be hands-on so you get plenty of help.
You dont need a nanny, 1-2 kids at a time and you shld be able to handle them easily.

What would you do at home all day when the kids are sleeping? Watching Oprah?

this railway workers don come.

Na to "derail" threads na im be their main work.

JJYOU:
bro david stop saying things like this.  you mean you didnt see any being forced at gun point into these banks.  one of my freind told me one day if he reincarnated  he would like to come as a woman. when i asked why  his answer was that these girls get the equivalent of his salary as gifts right left and center.  he is by the way a senior regional banker. if will copy this thing to him. he will just laugh

my brother, a lot of us have become so americanised that we have time to cry about "exploitation".
Na because of this chics a lot of guys get posted outside major towns because the "oga's" have already enjoyed free "back for ground" from the chics seeking plum positions to elite banks.

dated Bianca's cousin some time ago . . . that girl was stunning . . . tall and cute. Must run in their family.

tope2000:
Well luckily i don't work in a naija bank
I for one have always said if i should get married, i will still continue with my career as normal but immediately i become preggo am going part-time [say like 10-3pm]then if i give birth i am taking a break until my child is old enough to be in full time primary school then i can resume back to to work but still as a part time worker.

I think with that i will have time for my kids and husband but say if my husband is stinkingly rich then i don't have any qualms in staying at home, there are still some businesses I can do by at home because i don't want to be bored or unhappy either.

this one na old school. Most men expect their wives to be corporate women . . . not stay at home, wrapper-wearing glorified housegirls.

Kweenisha:
I can bet you there are girls out there who have done the exact same thing to get jobs at NEPA and water works sef.
Should women be banned from the workforce or should there be laws in place to protect them from exploitation?

You've been in America for so long . . . things have changed since then.

Those girls arent complaining, no one is exploiting them. they willfuly chose to put themselves in that situation.

lawyer:
To the best of my knowledge, i don't know any chick that has slept with anybody to get a job in Nepa as a corper, so forgive my ignorance there. Secondly, what is your defination of exploitation when a chick does everything possible to use her female attributes to sleep her way to get a job in a bank for financial security? Nobody is advocating that what men do to sleep with women to get favours is a good thing that should be encouraged but c'mon there are alot of decent and respectable chicks out there that have achieved greatness and success through their academic intelligence and innate skills. Unfortunately, that % is few and the rest would do anything possible to sleep their way through to Aso Rock.

Corper females are the easiest bait and these same females know that by using their feminine power, they can scale through anything. Just walk into any NYSC camp and interview 90% of the girls there and ask where they would likely prefer to work during their service year. Female lawyers, doctors, engineers, artists, dramatist and a host of others would tell you what i am saying. Also conduct a one on one girl to girl talk and ask them if they don't get the job through their intelligence but can get it through seduction or sex, if they would still take the bank job. The answer would not come as a shocker to you.

In fact, if you compare the salaries female corpers get in banks, you wouldnt see any marginal difference in their replies. Before the recapitalization of banks and before the mouth watering perks of the new generation banks, female corpers loathed the idea of working in a bank because they were old school and didnt give them the oportunity to flex their assets. The trend was to sleep their way through oil companies or big companies, now banks are the in thing and an added advantage is the opportunity to market and get to know more big men or guys to make their target.

It has nothing to do with exploitation, but the mindset of girls (especially female corpers) to eat their cake and have it no matter the cost!

If that's not corporate prostitution, then i don't know what that means anymore!

thank you. I also served some 3 yrs ago and it was the same thing.
The girls arent complaining to be honest . . . Go to the NYSC secretariat after the postings and see girls scrambling to get reposting letters to banks. no one forced them.

Kweenisha:
He should go after them then or ask the females to report exploitations.
Isn't that a better policy?

Nigeria is not the USA.
How does mr chairman go after the banks? Private banks for that matter.

1. Are the females willing to report exploitation? All because of N7,500?

2. Report to who anyway? The police?

this omoge sef i don vex for am. Her school na 5 mins away from my house o yet she dey play hide and seek.

Omoge peperempe, i don disown you.

nana:
What if she can't afford to pay for plastic surgery?

then she go manage am like that o.

Its not the chairman's fault, its the fault of exploitative banks.

My advice for those who are abroad . . . arm yourself with as much degrees and work experience that will stand you way above your peers in Nigeria. While doing that pls and pls look for business connections in Nigeria. Its a waste of time thinking you can live on your foreign salary alone.

After a few yrs get a good job possibly in a foreign company in Nigeria . . . there are many and go back home to live in peace. I dont fancy spending 30yrs paying mortgage on a home that wont ever be mine.

Muza:
this forum is polluted with tribalists

Your country is ruled by tribalists who preach the message of "one nigeria" with their lips and for percuniary benefits only. But for "one nigeria" you'd be a rebel leader in Niger or Chad.

debosky:
They have come again - the perpetual feed people versus have an event dilemma

Do any of the commentators have any idea what the show will encompass? Why are we so eager to pass hurried judgment?

Have you sought information as to how it can or will save anyone before passing judgment?

Debo i beg to disagree with you . . . it is another senseless christian jamboree that has no eternal value for the millions who are going PRIMARILY for the entertainment value. Its sad that emotional frenzy has replaced genuine conviction in the church today.

No wonder even the websites refers to the music "ministers" who would be "performing" as ARTISTES.

How the church has slowly become the den of merchants.

Kweenisha:
The number of tribal marks thread on nairaland is becoming alarming.
@ poster, learn to accept yourself.It was the ignorance of your family members but it's not the end of the world.
Look at the singer Seal who I think is sexy,he has 2 horrible scars on both cheeks but he didn't let it stop him.
Those who love you will love you and those who don't won't.
Why worry about what you may not be able to change?

I don';t have tribal marks but I'm sure there are people who view me differently because I'm a black woman.
There's nothing you cannot achieve,irrespective of the marks.
Hold your head up high and aim for greatness.Don't let the marks on your face,the color of your skin,your accent or your height,weight define you.
Get a good education and strive to excel in your field and gain mastery and respect in your little area.
You don't have to hide.There's a whole big world out there,don't let time pass you by.

Queen all this one na story.
1. Seal is a multimillionaire singer, if he were just a poor naija fellow Heidi Klum would never have married him.

2. I can understand Funky's situation . . . very few men (especially based abroad) would be willing to risk being seen with a woman with tribal marks for wife, again especially depending on the kind of men Funky is interested in.

3. Funky, try out plastic surgery as a last resort.

Muza:
Na the cars wey we dey drive be your prob?
We can't drive hummer,GMC,Phantom, Ferrari,etc because,
we don't do militancy,kidnapping,bunkering,blood money,419,Armed robbery,, etc

You dont need to. Your brodas are busy stealing all the money in the corridors of power no thanks to the parasitic constitution.

But for oil u'll be a Nigerien without access to the internet.

JJYOU:
bro david what suggest this guy is a minister?

At least that's what he calls himself on facebook. He's got loads of clips on his various "sermons" and "outreaches" there.
Initially i thot he was a biblically sound minister and would listen to a few of his clips but later . . .

Carlosein:
david, i find the above rather amusing.

one question: is it possible for anything not expressly written in the bible to be correct?

your "question" is based on the fact that your own false faith is largely dependent on extra-biblical heresy.

The Berean christians searched where to determine whether Paul's doctrines where true? You guessed it - the scriptures!

Bastage:
@DavidDylan.
Come on, you're reaching. Richard Smalley a devout Christian? Yeah. For the last year of his life.
Walter Kohn is totally at odds with his Catholic faith and the Vatican on the issue of birth control (a pretty big one, you'd have to agree). He's way more of a theist than a "devout Christian".
Pascal? 400 years ago. I'm not even going to bother with that one. Suffice to say he wasn't a "devout Christian" but a "heretical" Jansenist.
Do I really need to go through the other couple of names that you've given? And come on. If Christianity is the be-all and end-all like you state that it is, you should be able to come up with the names of thousands of these "great men" of devoutness.

The fact is, you can't. You're talking crap again. One or two names of people who can easily be shown not to be "devout" Christians makes your argument even less credible.

We've seen this game too many times before. Its the desperate need to force the false idea that great thinkers and scientists could not have been christians. We all know that your "argument" false flat on its face.

The real FACT is that i provided evidence to back up my claim while you just go around weeping and calling such evidence that puts you to shame "crap".

If indeed one or two names of people shown to be not devout christians makes my argument less credible then the way longer list of those who are indeed known to be devout christians puts your argument to shame

Richard Smalley was a christian the last yr of his life and so what? That is even more astounding that a man with so much knowledge could still at the end realise that without God he was nothing but a candidate of hell.

What has Walter Kohn's belief on birth control to do with his christian faith? Does the bible tell us anything about birth control? So because i am at odds with my pastor as to who whether men should sag their jeans automatically nullifies my faith?

Blaise Pascal . . . 400 yrs ago and so what?

My guy your idiocy is shocking.

As for Chris . . . i no fit shout. That guy has no capacity to reason beyond spewing the same old tired nonsense.

Another case of guilty until proven innocent.

When is Bendtner to be sold?

Nda Aloy (my mom's uncle's name) . . . Agu na eche igbo 1

I comot hat for you. thanks for the vote of confidence.

Pastor PLC:
mess your mother smelling ass-hole. slowpoke like you. For including my name there, you are stupid.

no be u ask for list?  Why u vex now?
You don cement your position now on that list. Na only 4 spots remain.

Even Angola is asking for such stuff to grant a visa to their country?
what next will the embassy of Niger ask us to bring?

you are the one who has the choice to make. Grow some steel and tell your "family and friends" you choose to stand by your decision not to waste money on such frivolities.

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3182960#msg3182960 date=1228431455]So the Jews kept the New Testament?[/quote]what of the old testament? The Italian usurpers who call themselves catholics today wrote and kept them?
Much of the New Testament was written by Jews. It stands to reason many of these people must have kept copies for themselves to preserve.

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3182960#msg3182960 date=1228431455]Oga if anything, you should know that Genesis is sacred tradition. Did Adam, Eve, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Jospeh, and all write what happened to them, did they write Genesis?[/quote]Whose tradition? roman catholic tradition? Why are the roma catholics so gungho about essentially Jewish history? why are they the ones now telling Jews what Genesis means?

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3182960#msg3182960 date=1228431455]The Bible is sacred tradition, stay there deluding yourself.[/quote]Based on what facts? Stay there deluding urself.

arramyjay:
Because he is the one out of the two that has a problem with it.

If he's the one with the problem then he shld be doing the changing, not forcing others to change to suit his own desire. Or best he can find a muslim girl.