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seduction is not wearing clothes so tight you cant breath.
Seduction is not sending generic texts you copied from a friend who copied from a friend who copied from the internet.
Seduction is not moping like a hungry cat.
Seduction is not splashing paint . . . sorry makeup . . . on your face like a 5yr old.
Seduction is not acting like a housegirl to impress me.

Pls can someone remind naija women to learn to wear their sizes instead of their baby clothes? That isnt seduction, its stupidity.

eldee:
I'm still trying to imagine how a Naija chic will look at you if you suggest a home-made food picnic  

the long throats would just move on to the next available dude.   Of course after eating ur food.

[quote author=Dark_Rxn link=topic=196446.msg3096307#msg3096307 date=1226874143]And Naija men are the most fun one to be with?

They don't even know sarcasm, they're so stiff, no joke, no thing. Naija men annoy the crap out of me. No lie! [/quote]don't blame them . . . when we get sarcastic all we get in return is a stream of invectives in yoruba.  

MrCrackles:
And hair extensions!!

you mean those annoying things they wear on their heads with the roots of their "real" hair sticking out like a sore thumb?  

eldee:
Oh ma dayzz . . . the way they do it, one would think they came to your house to drink coffee
They've been trained to believe that being frigid is a virtue . . . they never want sex when you do

its not even about the sex . . . the typical naija woman thinks a date = silverbird galleria and mr. biggs.

KarmaMod:
If you havent noticed, Naija women are now marrying non Naija dudes. Same with Naija men

so what's the problem?

Naija men marrying non-naija women are in the vast majority. Its a sign we really dont need naija women all that much. Thank God naija women are now doing so . . . we'd have less of threads such as this. Bye bye . . .  

KarmaMod:
Luckily for you guys homosexuality is gaining popularity in Naija.

Na by force?

Why be a homosexual when there are women of other nationalities around?

My question is this - if Nigerian men indeed cannot seduce why dont Nigerian women try Congolese men for size? We wont miss you.  

1. must you have a trad wedding?

2. No matter how busy a man is, it is no excuse to refuse to grant your wife the one day of her life she would cherish forever.

Nigerian men this, Nigerian men that . . . . same ol' same ol'.

Nigerian women look great before marriage and crap after marriage.
Nigerian women spot cellulite on their bellies and thighs and expect you to still see them as sexy.

Droopy boobs, poor dress sense, forever tired, lacking in bedroom initiative, always nagging . . .

and yet its the nigerian man that cant seduce?  

Truth be told, when you see some nigerian women you'd rather seduce your goat . . .

bawomolo:
the last i checked, equality is about having the same access to opportunity as others. of course those freaking homos don't deserve the benefits we get.

they have the benefits already. the battle is about forcing society to redefine the term "marriage" so they can fit in too.

justcool:
Although if considered objectively, and judging by the surface, one might say that the poster has a point. But if you go deeper into it, then one realises that the post is nothing but a subtle way of insulting Christians and condemning them. Consider these facts:

Exactly my point.

nanayisha:
So far I have really enjoyed reading the responses of the Post. I commend all the constructive responses, it has shown the ability to hold sensible dialogue with some posters (most consistent so far being from cayon).
To the not so constructive responses, I think you have only confirmed the inital post. I did not want to mention names, and it looks like I didn't have to. I guess it is true that a Leopard can not change its spots.

its funny but all the "constructive" responses seem to be the ones that side you. So much for objectivity.

Pepeye:
@To journey the way of Christ never judge or condemn others, this is the path to true joy and happiness, the path totally void of bitterness

lol is it the same you that had this to say about sir John who in no way insulted you?

Pepeye:
If you‘d remotely attempted to use a fraction of your half witted cotton wool that you call a brain to know that other desperate sick folks (like u) would‘ve cried out long before you given the fact that the healing school has been there long enough and it has stood the test of time, so stop telling tales out of school

totally devoid of bitterness indeed. Its easy to preach . . .

Pepeye:
@ David
Some people have a judgmental attitude to life, they judge everything and everyone with one standard and judge themselves with another

Folks like you’ve long been there in the bible days they re same peep that condemned and crucified Jesus to death

Titus 1-15-16 Unto the pure all things are pure, but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled

They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable and disobedient and unto every good work reprobate.

To journey the way of Christ never judge or condemn others, this is the path to true joy and happiness, the path totally void of bitterness

the problem is titus 1:15-16 applies more to you than me.

Now look carefully at Titus 1:16 Unto They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable and disobedient and unto every good work reprobate.

- Read thru the book of acts VERY CAREFULLY, do the goings on at CEC mirror the lives of the apostles?

- Did either Jesus Christ or the apostles EVER administer any charade called a "healing school"?

- I notice you and other CEC members desperately refuse to read John's experience, nothing shouts "insecurity" than your approach to his claims. If indeed you are secure in the knowledge that your "healing school" is of God why are not bold enough to read them and repudiate him where necessary?
Why has EVERY MEMBER of CEC reacted negatively and in the direction of personal attacks to this issue?

What is there to hide if indeed your works are of God? Did the apostles insult those who challenged their miracles?

Take a deep breath, christianity is not about church but about the heart of each and every individual.

9ja4us:
so d lady earn more, she should be paying for all at all time.
what is d definition of head of house

now u know that a man is the head of the house?

Hope you will remember that when it comes to housework.

H2O2:
If this is truly a fight about the state of California giving same sex couples the same rights as heterosexual couples, domestic partnership would have solved that problem. One reason gays are so obsessed with the "marriage" word is because of the benefits attached to it at the federal level.

that is the sole reason we have this ridiculous fight on our hands. Its not about "equality" at all.

I also have to quote something H2O2 said earlier:

As someone said earlier, that's a civil rights issue. The reason that was repealed was because it violated basic civil rights by attempting to redefine marriage. Marriage is between a man and a woman. Gays want to change society's rules just so they can feel normal.

This is just the unfortunate truth.

shotster50:
I don't think it was said in the Bible, rather it is our interpretation of it.

i think your denial is your own wrong interpretation of the bible. It couldnt be any clearer than this - John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

na real wa at the Emirates o

blackspade:
I think you're starting to get a bit paranoid with that nonsense.

In case you didn't know, gay marriage was legal here for over a year, but with the passing of prop 8, it has now ended. During this time, I haven't noticed anything 'larger steps' or anything having to do with that. This sudden resistance from gays and lesbians just now started with the passage of prop 8.

Smart people take one step at a time.

I have 2 questions for you:

1. Do you still believe in democracy?

2. Should the term "marriage" be ammended to cover gay couples or expunged completely?

blackspade:
Again, I see nothing wrong with them wanting to marry --- it's not my position to judge or decide what others should want to do.

Neither do i see nothing wrong with them wanting to get together . . . i see a lot wrong with forcing the state to regard you as "married". The institution of marriage is sacred.

chika98:
LadyT abi lady koi koi. . . wetin be your own na?

she was being sarcastic sis.

stillwater:
Fine boy?

somebody must say something "nice" about the boy now.

if i could, i would vote to ban same sex "marriage". They can have civil unions but we cant suddenly re-invent an institution that has survived for 6000 yrs to suit the feelings of a minority.
I cant wait for the Mormons to come out asking for their own polygamy rights too.

fine boy with fine name . . . na u these chics decimate like this. If na me i go retaliate o

Angelheart:
Certainly not as much as they do in Nigeria and if you were fair enough, you would agree with me, Someone in this thread mentioned that most S. Africans don't know what a visa is. It might be true. COnsidering that we are comfortable in our country. We don't have to go to countries like China, where you people get murdered like flies, Which I think you deserve at times. If Nigeria is such a wonderful country, why the hell don't you stay in that nasty place of yours. DAMN!! We are sick and tired of getting these'scam' emails from 'Prince Muhammad', offering you some lottery money. BLOODY scammers. So much for a 'rich country'.

I hope the South Africans sign a petition against this. You all should stay in that dirty and CORRUPT country of yours. What was SA thinking? Id be more comfortable having a 'visa-free' agreement with Afghanistan.
I always get so much satisfaction when NIGERIANS are 'literally' UNDRESSED to double-check if they havent got any drugs hidden under their balls at the Airport. GIves me so much satisfaction. You Anofias. I hope all that double scannings to check if you havent swallowed drugs (bullets) give you cancer,

u're not comfortable, the whites and the asians are. The rest of you live in hellholes. Considering the white population is only a minute fraction of ur country, they are the only faces we see in your fancy pictures. The rest of you are crammed in places like Soweto.

Abegi go and sit down my friend.

blackspade:
What gays choose to do whether it be marry, adopt, or whatever ----- that does not effect me in one bit. Why should I and others keep them from having the privileges the rest of us get to take advantage of?

the problem is a lot of us who glibly "support" gay marriage cant see beyond our noses. Gay couples already have the priviledges and rights they seek - it is not against the law to be gay, it is not against the law to have a partnership with someone of the same sex, it is against the law to discriminate against someone on the basis of sexual orientation . . .

So what else do they want?

I'll tell you - the immediate repeal of the DOMA act of 1996 and the legalisation of the term "marriage" to include gay couples.

It is but one small step, 20 yrs ago gay folks werent fighting for any rights. 20 yrs from now those who wish to marry their cats or 5 wives or remain as swing couples will begin their own "civil rights" campaign.

tRoOE:
[size=13pt] My definition of a "Romantic Idea" would be, playing xbox with my husband, am not into that slow music crap or lighting candles, since i do on a regularly basic
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Gbam! dont mind all these dreamy-eyed unrealistic women here jare . . . thumbs up to a real woman.

blackspade:
Civil Rights issues shouldn't have been brought to voters in the first place. This issue should have went directly to the California State Legislature instead, because even the governor can see the civil rights violations in this.


If the civil rights act was instead put on a national ballot, do you think it would have been passed (in the 1960s)?

probably not but u're getting the whole thing twisted. Look lets be honest - the gay rights issue is primarily a white thing. Do you think anyone would care if 90% of gay people were black?

Here is the problem you dont see - forcing the courts to accept gay unions as legal "marriages" will spark off a systematic muzzling of my right to freedom of religion. Imagine churches being sued for refusing to marry gay couples.

If you advocate that this issue shld go to the supreme court then shld McCain also head there to try and see if the courts can rule the election in his favour?
If this was about "equality", gay folks would be fighting for equal rights for me to marry my cat, 3 wives or my cousin. In the end its not about equality at all but about selfishness.

SirJohn:
@ Pepeye
You did'nt read it because you don't have the guts to face the truth; I dare you to read it Pepeye. I don't completely blame it on you, I had a hard time accepting the truth myself. you claim that miracles abound in CE, but maybe you should know that miracles (staged or real) does not validate any ministry else we would have to endorse several false religions and religious sects because they all have claims of miracles.

unfortunately all i see in defence of CEC is the oft abused phrase - "the word works".

Well so did Pharaoh's magicians turn their staff into snakes. Where they also sent by I AM THAT I AM?

Angeleyz:
you welcome. Now go away and stop harming the image of your so called faith ''christianity'' no doubt there are decent and true christian folks, but you certainly aren't one of them. What did Jesus say about casting stones?

i may not fit the stereotype . . . but neither did King David, neither did Paul, neither did Simon Peter who denied Christ 3ce, neither did Solomon . . . but God is faithful in that He understands our frailties and He is ever there to pick us when we fall.

Unfortunately for those who PERSIST in iniquity, for those wolves in sheeps clothing who deliberately lead the fold astray for pecuniary benefits . . . try and read Jeremiah . . . the Lord has choice words for them there.

Its not about casting stones. Its about the uncomfortable truth. The type that children of rebellion do not wish to hear.

Pepeye:
This clearly demonstrates how ignorant you are, you have grossly misunderstood the scriptures once more

Search yourself before you start casting your little stones

And for the info it’s a Mrs

sorry mrs pepeye . . . i might be ignorant and misunderstand the bible . . . but you have NOT shown me where i erred and why from the same scriptures. That is all we ask rather than character assassination of sir john who is merely reporting his experience.

Madam "casting stones" . . . you would do well to stop misappropriating scripture where it is not applicable. you dont cast stones at those who have acknowledged their sins and are in repentance. But we can exhort, rebuke and reprove those who err (2 Tim 4:2).

Is it too hard to ask that some actually read their bibles before acting out on emotions? We all have pastors we love too.

Angeleyz:
you welcome. Now go away and stop harming the image of your so called faith ''christianity'' no doubt there are decent and true christian folks, but you certainly aren't one of them. What did Jesus say about casting stones?

We've heard it all before . . . thou shalt not judge, dont cast stones . . . bla bla bla. Same old prank used to hoodwink the brainwashed and those who react based on emotions only.

I may not be a posterboy for your kind of "christian" . . . you know the self-righteous, prim and proper, no frills type of demagogues you have heaped to urselves. I dont need to be . . . God sees the heart . . .

One thing you ignorant, hateful bleating folks forget when reading and misquoting the bible is CONTEXT. Christ said "he that is without sin cast the first stone" . . . well the woman who was to be stoned ACKNOWLEDGED HER SINS! She didnt go around decieving the people in the name of God.

Remember what Christ called those like Pastor Chris? You know the pharisees? Well He didnt tell us not to cast stones at them - He rather called them this . . .

Matthew 23: 24 Ye blind guides . . .
25 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees . . .
26 Thou blind Pharisee . . .
33 Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?

. . . oops did Christ just cast huge rocks here?

and just like you . . . guess what the pharisess said in return? John 6:42 And they said, Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? how is it then that he saith, I came down from heaven?

Dont get me wrong, i dont equate myself to God . . . i am unworthy. But its the same rhetoric we've read about before . . . nothing new. Carry on.

mazaje:
davidylan you are a hypocrite. . . . . .

You have every right to an opinion.

Angeleyz:
omg David is pointing at another saying they are not christians lmao. Biggest hypocrite going , makes me so sick, to the point of heeving. If David is what christianity is about then i am going to heaven for sure.

you also have a right to your opinion. Thanks a lot.

Pepeye:
Mr judgmental david

I really didn’t have that time to read he’s junks. But I have witness, been a participant of miracles in Christ embassy, its no news that miracles abound in CE… we live a life of the miracles wherever we are

cheer up david the word works

Miss ignorant pepeye . . . here is what the bible says about "judging" -

titus 1:9 Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers.

John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

2 timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine.

1 John 4:1 Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.

Miss pepeye . . . you have witnesses, sir john also has witnesses.

Miss pepeye, the word indeed works . . . independent of the false preachers who use it to swindle the gullible.