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Kobicove:
Go ahead and marry her

good idea?

id4sho:
Medical approach Abeg

No idea bro

id4sho:
How many months pregnancy?

3 months or almost 3 months

I know this should or supposed to be private. I just shared this to gather advices, suggestions from fellow guys abegi

Namaster:


Dude said she DOESN'T double-date. She just FUCCCKS her plethora of besties.

Dude emphasized it like it's a VIRTUE.



A girl who DOESN'T respect commitments gets pregnant for a guy who DOESN'T respect commitment and BOTH want to enter into a COMMITED relationship.

Hilarious!

When i say she no dey double date, you get my point say, a girl go dey serious relationship, yet she get male friends wey she dey attend to whenever they call am.

About that your sentence about commitment, bro you are damn right

OlawaleBammie:
Bro lemme tell you this, forget social media hulk and triple h, majority of men didn't marry who dey want, those who even married who they wanted, the same person they wanted and married didn't want them and at the long run the women start given them problem.

Ask ur father, he will see something bad to tell you about that ur sweet mother if he want to be truthful to you, but what happened, he managed ur mother and ur mother managed him..

Even those you wanted and feel for might use ur eyes see shege if u eventually marry them.

Hey bro, I am not saying ur current woman might not also change to dragon later in the future oh, but as a man don't be broken, focus in ur self and goal, take care of whoever u end up with and ur children and see urself florist. And if in the future she do yamayama, dint hesitate to let her go cus if u don't do u would be be the one to recv the blame wen things finally go south.



But have this in mind, inasmuch as some women can't be satisfied by one man even after marriage, there are many women who would stop sleeping around immediately they found out they are under someone roof as a wife.

For the 4th paragraph, even if she do yamayama, E no really dey easy to left go, some make it sound simple. But omo

Thanks alot for the mature advice, I really appreciate

Adebishow:
Oga, as it stands now, she may reject your suggestion of abortion, if you bring it up.

The only option you have is to keep her as your baby mama or marry her officially.

That story wey you dey tell about her knacking other men while married to you or not staying in one place - that story is your cross, you have to bear it if you marry her.

Every married man get him own cross with respect to his marriage. We all manage the cross (es).

Enjoy being baby daddy or marriage. Make your choice!

:

Na me even tell am to keep am. Girls no really send na, if it was a random guy, she no go think twice take drugs.

Thank you for the advice though

FalseProphet1:
That pregnancy isn't yours. If you go ahead and marry her, I see you suffering terribly in that marriage.

This I have seen.

If na you, u go pay girl bride price if u never do dna?

Adebishow:
Since you already got her pregnant, deal with it ohhhh.

Maybe you should start thinking about "wifing" her

Yes, i just dont want the embarrassment of another man saying he dey bang my wife. If she no dey one place while she was dating other men since, is possible she go change cause of pregnancy?

Fisiryorh:
Alaye, MAN up and take responsibility... nothing spoil at the end of the day...

Get a steady source of income to foot current and most important, future bills...

THAT, IF IT'S YOURS OH ..

Tho, I don't have a child yet, but (leave religion and all it's bruhaha) children have a way of opening doors in ones life...

It is well with thee...

Peace🙏🏾...

Im open and more than capable to take responsibility. Hell ive always wanted a child at a young age too.

To me its like a prayer come through, the only doubt, is the girl with the pregnancy. But thanks for the input

OlawaleBammie:
50-50

Since shes married to you now, she isblikel to stop that and focus on you so far u said shes a good girl. And afterallshe had alreadylived her youthful life and explore al the exuberance.

Congrat bro...please in anyth u do, dont abort pregnancy.

Yea bro, i always wanted a child young. We are not married, we both are below 25 years.

She says since shes pregnant now, that she cant just satisfy that urge with another man. Which I still doubt and believe say na just to convince me that she go dey one place now

She aint the kind of girl i wanted to settle with (not because of her history sha) well, we dont always get what we want

eepeepook:
The story seems fake. l will bite since I read everything.

You said "childhood friend." Over 9 years now means you knew each other at 9 or 12 years of age, thereabout. Any younger and I wonder how you achieved an erection to service her. Knowing somebody so close from primary school would negate sexual feelings. The friendship base is already there. Your foot is firmly in the door. At least that will help the first few years of marriage flow smoothly.

You are afraid that she will cheat on you during the union. Well, that is a risk you have to take. If you're not ready, abort the child let her go her way. You will not allow her to leave anyway, you will want her around for quick sex sessions.

If you have any further inquiries, Kobojunkie is always available.

Yea, u have a point here. We have been friends for years and randomly she always asks us to try relationship. But i always decline, cause, if you have a female friend wey dey always come around when ‘u need am’, why risk it for a relationship that may not even last 1 year

Just that, e don enter pregnancy level now

frozen70:
Every thing in this life is try your luck

So try your luck and teach her how to be faithful

If ut works for you, fine and if it doesn't works for you

Count it as one of those things in life

Thats what am considering. Just that shes been in the perfect relationship, guy treats her well. Yet when i say, come over, she comes over that day. Same with her other male friends.

But thanks for the input, i hope for the best

eepeepook:
The story seems fake. l will bite since I read everything.

You said "childhood friend." Over 9 years now means you knew each other at 9 or 12 years of age, thereabout. Any younger and I wonder how you achieved an erection to service her. Knowing somebody so close from primary school would negate sexual feelings. The friendship base is already there. Your foot is firmly in the door. At least that will help the first few years of marriage flow smoothly.

You are afraid that she will cheat on you during the union. Well, that is a risk you have to take. If you're not ready, abort the child let her go her way. You will not allow her to leave anyway, you will want her around for quick sex sessions.

If you have any further inquiries, Kobojunkie is always available.

I hell wish the story was fake.

Listen lemme clear, we are childhood friends, we grew in same area, just like knowing someone for long. But this our ‘strong bond’, started 9 years ago.

in as much it’s unlikely, she fit see this post, hence Im avoiding words like “best friends” or “bestie”, so the post go appear totally random incase she see am.

In btw, thanks for the input. I appreciate

Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

MightySparrow:

Don't sleep again, I swear you will never see her again.

Ok

I know that seeing a dead relative may be cos of you're still grieving the loss

But seeing a dead relative in the dream, and she straight-up pointed at you, told you that death is smelling all around you and that she can perceive it from far away.

I jokingly replied her saying "but you, you're already dead", she wanted to get angry and then I instantly woke up, around after 4 am....

Around last month, I saw her in the dream, screamed her name and woke up instantly.

Wetin this one mean abegi?

She's my aunty, I lost her months back, I'm no longer grieving her, and I haven't had her in mind for long time.

victorazy:
Serious?

Be like he don go

victorazy:
Should anybody explain to you that your already gone spiritually?
When the loading is completed you will die physically and that can happen from now 2weeks 1 month.

The guy has been offline since 2 months later oo

Everyday247:
Guy no dey ask this kind question, E dey very dangerous. Especially questions concerning this middle eastern war.

I think Muslims will be offended by this comment... Cos it seems you dey stereotype them to be dangerous?

Any girl good at lapdance within awka, Anambra or delta?

Reply or message me directly with your price and WhatsApp number

Saynoomore:
The word "cheap" is relative.

Nevertheless, Ford is not for the Nigerian market because the demand for Ford cars is extremely low, and second hand value is abysmally discouraging! Nigerians would prefer a Toyota or at least a Honda. Whereas, Ford isn't a bad car. It's as strong and as reliable as any other car if well maintained. Replacement parts might not be as commonly found as its Toyota counterparts, but are also not as expensive as often rumoured!

I drove a Ford Escape for 10years before selling it recently. I only changed alternator twice, and Airconditioning system worked on about three times - which is a common problem with most cars used in Nigeria as we tend to have our ACs switched on veey often due to the hot weather. The car had no faults whatsoever and buyer was pleased to have bought it. He still drives it around without fixing anything.

From my experience using a Ford Escape, I'ld say it's a good car! ..and would recommend one anyday and anytime.

I hardly respond to questions like this on Nairaland because I believe that experiences differ significantly and depends on a lot of other factors! So, I dedicate this response to my Ford Escape (2005).

Buy one, use it well by maintaining it adequately, and thank me later.

Thanks a lot for your input

Why are Ford Edge Cars so Cheap? I mean the 2012 - 2013 like model

Are they reliable?

Bruno3000:
You you're not normal na.

ignore the guy, for someone who is most active in the religion section with this kind of mentality, you should already know his mission here

IYAAA EVERYBODY!!!

Plus1234:
Did you noticed he always go against Christians and twist the Word of God? I’m suspecting him to be one of the agents of devil to cause confusion among the Body Of Christ.I suspect he might be suicidal or jobless as well. he is always on every topic. he may even be a muslim using taqqiya to deceive and cause confusion among believers.

I'm not even surprised, I've met and grew up with people like him.

Whenever we discuss about God, JuJu, witchcraft or anything spiritual, they make it seem like it's all a delusion folkture.

These kind of people, dey dem dey grow up in family of witchcrafts (amosu)

For a full grown man to say he doesn't believe in God, JuJu or whatever spiritual, it's very suspicious

We know people like him

Anyone experienced in Anambra to Enugu transport business?

I wan put my sienna 2003 out for transport business, from Anambra to Enugu

Abegi, like how much should be the weekly remittance from the driver?

Also suggest better locations where people dey travel mostly

ProudNigerian01:
Please I beg you in the name of God never to consult any spiritualist. They will lie to you and make things worse for you.

Listen to what your dad said, He knows why he gave that warning.

Worship the only true God, Jesus Christ.

Don't see the dreams as nothing, especially if they keep repeating. keep away from dead people in the dream, pray in the name of Jesus, read the Bible and tell God to give you understanding on the meaning and what to do

I repeat, don't consult any spiritualist or follow in the footsteps of your father. Always remember his warning.

Same my dad said that Jesus was the God the white men introduced to us,

And why should we believe the God of the same men that enslaved our forefathers?

Don't get me wrong, I'm just curious why our people say the belives that our forefathers practiced is evil, and they believe the God of the white men that enslaved them

MOG6670:
Reserved my input, let wait for the elders.

Yoo

Anyone experienced in Anambra to Enugu transport business?

I wan put my sienna 2003 out for transport business, from Anambra to Enugu

Abegi, like how much should be the weekly remittance from the driver?

Also suggest better locations where people dey travel mostly

saddler:
Something is missing from your explanation.

When you saw this your friend that had died, how did you feel inside you?


Also when you guys started talking, how did you feel?

And when he started behaving weird, how did you feel or what was going through your mind while he was acting weird?


The answer to these questions is required to give you the meaning of the dream.

Also, in same dream , I saw my late grand mother, we were in the village, but we didn't talk, I just saw her in the kitchen.

Then, you know how dreams flies naw, I saw myself somewhere else, around a plaza, that's where I saw my late friend and he started running.

He just made me believe that he only travelled, and wasn't dead... Although in my mind, I knew he was late, but that mind wasn't with me in that dream, all I knew was that my missing friend travelled since, and just returned