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fayded:
So,there is this girl that I was friends with benefit(fwb) with and things got serious, and anyways, now we ain't dating but we re kinda exclusive. She hangs our with me alot.
Now to the main purpose, she logged into her Instagram acct with my phone and did some ish, when she was done, I just decided to look around there, went to her DM. I saw her chat with a guy, she was really flirting with him, she even gave the guy her room number and the guy said he would be visiting..
I'm just really pissed at her right now, she doesn't know that I know. But I don't know how to deal with this matter. I need ur advice.
No, I'm not forgiving her and no, I don't want to continue and pretend like nothing happened. How do I deal with this maturely??.. Advices pls. Thanks
Davidthegeek, magikalz, harddon

My mum do say "when a child snoops around a bush, he'll find a snake".

I understand the temptation to check... i'd check too if i were you

The mature way to handle it is to pretend it never happened.

You're not supposed to check her message... it's wrong. You did anyway, you can't let her know you did.

Use the information to redefine how you relate with her.

Look you said it's a FWB thing... So what?

You can cut her off if you can't let this slide or you can use her as a testing ground to explore some really hard core stuff.

Anything you choose to do, you shouldn't confront her.

We all know Don Jazzy can be such a clown at times.

He took to Instagram this time to describe Tiwa Savage 's fart

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"Person no go know say your mess fit kill person. #SavageMess" - he wrote.

taoheedoriloye:
shesweetdie don't smell your I will do it for you.my sense of smell is Better than that of hyena.

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Eva Alordiah has revealed she smells her vagina at least once a day.

The rapper, who recently broke her engagement to her boyfriend, seems to be advising ladies to cultivate the habit of smelling their vagina just like she does to know if they are healthy down there.

"Everyday, Without fail, I smell my vagina. today she smelled of nothing" - she wrote.

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nosiebaba:
Na that one dey worry you?

oderinde151:
gurus I hail y'all
av got prbs guys nd I nid solutions
make una no mind my grammatical blunders
there is a girl that stay close to my aos like 25metres sa..the gal get packagin, fine sa..I like the gal make I no lie.. we v never talked to each other nt because am shy, but she doesn't stay at home like that nd forming too much nd maybe nt in perfect situation to throw a convo..so I got her number from facebook nd we chatted nd to my surprise she was acting as if she was expectin me, she said she wanted to knw the person she was chattin with tho av told her that am her neighbour (nt upto 5 mins she showed up nd I was like *wtf* is she pretending? does she like me?) nd to my surprise she said I will be comin to ya side to play if I don't follow my mum to shop..for my mind (God Don catch una niyen)...after jokin for like 2mins nd she left ..So we bcame friends like that..
SIRs Süd I kwantinu?..- nid hlp o

oderinde151:
corruption dey here..i posted my prb here and u guys didn't interfere..no prb o we gather dey

Oversabi Game is a quiz game where you test your knowledge on Naija music.

You think you know stuffs about Naija music and artistes huh? Oya see questions, come and answer!

1. What is the title of the first Wizkid song Drake featured in?
2. "30 Billion for the account" is a phrase from which song by Davido?
3. What is the title of the first song Phyno and Olamide collaborated on?
4. "Mad over you" is a song by who?
5. What is the full meaning of YBNL?

U sabi am?

Lets see if anyone will get all the questions.

fayded:
Hey guys, so I gat this girl, we were into fwb then later on, things gat pretty serious and well the stage we are at now has no name(lolz). We are not dating but we can't sleep with other people, and we hang out alot and do alot of things together, but we ain't dating.. This brings me to my reason for writing this..
... Before we decided to get serious, she had a confession and told me that she slept with a guy, some days after we first had sex. I am d first person to go there. Her excuse was that her v.card(virginity) was everything to her, and after we did it, she felt I was a fvckboy and that I was never coming back,so it depressed her and made her feel small. That's why she did it with that guy. I also had my own lil escapades but none was serious for me, so after all our confessions, we decided to be exclusive.
...my problem is that she is always trying to make me jealous, and not in a kinda cute way, but in a very childish annoying way. It really really pisses me off. It doesn't make me jealous, but rather angry. She can be like.. "I'm going man-shopping".. Or she will be scrolling through pictures of guys on fbk and be like "I want this guy,how can I get his number", and she does this around me, and makes sure that I hear it. She doesn't even follow through with it sef... It's just annoying..
.. The next one is the stupid mind games she plays.. She'll be like"I understand it when guys cheat, it's not easy, there are so many fine girls, if I were a guy I'd cheat too," but this girl would be angry when a girl passes and calls me "honey, how re u? ".. She ll also get angry when I say a girl is fine or when a girl visits me, she'll be calling d girl bitchhhh(behind her back of course)... Also she'll be like "I don't like the idea of dates, just two people sitting down and talking to each other and eating, I can eat in my room"(ive never taken her out though)..
.. Look, when I tried to define us, she was like "dating would make it so boring and maybe hard, let's just continue with what we have"... And d next day after an argument she was like.. "Define us, what are we".. Gadddd, very frustrating girl. I just don't know how I fell for her.
Oh and also, she has this thing about who will say "I love you" first.. She once said it when we were "doing" it.. And I was like "huh? "..she just formed moaning and I left it.
From this I wrote here, you can maybe judge that she is a small girl.. (Yea, 19yrs).I'm 2 years older than her though..she is cool though otherwise, and doesn't ask for money, also very intelligent.
Magikalz.. Davidthegeek, harddon.. And others. Una advice is needed

Rokia2:
I hear you.
cristiano ronaldo and messi are also best friends.

Davido stole the show at the 2017 edition of the prestigious Africa Muzik Magazine Awards & Music Festival (AFRIMMA) awards which held on Sunday, October 8th, 2017 at the House of Blues, Dallas, US.

The event saw Davido winning Artist of the Year award and Song of the Year award for "If ".

His biggest rival, Wizkid won just one award - Best Collaboration , for his song "African Bad Girl" featuring Chris Brown.

See the full list of AFRIMMA winners below:

Best Male West Africa – Falz (Nigeria)
Best Female West Africa – Tiwa Savage (Nigeria)
Best Male East Africa – Diamond Platnumz (Tanzania)
Best Female East Africa – Victoria Kimani (Kenya)
Best Male Central Africa - C4 Pedro (Angola)
Best Female Central Africa – Nsoki (Angola)
Best Male Southern Africa - Cassper Nyovest (South Africa)
Best Female Southern Africa – Babes Wodumo (South Africa
Crossing Boundaries with Music Award - C4 Pedro (Angola)
Best Newcomer - Nsoki (Angola)
Artist of The Year – Davido (Nigeria)
Best DJ Africa – Dj Spinall (Nigeria)
Best African Dj USA – Dj Tunez (Nigeria)
Video of The Year - Fally Ipupa – Eloko Iyo Congo
Music Producer of The Year – Julz (Ghana)
Best African Dancer – Ghetto Triplets Kids – Uganda
Song of The Year – Davido – IF (Nigeria)
Best Lusophone – C4 Pedro (Angola)
Best Francophone – Fally Ipupa (Congo)
Best Sound Engineer - Sheyman (Nigeria)
Best Collaboration - Wizkid ft Chris Brown – African Bad Girl (Nigeria & USA)
Transformational Leadership Award - Engineer Noah Dallaji
Best Rap Act - Sarkodie (Ghana)
Dancehall Act of The Year – Timaya (Nigeria)
Best Video Director – Daps (Nigeria)
Best Male North Africa - Amr Diab (Egypt)
Best African Dj – Dj Spinall (Nigeria)
Best Gospel Artist - Nathaniel Bassey (Nigeria)
Best Female North Africa – Amani Swissi (Tunisia)

The internet was set ablaze last week when actress Caroline Danjuma called out Davido on Instagram, suggesting he had something to do with the death of a young man named Tagbo.

The dead body of Tagbo was said to have being dumped at the Lagos general hospital by Davido and his crew after the young man died while hanging out with them.

Davido has since being accused of murder, however revelations from an autopsy conducted on Tagbo has now cleared him of the allegations.

The autopsy report reveals that Tagbo died from the consumption of too much alcohol.
The result also showed that he had drugs in his system capable of easing a person into the early stages of hypothermia and eventual death.

Tagbo's blood-alcohol concentration (BAC) was at 0.112, that's 0.032 higher than the legal limit which is 0.08 for normal human being state.

A statement by the coroner's office said;
"Alcohol and topiramate are synergistic. When combined, the effect of either or both drugs is enhanced. Topiramate, like alcohol, can cause dizziness, impaired memory, impaired concentration, poor coordination, confusion and impaired judgment. Central nervous system depression, or impairment, combined with cold exposure can hasten the onset of hypothermia and death."

Ayblaize:
I'm in cc davidthegeek

Healthblog123:
How to Approach a Girl For The First Time And Win her Over
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Do you want to talk to a girl you don’t know? Here are few sure fire ways on how to approach a girl that will definitely help you make a great first impression.
Many guys find it difficult approaching a lady which I will say shouldn’t be. Most guys approach ladies but with the wrong methodology and this is why they get a NO for an answer.
There are certain things to put in place via observation and study of the lady in question. Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in icy water.
It makes you nervous. Your heart starts beating faster than you can count. And your stomach inches closer to your tongue with each step you take.
But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world.
Now I’m not going to make this any more difficult than you already assume it to be. Yes, talking to a girl who’s a stranger is not easy. But then again, if you know just how to do it without appearing like you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can be.
How to approach a girl you don’t know Forget pick up lines, forget bumping into her, and every other *smart* move you’ve heard.
I’ll teach you to keep it simple, and help you win her heart even before you say‘hello’. Here’s the only tip that matters and you need to remember it for the rest of your dating life. Always let the girl know you want to talk to her before you even talk to her. Don’t make the mistake of approaching a girl out of the blue and asking her out. It almost always never works, unless you’re a smooth talker with the gift of gab.
If you’re a regular joe who wants to turn into a chick magnet, just follow these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
1. Getting her attention :
You need to let the girl know you’re going to approach her. So warm her up to that idea to begin with by using these steps.
I) Glance at her.
Look at her now and then just to let her know that you’re trying to catch her attention. Be sneaky and discreet, and always look away just as soon as she catches your eye. You’ll arouse her curiosity and that’ll force her to look at you now and then to see if you’re still watching her.
II) The eye contact.
Each time she looks at you, look at her and immediately look away sheepishly. Continue to look at her now and then, and once in a while, lock your gaze at her for a small fraction of a second and look away again. By doing this, you’re already building the sexual attraction. But if she doesn’t reciprocate here, she’s probably not interested in you.
III) Appear awkward.
If you’re with your friends, look at her now and then, but appear like your distracted and not able to focus on the conversation you’re having with your friends. By doing that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery!
IV) Smile at her.
Exchange eye contact now and then, one or two times every minute and no more than that, and when you feel pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a second, and let her notice your smile.
Don’t give her a big grin though, a malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
These moves are all about building the connection and letting her know you’re interested in her. And at the same time, it’ll also help you understand if she too is really interested in you. If she responds to your gestures similarly, it’s a sign that she’s interested in talking to you too. But if she starts ignoring you at any point here, she’s probably not interested in you and you need to make your luck somewhere else.
2. How to start talking to the girl
Now that you’ve built the attraction and the chemistry, all you need to do is walk up to her and say something. Use these tips to approach her and start the right conversation.
V) Waiting for the moment.
Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl to give you a chance to talk to her. If she’s really interested in you and wants to talk to you, she’d create enough opportunities for you to walk up to her. She could do this by walking to the ladies room alone, stepping away from her friends by answering a phone call, or even by just smiling at you and leaving the place.
It’s always easier to talk to a girl when she’s by herself. There are no distractions from her friends or awkward moments because she’s already expecting you to approach her. [Read: Things you can say to a girl while talking to her for the first time]

HARDDON:
@DavidTheGeek
Your Ability to Extrapolate is da.mn Def!
Posh! Very posh

DAMAYYOR:
which kind wahala b dis now? harddon said guys should stop asking girls out, and dis girl i met i few months ago has been giving me green lights to ask her out, and yeah i want her to be my girlfriend, what do you suggest guys?
cc harddon

youcanmakeit:
bro, what works for harddon might not work for you..better do what you feel like doing.
One general traits n quality about REAL BAD BOYS n ALPHA MALE is that they do what they want to do, when they want to do it without caring about the outcome..
If you're scared you might get rejected if you ask her out, that means you have " fear of rejection issues "
I'm not scared of loosing any girl, so I can say n do what ever I want

Anybody who qoute me wrong on this is still a learner n a big pussy

peerless0012:
Guy, you are the one that is a learner here. That guy does not understand the principle HARDDON is preaching here. There are so many ways you can get anything you want from a woman without asking her out. He has been preaching this, but you guys still don't get it. For a learner like that guy, once he asks the girl out, it is more like he is giving her his balls. And once that is gone, what remains.

Guys, guys, please calm down.

No need trading words.

Now back to the issue...

There are 2 major reason behind the "don't ask a girl out" principle.

1. It could kill attraction
2. You are likely to lose your balls.

Let me explain...

REASON 1:
You just met a girl, you guys start talking and you start using what you learnt from this thread on her.

Over the weeks, you notice she has started falling for you, showing you green lights.... boom you ask her out.

Congrats............. You just succeeded in killing the attraction

Reason is this: We don't value what we get easily. We only value what costs us something. The greater the cost, the more we value it.

The girl just started showing you green light and you jumped in and asked her out...... she has conquered you... You were easy to get.

All she had to do was show some green light (female power) and you came running like a dog (you bowed to her power).

She'll lose interest soon (that's if she even agrees... some girls will just start acting funny) and move to the new guy who is playing hard to get.

REASON NO 2.
She's your girlfriend... You'll do anything for your girl right?

So you start to please and grant every of her request. After all, you've gotten her

You've forgotten the reason she fell for you was cuz you were different from other guys... other guys were nice guys who did any and every of her wish. But you, you were a boss. You poked fun at her, bla bla bla.

One day you'll wake up to realise she has lost interest (in the nice guy you've become).. the game has change, you'll be the one chasing her now... you've lost your balls.

SO HERE'S THE THING...

1. If you must ask a girl out, make her chase you well, don't just ask her out immediately you notice the green lights.
2. When you start dating, don't let your guard down, don't make her feel comfortable, don't make her your "one and only". Surround yourself with girls - have other options.

There's a quote from Harddon that goes like "Don't give a girl a full seat in your life".

NOTE:

I said If you must...

If you can avoid asking her out, no need to ask her out. Just assume you guys are dating already.