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gimakon:
My honest and very sincere advice to you is, you don't need a gf to be a man, some idiots here would say what am I saying, but am standing my ground. I'm 29 and yes,i should be thinking of settling down, but truly I'm not really thinking of bringing in a liability now into my life until I think im ready for that.

Think about it this way, you have a gf, you give her money and sex, and your time, now you give - you're the person contributing what exactly is she giving back? Nyash? Or what exactly? You would work your life out to look good get money and spend on her and the day you don't have it, watch her going to make another man king behind your back. I'm telling you from a very bitter experience I had dating someone I thought was reasonable, instead what she did was awesome,she cheated, times after time I got her,what she did was to connive with her friends to come to my house to seduce me to make it look like I cheated also.. so many bad things and to the extent she got pregnant for another guy and decided to marry him.
This is someone I was staking my neck for, got her admission into university, did so many things for her, yet she says I wasn't mature enough for her and went ahead to get pregnant for another guy - I wonder how a mature guy behaves after trying to be good to his girl again.

Some idiots here would call me names, mugu nd what not,but am proud of myself, I became a settled guy at an early age,only few shake ups again, grace of God, - it's normalised now.

She still clicks "like " on Facebook when she sees my new success I earn a five -zero salary, I live alone now,few times I go to my parents. Her friends ask me for money like always now. It's always do this, do that, one even went to the extent of telling me her father was sick that she needed money, I hope the man won't be sick sha,considering the kain swear she day use hand swear give the man.

So ma dear,learn from my own experience, what you need now,yea is focus and not a girl. Believe me,when you get it, the smell of success will locate the right person. Nyash no be everything. Naija girls no follow , fuck_ them, if you get lucky, and throw them away.

I feel you bro..

but...

I have one problem with you!

That you had a bitter experience does not mean every other case will be bitter.

We've heard cases of even secondary school sweethearts getting married.

So please don't use your own to discourage up coming brothers Besides if you had moved on to another girl after that girl left you, you might have met a lady that would make you advice guys to find a lady asap.

Meaning, you had a bitter experience and you allowed it put you down. Instead of you to pick yourself up and find someone else.

africanman85:
Pls I send u a pm. kindly send d ebooks to africa####@##.com

DavidTheGeek:


Guys plssss lets not derail the thread.

Stop the request.

It's almost impossible for me to send the ebooks to everyone, considering the amount of data it would cost me.

I'll instead recommend one i believe is the best. You guys can easily download it from Google.

This particular book is my favourite cuz there are lots of techniques in it, it explains them with examples (stories), and it also includes steps to take after you've gotten a girl "hooked" (falling for you already).

The book is "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene

Simply Google "The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.pdf" to download it.

The book has literally everything you need to attract a woman.

Download, read and most importantly practice!

Inanna:
They should have thrown him out of that bus. Imagine the audacity. Shameless, perverted fool. I'm very sure he's a rapîst/pedophile also.

MobileGees:
So??...... I should come and fry my testes?

deafeyez:
I had a girl then who could call almost all day and i had no idea to reply all she is talking. I would talk while i keep quite without any contribution or reply then one day i told her i am a shy boy and don't really have any answers or contributions to her discussions and right from that minute, she stopped calling. Now she would demand for money if i want to see her.
I don't belong to any group. Although on Sunday, i meet a church member and she asked me what group i am. I told her i am not in any while she is an usher. We agreed to meet today so she can list all the groups so i can know where to fit in.
Yea, i am always nervous and all ladies do notice that. When i call my sister, my voice would always be low and she would scream I AM NOT HEARING but when my voice is high which i thought i am shouting, should say what happened to u today, ur voice looks sweet but at my end, gosh, am shouting.

Hey bro,

You have issues with conversations because you believe there's nothing you have to talk about with a girl.

But guess what....

Talking to a girl is easy. In fact you don't need to do much talking. All you need when conversing with a girl is to listen.

Girls naturally talk a lot. So all you have to do is listen and encourage them to talk (ask questions based on what they've told you).

That girl that used to call you, did she complain to you that you're not contributing to the conversation?

If she had issues with you not talking, do you think she'll continue calling you?

All you had to do was listen!

That's the secret to great conversations - listening.

People have a lot to talk about. They want to brag about how awesome their life is, they want to talk about their problems.

But guess what...

There's usually no one to listen cuz everyone wants to talk!

As an introvert, you have a skill girls crave for! The skill of just keeping quiet and listening.

I'm an introvert too A very proud one. Allow me blow my trumpet a little biko, girls love me.

Why?

Cuz they connect with me on a deeper level than they would with most guys.

My secret: I listen and encourage them to talk.

What you should do is: get e-books on how to have conversations. Read them and practice.

One book i'll recommend you start with is: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Heads up...

When you start practicing, you'll meet some girls that you can't connect with.

What to do:

1. Try talking to them face to face
2. Try taking them for a walk instead of sitting and talking
3. Try talking to them via online chat.
4. Try talking over the phone.

If none if these works, bounce.

Meaning, leave her and move on to someone else.

Easiest way to practice:

Talk to females who you have nothing to lose or gain from.

eg Your sister, That little girl in church, That lady you buy airtime from. etc

Cheers! Happy talking

Mylestone:
....make I no talk...

khiaa:
Lol you are harsh. I would assume that he has exhausted those avenues.
Ok Mr.Brownjay, recite the golden rule with me.

DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE OTHERS DO UNTO YOU.
Now doesn't that feel good?

Nma27:
Flog them and tell your parents... Plus u can add pepper to her kitty, that should put d fear of kini in her

neroflo:
Yoruba boy wae sabi something
Without Yoruba artist don jazzy is nothing

Adasun:
Hey! Those of u demanding for e-book should stop like [color=#ff0000]davo-the-big-cheek-and-bumbum[/color] had said.





Boss harddon,don't let thy wine ya feed us to sower.

Put upon dat jah more morning sleek wine to keep us swaying those lily duches around.

DaCharis2016:
That will b appreciated, sir. eforbliz@gmail.com it's my email address.

DaCharis2016:
Bro l need ur coaching pls. U r too much.
Lemme have ur IG or email pls, as I seldom cumming here.

Thanks

MickOyehu:
Drop ur number.

magikalz:
Here's the sequence -

Cocky and funny to attract, once attraction is achieved, regulate it, bring it on especially when she's in a good mood, tone it down if you notice any negative airs around her.

Women matter no be here ooo. I had this girl I used it on continuously. I got her, we had good times and all but she had one major complaint that finally led to our parting.

She complained I never took her seriously....a flimsy excuse nonetheless, but I learned from it.

I can relate bro.

I have some girls i can't discuss serious stuffs with cuz when i started talking to them i was always saying funny things and taking jabs.

Whenever i try to be serious, they are worried something is wrong, probably i'm not feeling too well.

I called one the other day, that day i was actually down and needed a "mental stimulating conversation" (whatever that means ) Long story short, i ended up teasing her as usual and making her laugh cuz she was concerned my voice was down and was asking what's wrong.

Moderation is very important.

tommiesyn:
This is not absolutely true. Many Private Unis offer quality training and produce competitive graduates.

Importantly, most private Universities have distractions eliminated from their plan (off campus accommodation, transportation & cooking), and of course, frustrate students less, unlike the Public ones.

A 2.2 in a Public Uni can be a 2.2 or higher in a Private, but certainly not about the money.

A right environment to learn or study will almost definitely produce the best performance in students.

Don't you see Nigerians abroad making First Class like it's some cheap stuff? Well, Right environment, Low frustration!

KWASU has a stable and relatively fast calendar although run like a Private Uni. (High fees).

They don't delay, you can predict your convocation date upon admission. No strikes, blablabla

HARDDON:
But Why DTG?

I like matured ladies. You wud learn these drills faster with em .....Go figure

Allboiz:
New girls I meet read my chat and don't reply... Are they forming hard to get or what

HARDDON:
No, not at all. Its u forming Hard to get

Your words are hard to get

Your lines Drive even d moon away. So who is really forming hard to get ? See?

Kellapaw:
OP

I have this girl in my HOSTEL.
She is in 500level and am in 300level.
She is Lil bigger than me also
I love her so much. We are not really close Buh. We do greet casually.

She will be graduating by August.

I need to act quickly.

I need your help


Tho I av confidence in talking to other Babes. And woeing them Buh this one is different.

She dont rapport with anybody in the hostel. We do greet ourself casually. 3 days ago she came from a journey. When I met her. I ask that . How was her trip. And hope she had fun. And she smiles heavily back to me in reply. Buh to continue aqain is like a Jericho now

rifasenate11:
there are more IDPs in Nigeria, Mr wizkid

Dreamwaker:
Kai stop that. Speak for yaself. You need the proceeds.

0079jaBond:
I'll call this '007 action style' which I like and ur point is another reason why I like understanding differing views so that I won't rush anything.

But now, how do I go about it so I won't fall again? ''once beaten twice shy, and if I'm beaten a second time, then kuku kee me", you catch?

How to go about it so as not to fall again?

Use '007 action mode'

Once you tell her it's over, lock up.

Even when she begs, settle things but still lock up. Don't text or call her anymore.

If she texts or calls, answer her well. Don't ask her about personal stuffs anymore. As far as you are concerned, she's just a friend you say hi/hello to whenever she texts. If she doesn't text - good for you.

You need to ask yourself: Do i really want a friend that causes me heartache?